I'm 23 married with one kid and I find myself not liking/ not wanting sex! It's not the oh I don't want another kid thing I just don't like sex. What's wrong with me?

Maybe once a month. He never wants sex. He had gotten his last ex pregnant she had an abortion. He's terrified about getting me pregnant every time we have sex he has to check the condom like 4-5 times to make sure it didn't leak. I'm on the IUD but he's still afraid not to use console. I'm starting to wonder if he has intimacy issues. Or if he's just not into me.

I slept with my friend's mom she is beautiful and i love everything about her she is married and she told me that her and her husband have not had sex in a long time and that she is aloud to have fun.. i feel that I'm doing a bad thing but her marriage was ruined already and now my friend does not want to talk to me and like a while back her husband and my friend (her son) found out about her and I and they were pissed and now her husband wants to tell my parents about this idk why if I'm of age and I'm not a little kid she can rat me out to my parents and well my parents are old and they might understand me i hope and i don't want him to tell my parents because my mom has heart problems and something like this can cause her a heart attack what do i do??? pls help me i know i did something wrong and i am ashamed of myself for it

How mad would you be if your mom said she wasn't going to get remarried for a while and then gets married in California without you knowing then says she's not going to have another kid for a while and 9 months later has a kid 🙄

we've only met 3 times, twice in a public place and once at his house but when I went to his house last his mum was downstairs and I didn't even see her, is this rude that you didn't come upstairs and say hi? I'm 20 he's 22 and we are quite sexually active but we have deep conversations about family and careers and it seems more than just sex I slept with him on the first date not going to lie, but since then he's been messaging me on Facebook everyday and last night he invited me to his over the weekend and I don't know if I should go? He lives 40 mins away from him and I normally drive to his because he drove to me a few times

I'm not meeting anyone in real life and I'm trying to meet people on apps but people I'm liking that I'm attracted too don't swipe back on me. I don't know what to do about it. Also my mom told me she wants me to get married this year. According to her culture I'm supposed to be married with kids already at 28 I don't know what to do

Do you feel happy when you find out a guy has a wife and kids? and Do you feel upset when you find out if a Woman (the younger the worse the feeling) has a husband and kids? Well, I have had many teachers (male and female) and many bosses of both genders. When I find out that my male bosses have wives and children, I feel happy for them. But when I find out a woman is married with children I feel depressed. Does anybody else feel this way? I'm single and never married by the way.

I am still married to the mother of my children. We live in seperate cities in Oregon. Her new boyfriend is not comfortable with me knowing where they live because he does not like me. My wife is also trying to dictate when I can see my children (one day a week).

If your husband challenges you to prove he s cheating what does that mean?

There is this older woman I know. I want to fondle her and get a ******* from her. Will she do it for $200?

She's upset with me and angry about the way our marriage has been going as far as not having enough financially and not getting ahead she's Desiring in me to to be a better man and I made those changes to be that better man I better husband I can be to her but she wants to see more in me so that she doesn't feel like she's wearing the pants in the marriage and I'm doing just that to make things better I apologize to her for being a little too pushy and tried to talk to her send my question is can being too pushy push her away from me and should I just let her rest relax and allow her to come to me when she's come and just be patient

Some of you were talking about a communication breakdown. I did talk with her and she told me that she isn't always fully in the mood and wants to watch the videos to quickly get it over and done with. Just last night it took her 2 hours without the video to finish. I was exhausted. She promised not to approach me anymore unless she was really in the mood. I woke up tonight in the mood and tried a few moves to get her going. She told me she couldn't sleep and would have a try. No more than a couple of minutes into things, she asked for the video to hurry things along because she has to work in the morning. Btw sex is uncomfortable for her being pregnant. So we are relying on oral to finish each other. As time goes by, it seems she always needs to look at the porn videos to speed things along because her mind keeps focusing on work. She told me tonight that she still thinks it's me there but she likes to have the sound and video to hurry things along. I've tried repeatedly to tell her how I feel but she still keeps asking for the videos. I'm out of ideas and don't really want to walk out on her or the baby. I'm a responsible hard working young man who cares about the family. I want to point out that I have forgotten what it feels like to be able to turn on a woman. To excite a woman. My wife comes to me asking for sex and then needs videos. No foreplay etc. I feel like the next 50 years are going to be made up of emotionless sex with her watching videos instead. Some of you said she should go cold turkey but she just won't listen. Others said that I should be thankful that she doesn't cheat on me and still initiates with me. Is it an acceptable reason to start questioning a life with her because she doesn't share the same values towards sex? I cannot remember the last time we went to bed and tried to get excited by each other. I just put up with this life. Actually my weight is ok. I work out at the gym. Tonight she called me idiot a few times and told me to shut up and not speak whilst she was getting off. I feel like I'm just serving her. No foreplay, no making love. I just serve the role of servant getting her things and getting her off. I'm starting to feel miserable. I male the best of my life with my own hobbies, studies and work.

She is the mother of my child and I couldn't live with myself if we split. I have to relieve myself 2-3 times a day and it's always followed with guilt. I'm just siiiiiiiiiiiick of these pervy thoughts.

Over this past year, my girlfriend has opted for a more masculine look. Her attire is more masculine, she cut her hair shorter, ditched contact lenses, and started keeping her nails shorter. She was quite feminine prior to last year. Honestly, it's making me less attracted to her, to the point where I can't get hard. We're in our mid 30s, and we've been dating for 3 years. Our relationship is otherwise great, so I really don't plan to end the relationship because of this. I also don't intend to tell her how to manage her body. That's not right. But I also can't control what I am and am not attracted to. What can I do here?

What if you find your spouse talking S about you to their friends or being flirtatious with their ex?