He's 47 years old, with three kids and divorced (since Dec 2016). She's 33 with no kids and never been married. At the beginning of the relationship he use to comment on other girls' bodies directly to her and then say "but you're also hot.." at a later stage, he started talking about his ex wife and made the comment to her "I didn't want to get divorce, I HAD to get divorced." They've been dating for 8 months now.

Disclaimer: I own my house and my husband has nowhere to go, therefore he refuses to leave and wont even let me say "the d word"(divorce) but he can... He is a truck driver who halfways works. His lack of working has cost me my savings and has caused credit card debt galore (I am disabled and lost my job last year due to being in the hospital and "using too much PTO"). While we are in bed, he demands I lay there for him (use your imagination) and does not care if I am "happy" (use your imagination again), he goes right back to sleep after he has used me for his needs. He wont eat supper in the kitchen w/the kids (I rarely get to eat dinner because of all the house work I have to do and go to bed hungry due to working around the house until 3am because he says its not his job to help around the house because the kids will dirty it up again). He eats at a tv table in the den and watches tv or movies (usually the same movie days in a row). He acts offended when I tell him "if you have energy to sit idle on the sofa and watch tv then you have energy to WORK, being slothful is WRONG!" What can I do? I am most happy when he is on a run out of state and GONE. He also wont let me shower without him standing there watching me and gets mad when I tell him to get out and give me privacy. He claims I dont get privacy.

I was forced into an arranged marriage by my parents when I was 20 yrs old to a man. This was back in 2011. I liked him but I never fell in love. I care about him but I honestly do not think I can ever develop romantic feelings for him for the rest of my life. Recently I met someone who has everything I've ever wanted in a man. He is successful and his personality makes me feel sparks around him every time. I can tell he is the one who I should have married. He likes me a lot too. We just have started seeing each other but he does not know I am married. Its been a couple of weeks already and I want to divorce my husband.

My husband and I have a very loving marriage that's 27 years strong. The only issue in our marriage is that he has a significantly higher sex drive than I do. Always has, always will. As a result he's had two affairs during our marriage which destroyed me for a while but we mended our relationship after both affairs. He doesn't dream often but when he does, it's always a sexual dream that involves another woman - always a different woman - who he's never actually met. He doesn't recognize her in his dreams. I don't understand why he has sex dreams about other women and not me or his previous mistresses. I was a little hurt and asked him if he's a single man in these wild dreams and he said "I was pretty mellow, wondering what was going on and then quickly adapted." Other times he's said he gets pretty into it. My question is, is this normal? Why does he dream of getting intimate with women he doesn't know? I know they're just dreams but I don't know if I should be upset or not. Thanks for your input. By the way, my husband is 54 and I'm 50 so we're not spring chickens but we're not old either.

I'm 21 male and don't see it ever happening..?

My mother and father in law and my wife's family hates me because I stole their daughter away from them It's kinda a long story You see I never got my wife's parents blessing to marry her or their permission to marry her They refused to let their daughter marry me when I asked because they thought she was too young to marry and I was too old for her She was 18 and I was 29 My wife rebeled ran away with me on them and we got legally married as soon as she turned 18 and got a marriage certificate in her country Vietnam I found a place for us to live in the city until I was done working on all the immigration spousal sponsor papers to take her with me to Canada Basically we eloped and ran away and to her parents it's as if I kid napped her and stole her from them But I didn't she followed me on her own of her own free will and volition because she loved me and wanted to be with me. Anyways she says her parents want us to come back and visit And she says her father is willing to accept me as a groom of the family and son in law So we are going back this July during my vacation and I am going to meet my in laws again How do I get them to truly like me and accept me I'm really nervous and scared to see her family again

My daughter has a toy train. I uploaded a pic of it. Out of nowhere, the toy (mainly where the green handle is at, started to shake violently from side to side. It happened so quickly and stopped suddenly. I have been hearing strange things and feeling somebody watching me too, but I've always thought it was just my mind playing tricks on me. The toy made me think otherwise. My own toddler turned around to see where that shaking sound was coming from. I don't know what the heck is going on but I really want to move now. I've never seen an item move on its own before. Some people are telling me it's because I have played with an Ouija board when I was a teenager. Everywhere I move, there is always something strange that happens. From hearing people walking back and forth upstairs when I'm the only one home, hearing furniture move upstairs, seeing a figure move out of the corner of my eye, a very tall charcoal figure at the foot of my bed, or a feeling of someone crawling lightning fast from my toes to my neck (this happened a day after I played with the Ouija board many years ago). Is there some prayer I can say. I am not religious so I am not familiar with any of them? Thanks If you can't help, don't answer.

Im 39, male, married with children. I love being a Dad and I love my wife after 16 years of marriage. I am faithful but I admit to being sexually frustrated. My wife and I were into bondage when we were younger but no longer. My wife just got past cancer last year and I don't push her. I mentioned our old bondage sex lifestyle but she is not interested in going backto it. Our sex life is mostly dormant now. I find myself with strong urges to practice it again, I want to have a submissive female as I am a Dom. I am still faithful but at night I dream about being a Master again. I have told her about it but she either thinks it is a joke or I am purposely trying to hurt her feelings for not participating anymore. I stay quiet and try to suppress these urges. It has gone on for nearly a year now and it doesn't end. What is wrong with me and am I a bad man for having these urges?

I caNT STOP THINKING OF THEM, ALL THROUGH THE DAY THEY POP INTO MY HEAD, WHEN IM IN THE BATH I PLEASURE MYSELF THINKING OF THEM USING MY SEXUALLY.i KNOW IT SOUNDS SAD and sick of me but why cant I stop thinking about them. they look at me and smile, they check me out when I walk away, there wives don't do things like I do. I play touch football, I got to games, cook out..i just want them inside me a few times .. why is this so wrong !

having a babe But my parents supporting me because they have enough money and their nice so what's the deal what should I do? Follow my wife or my parents help??

My husband and i were talking and I said something about our "relationship." My husband said "We don't have a relationship, we're married." We have been fighting a little more because I have this gut wrenching feeling that my husband is messing around. What do you guys think that meant?!

We are both married, me for 20 years and her for 2 years and she is married to a good friend of mine. We just have so much in common, have the same demeanor, both don't smoke/both spouses do, have the same views in the handling of our finances, same age, we have conversations for hours with constant laughing. We have spoke about how we are both loyal to our spouses and won't ever cheat. But I feel like with some of the conversations we have been having lately we have already crossed the line on what's appropriate and we are borderline cheating. I know as time goes on I will get more and more infatuated with her. I already think about her all the time and last night I dreamt we kissed, G rated kiss. To make it worse I am the business owner and she is my secretary/office manager so I really, legally, can not and should not take it to the next level. But I don't want her to go and I don't want to keep feeling this guilt or have the temptation, although the connection I feel with her is something I really enjoy. It's emotions I haven't felt in a long time. Euphoric even.