He's a cashier I talk to sometimes at the store. I told him I was in massage therapy school. And he told me I could practice on him. I gave him my number and he called me a few months later. Which was a few weeks ago he said he wanted to come over. And that he was currently having issues and currently doing physical therapy. When he first asked me to hangout I told him I would think about it. And that I would call him back. A few days ago I called back (Wensday) asking if we could hangout this week on Thursday. He said he would call me two days ahead of time and let me know after he got the time he has to go be at physical therapy. He hasn't called and I can hardly take it anymore I want him. But I don't want to seem easy I did send him a facebook message asking if he wanted to be friends with benefits. But then I apologized I don't think he actually read the messages though. Should I just call and tell him I want sex?

Ok, I've been friends with two friends for over 15 years, half my life. Over time I became friends with their grandma. I've confided things to her, but nothing bad. For some reason, she seems to be very negative about my friendship, lately. She tell me that I am possessed with my friends and that I shouldn't be pursuing them. I text and visit my friends when we can. I'm not obsessed. I don't know why she has taken such a nasty turn. I've paid attention to my friends and I have seen nothing to hint they don't like me. They text and offer me a chance to come visit. Recently, they were in town, visiting their grandma. She didn't invite me. One friend text me and said they were at her house, as if they wanted me to visit. I didn't go. What should I do? Should I mention it to my friend? Should I cut off my friendship with the grandmother?

After a lot of thinking, I've decided to break it off between us. The problem is, I don't know how to. I also don't know what to do afterwards.

There is a store that I go to and over a year or so ago. My mom and I started talking to one of the male cashiers. He just asked us questions like what were we doing for the weekend etc. Just general conversation just being polite. So one day I told him I was going to Massage Therapy school. So he told me that if I needed anyone to practice on I could practice on him. So I said ok and gave him my number awhile went by and he never called. So it's been a couple of months two weeks ago he called me. Asking when could I practice Massage on him and that he's doing physical therapy. I told him that I am no longer in Massage Therapy school. Because I decided to change to something else. But I told him I may end up going back next year. So he asked me if I still remembered some of the things I learned I told him yes. So then he said he could come to my house and I could practice on him. I told him I lived with a roommate he doesn't have his own place but he said he will soon. So then he asks me if i want to hang out he said he likes bowling and I told him I would let him know and think about it. A week went by and I called him a few days ago telling him I wanted to hangout with him next week. And he said he would let me know after he plans the times he has to go to physical therapy.

Firstly, I'm 26 and my friend is 19, I met him at work and he's become one of my best friends. Every time I am around him though I feel something. I don't know what it is. I enjoy being with him and talking to him and hate it when we don't talk. I hope it's not love because, yes I'm bisexual but he isnt and I wish to see him as a friend. I do also see him as a sort of younger brother though. I don't know what to do and I don't like it

Uni flat of 6 girls. It is obvious our new flatmate is eating our food and using our cookery and we've witnessed it. I confronted her calmly and she denied everything but its still going on! I've seen her friends who don't live here use our stuff as well. What do I do now?

I have trauma from a previous burglary & feel very stressed it's affecting my health living here but she is angry that I'm only giving 1 month notice WHO IS IN THE WRONG she said I'm inconveniencing her despite living here 6months & not signing a contract because I didn't want to commit

We text a lot on snapchat but she usually takes a few hours to replie (which I'm ok with, I know she has a life and all) and whenever she does replie, she seems perfectly engaged in the conversation. Is just that I always see her snapchat score go up, while leaving my snap unopened. I get it maybe sometimes your busy or don't feel like talking but she is doing this almost everyday and It's obvious she is talking to somebody but what could be a reason to ignore me?

if he does not want to talk to me or even to be my friend why does he even watch my snapchat story?I mean he does not have to watch them and my snapchat is just... quotes i find btw this person is my ex.

Don't get me wrong, I don't spend all of my time alone. I have a boyfriend that I usually see two or three times a week as he works away most of the week and I live with eight of my friends. However, I really enjoy my own company. I go to uni three days of the week and I see my uni friends there and when I come home, I usually just want to do my own thing, especially since I always feel so tired. I'll hear my friends in the kitchen laughing and chatting but I just want to be in my room watching a film or doing work in peace. I prefer going to the gym on my own and shopping on my own and generally just being an independent person. I like my friends but they can be a bit exhausting and I sometimes find myself sitting with them but wanting to leave without seeming rude. For example, I'll happily spend an hour or two a day with people but after that, I need my own time. I'll spend more time with my boyfriend than my friends and I feel comfortable and happy in his company, I feel like this is because he is more relaxed and chilled and isn't jumping around laughing and screaming like my friends are sometimes. Maybe this is why I prefer his company. Do you think I have a problem?

I want to stop liking him and I know he is attached, we are living under one roof ( roommates) and I always hear him talk to a female Friend every night, can't help feeling jealous so I want to forget him and stop liking him, I even wrote down 30 reasons not to tell him but I can't whenever I see him or he say hi to me, why can't he just avoid me or ignore me?! This way, u can slowly forget him, I think?! Please help me, everyone is telling me I can control my behaviour but not feelings , I felt so foolish liking him and he doesn't even know I like him

So I want to try out the college party scene, but there are two things that are stopping me: 1) The exclusivity- there are no frats at my school, so the parties here are usually fairly exclusive and you need to know someone to get in (or barely wear anything, which I'm not really willing to do especially in winter). I have a few upperclassmen friends but none of them throw parties, and none of my friends have solid plugs either. 2) My friends don't want to- this is probably the biggest issue. If I had friends who wanted to party, we could figure out a way in. I guess the simplest solution would be "make new friends" but that's easier said than done. It's not a confidence issue, they just don't like parties and they're not even willing to go to one. So, how do I overcome these obstacles and get me and my friends to a party? I came here for advice, not to have people tell me things I already know. If you have some concrete advice or tips to give me, I would appreciate that very much. If you just tell me "make new friends" or "just do it" that's not very helpful...

My roommate (girl - I ll call her M) had been dating a guy for about 2 months now and he s all but living in our apartment. I m not really okay with it but I was letting it go because my boyfriend (of 2 years) comes over a lot too. That being said, her bf (lets call him T) showers here, takes up refrigerator and pantry space, and sleeps here every night. My boyfriend sleeps here maybe twice a week and NEVER showers here. I was still letting it go because I didn t want to create drama in the apartment. This morning, while I was getting ready for class, I heard M leave at 8 to go to her first class. I assumed she took T with her... At about 12:30, I heard someone get in the shower. T had been here the entire morning and would be here by himself (I have to go to class too) until 5 PM. I was already unhappy that he was PRACTICALLY living here but now it s like he has moved in. How do I tell her I m uncomfortable with it but not make her mad? Am I being completely unreasonable to not want him in my home when she s not there?? Thanks for all advice!

A few of the cheerleaders did today and they also laugh at me for eating during lunch time while they just sit there with their chips and tea texting on their iPhones. I am in the color guard and get bullied for having big boobs (the cheerleaders constantly call me unaboob) and I am mistreated by even some teachers. I am a nice girl who wants to get along with everyone. My parents are still together and I am 15. Everyone in band is nice to me but I want other friend too. How can I be cool?

At work I get a break every hour but now I want to quit smoking and I don't want to sit in the break room because I don't like the other people I work with so would it be weird to sit in the locker room instead of going to the smoking balcony and use my phone?

I am not super ugly or ugly and she is not better than me Why she enjoys to destroy my self esteem?

I am a male and I never had any female friends only males. Is that weird? Yes i am straight but i never had the chance to make a female friend. that are outside your gender*

Edit I am finding a girlfriend for my male friends he need someone is patience,forgetful,kind hearted and NOT blunt he need someone who is more sensitive to others 1 Female she is devotional, she is undemanding , helpful kind she feel happy for others she has chamelon quality is NOT a performance to caculated to please she can't understand rough ,cruel , brutish behaviour she is sensitive and wish to be notice She response sensitive . and interperting aggresive souls She is loing,affectionate and loyal need so much intamacy unable to let loves one go because she is kind ,NOT aggressive she is blunt but NOT that blunt she is NOT pushy . come across as peace lloving,gentle,dreamy ,artistic ,naive , easily take advantage ,adaptable,sensitive,sympatheti c.emotional easily confused others , 2 Female She is likely to take care of pets ,elderly ,slbbing etc . she has no real sense of seperateness . she is resilence she can't understand rough ,cruel behaviour , she would do anything for love one she is forgiving ,self sacrifcing , she recoil from selfishness . & she is graceful,sympathetic ,delicate,empathetic , easily influence, ,naive ,defenless and she is easily frighten too ,

It's me and my best female friend, we had been amazing friends for years, until two years back I became extremely depressed to the degree I have not been able to talk for two years! And stayed away and scared from everyone even her! Few months back I came back to her and apologized and she accepted it and said that she understands that I had been through a rough time. But recently she started to ignore me and my texts, she kept in saying that she is busy, but it is not clear if she's just really busy or just ignoring me! What do you think I should do? I really wanna keep her! Thank you in advance :)

I sent a snap of a hot girl to my friend but i wasn't aware that his wife had access to his account so she saw it and she sent me a message about what had happened and i apologize to her but she left me on seen, she is also my friend and i don't want to lose her friendship what can I do?

I was talking to some friends I don t remember how the conversation got started but I said some people think I am weird and don t want to hangout with me. And one of my guy friends said that is why like you because you are weird I am being serious is this good or bad?

If your female friend who you have a bond with, sees you and waves hello to you, but doesn't come talk to you the entire time you're in the same room as each other, what would you think? Say it was a crowded room, but you two were physically close enough the whole time, to wave goodbye and she didn't.

so I'm pretty sure I have a fake friend... I have this friend named Kate (not her real name lmao). Last year Kate was new to school, and I basically let her into my group of friends. Now, fast forward a year later I become friends with another girl named Brittney. Brittney is also friends with Kate. After becoming close with Brittney, she tells me that Mate has been talking beside my back this entire time she was my friend. Kate has also been ignoring me, she gives me rude glares all the time, and whispers stuff to other people when I'm around b/c she doesn't want me hearing their conversation. So, my question is... How do you get rid of a fake friend?

I keep noticing people in my friend circles saying things like "that test made me so triggered" or "they were so triggered when I said..." and I know it's harmful and I want to let them know, but I don't really know how to go about informing them. I don't want like a dramatic shift in the conversation or anything! I just wanna inform them that it isn't cool. Any tips?