I'm a guy and I was just at a club with my girlfriend for my birthday. I was very intoxicated and I can't remember a good 30 minutes of the night. My girlfriend was with me the whole time except for when I used the restroom. I'm afraid that while waiting for the line, some girl followed me into the stall and had sex with me. there was an attendant in the bathroom. What are the chances this happened

She raised her 10 children on her own in poor conditions but they all remained together.One of my aunts recently send my mom a picture of a baby boy who has been given away by his mom from their country. I am 30 and broke up with my ex a couple of years ago. We always talked about having kids. My big sister has 3 girls of her own. My mom showed me a picture of the child and told me if I adopted him I laughed it off. Well my sister now saw the picture and told her husband about it.My point is that this woman had another baby girl and gave her away.My sister started to call me selfish for not wanting to adopt the baby. I told her I would send money but I wouldn't adopt the baby. I do feel bad for the child but I don't have history and where is the child's father? I just have too many questions and couldn't just adopt a baby and not hold others accountable for this child. I judge this woman because I've been surrounded by good women who even single took accountability. It's not about being greedy is about being logical. I would have to talk to the child's dad and take him in consideration.Some people will disagree but personalities are inherited and you have that 50/50 chance that this child will be just as wreckless as his mom or even dad. Of course if I had my own kids the same could happen but having a parent whose not wreckless can also change this child. Am I wrong not to want to adopt this child or tell my sister not to do it?

There is this person I text and they open my message but don't respond and I asked them why didn't they respond and they said that it's because they're busy. This has happened a lot and I just stay asking myself (are they always busy or something) they usually see my text message minutes after I text them like 17 minutes or less or more. I guess nobody has time to text these days and I'm thinking about just deleting my Snapchat. If anyone has gone through the same thing, please feel free to answer my question and I'll appreciate it. Thank you !

If you are married with kids, do you have a good relationship with your siblings? have you ever fought with any of them before? drift since childhood?

I have this step-brother type figure (he's not my step brother technically, but we treat eachother like step-brothers) he's 10 i'm 15 and we've known eachother since we were kids. we've recently grown closer and more comfortable with eachother, and he likes to cuddle with me and rub my body like a massage. i had noticed he started to grow more affectionate towards me, he loved me as more than a brotherly figure. unexpectedly, he kissed me. it was out of nowhere and it was 6-7 seconds of just our lips against eachother. after, i looked at him and smiled, then kissed him back. for the rest of that day he would kiss me ever now and then and i just let him, kissing him back every time. every time he kisses me it makes me want to kiss him more. should i keep letting him kiss me/kissing him ? or should i stop him? i don't want to stop him because he really likes it and i think he'd be upset if i made him stop ( and i kinda like it too) .. what do i do ??

I live in an off campus house with three other roommates. Two of which i am not close with. I am talking with the other about not continuing to live with them next year, I would run out the lease but now renew. They are not bad roommates but they aren't good roommates either. They are just very inconsiderate. We had discussed before agreeing to live together about not smoking in the house and being upfront about problems. they smoke all the time in the house and i know that they talk **** on me when i ask them to pick up after themselves. They are loud all the time and will make a mess in the kitchen and literally just disappear for days without cleaning. They never contribute to any of the communal house work I know the response would be to talk to them but i know both of them and that wouldn't help. Things just don't occur to them and talking wouldn't change that. I try to meet halfway on certain things but i feel bad because I have no idea what they would do next year. there are some on campus options but they are in too much trouble with school that if they got caught doing anything they might get kicked out. I just can't get with their lifestyle. They are not the worst roommates but should i just put up with it for another year? Another problem is that i doubt any of them will find a job and be able to stay in town over the summer and i don't want to live in the big house all alone and pay utilities all alone.

My guy friend came over and he stole my money out of my wallet. He came over last night I was about to take a shower. So, I got in the shower and he knock on the bathroom door saying he was going to go outside And smoke a cigarette. We he came back in I was already out the shower. I putting on my clothes and I went back into the living room. We talk and what not and we had sex like we always do the next morning I look at I saw that my door was unlocked so I was like wow I thought I locked it. And I was about to go to the store I look at wallet money was going it to was $40. And knew my money was in there and now it's not. So I text him I was like that is **** up you did he was like what you talking about. I text him and said you know what I am talking about He thought I was talking about sex nope I'm talking about my money. I'm so hurt i did things from him and this how he going to do me I'm like want to go over there and act a fool it's wrong and I never have done that ****.

I live in a home with an older man, he s a truck driver so he s normally not home. When he s gone I look after the house and his dog. How can I tell him that some of the things he does make me uncomfortable without hurting his feelings. He gets his feelings hurt very easily and I want to avoid dealing with that if I can. He s also got an older generation mindset so he doesn t see anything wrong with some of the things he does.

The women where I live are masculine, they wear tattoos, and are into the black culture or the redneck culture. When confronted these women will show you drill seargant attitudes at best to getting physically violent with you at worst. These women don't have an outlook on life, but tends to not care about anything. They're indifferent. They tend to have a family that is 'out of order' They tend to wear jewelry that has the word 'b I t c h' inscribed onto it. Their clothing that they wear is mostly plain. It's not feminine but it's kinda just jeans and a regular shirt sort of speak.

Are you better looking than most, the same as most, or below most. and just what constitutes good looks to you?

I met a girl in August who quickly became my best friend. She had just moved from another state to live with her dad. In late September, she told me that her and her family were going to move back to their home state. At first she said it was probably going to be around November, but the date keeps getting pushed back because nobody's buying their house. She met a guy a few weeks ago online. He lives about an hour away and she's already gone over there about 3 times and spent the night but tells me all the time she's too busy to hangout. For the first time in a while we hung out the other day. My phone was being slow and I needed to check something so I asked for her phone. It was open to her messages and I saw one to someone about her moving in summer, and got curious. She was telling someone that she probably wasn't going to move until late summer (which she had never told me). Her friend replied something like, "I'm so sorry. Just be patient." The part that I took personally though, was that she replied, "I'm actually gonna be sad now though, because of my boyfriend." It hurt me because she's known this guy for 2 weeks, and he's already more of a reason to stay than I am. I just feel really unimportant to her now. Am I overreacting? Or is it okay I'm a little hurt by this? She tells me all the time that I can talk to her about anything, but I keep a lot of stuff inside not because I think she'll judge me, but I just feel like a baby complaining all the time. :( (Please don't make this about me snooping through her phone. We go through each others crap all the time and don't care lol.)

My bf of ten years is into watching "twerk" videos while having sex w me. He claimed he liked the music and I tried to enjoy myself the first time this happened. But now DURING sex w me he is watching *** shaking videos of the nastiest trashiest females ive ever seen. Does this mean he's probably cheating on me and that hes not turned on by me? Im already scared that hes into ratchet woman. He tells me im being dramatic and overreacting and to chill but I find this cruel and offensive. Its making me insecure and paranoid. Plz b nice when answering but keep it real. Thanks.

Technically this is not a question, it's just me ranting and asking for advice. I cheated on her and we got a divorce and I got with another lady but she texted me that something was broken at her place and I went over to fix it and she was wearing skimpy clothes and I couldn't resist. I know it's wrong but it felt so good. She knows my body really well and satisfies me every time and it just feels really way better than with my current lady. Being inside her and all is just really captivating and I can't seem to wanna let go. I know this sounds messed up but sometimes I think about her her body when having sex with my current lady. However, I don't want to get back with her because she is a true psychopath (tests and everything) and she's just a terrible human being generally and my current lady is the best thing ever. What do I do here? Any advice?

My boyfriends brother gf doesnt like me. Never done anything to her. She always acts better than me. When i try to talk to her, she doesnt even look at me. But yet she esnts to follow me on social media. Why?

What would you call this???? A girl tackles another girl down to the ground and starts growling and biting her.

Ele é casado e tem 2 filhos. Ja separou da mulher uma vez, teve q voltar por uns motivos e um dos: eram os filhos. Fala aquilo q td cara casado deve falar p/amante, q sou mt linda, q me quer só p/ele, q gosta realmente de mim, q n sabe oq viu em mim, q era p/gnt ter se conhecido antes, diz q já ficou c/varias pessoas, mas q nenhum fica foi tão bom quanto ta sendo cmg, fala q cmg ta sendo td diferente, q me liga, q se preocupa cmg e q nunca fez isso c/nenhuma outra, diz acreditar ver futuro em nós 2, sai cmg n importa qual dia da semana seja, se é a tarde ou a noite, quer viajar cmg e até passar fim de semana junto cmg (parece ate q é solteiro) Mas sinceramente acho q essa história de realmente gostar de mim e querer ficar cmg seriamente é história pra boi dormir! Oq acham? Hoje fiquei p* da vida c/ele, pq fizemos sexo e ele gozou dentro de mim,ele sabe q n uso nenhuma proteção, tivemos q ir comprar uma pílula do dia seguinte, chorei de raiva,nunca ninguem fez isso cmg eu n deixava nem meu ex fazer, pq morro de medo de engravidar. Ele me pediu desculpas, disse q foi sem querer, q n quer me meter em encrenca, mas q não quer q eu fique chateada c/ele, e q se eu n quisesse + ficar c/ele por esse motivo ele iria entender, e falou q se eu ainda quiser ficar c/ele, n precisa mais nem ter sexo, só p/se ver mesmo, p/gente ficar juntos de boa. Será q ele gosta de mim? Penso q se ele quisesse só sexo ele n teria dito q a gente poderia ficar saindo só por sair. Será q isso tem futuro?

He mentioned going out with me, cooking dinner for me, always called me gorgeous and sexy. He stopped talking to me but he's always on my Instagram liking my photos and Watching my stories moments they're uploaded. I'm confused...

People often refer to me as a fairy because of my love for glitter, "girly" colors, and my bubbly personality. People describe my style as hipster or alternative. I personally think I'm a bit awkward and pretty weird. I guess you can say I'm "popular" but my personality isn't like most others and I actually get fed up with those fake personalities pretty quickly. I fight for a lot of social issues actively. I love to lead and I m pretty independent. I do have visible self harm scars and instead of allowing them to be a set back, I want to try to use them to my advantage in my typing.

I said I was hungry and he said he would cook for me, when I said I wanted cake, he said he would feed me, he asked me to see a movie with him, he kept mentioning how gorgeous and sexy I was...I'm confused only because he stopped texting me...

Her female friends are horrible! They're all masculine, if you look at them funny they'd beat you up, they don't care about the law, they have a psycho family that would come after someone, they look like guys with long hair and boobs. They dress in really guyish clothing. They have necklaces that has the word 'b i t c h' inscribe on it, they're secretly bi. what the heck is wrong with my sister?