I need a rant/paragraphs about people judging other people without really knowing them or there backstory. Someone posted on Snapchat "Fake Country" and I want a good reply to it

Before you call me a troll, don't even bother answering. I am looking for real answers. Okay, so I am 15-years-old and I an in 10th grade and I just moved to a new school about 3 weeks ago and I have social anxiety and I can never start a conversation with anyone usually. When I first came to this school I was known as the weird guy who never talks, I looked weird, I talked weird, a lot has happened in those 3 weeks though. I started being mean to people. Whenever people try to talk to me I basically yell at them and say "I don't effing know" or something like that. I also ask girls to send me nudes and to have sex with me and I have even went as far as calling girls whores. At school I bump into people on purpose, I trip people, I even yell at teachers mean things now. The thing is, I am all alone. I have no friends. No one wants to be my friend because I'm mean and I'm lonely at lunch. What should I do? I feel like I can't stop. I always tell myself I'm going to stop but I just keep being mean. Everyone tells me that I'm mean and when I'm walking in the hallways (alone like always) people always try to avoid me. Has anyone else else ever went through This? What did you do to stop? I'm so damn awkward and weird I feel the need to bully others.

So i've been friends with my best friend since school. We were really close friends in school but after school she sort of drifted away from me because she had found new friends at college, it didnt bother me that she had found new friends it's just that she'd become really quiet and moody with me most of the time and when i'd tell her about whats going on in my life she wouldn't listen, she just has a blank look on her face and responds with nothing. I care about her a lot, like today she wasnt replying to my messages and i thought something was wrong so i called her and she picked up and just asked if she was ok, then after a minute hung up, i've done a lot for her but it doesn't seem like she appreciates anything which i have done. The last time i saw her i was talking to her about my anxiety and she just laughed in my face and it hurt because i know i can't talk to her about how i feel and that she doesn't care but i try my best with her all the time.

i'm 13. i have a very large and wide forehead i'm EXTREMELY self conscious abt. i cried this morning abt it before i went to school. i can't wear makeup. they made of of my shiny forehead and keep asking me how i get my forehead so shiny. they were literally laughing SOmuch. i just turned around and tried to not cry and hide my forehead the rest of the day. and now they r texting me about it. i thought no one really thought about my forehead looking bad until now. they could see i OBVIOUSLY wasn't liking the jokes. i'm really mad at them and idk what to do :// i like my friends but some times they can be real idiots. i'm really shy bc i think i'm ugly and weird and they make fun of me for being awkward and not talking. she texted me "but really, how do u get it so shiny?" and i said "😡😭meen" trying to say stop but not to seem rude or she will literally get me in huge trouble and make up things. she is not that good of a friend i suppose. :////////

I recently went back to work full time after taking 15 years off to raise my kids. It s the same place I worked at before I had kids. Anyway, the job is totally different now and this girl who is 15 years younger than me was put in charge of training me. She started 8 months before me. So, obviously when you re new you will make mistakes. Well, she chomps at the bit to call me out on it. The only time she communicates with me is to point out a mistake I made. We ve socialized outside of work a few times at work events, I even gave her a thank you card and gift card for training me, but nothing changes. She is very cliquey with her friends. She s a total know it all. She s moody, and she s also a total suck up to our manager. Truthfully I don t care about being friends with her, but I m getting so irritated with her corrections. I purposely try to be flawless so I don t have to hear from her. I don t know why she s like that but I feel like it s creating a toxic environment.

my friend posted a snap on her snapchat story of a black screen and it said "and I promise y'all will never hear from me again. " with a "end" sticker and an arrow . she not answering my texts and her imessage isn't going through . my messages are going through as text messages. she also hasn't been active on facebook or snapchat . do you think she's ok?! what do i do

If they're always negative and don't like talking to me and get annoyed when I do? I still need their advice, Love, and support but every time I reach out to them, they always ignore me and don't want to talk to me

We were texting and she wrote "nasty *** dudes". I replied "Right? You already know I go both ways so when these dudes ain't cutting it..." She wrote "Haha, who needs men anyways lol". I wrote that they weren't that bad and that was the end of the convo. I felt fine with telling her for a couple reasons: 1) She had seemed to be wondering about my sexuality in the past. I once told her she'd better tell me if she ever knew I was being cheated on and she said "I'll burn his house down (and shakily added on) or girlfriends house..." I had just acted at that time like I didn't hear her/acted nonchalant. 2) She used to flirt with me and jokingly said some sexual things. She once even tried grabbing my nipple and twisting it. But this was all about a year ago. She seemed to turn focus onto fixing her family (She is with the father of her kid - they are not married. It sounds like they have a lot of problems and I've been told that she is only with him for their kid). I saw her yesterday for the first time since the text. She called out "hi" from afar, though in a monotone voice, and without looking up from what I was writing, I replied back in a matching tone. And from there, we didn't talk at all... There was an awkward energy and I couldn't tell if it was just me. I admit I didn't feel like making eye contact with her or chatting her up. We both talked energetically with other people. When she passed by me, she said/did nothing. This was just one night so it's hard to tell. There were some nights where she'd pass behind me and pat me on the hip or graze my elbow and other nights where she was in a rush to leave. But I'm wondering if the revelation might have changed things between us. She did seem cool with my sexuality in the text message, didn't she?

I m an introvert, who occasionally has out-of-town friends stay over my house. While I d prefer them to get a hotel, I know I d be saving them money and seems silly to not let them stay over when I have the room - especially when they ask. On the other hand, having houseguests is a very stressful for me. I enjoy their company, but I really value space / alone time at after several hours of hanging out. How can I tell my friends I m no longer able to host them the next time their in town? (I can t tell them we re renovating, because they re in town often) Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!

I don't understand this but why would someone you talk to daily go from daily chats to once a week to once every two weeks to simply silent treatment for months. I feel like I'm in a state of confusion where idk what went wrong and I'm not getting any explanation so I can have my closure. This situation is irritating as he's getting my snap messages but not even reading them but he's opening other snaps. I feel like I'm being disrespected atm. Thoughts on what to do?

Okay basically there's two people in my friendship group I just can't stand. One always lies and makes up these stories for attention and the other is really rude and mean. I like the rest of my group tho and there's no way they'll get rid of them. What should I do?

I'm the loved friend who everyone goes to when they need help. When they're sad i try to make them happy and on their birthday i plan gifts and calls. My birthday was last week no one cared they just sent me whats app messages. Me and my best-friend always celebrates our birthdays. this time she had her last exam and told me we will celebrate after 2 days i said okay and she hasn't called since then (She goes out everyday) Also my other group of friends who what-sapped me, are organizing (with me) a birthday for a girl in our group earlier then her original date. If they hated me i would understand but they don't i'm just invisible with no 21st happy birthday call.

me and my best friend have been best friends since 2 years. Recently she's moved away so we don't see each other much anymore like maybe every holiday we get. it's just that's she's just been bragging for the few days about the same thing! I'm getting tired of it so instead of replying on text message with oh well done or congrats I'm just like yeah whatever. She knew I was angry with her and she asked me, "are you angry at me?" because of the anxious person I am I replied with "of course not." I'm too scared to admit that she's annoying me by bragging and I don't want to upset her since she's been quite upset today already.

I am a 15 year old girl in highschool and I am kind of shy but when I text people I am very outgoing. I always lie about reasons I can't actually hang out in person and how I can only text. When I text I talk about how much I hate my life. I know this all sounds kinda crazy how do I fix this?

They are in their 40's, she came out of a 3 years of chemo rounds about 8 months ago. During her Chemo her sex drive had gone down and it has stayed down. Now he tells me that the most sex he has gotten was twice in one week since the Chemo ended. I have not talked to her about it as we are not that close. He claims that sometimes he would go weeks without any sex. He has tried to engage her but is rejected the bulk of the time. He claims he has tried to talk to her about it but it is a touchy subject that doesn't end well. He even mentioned once the idea of an open relationship but it angered her. He is faithful and is staying that way but has admitted that if he gets long months or even years of this treatment it will take a toll on him. He has admitted he is holding out using masturbation and porn but this is not going to hold him for ever. What do I tell him?

Do you only let close friends borrow your clothes to wear, like you know for a night out? Or all your friends?

I decided to delete my facebook a couple years back due to privacy concerns but now I feel that ever since I have deleted my facebook I've lost all my social status. In the past, I would post pictures and status updates with my 500+ friends but nowadays I don't do any of that. I simply use my phone to schedule dates and hang out with my buddies. I feel that If I were to try to get into some long term relationship, my girlfriend would immediately lose interest because I don't use social media. I feel like I'd come across as some weirdo or loner. I even feel my coworkers in the future would think that as well. Plus, I feel a little left out because I have no way to share the travel experiences that I partake it. It's like, if you don't have social media, what's the point of even taking pictures? I dunno, I just feel really left out and this has been making me feel depressed. A lot of people say that they have felt better after leaving social media but I feel worse. Without social media, you tend to lose contact with all your associates and 'semi-friends" from high school, college and all sorts of random places. Like I said, I'm still in contact with close friends and family members but I still feel "left out" Thoughts? I thought about creating a facebook but I feel like at this point it will just communicate low social status since I'll be starting at 0 friends with no an empty profile.

My friends are always saying that i have a "high personality" and that I don't need to smoke weed because I already act like I do. Is this a good thing or bad? My friends all seem to think it's a good thing. (I'm very chilled out, I'm very goofy, etc....)

How you guys reject a gal who you found out that she likes you but you don't like her at all but you want her to catch the hint, how you guys do it?

Would u let a young woman in your room while u bath and then both went out together? U r not alone in the house, there r a lot of people in the other rooms as well. What u guys think?

I dont want to be friend with her anymore because she is mean towards me and very jealous towards me...but i want to take revenge for the bad things she said to me and the bad things she has done to me

There is a store that I go to and over a year or so ago. My mom and I started talking to one of the male cashiers. He just asked us questions like what were we doing for the weekend etc. Just general conversation just being polite. So one day I told him I was going to Massage Therapy school. So he told me that if I needed anyone to practice on I could practice on him. So I said ok and gave him my number awhile went by and he never called. So it's been about four months and the other day he called me. Asking when could I practice Massage on him. I told him that I am no longer in Massage Therapy school. Because I decided to change to something else. But I told him I may end up going back next year. So he asked me if I still remembered some of the things I learned I told him yes. So then he said he could come to my house and I could practice on him. I told him I lived with a roommate I actually still live with my parents. He doesn't have his own place but he said he will soon. So then he asks me if i want to hang out and I told him I would let him know. So I don't know what to think about this. I'm not overthinking it I'm just curious about what he wants.

okay so, i have 2 friends ( they not my best friends ) but they are close to me... they keep asking me to tutor them! ( but thats not the problem! ) i did tutor them the first semester and let me tell you it was HELL! i used to teach them every subject literally every subject and not just one chapter but everything we took! right from the bottom!! what makes it worse is that they don't even bother themselves to pay attention in class because they know i am going to explain them everything! they even come to tests not prepared and copy everything from my paper! ( even though i taught them everything yet they don't bother to learn or practice it ) IT'S NOT LIKE I DON'T WANT TO HELP THEM but i am just tired of wasting time on my weekdays and weekends teaching them while not trying to improve myself in the subject i am weak at. This is my senior year! and i really wanna go to medical university and that ofc requires alot of hard work. i don't want to break their hearts my rejecting them and saying NO! ( i like them! they are my friends) but i can't take it ANYMORE! so please just give me other excuses to tell them. last time they asked me i told them i am grounded and i can't go out on weekends..... AND please don't call me rude i really did help them and i am still doing it but i can't take it anymore so please understand...

i lost a friendship recently. it wasn't my fault, according to the friend who stopped being my friend. It's not the first time this has happened. And things just aren't going well with my other friends lately. Seems like they get irritated with me a lot. I feel sad and alone, and i've tried opening up about what i feel, but nobody cares. Sometimes they say "that's sad" but that's it. I feel so alone what do i do?

I feel so unwanted and alone and I don't want to talk to my friends about it because it's embarassing and they would never understand because they don't have to go through this. I'm in high school and ALL my friends have their boyfriends and get invited to parties and I'm just existing. I never get any of that. I'm not ugly, I know I'm not. I've been asked to model multiple times throughout my life. And told I should be one by many. But I still feel ugly and alone. It's causing me to become depressed. How do I fix this? Please help. I feel like this everyday.

I'm a 12 years old girl who befriended a high school senior to get a better chance with dating her brother(hes in my grade). I realized that i could do so much because she was useful. She came with makeup and things that my parents would never let me wear. I took advantage of her full time and made me more popular. Anyways I never wanted to keep her as a long term friend because most of my friends don't last long anyways lol. When she found out she was on rage mode and got so mad over this little thing. I only talked to her at first because of my crush on her brother. This girl immediately told me to leave and don't talk to her again. She didn't even look me in the eye and pretended she didn't care! 😂

His attitude towards me makes me feel that he thinks I'm stupid. Yesterday, when I approached his table (with some other people sitting there), he moved to another side of the table so that we aren't sitting beside each other. Only he does this. Then in today's class, people passed by my table so they could go to washroom or whatever. But, he chose another path in which he was almost squished between a table and the wall. We are in our 20s...

Im a girl in my freshman year in high school and this year i met this girl and well at first i thought she was cool but today, idk why but i felt like i didnt wanna be friends with her no more just cause she hugged me and was like hide meee when she saw some guy she doesn t like and im like from who and she s like i just need a hug and wouldn t let go until I had to go to class, and idk i just don t like other girls getting too close to me (I m not homophobic or anything, I just don t like it) unless I m really close to them.

There is a store that I go to and over a year or so ago. My mom and I started talking to one of the male cashiers. He just asked us questions like what were we doing for the weekend etc. Just general conversation just being polite. So one day I told him I was going to Massage Therapy school. So he told me that if I needed anyone to practice on I could practice on him. So I said ok and gave him my number awhile went by and he never called. So it's been about four months and the other day he called me. Asking when could I practice Massage on him. I told him that I am no longer in Massage Therapy school. Because I decided to change to something else. But I told him I may end up going back next year. So he asked me if I still remembered some of the things I learned I told him yes. So then he said he could come to my house and I could practice on him. I told him I lived with a roommate I actually still live with my parents. He doesn't have his own place but he said he will soon. So then he asks me if i want to hang out and I told him I would let him know. So I don't know what to think about this. I'm not overthinking it I'm just curious about what he wants.

1 She is workhoalic give a lot attention to her work & she is self centred, supportive & caring, has a chamelon quality reflect psychological merging with others she doesn't has sense of sepratness & aloof She need to be listen & cuddle , will do anything for one she love self sacrificing 2 She is creative, imagentive geunie tolerance & acceptance of others She respond to other sadness & needinsss She is genuinely kind efface on others & she is fragile, gentle, sympathetic heart , practical , sexual , dark side indepedent, forceful attracted to mysterious & sexy guy & she is selfless 3 She is very generous and kind believe in kindness expecting kindness too she will exploited by people who are demanding & needy she doesn't know how to stand up for her self , she adore being adore despite her fair nature She can state at something or person that appeal to her sense & she is fragile , sensitive, attract beautiful things & people love beauty & perfection, she does NOT like guys in uniform & she than be attract to bad guys, she is sympathetic, sensitive 4 She has greater patience , self discipline , easily frighten She will do anything for one she love, self sacrificing she has great empathy for others NOT aggressive she might feel sorry for herself some time, self pitying when things don't go her way , she, dreamy , gentle nature , ease , charm, easy going, sweet relam She is polite, friendly, she has dark side of indepent & forceful

Last semester we used to sit beside each other when we were studying at the library. Now he sits a few seats away but still talks to me while sitting that far away? He would still initiate conversations though?

Does that mean he may be getting a bit attracted to me or something since he wants to strengthen the friendship?

My close friend Rebecca got mad at me about a dumb comment that I made earlier today. She wasn't texting me back all morning, so I sent her a cute tex and she didn't reply but she took a screenshot of the cute text that I sent her. Why did she take a screenshot?????

I've spent the last 4 or so years trying to find nice/genuine friends and I feel as if I've found them. I have like 2-3 friend groups (like 15+ people all together) that I can hang out with. My issue with them is that we don't hang out enough. I hang out with them (each) like once or twice a month and I'm 16. We all go to an advanced school and are very busy with our schedules (extra cirriculars, jobs, homework, etc.), so I get why we don't hang out often, but I feel like a bigger effort can be made. Basically making plans is such a big hassle that my introverted friends would rather not bother than make an effort. Idk what to do because I try to mention going out and it works out maybe half the time, but I don't want to seem desperate, nor do I want to be the only one initiating plans. In school I only get to talk to some of them for a couple minutes a day and that's not enough time to actually have a meaningful friendship. I'm just confused and angry because I'm sick of not going out enough and I'm sick of never having good friends.. I could try making new friends but it seems everyone already has their clique, including me, mine just sucks..

There is a store that I go to and over a year or so ago. My mom and I started talking to one of the male cashiers. He just asked us questions like what were we doing for the weekend etc. Just general conversation just being polite. So one day I told him I was going to Massage Therapy school. So he told me that if I needed anyone to practice on I could practice on him. So I said ok and gave him my number awhile went by and he never called. So it's been about four months and the other day he called me. Asking when could I practice Massage on him. I told him that I am no longer in Massage Therapy school. Because I decided to change to something else. But I told him I may end up going back next year. So he asked me if I still remembered some of the things I learned I told him yes. So then he said he could come to my house and I could practice on him. I told him I lived with a roommate I actually still live with my parents. He doesn't have his own place but he said he will soon. So then he asks me if i want to hang out and I told him I would let him know. So I don't know what to think about this. I'm not overthinking it I'm just curious about what he wants.