I'm sleeping with a friend of mine. She's married & her husband live away. She's kinda shy & sooo submissive. How do I get her all foxy?

I started school 2 weeks ago, taking 5 classe 1st semi the work is crazy and I'm working Fri-Sun my biggest fear was that my house was going to fall apart, the kids will eat junk every night, no one will have clean clothes etc. DH reassured me that he would pick up the slack and support me going to school. I've been sick for the last 3 days and tonight when I came home from a busy day at the salon, i walked past a huge pile of laundry, everywhere is covered in dust, he let my son go to his girlfriends house without checking to see if her mom was home, and tonight it's Chipolte for dinner. today I was thinking of a solution and I decided that I would talk to him about quitting my job if he'd pay the cell bill. I sat down in front of my burrito bowl and I started talking he straight flipped out. I didn't get to finish my thought, I never do. I say one thing and he hears something else. He basically ended with paying the mortgage is such a huge responsibility to him that he can't do anything else, and I need to thank him for that. Im not exaggerating, but he works probably 25-35 hours a week and when he comes home he flops on the couch, trolling twitter until he is called to the dinner table then back to the couch. He said that he is a grown man and he will spend his days off however he chooses. In the meantime I'm drowning! I haven't had a day off in 3 weeks. I never get to chill! Ok rant, but am I being unreasonable by feeling like we're not a team, Am I expecting too much?

She doesn't know what it is and she is screaming in pain. I hate it.

I'm doing a wedding portrait of a very young engaged couple I know. I know the girl because we dated the same guy who is now an ex to us both, and I know her fiance because of her. I can't say I really care for them. They're deep into the Christian faith. Crying hard during church and then shaming people the moment they walk out of the service. Pretty fake. But money is money, yeah? They got engaged last year the day of their high school graduation and are due to marry in March. She's only dated one other guy and the the guy shes engaged to has never dated before, and they're quite naive. Of course, they believe they're vastly more mature than everyone rlse their own age. But all of their friends are married and engaged as well. And again, they're all teenagers. I silently listen to their conversations when they invite me for tea. It's almost like they're born for it. I dont understand this. These are children and all with no experience of what life is like. Living with their parents and married. Ignorant to the world and acting like they own it. I'm 25, and not married. I've found too much to do before I set up house and settle down. If I ever decide to. I do understand that getting married young does work for some, but the majority cannot stay married even at a mature age. Why do kids want to be married to young?

I know it is not nice at all to use this word. I just want to know if I should let it go if I heard it from my husband during argument. All day long, my husband was under stress with a thing he has been working on for almost 5 hours. And we argued about it as well. And after a while I brought it up again and he said I dont ******* want to hear about it . Hate to hear f word! Should I let it go?

They are not at church I can tell you that -_-

My ex spouse and I have been split up for over a year now, they live in Michigan and I live in Oregon. We agree on everything, we don't have any kids or anything that needs to be mediated or anything. I'm wondering if there's a way for us to get divorced without going to court or seeing a lawyer since we live so far away from each other and agree everything regarding the divorce. I'm not really sure how to navigate this.

It makes zero sense to me, it's like they think they can convince a guy after 1 date that he should fall madly in love with her and wait until marriage just for her. I have had women tell me within 30 minutes of the day that they are waiting until marriage when I previously told them that I am only interested in casual dating and hook ups. Why even go on a date with me? I don't understand women 30 minutes of the first date**

I am crazy, head over heels, glowing in love with my ex. It's a happiness I've never known. We saw each other a few times and I cannot imagine living the rest of my life without him. I am married, with grown children. My husband found out about us and has become someone I don't care to be with. I have to isolate myself from friends and social media to avoid suspicion. He monitored my phone records and I believe he is still doing it. He's gotten in my face a few times, thrown things at me, and punched walls and doors. Can I be happy if I leave for my ex?

If you really think about it Most women these days give their boyfriends all the benefits perks of marriage without the commitment , responsibility of marriage and risk You can say I'm immature or jerk for thinking this but I am looking at this from a purely analytical and logical stand point forget about love and all that abstract nonsense let's look at this from a purely objective logical stand point What is the point of getting married if your girl is already giving you all the perks and benefits of marriage without the wedding , the ring or the wife title without the responsibilities and risks If you do marry her you are just getting pretty much the same thing actually less than what all her ex boyfriends got for free without the commitment having to take the responsibility and risk of marriage Which is a big rip off , actually more like a scam a con It's a Pyramid Scheme !!!! The "costs " become higher but you receive less than what all the other guys that came before you got for free !! With no commitment no risk no responsibilities that's F ing BS and so unfair !!

Me and this girl have known each other for ages. We finally got together - she even admitted she was waiting for me to make a move! And that she likes me more than what she thinks I like her. Things started going great ... she would always message me, want to plan trips away and go for drinks! Then all of a sudden her messages are short, doesn't ask questions .... then she message again and her replies go back to being short and then avoids me. Why is this? I'm totally confused ... is she into me, or not?

My fiancé and I are very happy and compatible. We both come from poor families and have no financial reason to need a "Prenup", we are both hard workers withgreat jobs and beginning to build our future together... However, infidelity is very common in his family and has caused divorce for many. Even though I trust hm in general, I'm concerned that his mid-life crisis might be an ugly one. im not worried or stressed about him having a one night stand when he's 50! but, I'd like some sort of written agreement that if we do divorce over infidelity I will get to keep the house!

I know where he keeps the files on his computer. I don't want to make him any more videos. I overheard them talking sexually about me. It was disrespectful. Are all guy this stupid? Is this normal?

He has no kids. The both have an average income and no mortgages or big bills. The marriage was all good until he cheated with prostitutes. The wife took him back and while they were in therapy trying to work things out he kept cheating and lying and got caught again. Now the marriage is in a very bad place. no sex, constantly fighting, sleeping in separate beds, poor connection etc and obviously he's still cheating and thinks the wife doesn't know but she does. They are clearly both very unhappy now. I already know the wifes reasons for staying '' she has hope '' ( please don't judge) Now why is he staying and hurting his wife over and over with cheating, lying and fake promises of change instead of just leaving her and be free of doing what he wants.

We are both married, me for 20 years and her for 2 years and she is married to a good friend of mine. We just have so much in common, have the same demeanor, both don't smoke/both spouses do, have the same views in the handling of our finances, same age, we have conversations for hours with constant laughing. We have spoke about how we are both loyal to our spouses and won't ever cheat. But I feel like with some of the conversations we have been having lately we have already crossed the line on what's appropriate and we are borderline cheating. I know as time goes on I will get more and more infatuated with her. I already think about her all the time and last night I dreamt we kissed, G rated kiss. To make it worse I am the business owner and she is my secretary/office manager so I really, legally, can not and should not take it to the next level. But I don't want her to go and I don't want to keep feeling this guilt or have the temptation, although the connection I feel with her is something I really enjoy. It's emotions I haven't felt in a long time. Euphoric even.

My husband refuses to believe his mom is a troublemaker . She enjoys being malicious and sending screen shots of anything I say to him so he will jump on me. He always takes her side no matter what. My counselor told me she is trying to "set me up" and that she is a negative person to avoid . I blocked her number and have not spoken to her for nearly a month. She called my husband today and said she has been texting me and that I didn't respond (duh! She's blocked !) . My counselor said it's actually a danger or liability to talk to her and that's any contact should be between my husband and her and that I am not to talk to her anymore or this negativity will continue . She has a way of getting under my skin like nobody else . He tells me to "forgive and forget". I could, but then she sends more screenshots... what should I do? Should i unblock her ? The peace I have from not talking to her is awesome .