its annoying.. she wont stop.. all her texts starts with "MY friend" and i like her.. but i wish she could stop doing that

I live in San Antonio, Tx and been helping a women with 2 kids by letting them stay in my apt she not a girl friend or anytthing like that but i had to tell her to leave she was letting her boyfriend come in the bed room window and she stole money from me I have ask and ask that she come and get her stuff but she say she have no where to put it well I not a storeage unit she a freeloader stay with anyone that will have her

I'm in a group of 3 friends and they are closer to each other than to me because they have more classes with each other. I usually sit alone in class while the 3 of them are together laughing and everything and I always sit in the corner doing my work ever since one of them like shoved me out and had me sitting in a spot they knew I didn't like and when I said something they were about to argue and I hate arguing. I would go over there every now and then but I don't like it. I also started leaving class before instead of waiting cuz they walk very slow then wonder why they always get to lunch late. I've been feeling so out of place when im with them and they depress me sometimes so I distanced myself again. I also move around and talk to others in school. Recently they've been excluding me from activities and it hurt my feelings but they don't know that I know they were planning on doing stuff, I overheard them. Does distancing myself make me a fake friend? Like not really talking to them sometimes and not going everywhere with them and sitting with them all the time? Is it my fault? also when I would talk to them now I feel irrelevant to the group and I don't like the energy they give off to me when I would talk to them one on one. When they were also talking about the plan in December when I was kinda committed I guess to the group they spoke about hit when I left for a few seconds. During this time they still acted like everything was okay and never brung up the party thing in front of me. I didn't understand cuz we all had a party thing a month before and it was okay

We fought a lot in the relatinship but he was also crazy about me and whenever we'd fight and I'd break up he'd make up right away. But he got fed upwith me evetually. When we broke up he wasn't coming back to me anymore and when I went back he said it wouldn't work out between us and he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings-during the break up he insulted my moms dress saying she came from the club ni church and i said his mom came from the stable. That's what he means by saying he wouldn't forgive me.IN church he's a deacon and constantly keeps looking at me whatever he does and has smiled a couple times and said hi. Update: it's been 4 months since he said that but he consantly makes eye contact. Also I was the one always going back to him towards the end so in his mind he figures she loves me she'll be back

So, me and my best friend have been friends for three years. We. Both love to draw and obsessed with all these shows and junk. She was awesome friend, until she started making fun of my drawings. Whenever I drew something she would say it looks bad and then she would say "just kidding". And me being the shy introverted girl I am , didn't stand up for myself. Two years go by and we don't have any school classes together. We obviously went are separate ways and had a few playdates. But now I saw her one daywith every drawing supplies an artist could want, and super cute fantastic clothes and I got majorly JEALOUS. I continued talking to my other friend which was beside me and ignored her. Then she went up to me and gave me chocolate and a Starbucks cup for a "late christmas". And I said thank you and hugged and talked to her. Still super jealous though. So then I went home and texted her thank you again and she didn't reply and it's been three weeks. Friend or not?

For whatever reason I ve had girl best friends ever since grade school. Which was fine until about high school. Since my freshman year I ve had 13 (THIRTEEN) girl best friends. I still speak to exactly 0 of them. 13 out of 13 have phased me out & replaced me with another guy. I didn t even have feelings for all of them. 9 of them were simply my closest friend, I never wanted anything more. It s always ended essentially the same way, save the last 2. We go from talking daily to maybe every other day to once a week to total dead air from her end. The last two I ve fallen for entirely. I ve tried to keep in texting contact with the last 2 & both times have been eventually texted by the boyfriend telling me to get lost before it gets ugly. The first one was a cop & threatened court. Forgive me for feeling this way but every time I wanna confront the guy & say, "Who do you think you are asking me to get out of the way? I met this girl long long long before you ever knew who she was & have spent countless hours of my time on her and I have to leave??" I have several years of that scenario on repeat. I hate how I m supposed to just quietly surrender & wish her the best and find a new friend. Do you have any idea how frustrating that was after the 5th 6th 7th time? Now imagine 13...

Thanks !

You can't walk away when someone tries to punch you and grabs you right? So how should I walk away? are some people this retarded?

was asking a friend if I could make up hanging out with her since I couldn't do it a few weeks ago since I was tired from work. She told me she was going to have a birthday dinner in a different town and she'll give me more details the next day. The next day, I asked for more details, she tells me that she has to talk to two of her friends first about it. Then tells me that the dinner will be on a different day. When I ask where the specific location is for this bday ( which is on the same week as my birthday), she said she doesn't know yet. Finally, she told me the day before that she decided to have this celebration at her house and to bring other people if I wanted. Then, when I looked on Snapchat the other day, she went celebrating with a group of people and one of her friends deleted a pic with all of them in it like she's hiding it from somebody. So why would she not invite me to the birthday dinner she had and tell me to come to her house to celebrate instead? Esp to bring other people she may not know?

Okay so lately i've been dealing with 4 super toxic people in my life and well things have been going relatively okay in terms of keeping them out of my life. I don't work with them, I have deleted their numbers and off of facebook but i've run into a bit of a problem. These 4 people happen to hang out in the same social circles as me. They go to the same hangouts, they go to the same bars, they even hang out with my friends as well. Now as far as I know they haven't really talked any smack about me to my mutual friends (at least not that my mutual friends have said or led me to believe) but it is kind of an eye rolling moment when I go to my favorite spots and they happen to be there too. I'm not one to complain or anything but I did rant to one of my very good friends about it and their response was simply to ignore them and continue on with my day or enjoyment. However I keep finding that hard when i'm invited to a party or I go to relax at my favorite spot and boom there they are. They feel mutually about me too because every time I run into one of them they give me an eye roll or a "oh great he's here" look. I just don't really know what to do because honestly this makes me super unhappy but I my only option seems to be not to go out and enjoy myself. Any tips for how to deal with this situation?

and the two time he/she didnt bother to tell u they not coming till the next day apologizing

I have bad social anxiety and can't approach people and people won't approach me.

I've been going to this store and I've been talking to this cashier we're both 30. My mother and I talk to him while we are in line paying for our groceries. Sometimes he'll ask me what's new and he'll tell me that he's hanging out with his friend or taking them somewhere etc. So one day when I saw him at the store I told him I was going to massage therapy school. And then he said I could practice on him. So I gave him my number and he said he would call. So he finally called me after awhile he told me he's currently doing physical therapy asking me to give him a massage. I told him I wasn't in massage therapy school anymore and that I was in Dental school now but that I will be going back next year. He asked me if I still remembered some things I've learned I told him I did. (I was only in massage therapy school for three months). He asked if I wanted to hangout with him he told me he liked bowling. I asked him if he liked a certain restaurant he said he did. I told him I'd think about it and call him back I called him back last week. Asking if he wanted to hangout next week. He told me he'd call me back and let me know after he made his schedule for physical therapy next week. I could in fact give him a massage though as I have a video with all the different massage techniques. But he said he knew other massage therapists. So I'm sure he could get them to massage him instead. I would like to be friends with him but I don't know if he wants to be friends.

I'm bestfriends with my old instructor, she and I have developed a special bond.. her sibling used to be my instructor all through childhood. He passed away years ago, when he passed it hurt both of our hearts really bad. I was extremely close to him, she knew it too as he would always tell her about me. We are kindred spirits, she is a best friend to me.. i write her letters a lot, giving encouragement if not telling her a story of something I have done, all good stuff.. some letters are deep and personal of things others are ligh and sweet.. This letter i wrote her was a deep one, describing how special her brother was to me as an instructor. How I found out about her brothers passing. How i felt that day and how bad it affected me. How I felt as a student losing the one teacher who meant the most to me, how he was not just my teacher but my friend.. towards the end of the letter i told her (were bith religious) how i thanked god for every happy time i had with him, how its not about what our loves ones leave or how they leave but what they leave behind on us.. which are the happy times and how we should always be thankful for them .. shes a very serious reserved lady, very strong lady who doesn't ever let things get to her.. she sent me a message saying "I cried reading your letter" which is a big deal because she hardly ever cries. It was a letter from my heart but was it a bad thing that she cried? Why did she?... am i a bad person for causing her to cry

So, my parents sometimes don't let me hang out to my friend's house or just in general but the thing is I usually do good in school and I feel like they should let me do what I want. Like bruh I know grades don't mean much but there was this one time my parents had to pick up my grades and I ended up receiving all A's which that usually doesn't happen but fast forward that same day I was going to hang out with my friends and they didn't let me and it made me so mad like they didn't even congratulate me, ah I don't know if I have to complain about this shitty stuff. How can I convince them to let me hang out late like other teenagers ?

I have a friend who's constantly borrowing money from me and never gives them back completely. He never actually asks for money, but whenever we are to pay something in a rush and I'd pull out some higher banknote, like for example 500 in my currency, while are about to pay 300 each, he pays 100 only saying he will give the rest back later. So later he said he owed me 200 but he paid the taxi, which was 100 and we usually cut it in half and I paid the taxi before which was 80, so he concluded he only owed me 100, and he will give them back once we get out from the bus. It's not like I care about those 80-90, but the problem is he is constantly reducing the money he owes me, every time for some small amount of 50-100, and god knows whether I'm going to get these 100 he promised to give back.... So, how do I stop him from doing this? I did gave him a taste of his own medicine once, but I'm not that kind of person and I would never ask 100 back cause he is the one who needs to be aware, but I don't harvest my money from a tree and he keeps doing it ....

I feel like I'm not wanted, or needed anymore, because it's hard to find a group of friends to hang out with. I did have a group of friends to hang out with at one point, but they chose ministry, or something else, I have no problem with that, is just I shouldn't have to feel that way in church. What's worse is that every time when the pastor encourages us to hang out or meet different people, most people in the church always chooses to be with the same people, I mean I try to talk to different people, and yeah sure they will talk to you for a few seconds, and then they just leave. Maybe it's the church I'm going to, but I'm done I don't have for time for this, can someone help me out?

I'm so confused because I've always been straight but I think I'm falling for my best friend in the most innocent way. I just always want to be with her and love her and hold her and cuddle with her and only give her light kisses. We are so very close and idk if that's why I feel the way we do because she's an amazing friend, but she is also straight. I told her that I have a little crush on her and she was okay with it. She always wants me to be honest. She does say things to me such as if we were gay we would already be dating by now. She gets this laugh that she doesn't laugh with anyone else. She calls me so pretty and cute and she always wants to cuddle with me and she said that sometimes if she's sad she'll just picture me cuddling with her or wanting me there. I did kiss her a few times as a quick peck and she never pulled away. But, sometimes she'll say don't date any boys for a while. She loves me so much. I just get confused sometimes by her actions. Any advice?

I ve had the dolls since I was 12, and haven t acquired anymore in 15-20 years. Most of the bears I ve had since I was a child. I did acquire a few March of Dimes & beanie baby bears over the years. My boyfriend thinks I m mentally a child and should switch to a "big girl" room. Everything I own is from places I ve been to or were given to me by family, friends of family, and friends. So they have sentimental value. He criticizes everything about my life: My jobs, my weight, my living situation, my clothes etc. It s been like this for years but yet I m still with him for some crazy reason. I still live at home because of financial issues. I work 2 pt jobs, but don t make enough to get my own place.

but when it comes to her, she doesn't tell me about anything and talks to her other 'best friends'. If i ever ask her why do you call me that when there are many others, she picks a fight and i have to apologize in the end, I don't want to lose her but I feel like I am not appreciated enough. What should I do

I like my friend that i always walk with at lunch in my school. I cant apprach romantically because her friend is literally always there. I cant do nothing with her i mean shes also my friend too but how do i Aproach her?

Lately I've been feeling very left out of things with my group of friends. It seems some way or another different people bonded and I was suddenly left all alone. Three of my friends recently got boyfriends so they've all been spending time together talking about them and my two other friends just have more opportunities to talk. I really thought me and my friend were bonding but the other day she chose to sit with my other friend on the bus meaning I had to sit alone in a seat. They both proceeded to put earbuds in and completely ignore me. For some reason I've always been the odd friend out and it's just hurtful and lonely. I also know it's partly my fault because I decline a lot of offers to go out. So I take full responsibility for my situation but that still doesn't make it any less hurtful. Usually I say no because I know that I'm going to end up walking behind them on the sidewalk or sitting on one side of the booth alone. It just seems like even when I make an effort to bond it never works. Please tell me I'm not the only one in this position. If there is anyone also in my spot or has been how did you handle it?

I got a full time job and moved back home at the time being. All of my friends from my hometown are outgoing an go out every night. I became a little introverted because of getting used to being alone at school in the middle of nowhere. Now I am just ignored, and purposely not invited anywhere by my friends. I am struggling to get out of the house and feelings of hopelessness are progressively creeping up on me during the weekends. Life just feels it is on play, and I live my week as a robot getting stuff done, but not actually doing anything meaningful anymore. Anybody have any insight or relatable experiences? *Ignored*..

So basically I have this online friend named Pearl and I really like her and so suddenly she started ignoring my emails and I'm scared she blocked and she said a few hours ago that she doesn't like emailing anymore

I've been going to this store and I've been talking to this cashier. My mother and I talk to him while we are in line paying for our order. Sometimes he'll ask me what's new etc so I told him I was going to massage therapy school. And then he said I could practice on him. So I gave him my number and he said he would call. So he called me asking me to give him a massage and I told him I wasn't doing massage anymore and that I was in Dental school now. He asked me if I still remembered some things I've learned. So he asked me to hang out but I don't know what the man wants. I told him I'd think about it and call him back so I called him back and told him we could hangout next week. He said he'd call me back in the next few days to let me know since he's currently doing physical therapy. We are both 30 I just don't know what this man wants.

I'm so confused because I've always been straight but I think I'm falling for my best friend in the most innocent way. I just always want to be with her and love her and hold her and cuddle with her and only give her light kisses. We are so very close and idk if that's why I feel the way we do because she's an amazing friend, but she is also straight. I told her that I have a little crush on her and she was okay with it. She always wants me to be honest. She does say things to me such as if we were gay we would already be dating by now. She gets this laugh that she doesn't laugh with anyone else. She calls me so pretty and cute and she always wants to cuddle with me and she said that sometimes if she's sad she'll just picture me cuddling with her or wanting me there. I did kiss her a few times as a quick peck and she never pulled away. But, sometimes she'll say don't date any boys for a while. She loves me so much. I just get confused sometimes by her actions. Any advice?

Whenever I make a friend / I have a best friend, I need to learn everything about them, to know where they live, and I usually follow them everywhere. I usually just want to protect them and make sure they are safe but recently I've been wanting to go to their house and follow them a lot more. For example; they were going to their other friend's house and I wanted to go with them so I did. I think I'm a lot more closer to them then we actually are. Whenever they say anything even close to mean I will think they hate me. What do you think?