I'm aware that this wasn't illegal or sexual misconduct but my ex tried contacting me a few months ago and I'm still shook by it. He's a really gross person, he post things online about wanting oral sex, masturbating and joins sex groups so I unfriended him. He friend request me and messaged me but I denied it. I'm 7 months pregnant and in a relationship and the baby is NOT his and he's well aware of all of that. I don't want to sound like a whiny victim because there are worse situations but why does it bug me so much? It makes me sick to my stomach.

Everything is in preparations. I have already contacted a few people in Spain. I was told that as a foreigner, I will be on a waiting list because they first and foremost accept kids and teens from Spain, but they normally accept even adults, telling me that my admission is possible. I am only concerned for my poor parents. How do I tell them that I am planning such a thing? Or should I even tell them? If I do, they will be both mad and scared to death. If I don´t, I will feel guilty because of the betrayed trust. Or shall I just LEAVE for Spain and lie to them all the way through my stay there? Because I will be fighting there, and I will most likely get gored. I am just imagining the situation when I am lying in the hospital with the surgical tubes out of my body, and my mother calls me on the phone. I cannot hide anything from her. I probably won´t be able to lie that I am tired from jogging. But I am also scared of finding out that I had wasted my opportunities on my death bed. Because I have liked bullfighting ever since I was a little girl. Granted, I knew even that that I could not tell anyone. So I didn´t. But I am not satisfied with just WATCHING it anymore. I have an university education and a good career outside this passion, but bullfighting is something I feel being called to. Please don´t insult me, I have already received insults and death threats. See me as a DAUGHTER here. This question is really about my parents. I need constructive answers. Thank you. I am a foreigner. Hence my bad English.

I'm a 19 year old girl. I'm very close with a guy who is the same age. Known each other for about 12 years, our mothers are like sisters. I DONT see him as a brother/relative. He's the kindest person I know. It's like I see him as more than a friend but not as a lover/partner. I don't know what to call that. I love him dearly, but not at all sexually. I can't imagine having sex with him. That seems wrong. But what I do imagine is just laying next to him and talking. Not doing anything sexual but just talking and laughing. We do hug every time we see each other or leave. We flirt A LOT. I sit close to him so our legs are touching, he tells me to sit with him all the time. We laugh together and we're kind of shy around one another. He has a girlfriend but its kind of a new relationship. I'm not bothered about that and not jealous. However, I know it would kind of hurt to see him get married to someone else one day. I don't know if he would think the same about me too. I can't talk to him about this. Imagine if he sees it entirely different and sees me as like a sister. I just don't want to ruin our closeness. I feel like I can tell him anything and I'm so interested in finding out his liked, dislikes, favourite things etc. I guess I'm just asking for advice. Thanks

At school, at m job, anywhere I go people burst out laughing at me. They say i'm funny, some say things about ugly suggesting people laugh at ugly people. So what is so funny about my ugly face? How is that a joke?

I lost some money and I don't have proof that he stole it. I been knowing this guy for a while now and that we been on and off for a year now. We had dated and stop dating and reconnect all over. he came over my house and I knew he was coming but not that quick so I heard a knock on the door and it was him I was about to take a shower. I told him that I'm about to take a shower and he was in the living room and while I was in the shower he knock on bathroom door and he was like I am goin to your patio to smoke. I got out the shower and he was coming in. we talk and watch a movie and then he left. The next morning I woke up and my door was unlocked I guess I didn't lock it back. And I had check my wallet because I was about to go and my money wasn't there. It was a small wallet and I knew I had money in there but I haven't check it because I had my card and I didn't need it anyways. I ask him things I was outside the whole time. I ask him and I was like that he was wrong & I call him a theft. So he got mad saying I didn't take anything from you and I will never do that he was mad he ask me did I lost it and all of that. Now he mad. Because the way I came at him. Again I don't know that I lost it or what because I didn't check my wallet in 2 days it will be different that I did and he took it. he left his jewelry over my house. Was like if you did do that's **** up and if you didn't do I'm sorry. He haven't text me back yet because I accused him of stealing from me.

My fiancé, his sister, and I all rent a home together. His sister seems to be the type of person that always plays the victim in every situation, constantly feels like we're being mean/ganging up on her, and that she never does anything wrong. I recently suffered a miscarriage, and three days after the event she accused me of drinking her wine, and ordered me to buy another bottle. She was wrong. The wine she saw in the refrigerator was a bottle I had bought for my mom while she was over. I also hardly ever drink, and when I do it isn't wine. As it turns out she forgot that she drank her own bottle of wine. She never apologized for this, and feels like she has done nothing wrong, despite my telling her how she made me feel very upset, and hurt, especially considering what I was going through at the time.

I want to leave my fathers housecbut I can't I feel that I'm stuck there He takes advanrage of me, by telling me he needs 270 to pay for his car insurance or there going to take his car away. He did this three times to. Then when I ask him for proof, he tells me he doesn't need to show me anything and that I should trust his word. Most of my income is based on ssi and ssd based on social security every month. I wish I can get an apt like subsidised housing for people like me. My dad charges me $400 dollars to live in his home. That's half my check. He tries to make me feel like I can't make it on my own, yet I was on my own for years til I came to his home. I don't even know who I am anymore. Sometimes I want to kill myself. Sometimes he mimmicks me then.

My current new boyfriend told me "I'm worried being with you because your absolutely gorgeous and I am very ugly!" And I was taken back and reassured him. Then he said "ur too good for me, are u still willing to be with me because you deserve a man that's hotter than me." I felt a bit pushed away and now we hardly text each other. Can't hang in person at the moment

I have been dating this guy for a year and a month, I was pregnant with his child, the first thing was on his mind was abortion/removal, because he said we were not financially and emotionally ready. We sought help from a counsellor, and it didnt work out because clearly we have different views and he already and went in with a firm mindset that things will be tough with the child, as he has sufficient funding for himself and if his parents retire he would have to help out with the household. He said I didnt have a plan, with the kid we would be poor family and we could try for another child in the future. I was beaten up 2 years ago by my family, was financing my postgraduate studies and working night jobs at bars club (decent just waitressing) till wee hours after my classes, paying rent and surviving, it was a tough 2 years,till i graduated. Caught up in the situation with a child, i cried, sought advise till i couldnt take it anymore, i wanted to move and ended he stopped me from moving unless i removed it. When it came to Saturday, i removed it, it was tramautising and tears was rolling down. I was given a painful jab and felt as if i got dragged up the rollercoaster and down till it ended, i cried, locked myself up for the rest of the day. No one understood or cared for me after the removal. Everyone said for my sake it was best that i removed it because no one would support me and life was already tough, but my heart hurts till today.

I have been dating this guy for a year and a month, I was pregnant with his child, the first thing was on his mind was abortion/removal, because he said we were not financially and emotionally ready. We sought help from a counsellor, and it didnt work out because clearly we have different views and he already and went in with a firm mindset that things will be tough with the child, as he has sufficient funding for himself and if his parents retire he would have to help out with the household. He said I didnt have a plan, with the kid we would be poor family and we could try for another child in the future. I was beaten up 2 years ago by my family, was financing my postgraduate studies and working night jobs at bars club (decent just waitressing) till wee hours after my classes, paying rent and surviving, it was a tough 2 years,till i graduated. Caught up in the situation with a child, i cried, sought advise till i couldnt take it anymore, i wanted to move and ended he stopped me from moving unless i removed it. When it came to Saturday, i removed it, it was tramautising and tears was rolling down. I was given a painful jab and felt as if i got dragged up the rollercoaster and down till it ended, i cried, locked myself up for the rest of the day. No one understood or cared for me after the removal. Everyone said for my sake it was best that i removed it because no one would support me and life was already tough, but my heart hurts till today.

I used to work for this fast food place for over a year. I had a manager who I had a huge crush on, but he was married. I didn't know this when I started crushing on him because I am 6 months older and I don't just assume EVERYONE my age is married because I'm not, ya know? (I'm 27) I get infatuated pretty easily so I was unable to immediately stop having feelings for him. At some point, he found out...I'm still not sure how or from who, but I didn't know for months that he knew. He was kind of sweet to me at times..like I went to the hospital one night and had to miss work the next morning and the manager who answered the phone when I called out, told me my work crush was worried about me. Matter of fact, he called me right after work to find out how I was feeling. He always tried to convince me to come in on my off days, like he was using my feelings against me haha. It wasn't very long before half the employees knew I had a crush on him and I think that somewhat made him uncomfortable, although he never voiced that to me. He started being rather distant after a while...no longer "liking" or commenting on my FB posts, he wouldn't make conversation with me anymore at work unless it was about work. I don't know if that was at his wife's request or if he did that on his own. After my friend (who was the GM) left, my manager crush became a total douchebag, but he seemed to be even more of a jerk to me. In August, I quit by putting my 2 weeks in, but never coming back. I think that really upset him because the next day, he deleted me off of Facebook and denied my friend request when I tried to add him back. The few times I've seen him since then, he's acted like I'm a stranger and that I don't exist. Tonight, I noticed some comments he left on a mutual friend's posts weren't there anymore and I found out he blocked me. Why do you think he blocked me for no reason? I didn't provoke it. I haven't acknowledged him once since I quit in August. Seems unfair to just randomly get the urge to block me. Why didn't he block me 4-5 months ago when I tried to add him back? Why wait this long? Is he trying to show me how hurt he is that I screwed him and the company over like that? I reckon I did leave them high and dry because the next work day after I left, they were super busy and short-staffed, but nobody tried to call me in either! And it's partially HIS fault that I left the way I did because he accused me of doing something that I didn't do. I don't have feelings for him anymore, I haven't since May and I was never going to message him or friend request him or talk to him again, so why would he block me and why are you glad he blocked me? I'm not a threat to his marriage. He could get hit by a car for all I care.

We work on a same project. We were casual colleague. We used to talk normally regarding work only and even had lunch together. Recently we chatted on facebook. We shared almost every thing about each other. But now suddenly he blocked me on facebook. I am completely baffeled as i don't know what should i do. I haven't done anything against him to block me. As we are woking together i have to see him every day. Should i continue talking to him as proffesionals or should i confront him for his behaviour?

We dated for 3 years and he broke up with me 6 months ago cuz he didn't love me anymore. Last night I woke up from my nap to 3 texts from him. These are the texts in order: "I miss you so much. I regret breaking up with you. Please take me back.." "You should let me have some fun with you. You used to love me in bed for hours remember princess ;)" "I love you.." I still care about him a lot but he messed me up when he broke up with me out of nowhere. I don't want him back plus these texts are so DISRESPECTFUL. We never deleted each other off social media cuz I find that childish. I saw his snapchat story and him and his friends were taking shots so I know he was drunk..