I care too much of what other people think about me and i hear mostly bad comments and that makes me depressive

My sister hangs with masculine women, they dress in little to non feminine clothing and look like a dude from a distance. These women carries a 'mess with me id beat you up attitude' and honestly look like a punk. They might dress in normal clothing, and will have a skull t shirt or their hair might be slicked with grease and place in a small weave. They might carry clothing with the word 'b i t c h' inscribed on it. They have a 'i don't care' outlook on light, very indifferent. They tend to talk to you in a challenging manner, like that they want to instigate a fight. These women always talks about the brawls they've been in. They claim to have a psycho family that would 'come after you'. Since my sister hangs with these women I tend to be 'in the mess', now since my sister has moved out, they still visit my grandparents because my sister got them acquainted with them. In plain English I cannot escape or get away from these women. I ignore these women, and try to avoid them. Any suggestions?

She is always deflecting blame from herself onto me and the whore is only focused on money. I swear she must be a jew in secret. I want to punch her so bad but prison is no joke and the whore isn't worth it. She always wants me to settle for things that i don't want or like because she wants me to be miserable. I hate the fake whore. Sorry for ranting.

I ve always been an individual who has kept to herself. I m extremely extroverted. While most people will do anything to fit in, I was always the kid who would feel awkward in crowds of people and did my own thing. I would eat lunch in the library because I felt content being by myself. While people feel more comfortable with their friends, I feel more comfortable being on my own. I m not really a shy person! I m actually very talkative and I like stimulating conversations. I m a collegiate cheerleader and I love talking to people. I m just not good at making friends. I m not sarcastic or on my feet like others. I feel like I just can t completely be myself around people. I can t be funny or crazy or just me... and It keeps me from forming fun and bonding relationships. I hate that I m this way and want to fix it. I ve always been more interested in staying in and reading, learning, doing art, or working out by myself or with one person. I m very introverted but I m starting to hate it! How can I feel comfortable with being my silly self around people?

To make a long story short. I have been with my boyfriend for three years, we have a 8 month old together. His a good man as far as being responsible. His a great father! The issue is he talks to me in a way where he put me down. My mother, aunt, god mother, friends, baby sitter and even his family tells me why does he talk to me in such a way. I say that is just how he is. Example: I was washing cloths, I had homework to do and the baby needed to take a bath. I said can you give the baby a bath so I can fold the cloths. He said he wanted to watch a football game. I said ok fine. Than he comes to the laundry mat downstairs, throws all the cloths in the laundry bag and was like go do your ******* homework. I said I am already done folding its to late. Now by throwing it in the bag you unfolded the cloths. Or he will tell me how to clean. how to cook, how to take care of the baby, etc. He doesn't hold his tongue for anyone. Now were suppose to find an apartment together but I am worried if we do live together his going to treat me worse. Or he just wont change. I don't know what to do.

I found out that I am pregnant, I took a plan but but still ended up pregnant. I told my boyfriend honestly, if I have a abortion that I don t want to be with him anymore and if I kept the baby, I d rather be a single parent without holding him accountable and furthering him from goals he s trying to meet.. Am I a asshole for saying this? I know a baby right now between us isn t the best and he is kind of happy. If situations were better then abortion wouldn t be a option but it s not. He already has a kid and deals with the BM all the time trying to keep peace for the sake of seeing his child. I just want to know if I m f****d up for saying what I said because in no way is it a ultimatum to be with me.. I just didn t want to lose part of myself in a situation were I can work harder to make a way because I got myself into this situation.

Llevamos 3 años, él tienen 29 y yo 23 años. nos hemos apoyado, escuchado y amado, hace poco la mamá tuvo una recaida de salud, su trabajo lo cambiaron por algo que no esperaba; yo lo he papoyado, saber cómo estaba etc...últimamente prefiere estar con un amigo de él. Le he reclamado por tiempo ya que nos veíamos muy poquito y proponía planes pero por su trabajo no tenía tiempo y si tenía prefería muchas veces verse con sus amigos. Me dijo hace 1 semana y me dice que quiere un tiempo, para extrañarme , para no seguir hiriendome, que me ama... yo le dije ok , en 1 semana te veo. y lloré. Tuve un accidente en esa semana y me escribe: "- Quiero que sepas que no ha sido fácil sentirme tan lejos de ti, me he dado cuenta de lo importante que eres para mi y para mi vida, si antes me sentía intranquilo, ahora lo es aún más. Perdóname porque mi intención nunca ha sido lastimarte aunque lo haya hecho, lo siento de verdad. Quiero que sepas que el cariño y el amor que siento por ti sigue intacto y que todo lo que ha pasado en mi vida últimamente me llevo a olvidarme de lo único que siempre ha estado bien, perdón de nuevo por ponerte en esta situación, nunca quise hacerte sufrir. Espero te mejores pronto y que no sea nada grave. Mi preocupación es verdadera y real y cuando lo supe fue como si me hubiera sucedido a mi mismo (YO TUVE UN ACCIDENTE :P). Espero verte pronto y poder hablar bien acerca de todo. Te mando un beso y un abrazo. qué quiere??

I have a man and woman living next door - both are in their mid to late thirties. 2 months ago, they adopted a Staffordshire Bull Terrier called Ruby. For the first few weeks, they never left her side. But everything started to go downhill for Ruby. Both of them leave for work at 8.30am and don't come back until 6-6.30pm. They don't leave Ruby inside because they don't trust her, so they keep her outside in the back garden until they get back home. Ruby barks continuously for hours whenever she's left alone. I decided to report it to the RSPCA and they went to their house on Saturday. They said if they don't sort it out in a week, then they will take her off them. I kept the call anonymous, but they somehow found out I called them. They are angry at me. They said if Ruby gets taken away from them, it'll be all my fault.

Qualche giorno fa sul telefono del mio ragazzo,sul gruppo degli amici trovo scritto:sotto alla foto di una 12enne con il culo fuori "anche se è brutta glielo butterei dentro." Che cazzo devo fare io? Ma stiamo scherzando? Poteva anche fare il gradasso con gli amici ma ci sono modi e modi per dire le cose

If my friend marries his gf (she just had a baby) and I marry his gfs cousin will he be considered my cousin in law and and what would I be to their baby? if I have babies with her cousin what would the babies relationships be?

I've always been attracted to girls with blonde hair and blue eyes but I generally avoid talking to them or even trying to make a connection because in my experience/from what I've seen they are generally into white guys. It's probably stupid that I generalize as they are probably a few out there who would give white guys a chance but it's something like a feeling that is holding me back. It's as if what I've seen/experienced tells me not to because it's not worth it. How to get over this feeling? As I said I've always pretty much been into them but I generally assume they are not into white guys because the vast majority of them aren't, so I don't have a chance because I don't even try. It is as if my heart wants to but my brains tell me not. What do you think?

My friend has a girlfriend and she has a cousin if my friend and his gf where to get married and I would marry her cousin would he be my cousin in law and so would his gf?

My friend has a girlfriend and she has a cousin if my friend and his gf where to get married and I would marry her cousin would he be my cousin in law and so would his gf?

Ok so my friend (guy) has a gf they aren't married and she has a cousin if I married my friends gf cousin what would me and my friends relationship be ?

My friend has a gf and she has a cousin if married the cousin what would my friend and I relationship be?

Ok so my friend (guy) has a gf and she has a cousin if I married my friends gf cousin what would me and my friends relationship be ?

What would it be I'm confused ?

Killa - How funny you say it's messed up and judge me instantly when you don't even know the reason for it lol what a jerk. Alan - Oh, so I should forgive a parent who is a pervert? which I can't stand being around. So you say kids who have been molested by their parent should forgive them? Are you normal? I'm not saying I have. But I'm just asking lol. There are many reasons why someone is unsuitable for being a parent. I just find it odd how you people don't take that into consideration. It's odd. Killa, Alan You have it too good lol. Anonymous - That was the worst answer, and advice I've ever read in my whole entire life. I think you should get diagnosed for psychosis or similar, because that's just insane. Your mindset is completely insane. Anonymous - Reveal yourself please, to let everybody know who you are. No wonder you're anonymous. It's interesting how you blame literally everything in the child. And the child should just accept whatever. Disgusting. I seriously want to know who you are. You should be banned from here. Anonymous - I bet you haven't been a child of abuse. And I have been stabbed by close friends and family member, and I'm fine lol. Why are you trying to make me feel guilty? Were you really that sh*t of a parent? You made me feel like i want to kill myself since i'm not allowed to live a life of my own, and be me. Instead, I have to live with unhappiness because that's how it's ''supposed to be''. No. Nothing is supposed to be like anything. I have the right to live my life and start over. C*nt.