I went away after HS and was able to get some distance. But the second I get closer and tell her some details about my life, she tries to push me and tell me what and how to do it, and it's like she's always checking my chore list. It's so overwhelming .Sometimes she calls 8 times in an hour while I'm in traffic and says I'm non responsive when I call her back an hour later. Does anyone else have a mom like this? Is this normal?

I'm 19 years old and I have two brothers in their 30s who live with us. I stay in the basement and brother #1 stays in the 1floor with my parents brother #2 stays upstairs with his family. I have always helped my mom in everything that I could and everyone tells her that. My #2 brother hardly pays rent he spends money on useless stuff my #1 brother treats my mom like sh*t you would be surprised of how he treats her The thing is my mom NEVER TELLS HIM ANYTHING! If I disagree on something or call her out on something she will right away throw a fit saying how she's tired of me, I'm not good for anything, how I'm useless and she doesn't like me and stuff that like two days ago she threw a whole fit how I was irresponsible because I forgot a pack of gum in her car when she dropped me off at school I forget small things like that & I told her why doesn't she tell my brothers things like how she tells me she simply said "because you didn't just forget a piece of gum you forgot a whole pack" I know the type of person that I am I know I'm responsible I'm hardworking I'm buying myself my own car something my brothers and sister didn't even do. I'm doing this to help out I have low self esteem &with the things my mom says makes me feel bad I try to tell her she says I'm over reacting and says imagine if I was her and flips the whole thing around. Am I being dramatic? I'm tired of helping her out and she doesn't appreciate she only sees the things I can't do am I being dramatic

Ever since I was about 9 I'm 14 now but I've never liked living with my family and we butt heads a lot and it's hard to do things well they've put me in a mental hospital and sent me to other places but no matter how much pills they shove down my throat I'm never happy and I'm known run away because I can't stand it living with my parents they've put me through to much and I'm trying to just better myself but like I said we always butt heads like I joined the wrestling team at my school just to make them happy and they're response is well final maybe you'll lose weight, and actually do something for once. I weigh 120 and I'm 5'3 which isn't bad for me and I do all house work I have to take care of my little sister do laundry clean cook and my mother doesn't have a job all she does is stay in bed my step father goes to school and some how brings in a little bit of money and I hate it here I can't escape I sit down for 5 minutes and I'm yelled at to get off my *** and do something I just want to leave and never come back I'm also a straight A student and I have no idea what they're problem is but because of them I'm ready to just quit and die I'm done I give up

She is a very fast and erratic driver too and talks on the phone to everyone or I've even seen her text.

So ive always hated my dad hes done so much **** to my mom sister and my moms side of the family including me . My mom get evicted because she couldnt pay rent every month because my dad wouldnt pay her . I think im depressed but i dont want help i just want to be with my mom and sister he won custody of me last year around the start of school and he wont let me see my mom or sister when they come to see me ive gone over a year and a half with out seeing them and i miss them is there anyway i could live with my mom Any way at all i would litterally do anything

Don't hit me with I invaded his privacy because I don't give a **** anyway I was looking through my dads search history and he had searched for single women "in Mexico" and I checked recently and he was searching for women in our area that are single. He had a ton of dating and hooking up sites opened and I don't know what to do..

There are some wierd things happening in my room it started yesterday. So in my closet theres like banging noises coming out it happened yesterday at 3:50pm for 10 minutes and it happened again at 3:50pm for 10 minutes I opened it and checked inside theres nothing. At all no rats nothing its tiny. And yesterday at 7:45pm the motien detector lights were on so then i heard the garage door bang I opened the window and checked there was nothing and it was really dark i couldnt even see anything. My parents dont believe me. The knocks were in 3 and then a pause.

We were adopted as infants from different birthmothers and presumably different birthfathers. We are best friends and when we grow up more (we are teens now) he wants to marry me. Should I accept as I think I want to? He is homosexual and I think I am to so it is legal now cause we live in America. I am 16 and he is 15. When we are older should we marry? Would there be anything wrong with it since we have different birthmothers?

My Mom says my Dad had an affair but they didn't say anything last night cause my younger sister was in the room. My Dad denies that and was mad my Mom told me. Christmas they were fighting and my Mom said my Dad makes her drink too much and she doesn't want to get alcoholism as it runs in her family. I am 15 and I am so sad today. I want to run away or just kill myself. My Mom took swipes at my father through the whole thing last night and what makes me so mad is they both seemed happy about divorcing. My Dad has been living somewhere else since November but I thought they'd get back together. My Mom always makes us avoid who she is mad at and gets mad when we are nice to people she is mad at like her sister who she hates. So now she is going to be mad when I see my Dad, I know her. Meanwhile my father might be having an affair, I don't know, and I likely will never know and always wonder. He denies everything but my Mom says he is a liar. My Dad's parents have never liked my Mom and my Mom's mother now dislikes my Dad. Will my grandparents dislike me? I know my Mom's mother dislikes her niece cause when her brother divorced the niece still loved her mother. But she loves her two nephews who avoid their mother. Whose side do I take? I know people will say not to take sides but then both sets of grandparents will dislike me. I am so scared my Mom will never let us see our Dad again. HELP, I just want to die, what do I do? PS---I am not going to commit suicide or anything, I just wish I could die. I know my life will be miserable forever. Dad won't fight in court for us as he never fights even though he lies. Mom will make us hate him.

My Mom robbed me of a relationship with my grandfather during my little kid years cause she was mad he was an alcoholic. I got close to him as a teen and remained close through his death when I was 24. My Mom was always mad at him. It was her father. She cut him down daily. Yet now her brother is an alcoholic the same way and she has only one time ever cut him down and she has compassion on him. He is a moody alcoholic just like our grandfather was. So why is one alcoholic okay but not the other? Why is my Mom okay going to holidays with her alcoholic brother but refused to go to any with her father? If alcoholism is the issue as she says and she is being protective of her kids then why the difference in reaction? She has grandkids who see this alcoholic brother of hers and she doesn't hold them back. So my question is what might be the reason for the difference in her reactions? Could she have just had a bias against her father? MARKING ANONYMOUS TO DISCUSS PRIVATE FAMILY STUFF. USUALLY DONT POST ANONYMOUS

I have anxiety disorders. I am an adult so him going to the therapist about it wouldn't work as that was tried back when I was in high school. His friend has stage 4 lung cancer and is going to die soon and he is very sympathetic with that friend. Yet, that friend was a chain smoker and brought it on himself. At the same time, he does NOT have sympathy on me when my condition is not at all self inflicted. I am anxious about everything and in therapy and a heck of a lot better then 10 years ago but when I pointed that out all my Dad said was "well I hope you get to where it is nonexistent". No credit for improvement. How do I get him to have compassion on me or otherwise how do I accept he does not and just have a distant relationship only? Merlin: Sorry, I probably worded that wrong. I just mean there is prevention for lung cancer. I certainly have sympathy on his friend who is dying also and was only using it in comparison in my Dad having sympathy on that, by no means do I think poor of the guy with lung cancer at all.

Because she doesn't want her period to end she's 43. I said your due for your period that's why you feel dizzy and she's like shhh....don't say anything. I'm like why and she wasn't saying anything I'm like why why why then she's like bevsuse you know she says periods make you relax and all. She's like afraid of her bad lucking her. When my mom gets ready she's like always I look pregnant god forbid I'm 18 I gave up everything to help her with my under sisters now I need some feedom I'm just wondering by the sound of if does it seem I'm just paranoid? My parents have sex with the door open right before my dad leaves for work I get so upset because at least shut the door. Then afterwards my mom would ask me to come sleep with her because she's scared and I get sick to think I'll sleep in the bed they just had sex but I go anyway to sleep bevsuse her father just died and she's very sad

that mom doesn't love my dad and she neglects me. my mom would rather go out to drink and do drugs, she spends my dads pay.she still isn't home.

For the past few years, I've had trouble with this. Even saying I love you is difficult because I just feel so awkward and vulnerable I guess. I didn't used to be like this at all, I'd pretty much type an essay telling someone they mean a lot to me at times and wouldn't feel awkward at all. I think it might be because of an old friendship I had? She was absolutely horrible towards me and it seems like ever since that friendship, I've had trouble telling people I care about them. And just recently, I've lost someone very close to me, which has made me realize I really need to tell people they mean a lot to me, like I wish I had done with my loved one. However, every time I try to tell someone this, I feel vulnerable and embarrassed sort of. This is just making me panic because I'm scared of losing them too, and that they'll never realize how much I cared about them. I don't know what to do to fix this issue, can someone please give me advice?

I took a quarter clonazepam Saturday afternoon follow by a tiny pill that has a natural relax flower, later on by 9 almost 10pm I took a half of clonazepam follow mych natural rimini drops that have some alcohol in it. Now my uncle 29 we have a sibling bond, he can be dirty at times playing around and on purposely go into my boobs but we think he's bisexual or gay. We had a sleepover my parents/grandmother & sisters were sleeping downstairs, I fell asleep upstairs in his bed. We did face mask, watch the Kardashian's and before all that baked. The sugar left me hyper I couldn't fall asleep until 5 in the morning. When I woke up I believe my uncle was walking or was already next to me standing and his slippers were by me and one was kinda under the bed I woke up right away and he look at me I don't know if he was dopey or he froze but he went to I think maybe he touched me all bevsuse I woke up with him next to me standing then after he went to the bathroom then came back to lay down like he was going to go back to sleep then he was up got a phone call for work and get back up and went back to the bathroom and was brushing his teeth and I got up feeling a little dizzy but I been like this for days. I'm a virgin if he did anything I would be hurting? I would've woke up? If he would of took my hand to make me touch him I would've of woken up? all I had was a lot of is discharged. I usually sleep with my arms under the pillow I can't remember if my one arm was laying on my side

I am a teenager. My dad has always touched my butt often, but I always assumed it was normal. Then a few weeks ago he hugged me and when he did he put his hand on my butt again and kinda grabbed it. Suddenly something hit me and I realized this is not good and I tried to pull away but he wouldn't let me. Once he finally did I quickly went into my room and my mind was racing. Since that day I have been noticing things more, like last week I was in the bathroom with the door locked while I was changing after my shower. He tried to open the door, and I said "I'm in here" and he 'didn't hear me' and somehow got the door to open and I quickly put the towel around me and yelled "I'm changing" and he said "I didn't know you were in here". He also just bursts into my room all the time. Once he came in just as I finished putting my top on and I said "please knock before you come in incase I am changing", but he still just bursts in. Yesterday I was laying in bed as I was feeling ill and he came in and rubbed my arm and started moving his hand underneath and PUT HIS HAND IN MY TOP AND TOUCHED MY BREAST, I pushed his hand away and he just walked out. Today he came in to wake me up because I slept in and he pulled my blanket down and said "how are you looking" and slowly started to pull my nighty up and I yelled at him to "get away from me" and he got angry and slapped me. I told my mother but she said I'm being silly. Is this sexual harassment? What should I do? I am very scared of him.

I just want to know would've I woken up if he took my hand to touch himself while standing next to me or do anything more? I took a half of tranquilizer around 9 almost 10 o clock, then also natural drops that have alcohol in them......before all that in the afternoon I took a quarter tranquilizer with natural pill that's made with a flower that relax you. I was up all night I couldn't sleep I had anxiety plus hyperness from having sugar and my period going to be due soon, I slept over my grandmothers and me and my uncle (that I grew up with and we believe is bi) I share the bed with him, we did face mask, watch Kardashian's then he fell asleep where I was up until 5 in the morning then I finally fell asleep, I woke up to him walking and was beside me I believe he was getting his slippers but in my crazy head I think maybe he touched me all bevsuse I woke up with him next to me standing then after he went to the bathroom then came back to lay down like he was going to go back to sleep then he was up got a phone call for work and get back up and went back to the bathroom and was brushing his teeth and I got up feeling a little dizzy but I been like this for days. I'm a virgin if he did anything I would be hurting? And I would've woke up? My sisters/parents/grandmother was sleeping downstairs, all I have is discharged.....I don't know why I'm feeling so paranoid I do always have a lot of negative thoughts so maybe it's just something trying to make me go crazy?

I don't want more siblings I already have 2 because I'm 15 and I don't want to be a loser because I will make fun of myself I don't want to have more siblings because I will hate my mom being pregnant and not me what can I do for she not to have more because i will hate myself even more because I will feel like a loser because I hate she being pregnant and not me Leanne she's 42 she's too old to have a baby She's too old now it's my turn to be pregnant not hers

We have no time together as a family because shes working full time. All the kids are home alone every after school. We're left to solve our own problems and deal with things as they are.I barely see my mom unless I stay up late or wake up early in the mornings.

My mother and father had me when they were in the late 40s and 50s respectively. I'm 17 years old now, and they are now 65 and 75. I ask myself "why did they wait that late to have kids? Do they even WANT to be in their kids lives?" I want nothing to do with them. They're too old and I'm too young. Personally, they're depressed over the prospect of never seeing their precious daughter again. But they should've thought about that when they choose to wait until premenopausal age to rear children. Why do people do that? Why do people wait until their 40s and 50s to have kids? I never want to see either one of them again. They can die together by themselves....

...you find out that a younger sibling has been sexting? Talking about topless pictures and whatnot To be clear they are still over 18.

First I agree with you about political correctness. You're the only one who seems to agree that no 12 year old needs a set bedtime because they're too old and will rebel anyways. Email me at lee.anita@mail.com or let me follow your activity on y!a. I'd like to be friends.

My 14yo twin sisters have been doing has stuff lately so my mom has been uber stressed and mad lately. One twin is suspended for beating a girl up, skipped class, bullied people, hung out with bad ppl, stuff like that. The other disrespects teachers and has been cut skipping and swearing at teachers. She is so far behind in school that may get held back. I'm a good kid, a good student, good grades, and always do my best to be responsible. Lately, my mom has chosen me to take her anger out on while she and my dad figure out what to do with the twins. I asked her to start some soup for me because I have bronchitis and told her that I would finish the rest. She snapped at me and asked me why i can't do anything for myself. I know she doesn't mean it, because she's never like this, but I want her to stop. My patience is running thin.

We broke up and when I tried going back to him he said he wouldn't forgive me and wouldn't ever allow himself to have feelings for me again. But he keeps looking at me when I go to church where he'a deacon and whatever he does he glances over and when I've caught him a couple times he's smiled and also said he when he walked past. Provided he was so offended and hurt it's weird that he acts like this. Its been 4 months. Could he be just looking out of simple curiosity and the fact I go to church thinking i'm going to see him? and not cause he's interested?

So about 6 months ago, my grandmother let the big secret slip- my father actually isn't my father. I'm 17 now, I was 16 about to turn 17 when I was first told, and I was a wreck man fr. I still am tbh... but anyway, I'm not here on some sob story ****, all I want to know is if there's any possible way to find out who the guy is. Thanks in advance.

Me and my dad do not really talk at all because my lifestyle isn't ideal for him as I like living life artistically and one day at a time, smoke a little herb sometimes and I have a great paying career and home. Anyways, his wife, my step mother messaged me on Facebook and I was assuming to talk about my dad entirely and then it got into how I was doing and black blah. We talked for a solid week and she ended up taking me to lunch which I thought would be about me getting good with my dad and that side of the family. Well, we went back to her house where my dad lives and we had sex. My dad was at work and after we finished I felt filthy, horrible and shameful. I hurried up and got dressed and left. Problem is I forgot my my boxers there, my stepmom said she hid them but my dad actually found them and put it together. He called me and tore me up, and now is not answering my calls or texts and my stepmom says that he left her house and has been gone for 48 hours. What can I do? Please please any advice, I know what I did was absolutely selfish and deceitful.

In high school i dated a gal all senior year. We graduated and broke up. we lasted a year and broke up mainly because of her actions being a tease. Immediately after the break up i hooked up with new girls. My ex was even more pissed. 3 years passed and i haven't gotten over her. I added her on social media and we began to talk/flirt. No bull i invited her out like 3-5 times and all times she played busy. I began to move on and began to talk/flirt with other women. My ex found out and got mad at the girls and me. Soon enough she un-followed me on social media (deleted me). I have tried texting her 10 times and all times she's ignored me. She also won't believe me i still got feelings for her. She keeps calling me walking bullcrap. Was i wrong to move on or should i have waited???? our break up was bad i think she's still hurt over what happened.....

So I asked her jokingly but she took it seriously and said "idk"... (when she says that she's usually means yes lol) I asked her "really?" And she said "your natural eye color is fine but idk" I don't know how to ask her again but in a serious way because she might brush it off but yea.. I'm willing to pay for it, they're usually $25-$70?

I am only allowed to go out if there is a event at my college or she comes with me other than that I'm not allowed to go. My mom is too overprotective. It's so many things I'm not allowed to do and it's ridiculous. When I tried to talk to her about it she wouldn't even give me a chance to talk because she thinks she's always right. It's nearly impossible to sneak out because I never know when she is spying on me at college and what's worse is that she's trying to get a job there. It's getting out of hand and I don't know what else to do.