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- Question: Is it okay to think that your own sister is beautiful?
- Question: I want to die. If I kill myself, someone please me?
- Question: What should I do w bank account, mom has control/access to it..?
- Question: Why does my sister look like 12 even though she will turn 18 next month?
- Question: New York or Florida ?
- Question: MY TOXIC MOTHER?
- Question: Why does my dad always tell me not to start fires?
- Question: Dad is an alcoholic and it really makes me sad. What do I do when I get sad all the time?
- Question: My mom is hitting my sister up for money, should I tell our dad?
- Question: Someone in my family has passed away for over 2 years now but I just can’t seem to comprehend how they are not here anymore?
- Question: My sister has provided us an old copy of my father's will.We learned that he made a new one on Suze Orman software,we think she is hiding it?
- Question: Does older Daughters see and be with their mother everyday?
- Question: I feel so guilty at 29 taking money from my parents?
- Question: Is my mom overreacting? And how to handle this?
- Question: Is it bad that I sometimes talk about sex with my brother (I'm a girl)?
- Question: Intensive Care Unit?
- Question: Was it the wrong time for me to tell my mom to lift her shirt up?
- Question: I don’t have parents to support me. Can I say “I don’t have parents supporting me.”? or “I don’t have parents of supporting me.”?
- Question: How do I explain to my parents that people on social media can hurt my younger siblings?
- Question: My parents want me to have a family already is that normal?
- Question: My brother informed me this evening, his wife's brother is in a coma, from a motorcycle accident. What can I do?
- Question: Am I the bad guy/woman?
- Question: My aunt and her daughter are estranged. Whose side should I take, read below?
- Question: When I was a teenager, my dad would often ground me (no computer / no internet) for my thoughts and beliefs. How can I get revenge?
- Question: If your parents go to court for custody can a non-biological parent get custody of you if his/her name is on your birth certificate?
- Question: My wife s brother has severe anger issues and is inexcusablely violent towards people, at 26. How can I protect my daughter from him?
- Question: How to deal with my sister who is too sensitive and cant take any joke about her?
- Question: Is it normal that my sister (16) cried because mom wanted to throw away her old stuffed animals which are only sitting in her closet anyway?
- Question: Alot of black women told me that I am unlucky because I am giving birth to a black daughter.?
- Question: Don't know where i stand with sister in law?
Question: Is it okay to think that your own sister is beautiful? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 01:14 PM PST |
Question: I want to die. If I kill myself, someone please me? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 01:13 PM PST I found out money was being taken out from my bank account and my sister was the one who was my card and had my card set up to pay her utility bills. I went to the bank and they saw she I had made a money transfer to my sister's account and I told them I never have. So they said I can either try to get the money back from her or prosecute her. My mom heard and got mad that I said I will prosecute my sister if she doesn't pay me back. My mom said she will report me for threatening her and yelling at her and see how I do it in jail. She told me I need to stop lying because my sister said she didn't use my card. The bank doesn't lie I told them both. My mom rather have me in jail for me threatening her and I have said I hope you die, I will kill you and such because growing up I was abused by my dad. My mom never done anything for it and I was mentally damaged. Well at this point I just want to die. I don't want to be here. My depression is getting worse and I can't stand my parents and my lying sister who is denying she ever used my card. |
Question: What should I do w bank account, mom has control/access to it..? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 01:13 PM PST It's complicated… Mom has control of my bank account and can see everything. mom is willing to pay for college for me, as long as I pass the classes, so at the beginning of the semester she takes the money and then at the end of the semester if I pass she will give me money back. She took $1500 out this semester.. but I am 19, and her and her husband are probably splitting up today, and I planned on moving out soon anyways… If something happens tonight and my mom and stepdad argue, I will probably leave right there bc i dont want mom leashing out on me, but my mom might get mad if I leave bc then her husband and child left her, and since she has control of my bank account I do not want her taking all of my money just because she feels like it… I would like to take out the remaining $1700 to make sure she doesn't take it since she has control, but i havent finished the semester yet either so i wont get the $1500 back if i take the $1700 now... Problem is there could be a big fight tonight and i leave, or nothing happens and everyone just stays in sepatare rooms, and i dont want to overreact and take the money out now if nothing happens bc then shell get mad she cant see my money and prob keep the $1500 for school... So take the money out now or no...? Whole reason she can see my account is so she can take $ for classes then put it back in if I pass, but with her mad over husband, she screwed my dad over and left him so i know she wont doubt screwing me over too... |
Question: Why does my sister look like 12 even though she will turn 18 next month? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 12:56 PM PST |
Question: New York or Florida ? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 12:37 PM PST i currently live with my bf and his parents . lately there has been too much drama between him and his parents that i get dragged into . it's too much that i want to move out . i am not sure whether or not i should go back to live w my mom being that i left her house on not so good terms or my grandmother has offered for me to move in with her in New York . the only thing is i do not want to leave my bf at his house because his family causes him nothing but stress which is not good for him considering he has health issues ( sickle cell anemia) he also has relatives that live in new york but we don't want to be seperated . i know he will not be able to live in my mother's house w me so therefore i am stuck on what move i should make . i'm 22 he's 24 |
Posted: 22 Jan 2018 11:41 AM PST My mother will not stop harassing me. This has been going on for years, we havent gotten along for years. She asks questions about mine and my familys personal life that I think are none of her business. Such as, when did (6yo daughter) eat last, have a bath last, did she take her allergy meds, what are your husbands new work days and hours, why isn't (daughter) sleeping in her own room yet? I've brought to her attention that I feel like all she does is ask questions and badger me. Criticizes how I parent and literally tells me what to do like I'm a child and actually expects me to do it and gets mad when I dont. She has said awful things to me about my integrity, character and parenting. If I ignore a question over text she will harass me about it until I answer her or tell her shes being aggressive. She says she is going to get (daughter) a phone because she says (daughter) will answer her questions. It's becoming so stressful and dramatic DAILY that I think of how much less I would have to deal with if I cut her out of our lives. She discouraged and manipulated me growing up and I've seen the same pattern with (daughter). It's come to the point that I dont even want (daughter) around her. PLUS: I'm in my second trimester. Really don't need this. Thoughts? Thanks |
Question: Why does my dad always tell me not to start fires? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 11:21 AM PST He says it every time I leave the house. Why? |
Question: Dad is an alcoholic and it really makes me sad. What do I do when I get sad all the time? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 11:08 AM PST If he loved me he wouldnt drink |
Question: My mom is hitting my sister up for money, should I tell our dad? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 10:54 AM PST So just a little background, we've had highs and lows in our family and we've had times as kids where our parents borrowed money from us for gas, food, ect. (Birthday + Christmas money) now however we are doing much better, my dad has a good paying job, he spends wisely, and we aren't rich or well off but we are doing a lot better than before (my point is there is no need for my mom to bum money off of my 13 year old sister) well my grandparents and aunt also just sent a substantial amount of birthday and Christmas money and my mom isn't going on shopping sprees, there's no obvious thing that points to where all this money is going. She's a teacher and earns that way, my parents split the bills, my dad pays for things if my older brother and I need anything (gas, food, ect.) she does have an alcohol problem but as in drinking beer at home and wine, she drinks a lot however she has the kids wit her all the time so I feel like we would be able to see if she was buying so much alcohol that she's asking my sister for gas money. I mean my dad could give her gas money, he usually does. Unless she's hiding something, I don't know if I should tell my dad or not. What's your opinion? Thanks! |
Posted: 22 Jan 2018 10:54 AM PST Me and this person were really close. How come I feel this way after so long? |
Posted: 22 Jan 2018 09:49 AM PST Is there any way of us finding a copy of it? We tried probate court, and nothing has been filed yet. |
Question: Does older Daughters see and be with their mother everyday? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 09:15 AM PST |
Question: I feel so guilty at 29 taking money from my parents? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 08:07 AM PST I lost my home in a fire and lost my job all in the same month. I've been struggling tremendously waiting on the insurance. My parents purchased me a new home. Cash purchase!! They've also been giving me money to live off of since November while I look for work. I never asked for any of this. While I feel tremendously blessed I can't help but feel so much guilt. At 29 I should not be getting help from my parents!! Is it wrong they are helping me? |
Question: Is my mom overreacting? And how to handle this? Posted: 22 Jan 2018 07:52 AM PST I was on a 4 days trip abroad with my boyfriend. My mother asked me to call her often so she knows I'm safe. So first day I called her 4 times. So she said that in the mornings and at night would be enough. Next day I called her in the morning. In the evening I went to a pool, and left the phone in the locker. At 10pm when I exited the pool I had 2 missed calls from my mother, from 20 minutes before. I called back and she kept yelling at me for not answering my phone and making her worry. I apologised, said I was sorry for making her worry, but she wouldn't listen. The next two days she didn't answer any of my calls, and when I got home and said hi she just gave me a scathing look and a half-hearted "hello" and hasn't spoken to me since. How to best handle this? I think she is way too dramatic. |
Question: Is it bad that I sometimes talk about sex with my brother (I'm a girl)? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 11:50 PM PST I'm 20, he's 21, and we've always been close because we're so close in age. We don't talk about sex regularly, but occasionally we do and we don't feel awkward about it at all. For example, the other day I told him that I'd hooked up with our mutual friend and we briefly talked about it. I didn't give him details or anything, but I told him how it happened and what led up to it cause he was curious. He's done the same thing to me, like once he hooked up with one of my friends and then the next day he just openly told me about it. I know how many people's he's slept with, and he knows how many people I've slept with. We have no problem discussing sex. Is this normal or is it bad? |
Question: Intensive Care Unit? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 09:39 PM PST Could I visit the father of my child in the ICU. I am currently pregnant and we aren't married so I wouldn't be in his immediate family. He is in ICU and I want to know how he is doing and if he's going to recover. I called but the hospital won't even tell me if he's in ICU anymore. They just said family only. |
Question: Was it the wrong time for me to tell my mom to lift her shirt up? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 08:38 PM PST We were at a wedding. My mom was already frustrated at something but My moms shirt was getting low and I told her to lift it up because it was revealing. So I guess that was the tipping point so she got really mad at that and then my dad got mad at me and it was a mess. Was it my fault |
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Question: How do I explain to my parents that people on social media can hurt my younger siblings? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 07:47 PM PST They don't speak English or use technology. They just go as far as being strict with chores and limiting time. My brother is 9 and my sister is 15. Some pedophile messaged my brother and sent him inappropriate things. My teenage sister receives pictures of male private parts from time to time. My parents never spoke to us about sex growing up because of culture. They assume that all the people who befriend my siblings are innocent kids. I certainly see something deeper than just that. They're not really alarmed if my sister befriends someone who claims to be in college, or if my brother talks to people that claim to be children. |
Question: My parents want me to have a family already is that normal? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 07:19 PM PST so im 21 years old. and my dad keeps bugging me about when im gonna get a girlfriend and have children. is that normal? |
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Question: Am I the bad guy/woman? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 06:20 PM PST So my mom wants to let this guy and his daughter stay with us "a few days". But I don't feel comfortable with him staying at our house and my siblings don't either. Nobody has an issue with his 4 year old staying over. The thing is his family lives in the apt upstairs and the brother in law doesn't want them staying at their house. But to me it didn't make sense that we should bring them in. They aren't our family and honestly I don't know him that well. So my mom and my brothers girlfriend were arguing with me saying that I was being judge mental and how I shouldn't be negative. Like I'm condemning him or something. But he's not family and we live in a tiny apartment. My mom has this thing where she likes to let people stay because "they have nowhere to go" and never asks me if I'm ok with it. I've once had my iPhone charger stolen and random people go into me and my sisters room. Is it wrong that I don't want to house random people even if my mom "knows" them? |
Question: My aunt and her daughter are estranged. Whose side should I take, read below? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 05:43 PM PST Daughter is 23. She was adopted by aunt at age 2 from Russia. Daughter has trust issues. Daughter does not thank Mom for favors Mom does and on days like Mothers Day the other two daughters (biological) and the step-son thank my aunt for all her amazing things she does. This now estranged daughter will say "Happy Mothers Day" but not much else and sometimes has to be told by the father 'tell Mom Happy Mothers Day". The daughter also lies about stuff growing up like homework, grades, or who she is going to see. One time she was so bad she even left her step-brother who is developmentally disabled in the car alone while she went to call a friend. She also slammed a door once and made a mark in it. Aunt meanwhile is better to the other kids. She says to the daughter, I am told 2nd hand, things like "only time Dad and I fight it is about you" or "you are the worst child I have ever dealt with". Over Christmas cousin wasn't there and aunt made 20 minute speech before dinner about all the good they had done for their daughter and how bad she is in return. Mother and daughter have been estranged for 2 years now. I still see the daughter (cousin) as my parents have her over which pisses my aunt off. Mother and daughter both insult each other when I am around them probably daily. I see the cousin a lot more often as my parents are not close to her mother. So whose side should I take as both want me to pick them? My parents are on the daughter's side. |
Posted: 21 Jan 2018 05:25 PM PST Among the other screwed up things in my teenager-hood, my dad would spend entire evenings combing through my computer for any sort of journal or diary or chats that exposed my true thoughts and beliefs. Mostly he was looking to see if I believed in God, if I believed in abstaining from sex until marriage, and if I was for or against abortion, and if I was gay, but anything he disagreed with was fair game for grounding me. If I tried to just tell him what he wanted to hear, he would quiz me and try to confuse me or trip me up in a lie until I told him how I really thought. One time he said I was grounded for "thinking he was an ******". was this sort of treatment legal, and how can I get my revenge on him. He ruined the best years of my life, im in my 30s now and feel like I could have enjoyed my younger years a lot more if he weren't involved in them. Now im older and can't do the things teenagers do. |
Posted: 21 Jan 2018 05:23 PM PST Im a 14 year old girl I live with my mom and her fiancé, I go to my "dad's" on the weekends. I know it's harsh but I love my dad so much and I honestly don't like my mom at all, I've always picked my dad over my mom in any situation even when I was little. I say dad in quotations because my mom recently told me he is not my biological father he was just there for my mom through her pregnancy and up until I was about five. Then my mom left my dad and took me with her. I would love to live with my dad so much and i was just wondering if a court of law would grant him full custody of me if his name was on my birth certificate, even if we aren't blood. Please answer my question I'd love to know if he could win legally or if he cant.😔 |
Posted: 21 Jan 2018 04:55 PM PST He is an introvert who throws punches first and asks ZERO questions later. Living with his parents and holding no ambitions for the future, it enrages me that this psychopath is even able to step foot near my daughter, but my wife allows it so she can see her parents. She and I don t know what to do, but based on his actions I fear that he may one day do something evil to assert his perceived dominance over me. We have fought many times, because he punches me for showing up at the door. Yes, it is that easy for him to lay hands. |
Question: How to deal with my sister who is too sensitive and cant take any joke about her? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 04:38 PM PST |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2018 02:06 PM PST I have two mixed race sons, hispanic, irish, and black. Why people hate black girls so much? My daughter father is from West Africa. My first two children have a mixed race hispanic dad. |
Question: Don't know where i stand with sister in law? Posted: 21 Jan 2018 08:46 AM PST Ok when we go to Florida for a week vacation she seems to have a problem with me bc she does not want to sit by me at all when we eat out i mean she makes my mother in law move if she ends up in front or beside me . She wont re add me on Facebook over some silly joke i posted a long time ago ,but then at Christmas she buys me a 40 dollar pillow with my husbands face on it ? I am not sure what to think ??? |
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