Family: Question: My sister is a pathetic person. Why might it be that my parents expect me to like her when no one else does?

Question: My sister is a pathetic person. Why might it be that my parents expect me to like her when no one else does?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 02:05 PM PST

I dont even think they like her. So my question is why might it be that my parents expect me to like her? I know I have to have love at time of bad things since she is family but having to like her is what I don't get.

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic, how do we fix him so he will go sober as everyone makes fun of my family?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 02:02 PM PST

Question: My aunt thinks my Mom slept with her husband. How do I prove to her my Mom wouldn't do this?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 02:00 PM PST

Question: My mom just got mad at me and i dont understand?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 01:46 PM PST

So our dryer is broken. The washing machine still works. I asked my mom if it was okay to still use the washer to wash my coat (i air dry my coat anyways as the tag says to do that) So my mom first was in a good mood and then told me "as long as you do not need to put it in the dryer". She paused for one minute and then said nasty to me "you know, i hurt i was just about to take a bath". Why did she go from not being mad to ending up nekng mad? I just asked a question. I even said i would wash it after her bath but she got more mad saying "just go wash your coat" (its the only coat i have right now and it looks stained and u can see the black dirt on it.. its a red north face coat). I didnt mind washing after her bath she just got mad after being nice to me :/

Question: Lost and scared?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 01:28 PM PST

So I am 8 months pregnant my boyfriend and I lived together with my two kids . He is the decision maker . I am ok following rules . Women cook pay half the bills keep the house spotless . My kids and him kept bumping heads . He would often tell my son he hated him . My son is not perfect but he said this was to push him to be a man . He made me quit my job of 12 years because my employees called too much . We got in a huge fight because I kept my son home from school ( first day this year bc he was sick ) he called him a liar . I know my kids are miserable there because honestly he's a mean kinda of person to everyone . I'm more fun loving . I packed everything and got a place . I'm 5k in and a lease. Now he is sorry and wants me to break the lease and move back. My son doesn't want to one of the things with him is he doesn't have his own room here and sleeps on a air mattress because my boyfriends house isn't big enough . He is 17 though . My daughter also told me he talked to her about sex which creeps me out he denies it . I have a baby coming don't want to ruin my credit or kids life though either . Any advise is great

Question: If one of your parents tells a third person 'My daughter is not intelligent but works well' what do you think about him/her?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 01:25 PM PST

Question: Is it bad that i don't like or love my brothers?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 01:21 PM PST

Question: Is the bond between me and my adopted brother likely less strong than biological siblings...?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 12:48 PM PST

My parents adopted him as a baby and gave birth to a baby girl (me) later on. To me he's just my older brother. I have heard that biology effects the relationships between a family like with stepfamilies.

Question: My boyfriend is trying to make me feel guilty for me wanting to move us out alone and not stay with his parents?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 12:09 PM PST

We are Hispanic so the normal culture is we all live together in a big house. I love my boyfriend but I don't want to live with him because he lives with his mom, sister, grandma, nephew, stepdad, and uncle. Now I feel guilty for this because his mom is trying to turn him away from me because I want this. They say I'm no good because I'm trying to take him away from his family and that if i didn't have anything to hide, I wouldn't mind staying there with him. Honestly I do like spending time with them but only in small pieces. Why would I want to live with them everyday with no privacy? Am I wrong for feeling this way because it feels like I'm being a brat. I just want to live alone with him. And probably visit his family on the weekend. But knowing we have our own place away from all the noise feels good. I don't think my boyfriend is going to leave his family for me. But I also feel like I'm a bad influence for trying to make him move out. He's not going to because he barely works and they pay for everything and give him everything he has no need to move out when he gets everything free the only thing that gets in his way is me and his mom hates that because she doesn't see the big deal of what I'm talking about. I just feel like the bad guy. I get so irritated when I come over that i just don't anymore because they're always around. You can't avoid them. What can I do? I feel like the bad guy. He's 33 I'm 28. So we're not teenagers but again we're Hispanic.

Question: Why does my mum get mad at me over small things?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 11:55 AM PST

So yesterday my mum bought me new pj shorts for when i move to my new place. I have no shorts that i can wear to bed because it's summer and super hot and i'm sweating profusely and i don't wanna wear old sweaty shorts. I walked into the kitchen and my mum started yelling at me for wearing my new ones and kept saying that i was a show off and that i have other things i could wear. I have a pair of sweatpants that i could wear but it's super hot here. She gets mad at me for talking too fast, she gets mad at me for saying no at things she wants me to wear and things she wants to buy for me. All my life, there hasn't been a day where she hasn't gotten mad at me or yelled at me or insulted me and i'm not exaggerating. She gets mad at me for the smallest things and insults me in the midst of it and i'm not gonna lie it hurts me a little... How do i get over it? I'm moving to a different city next weekend and no doubt when i buy new things for my flat, she's going to insult me here and there for choosing things i want... im 17

Question: What do I do? Why am I like this?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 11:37 AM PST

I'll just keep it simple, I hate my sister. I've never liked her since the day she was born when I was 5 years old at the time. Every tiny little thing she does gets my blood boiling. I don't know how to describe it but it feels as if this burning fury inside of me just wants my sister to die and never come back. I don't understand myself anymore. Everything is so complicated and it feels as if she just makes everything worse. If she's even one foot close to me I get so pissed off. And since I'm always so mad when she's around, my parents scold me and tell me I should deal with it or suck it up. They don't understand my own situation, especially with my depression and extreme anxiety going on. Even though she's only 9, I hate her with a burning passion. Every little thing.. the chewing and the way she eats, the way she talks, her even being just a foot close to me, asking questions, or even watching me play my video games. Even if she doesn't do anything wrong and something happens to me, I just feel like taking it out on her as if she really did do something wrong. I've thought that my family would've been well off without my bratty sister. Maybe my family wouldn't have financial problems, maybe my family would have been happier, MAYBE I would have been able to keep my health insurance if she wasn't here. I don't understand anymore. I hate being mad because all it does is just make me feel even more depressed and then I just start crying my eyes out.

Question: Family Problems?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 11:35 AM PST

Basically I'm a 13 year old whose grandfather just passed away. My mom is going to a different country for 2 weeks for his funeral and my dad works over 12 hours a day. They're arguing because my dad doesn't know how he will adjust to taking his kids to school and taking care of our grandmother at the same time. My dad is also sick with the flu virus. I want to do something to help but I don't know how. Please help, I hate to see my parents like this.

Question: I miss my adult son. he doesn't stay in contact enough. how often should an adult child visit?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 11:32 AM PST

Question: My mother is driving me crazy?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 11:22 AM PST

My mother has Hypochondria & Anxiety, she constantly worries and never sleeps.. It has gotten so bad that she is starting to look like a cancer patient in the face. The doctors told her that her health is fine but she still worries about death.. I don't want to abandon her but it's hard to convince people that they have a mentally sick..

Question: My dad shows off his new gf to everyone?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 10:47 AM PST

My dad has been going out with this woman. Very nice, outgoing, I really like her. If I well understood, she is in the top 5 most popular opera singers where I live. For Christmas, she sang at the church along with some of her family members, her daughter played flute and her brother played the piano. My dad filmed most of the "show". Now, I get that he is proud and wants to show people the videos, but he literally shows the damn videos to everyone he meets, our family members, co-workers. "Look how she's amazing", "she has such a beautiful voice". Not even 2min in the conversation and he's all about showing the videos and saying how she's the best. I know it may be normal, but I know my dad, and he is exactly the type to brag about what he has and what he is. So yes, hearing him get right into the videos and talk about his new gf for a long time since the beginning of the year, to about 5-10 people, is getting annoying to me.

Question: Would you still talk to your adult daughter after you found out shes lesbian and has a girlfriend?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 10:10 AM PST

Question: My sister is a bully and gets whatever she demands from our parents. Do people like this never change?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 09:36 AM PST

The sister is 23.

Question: Mother borrowed money and I need it back?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 09:19 AM PST

Ok so my mother needed to borrow about $750 around the 4th of January to pay for sudden repairs that her car needed. She's been having a lot of issues with it recently. She told me that she'd pay me the money back in two weeks after she got paid, but it's now the 27th of January. I'm in the US Army and we already get paid little as it is, I had to dig into my savings to give her the money. I wouldn't ever want to turn away my own mother that's raised me and taken care of me my entire life. So I don't really feel it's right for me to remind her to pay me back. But I also need to add that she's borrowed money from me several times in the past, but she's paid me back in full each time. She will also give my brother and I a lot of money and gifts on Christmas and other holidays, along with other family members. My family has pretty much spoiled us. I really need the money back because it did cause my savings and finances to take a hit. Should I remind my mother that she owes me money? She said she's pay me back or should I just continue to wait? What if she just really forgot?

Question: In 2003 I raged at a family members now ex-husband. I shared family secrets to the guy. How do I make sure he does not reveal what I shared?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 06:23 AM PST

This guy was divorcing my aunt for a married woman he had brainwashed. I am sure there was more to the story and it was absolutely none of my business. However at age 16 in 2003 I called the guy up in a rant as well as calling the mistress who is now his wife. I have seen him on two occasions since at events for my cousins and ran into him yesterday and he recognized my name and said hi. I was perfectly polite and visited for ten minutes. He would be an ex-uncle by marriage. So my question is how do I make sure he does not share secrets I shared in 2003 like things my brother did. My argument in sharing them was to say I am usually not judgmental but am of him so I listed family scandals I was not judgmental about. Since I am Bipolar it was untreated at the time and I was an angry teenager and behaved totally inappropriately. I also fear his mistress, now wife, sharing the stuff as she heard the same stuff and I fear her doing it more as she has only met me once.

Question: Would you still make fun of your sister if shes too sensitive?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 06:00 AM PST

Question: My sons father doesnt wanna see his son and is so disrespectful to me and i can t stop thinking about it.. please help?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 05:42 AM PST

7 months ago I gave birth to my son and 2 weeks later his father kicked me and his son out and sent us to a homeless shelter. He hasn t been there since day one and my heart breaks.... I try to make an effort for him to see his child so yesterday I called and said im in your area do you wanna see your son? His answer was you annoying ***** I m not out there stop calling my ******* phone..... meanwhile a week before this he told me I can stop by anytime with our son and he would come by and see his child. Everytime i speak to him he is degrading me calling me a ***** I wish I died and that I keep his son away from him.. even though he treats me terribly and doesn t do for our child, why do i always think about him? I dont understand why he is so mean and it hurts so bad.... he also was cheating on me and is currently still with the girl he cheated on me with. How could someone be so evil?

Question: Am I wrong for not wanting to help my sister fight?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 05:02 AM PST

I've been in a horrible fight while younger and messed my face and eyes up a little. I've learned from my past and feel no need to fight anymore but just walk away. My mom got mad at me for saying I wouldn't have helped her fight. I didn't even know she was fighting if anything I would have stopped her from going out there to fight or called the police. Now my family mad at me. I swear I just wish I would die so people would leave me alone and stop worry about me SMH 😔 😢

Question: Whats wrong with my dad and why is he doing this to me and how do I react to this?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 02:08 AM PST

So I've been asking my dad to buy me a car for a year now and I need one to get to college Bc no one can take me. I would get a job on my own and figure something out but my dad won't let me work. My parents aren't white so they control everything In my life. So anyways today my dad took me to a few dealers to check out the car we picked. Fast forward to when we finally find the car we like, we negotiate a really good reasonable price. So we start signing papers showing our licenses and doing ALL the paperwork to get the car. We knew the car had miles on it from a previous owner who returned it after two days Bc they made that perfectly clear other than that it was brand NEW!! and we got a good deal too. So we're filling out the last documents and my dad is presented with this paper and the guy working repeats for the 100th time that the car is considered by law used but is technically brand new Bc it only was used for two days then returned. My dad throws a fit and says that he has been "deceived" drops everything and walks out. And I just stood there. Silent the whole ride back home. My dad is crazy. The thing is these type of actions are normal for him. He has a very high ego and thinks he's Better than everyone. He's insane and idk what to do I just balled my eyes in my room when I got home Bc I can't do anything about it Bc I can't get a job and I can barely afford books for school. How do I react to my dad for doing this to me and leading me on.

Question: How to tell a family member you share a room with you need some sleep and get off your bed without sounding rude?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 01:33 AM PST

I share a room with my nephew, he just came from a different country . I work at 6:30pm to 3:00am everytime I come home trying to get some sleep his making noise all light on. After a long day at work when I try to sleep I find him on my bed, when he have his own bed in the room all mess up.

Question: Is it wrong to start putting myself first for once?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 12:35 AM PST

My mom is really doing bad,she hasn't worked since I was a teenager and I'm 27 now. I put so many before me until I couldn't have a relationship or have fun. Honestly, since I was a teenager my whole life has been raising kids, working and lending others money and just being a shoulder. At my age my self esteem is still suffering because my mom would always say my sister was the pretty one and would always say her and my dad created such a pretty daughter when they made her and whenever anyone would call me pretty she would say wait until you seey other daughter. I'm finally done with college and just want to get away from my toxic family, like move to another state but hate to leave my dad behind but deep inside I know it's best to leave. My mom hasn't worked in forever she's married but living in a hotel and is trying to convince me to buy a home here to let her live with me( I would be miserable) . When I think about moving I feel so exciting and peace but also guilty. For leaving my family especially my Dad he's almost 60. Any advice?

Question: I complained to my sister that my brother doesn t have me in his wedding party but she didn t respond (messenger). Why didn t she respond?

Posted: 28 Jan 2018 12:08 AM PST

Question: I just need to rant.?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 11:31 PM PST

my mom is SO ANNOYING. i cannot WAIT until i'm old enough to move out, honestly.it's like she wants complete control over my life and never let's me make my own decisions! like i know what i need to do, and she's constantly on me about every little thing. she sets the bar too high for so much. constantly reminding me about school, like i don't go to it everyday, i'm completely aware. she feels the need to punish me for the LITTLEST things! and i constantly have to tell people why i can't do things, why i can't stay up late on the phone. oh why? my ******* MOM. i feel like I HAVE NO FREEDOM. i hate to say it but i genuinely DREAD when she comes home, it's like please go back to where you came from. i shouldn't feel so bothered by someone's presence, let alone my own MOM. she's so overbearing, like a ******* cop, constantly in my ear! what the HELL do i do? i feel like i have no escape. i can never tell her ANYTHING, i always keep everything from her because she'll ridicule anything i say. like can you please HOP OFF and forget i'm here for a minute? i know, i sound like such an ungrateful spoiled brat right now, but if only you lived in my shoes you'd understand where i'm coming from! she's like a fly that just won't go away! love her dearly, but i just need my space and freedom! like UGH i just get so freaking frustrated. sorry, that's all. comment how you feel about this.

Question: Does anyone else think this is weird?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 11:28 PM PST

I have two siblings, a twin sister and then a brother who's 14 years older than us. Ever since we were little, my brother has been really involved in me and my sister's lives. He used to take us out for the day or let us spend the night at his house pretty regularly, he tried really hard to be our cool older brother. As me and my sister got older, like 12 or 13, I stopped wanting to spend the night at my brother's house because I was an angsty teenager and I thought it was lame, but my sister kept doing it. My brother moved into a big house all by himself (he's not married and he doesn't have any kids) when we were 16, and the house has an isolated guest room upstairs that my sister basically took over. My brother let her choose the furniture for that room and decorate it how she wanted, and she would go over there and spend the night almost weekly. It wasn't that weird when we were in high school I guess, but we're 20 now and my sister STILL goes and spends the night with our brother sometimes. She does it about once every two months or so. She'll go over to his house and spend a night, sometimes even 2 or 3 nights, and claim it's because she "just wants to get away from home" (she still lives with our parents). I will say that my sister doesn't have many friends, and my brother, like I said, lives all alone in his house so he's probably lonely, but I still find this a little weird. Am I just crazy or is it weird to anyone else too? I'm a guy btw...so maybe I'm just not as close to my brother as my sister is because of that??

Question: Is it my fault my brother and I aren't close?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 11:03 PM PST

So I'm 18 and i have three little siblings my youngest sister is 9 and there are boy/girl twins that are both 12.i plan on moving this year with my friend and I basically asked them would they miss they're big brother, my sisters both said yes but my brother said no and I should already have left. I asked why and he said that he just doesn't care to see me. I know that I'm probably not the best brother and I haven't exactly been close with my siblings mainly because they were always like little kids to me so I didn't really talk to them but I really thought he would have said yes because I'm his brother. I can't help but feel it's my fault and i kinda want to try and fix that before I move out even though I'm busy with work and my workouts and other things.

Question: What if I don’t want to kill my parents but do want them to die?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 10:22 PM PST

I couldn't care less about them. I have no feelings at all for them. I hate the fact that they love me and would do anything for me. I would rather have never existed. I hate life. I hate the very air I breathe. I like pain, suffering and death. I like the complete antithesis of all the positive qualities of life itself. I'm not depressed. I'm not insane nor sociopathic or psychopathic. I just love negativity, wickedness and darkness. I'm a very depraved individual and enjoy it.

Question: When someone says that they don't care about others, do they mean just strangers or family members as well?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 09:52 PM PST

Question: How do I cope with my daughter who is jealous of her new brother?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 09:03 PM PST

My 6 year old apparently "hates" her newborn brother (in her words). She's been throwing tantrums, acting badly, and doing things that she knows is wrong just for attention. We try to give her extra attention but it won't help. She went from being obedient to being a complete mess since we had our new baby. I'm sick of her attitude and I send her to her room whenever she acts out. I explain over and over again why the baby is getting attention from family friends, relatives, and us. She thinks that this is something horrible we've done to her, by giving her a sibling that she claims she never wanted.

Question: Im not happy that my dad is comming back.?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 08:49 PM PST

I know i should be happy but im not.Hes been in other countryes since my whole life last time i lived with him was when i was 5.Ive seen him here and there.But now just out of the blue he says he is comming back.And to live with us my mom my grandperants and me.Im 18 soo im thinking of moving out because of it.

Question: I pushed my dad?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 07:19 PM PST

I pushed my dad after he punched my mom right in front of me and my little brother and sister. They were having an argument and he swung at her until I came and pushed him. I feel terrible for some reason and just want to know I did the right thing. The image of me attacking him breaks my heart. Thanks for any response

Question: How do I get my parents to see I have quit old habits they think I still do but haven't in years?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 07:10 PM PST

I am 27. My parents think I still do what I did at 13. For example they fear me posting inappropriate gossip on the Internet cause when I was in my early teens I engaged in school gossip through emails (before Facebook Days). They also think I fib to have stories to tell. If someone has personal news my mother says "Don't tell Alex cause he will repeat it to everyone" when that is based on how I was at age 15, not age 27. It drives me nuts and hurts me that they think this low of me. How do I get them to see I am not who I was as an early teen?

Question: My Mum is being extremely rude to my Dad?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 07:10 PM PST

Last night My Dad and Mum were messaging eachother (they're divorced by the way) talking about the money Dad owes Mum and whatever. My dad is broke at the moment and has to borrow money off of my grandpa, but now my grandpa is saying he can't have any more money unless he pays him back for the amount he's already taken. Anyways last night my mum was being a right b-itch, telling my dad he's got a deadline to give her to the money or so and so will happen, and my dad said he can't give her the money in that time space because he can't get that much by then, so my mum starts calling him nasty names saying he's a ******** ***** , and terrible nasty paragraphs I would never ever say to anyone else. I get it's "their business", but they always fight like this and it makes everyone else miserable. I tell them this and they say they understand but they go ahead and do it again. What should I do?

Question: Dad abusive or sensitive/overeacting?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 07:07 PM PST

So when he's angry he yells and cusses at me. I've been called every name in the book (*****, Hoe, Asshole, etc.) and there are always accompanied with other cuss words ("**** you" and stuff like that) and things like ungrateful, spoiled, stupid, etc. He's said some pretty mean stuff when he's mad too. He's called me a disappointment, told me he wished I was never born, said I was the worst daughter ever, etc. He's threatened to disown me, kick me out, beat me up (and said he would have many times if I were a guy) etc. These are the few I can remember off the top of my head. He also throws things and slams doors when angry. He's done some "physical" things before, but it's really rare. He's grabbed me by the shirt collar, hit me in the head and arms (open hand slap), and punched me a couple times (arms and legs). When he punched me in the car about a month ago it did bruise my leg. Other times have never left a mark. He's thrown cups of water in my face when we are arguing. He's also kicked me out of the car on the way home from school. He just pulled over on the side of the road and drove off. I had to call my mom to come and get me. He's super nice when he's not angry though, and I get taken care of (food, shelter, health, etc.) He's only like this when he's angry, and he gets over it pretty quickly. I know he doesn't really mean most of this stuff either, so that's why I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting to his short temper. If you made it this far, thanks!

Question: Has anyone had their son touch them while you slept or try to have sex with you? Dads or moms?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 05:56 PM PST

Question: How to stay focused on studies after this ?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 05:01 PM PST

I have this essay to write but I can't focus. My ***** *** grandma told me that one time when I was little my mom was yelling at my dad accusing him of cheating on her with women. I remember them yelling and stuff actually. And I have no one to talk about this. My brother told me to forget it and he continued looking at his phone as always. I just can't. Worst thing is having to probably hate my father for life. And I can't deal with this right now...it's the end of the semester and stuff. Thanks for reading

Question: My brother thinks my parents treat me better than him??

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 04:36 PM PST

ok so whenever he gets told to do something his argument is that 'oh anon doesn't have to do this' or 'oh you never make anon do chores.' i do do a lot of chores-just as much as him. hes older than me by 16 months and he always brings up things i did. I get higher than average grades and gets lower than average grades, so my mom is always pushing him to do better in school. what do you think about this situation? what would you do? its getting to the point where almost everything he is told to do comes back to him saying that i never do anything....even though we do the equal amount of chores and stuff

Question: Can my dad kick me out when I turn 18?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 04:26 PM PST

Last week we had an argument when he picked me up for school even though I already texted him that I would. So he yelled st me saying He's not going to keep waiting on me and I got an attitude saying he needs to calm down and he said the day I turn 18 then I'm outta here. I'm not even done with high school yet I'm graduating on june 16th but I turn 18 on June 4th? I don't think it's fair my sister is 19 and still lives and all she does is go class 2 days a week. And my brother is 22 and is still here and he has no job or goes to school. But my dad keeps picking on me and that's why I get angry with him. I'm a good son and even my mom said my dad is out Of line but she won't tell him off when I argue with him or when threatens to kick me out. I'm just so fcking done I have no where to even go.

Question: I need help on how I should feel with what just happened. Anyone help?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 03:57 PM PST

Okay guys I'm just so mad right now! My sister is always in my stuff okay. Like she's always in everything I get. Today, just like the other day, she got into my underwear drawer again to take her nudes to send them to people! This has happened already 3 times that I KNOW OF! She is literally going into my room while I'm gone, putting on my underwear and then putting them back in the drawer like she never had them on! I tell my mom about it and my mom has always took her side with everything. She's the "baby" but I figured this one time my mom would agree with me. But no, she actually smacked me across the face with a plastic bag full of stuff that way she knew it would hurt. And it did, a lot. And then she cusses me out saying I disrespected her?? I'm just mad right now and don't know what to do. Anyone know anything that could help me? I would gladly appreciate it. How would you feel if you were me??

Question: What should I do? Ten points?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 03:33 PM PST

was asking a friend if I could make up hanging out with her since I couldn't do it a few weeks ago since I was tired from work. She told me she was going to have a birthday dinner in a different town and she'll give me more details the next day. The next day, I asked for more details, she tells me that she has to talk to two of her friends first about it. Then tells me that the dinner will be on a different day. When I ask where the specific location is for this bday ( which is on the same week as my birthday), she said she doesn't know yet. Finally, she told me the day before that she decided to have this celebration at her house and to bring other people if I wanted. Then, when I looked on Snapchat the other day, she went celebrating with a group of people and one of her friends deleted a pic with all of them in it like she's hiding it from somebody. So why would she not invite me to the birthday dinner she had and tell me to come to her house to celebrate instead? Esp to bring other people she may not know?

Question: Wierd things happening in my home?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 03:31 PM PST

So since the past two days ive been hearing knocking sounds from my closet/clothes closet. Ive checked its tiny theres no rats nothing nothing at all its tiny. Its old ive been living in my home for 14 years and never had a problem with this closet. Now its making me depressed. The knocking starts excatly at 3:50pm for 10 minutes and it comes in knocks of 3 then a quick pause. And stops excatly at 4pm. No one believes me and when I recorded it no sound came out and the video was really blurry and i have a really good phone. What? Im not on drugs what are you talking about? Can you stop answering **** ok im not on drugs? What are you talking about. Dont answer ****

Question: I m bored with my life?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 03:29 PM PST

Everyday I go to school do the same thing eat the restaurants or grocery stores food near me repeat the same exact day. Believe me I ve tried to change life up but it keeps falling back to the same boat. I want to travel the world, but I m sure everyone does. When I grow up I wanna move to New York and start a career somewhere but I just feel trapped. I obviously can t go because I m only 16 and my parents are soooooo BORING. They have tried to plan trips but we never actually go and my family just seems like everything is fine and not boring . I mean is it ME? or just my family in general not taking me anywhere.

Question: Why is my mom getting mad at everything?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 03:07 PM PST

Lately my mom has been getting mad and upset about everything. If I'm sitting on the couch she calls me lazy. If she tells me to do something and I don't get up immediately she says that she gets no help and we do nothing to help her. She used to not care but suddenly has changed and is getting mad at everything

Question: Am I wrong if I don't want to talk to my dad anymore?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 03:03 PM PST

I was molested at a young age (can't remember how old) by my brother (we have different moms) more than once. I told my dad everytime it happened and all he would say to my brother "if you do it again I will beat your a**" that was it. He never hit him or even tried to get to the bottom of why he couldn't keep his hands to his self. I am not the only fwmale in the family he touched other relatives told my dad and again he didn't do anything. My brother got caught humping a little girl in his room from the neighborhood all my dad did was lecture him. He also got suspended from school for touching on girls dad didnt do nothing. I feel like my dad failed at protecting me. To this day my dad still talks to him (my dad is not loyal) that bothers me. Not only that my dad doesn't come visit me. He lives in Wisconsin and I live in Minnesota everytime I ask him to come visit me he always have an excuse. He is the only parent I have left my mom died in 2010. I never brought it up to my dad now that I'm older he would probably just brush it off. I dont want nothing to do with my dad anymore I feel like he's a poor excuse of a father, am I wrong.

Question: When does it become sexual abuse when it comes to siblings 1.5 years apart?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 02:15 PM PST

I posted a couple days ago but never received any answers. My sister who's 1.5 years older than me used to make me do sexual things with her between 7 and 9 years old. I'm wondering when does it become sexual abuse?

Question: Is it normal to have two friends with benefits?

Posted: 27 Jan 2018 01:55 PM PST

I'm 15 and these guys occasionally make love with me. It's so complicated and I feel like they're friends... but we do sexual things. I don't know what I should describe. We're comfortable with each other. People are gonna have different opinions and whatever, but is this normal?