We have three children. All of the responsibility is on me. My husband is from Nigeria, they have a lot gender roles. So I'm the one who's home with the kids and doing everything. He is refusing to help me with my own personal, outside of the kids until I get pregnant. Am I wrong if: 1- I am overwhelmed with the three that I have (14, 13, 4)? 2- I cant get a job outside of traditional hrs because of children? 3- He has made it very clear that he wants a fourth child for tax purposes (he keeps trying to convince me that having another child will settle our financial issues come tax season)? My pastor says to give him another child. I feel guilty, but I really don't want another child. It's just going to delay my progress in life more (I've decided to go back to school part time and look for work).

Even though they are most attracted to them typically compared to a regular average guy who doesn't have many dating options

had sexual relations before marriage? Just curious. I met a guy from Pakistan who had sexual relations before marriage. I wonder if any Indian ones were the same way. Thanks for your responses.

I only ask because a friend I told about this mentioned it. I've been sort of going out with a woman that is 14 years older than me (37 years old in about a month) we were friends and up until a few months ago started having sex. I'm not sure what we're doing but we aren't labeling anything. A friend that knows about this told me that it's weird that she hasn't ever been married or had kids and is looking at someone my age. I brushed it off only now I can't stop thinking about this. I mean I like her a lot and she has her whole life together. I'm not looking for a mother figure and am just attracted to her for who she is. Does anything about this seem strange?

My husband and I both work full time. I have four weeks of vacation and he only has one. We already have a trip planned in July, but I would like to take our daughter somewhere for Spring Break. He is super resentful that I want to go somewhere without him. But I don't want to waste three weeks of my vacation doing nothing but sitting around the house just because he doesn't have more vacation time. We have separate bank accounts and he would not even be paying for this trip. Should I still go or stay home to keep the peace?

I took a Hair folical test today. It cost me 120 bucks. I have a prescription for 15mg of Adderal once a day. Sometimes if I don t get a refill quick enough I will take a 40 mg vyvance instead. What does vyvance show up as on a hair folical test?

My ex husband (father of my children) has never been your typical dad. He sees his kids once a week for a couple of hours and will often drop them off early if something else comes up. I have no issues with this however my husband gives me a hard time saying I should require my ex husband to take his children for the visits he's scheduled for and not let him off easy. This is also so I will have time to run my errands and get my work done, etc. My husband also seems annoyed when my ex calls to speak to his kids before bed every night for a few minutes. My husband says this is invasive and his kids should call him if they want to, not the other way around. Is my husband being controlling? My ex is just trying to be a good father to his kids.

Ever since our wedding night it's been hard. She Never asks me to have sex. I'm always the one asking and I usually get turned down. She does not like to try new positions, always the same ol thing... missionary. I want to explore with her. Don't know what to do. I've talked to her about this and it always leads to a fight. I was so naive thinking that I'd be getting sex whenever I wanted once married. It's been two and a half years so far and I only have sex once per month. So 12 times a year if this keeps up. That's sucks. Not sure what to do. I clean and help out around the house, provide as a man should and sometimes I just want to bang like crazy but she always finds an excuse not to. From A to Z. What's even worse is when she changes clothes in front of me, which drives me wild. I'm being tortured. What's even worse is that there's women out there that would gladly love to have sex with their husbands and enjoy. My wife has the mindset Of just enduring sex. I e had her literally ask me in the middle of sex,"are you finished yet?" Sad. Not sure what to do to Have her crave sex from me, desire me, and to just go crazy for me like I am for her. Thoughts?

past two months wife has been confused she had an emotional affair, along with recently being caught lying about being at her sisters when she was really at work( was able to see this first hand, and confront her about it) my question is i have been trying to be the good husband, patient, kind, and quick to avoid arguments with her. and with our 9 year anniversary i am still loyal and dedicated to my wife, but find it hard at times to trust and believe what she, considering she still tell me she wants space, and still figuring out what she what she wants So question is as hard as im fighting for this marriage, and understand that she is not at 100, what can i do to my sanity, yet still be their for my wife.

Me and my husbands relationship is very rocky. The pass year I've considered leaving multiple times. There's broken trust no healthy communication and sometimes violence. As in breaking doors and such by him. We've been together 8 years. His two children from previous marriage are almost grown up and leaving. Thank god because I honestly can't stand them. That's another topic though. My H mom just had a stroke and she will be in a rehab place a whole to learn how to do things. He wants to move her in with us. Which I do not want to be a caretaker. She's severely overweight and can't move her left side. I do not want to take care of someone for the rest of her remaining time here. I'm co dependent and I've taken care of everyone my entire life. I recently have been putting my foot down and making my own needs and wants important. I know I will resent my husband for putting this on me. I understand he is losing his mom but what about my life? Traveling won't be a option it'll be like we have a baby that's severely overweight and has a cursing problem. The woman was crazy before this. Mental illness runs deep with this family. I feel bad but I'm not willing to give my best years to taking care of someone dying.

Should I be mad at my husband because he s experienced multi Os in two previous one night stands and told me by saying "the other girls had multi orgasms and you just have only one" and he s denied remembering details about the other sex partners our entire relationship until now. I was a virgin when we met. I never knew multiple orgasm was real I just thought women faked others o s after their big O to get the guy off since. I was immediately insecure and felt lied to. I feel so vanilla and a lame f*ck! How can I get over this? How can he help men move on?

How can I explain to him that this is not normal? We yet have to consummate our marriage after 6 months!!

as in man-bisexual-woman

Why in God s name would he think or think he knows I love him deep down , also add he said harm done. What the heck should I do still run like I am