My in laws always spread negative and false rumors against me.they continuously tell my husband to leave me.they even said that my husband is not the father of my son. My husband in spite of knowing everything accuses me falsely.he says I don't cook for him and blowoff all his money unnecessarily and that I'm financially exploiting him.I always ask for eatables for my son and some toys for him sometimes plus things concerned with his health and hygiene. As for me I go hungry many a times to save money I don't ask for clothes or jewellery or any other thing still I'm labelled gold digger.I don't like the wrong practice they do to earn money and I told them to be honest and truthful which doesn't go down well with them.my husband doesn't trust anyone except his family. He is so paranoid that he feels I'm responsible for everything that goes wrong with his family and that I want to kill him. His family tells him that I want to destroy him and he blindly bekives him.I'm also loosing my cool a lot these days.the more hatred he shows towards me the more angry I'm getting.it wasn't so earlier. Previously unmindful of what he says,I used to listen now I'm fighting a lot these days and this is only increasing the distance between us.what to do please advice

I never brag about myself nor have I told my husband my salary. However, he keeps making comments such as "I'm going to make more money than you" or "I'm going to have a better job than you". I'm a business owner and a teacher, and I think my husband feels threatened by me ever since he lost his job. He found a new job, but it's hard labor and he makes less than before. Now he is about to start a better paying job next month so what's the problem? All I do is encourage him, but today he tried to insult me. He said "I don't have an education and you do, but I'll be making almost as much as you". I didn't know how do respond and I said "You don't know how much I make, and it's not a competition". What's his issue? I love him, but this came out of nowhere.

in new York state is a non adopted step father required to pay child support

My next marriage is going to be in Gods eyes only private ceremony and vows before God. No state, no license , no benefits I don t care. State sanctioned marriage has become a prison for men and rewards women for wickedness. They lost al credibility of overseeing my marriage after recognizing gay marriage (I have no problem with it but not my lot)

So I just went to my hometown in Europe and I come NBA k to the US after 2 weeks and he sends me this text "I got so bored I did research on the hardest things on earth" I said "hahaha what why?" He said "yeah 5. Quartz... number 4 is topaz .. 3rd is condurum and second is diamond" I said "lmao hmm interesting" He says "number 1 is not seeing you for 2 weeks"

My wife has strep throat it hurts her to do anything even yawning. It's driving her mad. She's on meds now she hopes to get over it soon. How can I help her feel better ?

My husband had a high school girlfriend that he wanted to marry at that time and she broke up with him. A year later he met me and we took each other virginity and we got married and had babies. 5 years into marriage and 3 kids later he finds his ex girlfriend on Facebook they start talking and he tells her he is still in love with her and would leave his wife for her in a heart beat. Talks all day everyday for a month cause then I found out! They would sext too! He also told her he was gonna leave me and marry her! When I found out he didn't care that it hurt me he just wanted to talk to her but then a week or 2 later he said he does still want me and he does only love me and wants to be with me and stopped talking to her. Well 5 years later we are still married but I don't know if he really loves me or her l, is he just with me cause we have kids or does he really love me? I really think that he truly loves her and not me and it haunts me everyday!

So my husband is a bad drunk. Gets angry and violent and distructive. So we have both agreed that drinking is not allowed at all. So to respect his and any possible urges I refrain from drinking 1 beer at any occasions. I don't make it a big deal. I don't care. But when we visit my sister he said he can't turn down the offer if 1 beer. It's is bothering me. It's not much the beer but that he cares more about not offendeding others by turning it down and forgets the initial reason why there is no drinking was for his stupid actions.

Every year my family and I go to Hawaii the 3rd week of April. I just found out my gfs sisters wedding is that same week. Am I wrong not to go to the wedding? She asked if I'd be willing to come back from Hawaii early but I said no. Am I wrong here?

of males cheat or cheated or considered cheating on their relationships... And I used to think "yeah right it looks like old friends are happy with their guys" but it doesn't even look like that and recently another guy gave me a huge betrayal...talked about cheating made that obvious ... i find it hard to believe reality about relatiobships are that bad. If they are so worthless why do people pretend to want them?. Any caring thoughts please?

he was 27 and she was 18

They just expect a good man to knock on their doorstep and ask them out. Dating doesn't work like that ladies, I'm sorry. You have to actually TALK to men at social events, instead of sitting inside watching netflix all night and being asocial. I see so many women at my college in their dorm rooms at night doing nothing but facebook, instagram and snapchat and netflix they don't even socialize with guys and they are on social media complaining there's no good men. I find that kind of ironic. You can't complain there's no good men when you haven't even had a conversation for more than 30 minutes with a guy in real life since high school. These women just basically live on the internet

My fiancee, and I keep getting in a big arugment. She always had a dog since she was a very young child, I had one as a older kid, and my family had a lot of dogs. Later after I moved out my roommate had a dog. I told her I want to experience life a while withoit a dog. Maybe after 5 years we can get a dog. She says always wants a dog in her life, and she's pretty much never been without a dog. We can't seem to agree, and its causing you a lot of issues. She also said there is nothing like your childhood dog. Its great when kids gorw up with a dog, but we just keep fighting over a damn dog we don't even have. I don't want a dog for a while! What's a guy to do

My husband always wants to have anal sex with me. Does that mean his gay? He always watches anal porn. If I don't give it to him he gets upset and goes to the bathroom and jerks off to anal porn. Why does he do this. Why can't we just have normal sex.

A man in my son's basketball league has been acting like this! There's a married man who keeps staring at me, making suggestive comments, etc. Today, more happened. few days ago, not during practice, they had another event and his wife was there. She was sitting down and he was standing. I approached, sat behind her, and he proceeded to greet me. I said hi back, and he seemed nervous, but smiling a lot. No introduction to his wife. I left quickly, so nothing else happened. As I had anticipated, his wife was there today as well. Game day. He ran into me in the hall, by himself, I was busy with my son so we just greeted each other. I sat a little farther away from his wife. Another mother approached him to sit down next to them... He introduced that woman to his wife. I felt a mix of bliss and rejection, all rolled into one. There was one more moment or staring, with his wife right there, and I caught her looking at me as well. At the end of the day, I again was at the restaurant by the exit. His wife was walking behind him. He turned to my son and said "Good game!" . Then he looked at me and said "See you Tuesday?". I managed to say "Yes... Tuesday" because nothing else came out. I was terrified that his wife would see how I felt, and felt completely puzzled that he would single me out to say that when there were other parents from our team there. Is he trying to have an affair? Why single me out to say what he did?

I've never seen anything wrong with it but it seems to be turning my girlfriend sideways. We were at a friends party yesterday and a close friend that I hadn't seen in almost a year came up to my girlfriend and I to say hello. She hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek almost near my lip and then shook my girlfriends hand. We talked with her for a while and then met up with some other peopleand parting ways. Everything was fine until we got home and then she just let everything out. Asking why did she kiss me and seem so happy to see me. I told her we were just friends and she was just being polite. Then she got mad and said I was defending her. We argued for a bit longer before she dropped it. Looking back now I'm not sure if there's anything wrong with it. But is it inappropriate or was she making a big deal of it?

He has a song form his previous marriage who is 9 so I totally understand his kid comes first. It just seems whenever we do have free time to spend together he never puts effort into our relationship. He's also doing things with his son or mother. For example I finally have a day off work tomorrow and am free. He decides to book a karate lesson for his son who is off school instead of doing something with all three of us like lunch or something. He is also always busy with his mother who is very pointed and over bearing. She calls him a dozen times a day, even late at night when he's in bed. She is always stopping by bringing him food, wanting to hang out every second day of the week etc. He is 37 years old. I feel he never has time for us. Should I move on?

She talks badly behind her daughters back to her daughters friends and to her husband when the daughter isn't around. Why would a mother do this?

A married man, has an affair with a woman. She's bi-polar/depressed and have mental breakdown,yet he puts up with it. They barely have sex,and this man has a wife and child at home, but he goes out his way to be near her.Can you blame her for not leaving?Is he in love with her? I read a novel and this situation, seem to justify infidelity.

My husband got drunk the other night and tore up half the stuff in our apartment. He is in jail the now. He was trying to get me sent to jail too by telling the officer that I started tearing up the stuff in our apartment. I feel sad now instead of anger because I know when he gets out he will be homeless. He will lose his vehicle too because it has been impounded. How should I handle this situation cause I know when he gets released he will blame me that he got arrested.

I am a senior in high school and recently got married. My husband is going into the air force and I just want a little bit more info on what to expect in the next few months.

I was seeing this man and he met a very unstable woman that lured him out of the relationship. I was worried about him from the start. Something is really off about this woman. She has changed her legal name (first and last) twice, not related to marriage/divorce just a legal name change. She jumps from relationship to relationship and cannot be alone. She has been divorced several times and was engaged to and living in the second home of a married millionaire, then she went public and slammed him online when he told her he was choosing his wife. The way she acts is irrational and obsessive. Her primary goal is to find a wealthy man to pay her bills so she can travel and she has a very high sense of entitlement. Anyway she was sleeping with the man I was with less than a week after we separated. They had sex on July 18th a week after that their relationship ended, she was engaged and living in the home of a wealthy oil man from wyoming and suddenly made a pregnancy announcement. The baby is due the first week of May according to her endless posts about it. Now the man I was seeing is back in my life as a friend. He's depressed, he can barely get out of bed, he doesn't talk much. He seems like his world ended. I find it so odd that she could have slept with him and a week later announce a pregnancy from another guy. Though the baby would be due nearly 10 months after shse slept with him according to the timeline..could it be this guys baby not the rich man?

Me and my boyfriend work full time jobs and have an income of 2200 a month we pay his ex almost one of his full pay checks because she chooses not to work. she got remarried and her husband brings 12,000 dollars a month. long story short she decided to be a stay at home mom because her husband is letting her and she has the child support higher because she chooses not to work. we pay for everything on that end and also on our end to the point where the kids don t have new cloths or food on our end and we have explained this to her and she does not care that they are suffering due to the choices she makes. The courts in Colorado will not take her husbands income into consideration so we are stuck at the moment and are hoping to at least not become homeless. is there anything we can do to get this lowered since she chooses not to work? let me reword this since everyone seems to think they all went to law school over night. 2200 is what he makes sorry should have worded that different. second swimming in it I was talking about the children he had with his ex and not being able to support them on this end. I did not say I had children. I also did not say I wanted advice on him not paying it. I asked for advice on getting it lowered so he can afford more FOR HIS TWO CHILDREN FROM HIS EX.

your fiancé doesnt want your male friend at the wedding as he has bad mouthed him and caused problems within your relationship in the past however you have been friends with this guy for many years, what should you do and why is your fiancé being so unreasonable and controlling?

He has been leaving and coming back, and the latest time he packed boxes of clothes. After a week, he waited until I left the house to move his clothing back in. But he sleeps elsewhere and waits for me to leave the house to come in. I have a feeling he is using me financially, but why would he avoid but move back in? I haven't locked him out because in my state it's illegal. He sent to the police to find out if I could do that. I will speak to lawyer tomorrow if I can.

Does it upset you when you meet happy single people

These are my exes who both want me back. How am I supposed to decide my future. Both men offer hugely different lifestyles & qualities. They both make me laugh, sex is passionate with one & satisfying with the other. One live feels protective one feels magical. Both have mistreated me but want to make amends. Dear lord help me decide??

Ive noticed for close to a year now my husband hasn't wanted to,get close to me. In the beginning (ten years) he was always hugging me, cuddling, and kissing. Nowadays we barely touch. The sex is still consistent and he acts like he enjoys it. but I feel like theres a barrier that I,cant get to emotionally with him. hes distant, and idk why. I try to talk to him or watch a movie,w,him and something feels wierd and not emotionally there I feel very stupid trying to get close w him only to be shut down and disconnecting from him. Im not sure why he doesn't want to emotionally connect w me anymore? Any ideas?

My husband wants to watch "twerking" videos DURING sex with me! I let it go the first time he played these nasty videos and tried to enjoy myself. He would say "the music is what I like" or it's good music to have sex to"'. It has become a pattern now. He turns music videos on of girls shaking there asses and girls polls dancing and giving lap dances, while having sex w me! Im starting to get offended and its making me insecure. Its scary enough that he may be turnes on by these classes ghetto woman. He wants to say im being dramatic and overreacting but its mean of him. Im a very attractive girl five seven 115 pounds and 38cs (boob job and lift). So why does he need to engage in watching them when w me? Does this mean hes probably cheating and does it mean he no longer thinks im pretty? Whats with this? Do I have the right to,feel hurt and insecure. Makes me wonder about his real life..

Okay so my husband enjoys watching "twerk" videos during sex with me! I agreed to it at first and thought nothing of it when he first watched these videos. Now he frequently wants to watch girls shake there asses DURING sex and its making me insecure. Im a very attractive girl I take good care,of myself. Im five seven and 36cs 115 pounds. Other men find me sexy. I really don't understand his obsession w these videos and im getting upset. He says he is only watching the videos bc it's good music for sex." Its pissing me off and he thinks im being dramatic. It scares me that hes turned on by these,classless ghetto skanks. My questions are does this mean hes cheating and would u be mad too? Does he just not think im cute anymore and has lost interest in me? Help plz. And be nice.

My husband has been turning on "twerking" videos while we are having sex. Im a very attractive girl im five seven and 115 pounds 38 c bra size and I take very good care of myself and how I look. This hurts me bc I feel like he's watching these nasty skanks shake there asses instead of watching his wife. He thinks im overreacting about it but im not. The first few times he watched this I twerked even harder and enjoyed the music. But the more often he wants to watch the booty videos the more I feel insecure. Its disgusting to me how these woman (ghetto) put themselves out there.(mind u I was raped a few months ago so I feel nervous during sex and have morals and rules now regarding sexual behaviour). It is mindboggling how he is turned on by such trash. It hurts my feelings. Does this mean he's cheating on me or finds me unattractive. Would u be mad too?

Why not do your own thing and have fun ? Why do women trust these men so much ? Majority of marriages fail in America anyway . You think you are doing the right thing to marry first and kids . But then years later you end up divorced so what was the point , was it worth it ? Lol I say this because I'm a single woman. . I get hit on by so many married men that had a shame. Although , I turn them down , it's njst so sad. Are you that lonely ? Why can't you date only ? Why marry and make a fool out of yourself later on ?

My belief is the one with a great career. love doesn't pay the bills nor put food on the table. Give me money over love any day. Besides, spouses are disposable and can be replaced. Careers don't fall out of love with you the way husbands and wives do. You'll always need money to pay the bills, so career means more.