5"7, 150 pounds. -Has multiple blood clot disorders -Barely eats, eats a lot of small, weird snacks -Doesn't exercise at all -Drinks whiskey heavily -Diagnosed with PTSD -Takes edibles biweekly to get high -Takes LSD monthly -Takes shrooms monthly -Takes opioids monthly -Does DMT occasionally -Has had sex with 18 people -Has unprotected sex with boyfriend all the time even though she's on no form of birth control

My sister and I live together in an apartment and she is 6 months pregnant. I'm 21 and she's 19. The sperm donor is not going to be involved and I am stepping up as auntie to co-parent with her until she gets on her own two feet. I love my sister more than she knows, but I'm scared of raising the baby. My sister and I both have ample experience in the childcare field and have plenty of support from our family. But The support is from a distance. My sister and I don't have any family close to us. So it feels like it is us against the world. I'm excited to become a "parent" and terrified. Is this normal? I know the situation itself isn't normal, but is it normal to be feeling sick to my stomach terrified to become a parent? By "sperm donor" i mean the 'father' he's just not going to be involved.

So my sister in law is a high school freshmen so she's still young. However, she is the definition of a spoiled brat defined by the schools she has gone to. She does whatever she wants regardless of her parents directions. She gets a nose ring against her father's wishes and she spends years taking selfies and making inappropriate poses for her age. And now she's skipping school and she's working a part time job and working during school hours. I can go on and on and on. It becomes obvious she has desperate personalities because when's she's with us for a brief moment she acts normal and then hides herself in a room. Even if the house isn't here. And then when she's out with others she becomes an entirely different obnoxious ghetto brat. Her parents don't know how to fix the mistakes they made and want help from other parents who may have faced similar circumstances with their kids. Please any insight!

I made arrangements for me and my son to visit my mother. My mother decided to invite my sister, however, there have been many occasions where I don't get invited. It was important that I had to look for my will. I was getting over a cold and wanted to take precautions not to give to any one so I told my mother and my sister not to kiss the. My sister blurts out why did you come down and made me feel uncomfortable, so I said why did you come down? she got offended and did not stay for desert. This was an arrangement I had mad with my mother and feel like my sister is very controlling of my mother and the family. My mother even said when my sister left that my sister makes her dizzy sometimes. There are many occasions where I don't get invited to my mothers or out to eat with them. I don't want to mad at my sister but what to do?

I'm really at a loss what to do with my father he's never really been there from my mom, he is always been physically and mentally abusive. My mom just passed away due to cancer. 1. First he lied to me about the time at the funeral parlor and when I confronted him about it he said it was none of my business what happened with the funeral because I am her child and he is her husband so he owns her and if I didn't like it I didn't have to go. 2. My mom ask me and told me several times as soon as she passed she wanted me to have a certain item, I asked him about the item and he said yeah I know your mom wanted you to have it so I locked it up you're not getting anything. I know it's his wife but it's my mom and I'm really lost on what to do or if there's anything I can

My Mom committed suicide so I still have the effects of it and her family refuses to have a relationship with us which hurts me a lot.

She was 11 when our father died and I was 32 so I have helped her out. However, now I am 61 and she is 40 and coming to me for a face lift. I am rich but do not wish to help her but also don't want to fall out with her. What do I do?

I know all siblings fight, but my little sister especially makes me feel inferior. She always finds things to make me uncomfortable and upset. I have OCD, so she does things that trigger it. Every time I'm upset she uses that to make herself feel powerful, and make me feel worse. And when I ignore it, she goes and tells everyone I'm mad for no reason I'm always doing favors for her, but she wouldn't give me a penny if I was on the streets She even tells her friends bad stuff about me and every time they see me they laugh or look at me weird. Even at the dinner table she makes me the joke, and I can't say anything unless I want her to laugh at me Yes, I have stood up for myself and it has never been effective. I told her how I felt, she laughed I punched her back harder, she tackled me and elbowed me in the jaw and I got a bruise Everything I do is worthless. I feel so awful that I just want to get out of this house and move far away from her

He needs his mum for everything from doing his hair to tucking him in. She even needs to pour the dressing on his salad. Is this normal for a 15 year old? Mum also enjoys caring for him saying he's the baby of the family. I'm 3 years older and I've been doing mostly everything by myself since I was little. Maybe it's because he's the youngest? I'm just concerned because he's in high school now and all that. Thanks

He is my dad and I live with him so I can't actually turn him in but I want him to get his karma. I am a 62 year old female and he still rapes me

Most adults know it's evil to sell a 15 year old child for sex, let alone force small children to work. Just ONE exploiter can have hundreds of victims. So if there's 10 of them in total there'd be a lot of victims but very few horrible people doing it. I think more of us have an instinct to protect our minors rather than exploit them.

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The doctor confirmed that my daughter shows all symptoms of anorexia. I put her in therapy and started encouraging self love. My daughter's birth mom had anorexia before I adopted her. I'm searching for programs, but they're only for TEENAGE girls with eating disorders. Not 9 year olds. All the resources are mostly for middle and high schoolers as well, not very appropriate for her age.

My fiance and I are to be married this year and everyone but his dad and step mom like me. He has been staying with his dad until they left to go on a 3 month vacation and now has been living with me. We are in the process of getting our own place within the next 2 weeks. His dad came back tonight and my fiance has been wearing a promise ring to symbolize our union together well his dad MADE him put it on the other hand. How do I handle this. Its his family and im trying not to get in the middle even though this is now about US . His dads problem with me is I was legally separated from my ex husband when my fiance and I got together and his dad didnt like that... so now I dont think they will ever accept me and that is THEIR problem mine is just trying to protect my fiance and keep them off him and maybe try to understand why some people are the way they are.. I mean we are happy is that not important anymore??

I literally tried EVERYTHING to get in this lady's good side but she continues not to like me. I have two kids with my husband and she's always making rude comments when my husband is not around I tell him and he tells me to ignore them but it just gets on my nerves how I try so hard for this lady to like me for the last 4 years and she still dislikes me what should I do ? I really can't avoid her since she takes care of my daughter while I'm working

My mom was born in 1978 and I hate it because I feel like anyone born in the 70s and before are old people. My best friends mom was born in 1984 and that makes me jealous because her mom is so young and my mom is an old person born in the 70s. I obsess over this all day. Do you think my mom is old? She is 39, going to be 40 on April 9th and that bothers me!!! I am only 14 and my mom is 39 going on 40. It's so embarrassing. That's not normal.

My Dad is 72 and the woman he is marrying is 34 and already divorced once and widowed once. I feel she is a gold digger. I am embarrassed my Dad has been married to 10 people with 11 marriages (one woman he married marriages 2 and 4). I am going to the wedding as they are having the whole thing and I want to be on good terms with the future step-mother as she will decide who gets my Dad's estate if they are married when he dies (big if). I feel though that she is a gold digger. Her first husband was 59 when he married him and she was 19. He died four years later. Second marriage was normal ages and ended in divorce I am told. She has no kids but my Dad has 12 kids and only really knows four of them including me and my brother. So how do I explain to people my Dad who ask "he is getting married again" or "oh you must be so excited". I am not excited but feel a compulsion to go and be supportive as I fear if not the wife will cut me from the estate. Some of my Dad's other kids I am sure won't get anything as he doesn't know them. Six of his kids were conceived in marriage and seven have mothers he was married to (one was born before the couple married and that is me). My Mom does not have a perfect record either as she has been married five times, four in my life. So how do i explain this to people who ask is my question? Wedding is Saturday afternoon.

At Christmas she acted like it was a drug addict or something and wouldn't come over at dinner and even said "I am uncomfortable with him there and you all should have made them stay somewhere else". This sister is 22 so she is not a kid but rather an adult who is ignorant. How do I educate this sister since I am the only other female sibling so she is not this ignorant and unfair as I am sure it hurt my brother and his wife (the parents of the autistic nephew)? All the nephew does different is he doesn't socialize much and he says things that don't make sense like a little kid would. He also took random photos one time (I've done that). Any thoughts?

I tutored her when she was in sixth and seventh grade in math, science, and English. Our parents make no effort to help, they just expect us to do it on our own. I haven't tutored her this year, and she did super in the first quarter, second quarter she fell WAY behind in math and science. It's trouble understanding the material, not missing assignments. I know because she let me check her grades. My parents punished her for it and brought her to tears telling her she was lazy and that school is her job and she did poorly. It's like they don't even care. I keep trying to tell them that she just needs some extra help and they said that won't do sh*t. It's f*cking ridiculous.

He's never been in my life much. I will reach out once a month and hear back once a year and he sees me about once every 3 years. His wife is uncomfortable, I am told 3rd hand, with him having a child from a previous marriage. I have only met her once. They have 3 kids and his Facebook photos he looks like the most wonderful Dad to them. I have never met his 3 kids. It hurts me so much that I'm not good enough for him when these other 3 kids are. I try all sorts of birthday and Christmas gifts for him to impress him but all I get is a formal thank you note from the wife who refuses any visits from me. I live only 2 hours away. The worst part is he didn't even contact me when my grandfather, his father, died and so I missed the funeral. I had met the grandfather a handful of times so felt I should have gone and afterward I friended an aunt on Facebook whose met me and saw photos of all the family at the funeral reception but me. I felt horrible and feel my reputation in Dad's family will be forever stained by not attending my grandfather's funeral. On top of this I resent my Mom cause she's gleeful that my Dad rejects me cause it escalates her evidence of him as bad guy. She's remarried with kids with my step-Dad but still hates my Dad (is rightfully angry at him). I feel very guilty for being close to my step-father and his family but not my own Dad. I know my step-cousins but only met my real cousins once. So my question is how do I get my Dad to want me in his life? This hurts the most at Christmas Time and the Holidays. This past Christmas I even had suicide thoughts over it as my Mom was angry I care. I am 16 and a boy. Here in ordinary time I don't care as much as at Christmas or birthdays or I really hate Fathers Day.

I feel like this is incredibly cliche, but the cliche hasn't affected me until recently and I just don't know how to deal with the frustration. I've recently developed an interest in fashion and I'm thinking about pursuing it. Whenever I bring it up to my mom, she gets this hostile mood towards me because she doesn't want me to go into it. She doesn't understand the art that is fashion. I asked her if I can take some fashion courses in the nearby city and she said no, even though I offered to pay for them. Note that I am only 17 and can only grow in my passion and experience. Since I'm unsure though if I want to pursue fashion, I thought the classes would be a good idea. But again, she said no. I don't know what to do or know how to deal with this.

My sister used to hate me when she met me she never really wanted to be my sister for about two months. She finally started to open up to me slowly but i had realized that i have changed and that´s why she started to open up to me. I changed into someone she wanted me to change in too. My sister had started to realize that since i have become close to leaving she had suddenly began to hate me again. I love my sister with all my heart but it seems like everything i do is not right. She doesn't realize how guilty i already feel doing the things i do. I try to fix myself to become a better person and to set the right examples for her. I obviously do not seem to be doing such a good job at doing that. My sister is starting to hate me because i am turning back into the person that i was when she first met me. I on the other hand feel that i know it is wrong for me to do what i´m doing but its what all i grew up to know. Like i had said already i love my little sister and she is only thirteen years old but i wish that i would not be as scared as i am to talk to her about why i do the things i do. I do not want her to hate me i just want her to understand me but i am scared to tell her because i am scared she will judge me so i just let her hate me. What can i do truly that can really help to where she will understand what i am actually doing with myself? Because it only seems that she sees things differently based on information others give her and she never asks me personally.

Is it better to fake to like one another like my Mom and aunt do or is it better to literally never speak again like my other two aunts do? The aunt in reference is narcissistic and only thinks of herself but my mother feels obligated to be nice cause she fears her mother terribly and doesn't want to displease her (their father died long ago). Meanwhile the aunt I am close to does not speak to the narcissistic aunt and vice versus and I don't think ever will again other then maybe funerals. I am not close to narcissistic aunt but like my mom civil when I see her. The only uncle already died but he was distant from everyone (had drug and alcohol problems). His three surviving kids don't speak to any of us cause of their mother's hatred of us. So in these scenerios of who speaks to who is it better to not speak or to dislike but act polite? Which is worse? I have 3 siblings and I like two but not the sister so I am wondering myself.

Since she was a toddler, all she wanted is a sibling. She's matured and doesn't say it anymore, but she still admits to disliking being an only child. My daughter used to be so jealous when she saw families with a larger number of kids. We didn't plan on having more kids because we didn't have the time. One child seemed to be enough to raise.

My daughter is 15 and considers a 13 year old as her little sister. When she was around 12, her 18 year old best friend was her "sister". I'm worried because she had a fall out with the older girl and she was extremely devastated back then. I realized she was cutting for two weeks in 7th grade because of it. The older girl was apparently angry with her for a while, but the age difference could've drifted them apart too. My daughter was fiercely loyal to the 18 year old and it took her a year to get over that friendship. She is MUCH more mature, past that hormonal stage, and is so much more stable now.