My friend has a girlfriend and she has a cousin if my friend and his gf where to get married and I would marry her cousin would he be my cousin in law and so would his gf?

I am the maid of honor for my friend's wedding. She wants two nights in Atlantic City. We live 2 hours away so we will be driving and splitting the cost of gas. So far, the bridesmaids and I have booked a stripper, are splitting the brides share of the hotel and will be gifting her lingerie (the bride commanded we buy her lingerie because she wanted a bachelorette/lingerie party). Is it required of us to pay for the bride's entire trip? As in dinner, spa, lunch, drinks? She has expensive taste so I know her choice of restaurants will be not cheap. Her fiance mentioned to me once that the bridesmaids are supposed to pay for EVERYTHING. I don't know if this is fair being that this is a destination bachelorette party. So far, with decorations and party favors, I'm estimating the bridesmaids and I have spent around $300 each on the party. Not to mention the expenses of the actual wedding, which is also a destination. The entire weekend is going to end up costing us over $500 each, assuming we don't pay for the bride's outing expenses. We are not doctors or lawyers, we work post-college mid-level jobs. It upsets me to have to conform to very unreasonable traditions. If the party was local, I'm well aware the bride shouldn't spend a penny. However, I don't believe the same rules apply to a destination party. What is proper bachelorette party etiquette?

My fiancee, and I keep getting in a big arugment. She always had a dog since she was a very young child, I had one as a older kid, and my family had a lot of dogs. Later after I moved out my roommate had a dog. I told her I want to experience life a while withoit a dog. Maybe after 5 years we can get a dog. She says always wants a dog in her life, and she's pretty much never been without a dog. We can't seem to agree, and its causing you a lot of issues. She also said there is nothing like your childhood dog. Its great when kids gorw up with a dog, but we just keep fighting over a damn dog we don't even have. I don't want a dog for a while! What's a guy to do

The engagement ring I gave to her is very important for me. It was in my family for almost a hundred years. It was my great grandmothers ring. I asked her kindly to give it back and she refused. I even asked to buy it no matter the cost and she also refused. What can I do now? I think she's doing this out of spite.