Me, my husband and our daughters went to the mall, this guy who was 20 or 21 came up to our 17 year old daughter to chat her up then asked for her number. My husband went up to him, asked him who the hell he was and the guy introduced himself and when he told my husband how old he was; my husband about popped a vein said GET THE F--K OUT OF HERE then they guy tried to say he was sorry and that he didn't know she was only 17 while walking away then my husband started punching him which seemed to really frighten the guy. After probably the 3rd or 4th punch, that guy punched my husband sending him to the floor suffering, this guy had an athletic build and looked like he lifts weight and my husband is pretty average body type. Police came, the guy agreed to press assault and/or battery charges, we all got kicked out of the mall and they drove away with my husband in the back of a police car. Is my husband the only one who will get in trouble for starting this or is there anything we could do about that guy nearly injuring my husband? And could this cost my husband his job? Seriously this guy about knocked my husband out and my husband only gave him a black eye with a cut or 2 on his face.

A while back I had got married to a gentleman whom lived out of country.. Turns out he did not love me. Though I am still married to them they fled back home to Norway, I am uncertain of how to get this marriage removed or what the steps would even be as I am out of state, Currently residing in Alabama. The marriage happened in California.

shes going through divorce etc and her kid/cousin as well living with were in total 6 people if you add them two. I don't like her being around cause well I find it awkward to go eat/etc. she has nowhere else to go and she can't afford stay anywhere else. she doesn't even have enough for the lawyer that my uncles/aunt have to donate her money to pay for it shes going through divorce etc and her kid/cousin as well living with were in total 6 people if you add them two. I don't like her being around cause well I find it awkward to go eat/etc. she has nowhere else to go and she can't afford stay anywhere else. she doesn't even have enough for the lawyer that my uncles/aunt have to donate her money to pay for it. I don't seem like her cause all she does is complain/boss people and only thinks her way. most uneducated people who get married young

My husband and i are living with his brother and his wife. ( temporary situation... we've recently moved all together to a new country and splitting the rent). So the brother and his wife are acting very strange sometimes not saying hi to me and most of the times the brother is plain out rude to me. I dont say anything because i believe its not worth it as its nothing major and i dont want to cause a scene since they're family and this situation is temporary. One night my husband and i were talking in our bedroom ( it was like 1:00 am at night) and i basically blurrted out my frusteration about them and said some not nice things about them. I had no idea that the brother's wife would be eavesdropping behind our door that late at night. Anyways so she storms in amd screams, " you ******* b**** say sorry right now". I was dumbfounded.... i am in bed with my husband and have every right to talk to him about anything i want behind closed doors. Am i not right in this situation?

I'm going to school for a 2 year program but my hubby is in the navy and he wants me to move with him the program isn't available online should I quit school and move in with him and work about it later or do it now btw I'm 20

Not saying I want to get married right now but I would love to know if I'm with someone who would eventually want to be committed. Weve been in a steady relationship for 2 years and this has never been brought up. His parents are divorced and nine were never married so I can understand why it's hard for both of us to bring this up. He's told me he doesn't want to get married in the beginning and I agreed. I've since changed my mind. I want his last name, children (eventually) and to share our lives together as one. But for now a simple talk about it to please me until we're older will do. I'm 19 he's 22 so trust me I know I'm too young. I just don't want to waste my time you know? He's given me little hint here once in a blue moon that kinda makes be believe he'd want to eventually get married but nothing clear. I have no idea how to beat around the bush with this one. Also his mother is totally against us getting married in not sure why but one time she said she'd kill us if we got married any time soon. Weird? They're so close and he's the biggest mamas boy idk. Help?

Wife said she cheated during a argument then she took it back, wife said it again years later then she took it back. Wife said it again during a argument and took it back. (I have other proof that she cheated btw) So i got feed up and just started treating her like a damn cheater, if you want to seem like a cheater so bad then i will treat you like a cheater. We are slowly headed towards divorce, its just a matter of who gives in at this point and i dont know if i care to stop it. Small part of me wants to stop and treat her better. She claims/swears she didnt cheat and she wants to change the way she/we handle disagreements. She says she knows she's been a crappy person, wife, etc and she doesnt want to keep living that way

Long story but her husband told me one night after babysitting that his wife liked my tongue ring and was curious about it. She was there when he said it. He said she was shy about it and when she left the room, but said I could say No and we would forget he asked. He asked if I was following and I said yes. He left for a few minutes and then came back to say she was waiting in the bedroom with cash. I have to admit it was fun and felt dangerous but I feel guilty because my husband has no idea. Should I mention it?

Her. Has 1 job 9 hour day 8-5 unpaid lunch but guaranteed 1/2 hour. some ot. <30k yr 2 kids previous 1 on way. Pays electric. split groceries and shopping. Does laundry cooks, rarely cleans. She gets kids ready and cooks. Me. Has 1 job 10-11 hours a day. Paid lunch but only if available as I am salary. Lots OT some times 40+ days in a row, >60K yr Rental property =extra 10K year. 1 kid previous 1 together on way. I cut the grass, take trash out, fix the cars, pay for vacations, water cable, mortgage , internet, burn the burnable trash a few times a week, Fix the fallen down trees on the 2 acres of property, upkeep, remodel, the house repairs. Buy the new appliances as needed. In winter im the shoveler. Install the pools. etc. she says after work when I usually get home 4 she gets off 5. I should take extra hour of freedom as she says(She forgets she slept in til 630 while my alarm zinging at 445), That I should get the kids from daycare (a block from her work, 5 mi past way i come home) because she feel bad they in there extra hour when I could have them home, and I need start cooking dinner as well because kids hungry (they had breakfast lunch and snack im lucky if had one yet). I counter with how about 1 of 2 options. As some days I stay late ive worked 18 hour days. I said one I can do that once a week (We usually grill/eat out weekends) or if no home by 530 Ill get them and start something. I feel she unfair. She has mentioned before she wants be stay home mom.

My husbands brother has full on goverment assistance from hud housing (rent paid) to food stamps cash assistance, daycare ect. But does not work amd claims to be a stay home dad/mechanic he has 4 kids that he recently (like 2 years) has been taking care of Finally well he just got a new house thats pretty big and nice amd they have alot nicer things then we do as a family and its just me (his wife) & our 2 kids hes completly jealous because he works full time all day always and we have no money left over after taking care of all of our responsibilitys. I try to tell him to not be so upset & that we are doing things the correct way not them and to not be jealous of anything because everything they have is givin everything we have is worked hard for but he dosent think its very fair at all that he works so hard for nothing and they get a free ride basically ..can someone help me explain better to him the sitiuation and send some appriciation his way! Thanks everyon

So my wife works in real estate and it provides her with a really good income and lots of enjoyment. Take for instance these past two days, she signed a contract with a client that seen her earn $10,000! Now I work in a hospital and take calls all day long. I study nursing part time. Most of the time we are apart doing our own things. She is pregnant with our first child now but derives a lot of enjoyment out of her job. My problem is that I don't know how to be interesting anymore. Whenever we go somewhere together, we barely talk and for the past 6 years she has gotten most of her happiest moments outside the marriage. I've battled a lot of pain and confusion as to why we can't be happy and connect on that deeper level. I'm starting to wonder if we are a good match at all. We just don't share happy moments together and she is very content to spend her time laughing with colleagues. I'm really lost and hurting. She never sees it or understands if I get down! How can I turn it around? How can we have fun together again? How can we rebuild our connection and interest in each other? Deep down I hate how I'm quiet. But I can't change this part of me. It's just who I am! Quiet and more serious. Easy to get jealous of more outgoing personalities that have more meaningful and interesting connections with people. What's wrong with me? Some of you were asking about my self esteem etc. You're right that it has taken a battering. I've just noticed that my quietness doesn't engage her and she acts bored and disinterested around me. We just don't relate to each other or share laughs together anymore. I'll try to find something we can do but I'm really out of ideas! She is that busy working with such little time for me that I don't trust we can find anything in common anymore. We go to dinner occasionally and at home I look after her by getting her food and drinks if she wants. I still get talked down at on occasion and I will have a go at her about it. There's commitment to me in the form of affection but we don't speak much and don't laugh together. When I try to talk about anything, I get her acting bored or disinterested. I never make holes because we spend such little time together! We see each other for an hour or so before sleep. That's about it.

So I'm in a running club and certain members are dropping out due to the running takes too much time away from the spouse. We run weekend morning and are done by 10:00 AM and one weeknight every week. Would you give up a hobby or an interest if your spouse complained- be honest.

I am just wondering if a man is capable of loving his wife? My husband has never loved me at all. Our marriage has been a lie from the beginning as he was a cheating man and I find out he is still a cheating man where he takes his ho's to Mr. Peeps or fansty to have dirty sex in a small dark room. If he wanted an open one sided marriage do you think he should have been man enough to say so? Why lie or cheat or become out of control when I catch you in a lie? Men are really little boys in a grownup body.

My husband left me for another lover and I am dying inside I don't know what to do without him. I love him so much and I can't live without him. For two long w he has been trying to get me to have sex with other men while he has sex with other people and raise our girls together and I refused so he slapped me in the face and told me to get out. What did I do so wrong? He's been cheating on me for 10 years now and he blames me for not being good enough for him. Should I find a real man who would love me only?! I know my husband will never be happy with just one person. When I leave who will be there for him in the end of his life? He will die alone with no one there holding his hand as I am his 3 wife. He is a user and cold hearted but I still in love with him. Idk what to do. Help please.

I worked full time, school full time, raising 4 kids and my husband had no job. I just realize men get bored w/ his wife. I thought, I made him happy. We had some dry spells With no sex with kids involved and my husband told me that his b/p pills caused him to not get it up and keep it up and I would try everything and times I gave up on trying b/c why work myself up when he couldn't perform left me feeling very sexual frustrated. Sex would be over before I even got undressed he was already done. This went on for many years and it's still going on. Now he takes something to help him but I found out he has been cheating on me and he is of course lying. I even heard him tell the person he loved her or him? We have kids together and I feel as he doesn't want me here and wants me to move away from my kids and never come back. After everything we've been through as I helped him when his child passed away I was there not the hi he doing it was me. We just had our wedding anniversary the other day and he forgot all about it but he didn't forget to **** his girl on that day at Mr.peeps too. How sweet right? Then he lies and yells at me and hits me in the face and tells me how much he hates me and I am fat, ugly. I wear a size 2 and I am not ugly as I've been hit in a lot as I turn them down. My husband is trying to get me to have sex with other men as I find that hard to take in afterall he was a very jealous man. What should I do? As he wants me out! All I want is to be with him.

So yesterday I got a message on Facebook telling me that my husband is having an affair. He gave me the name and number of the woman and told me they have been together over the last few weeks. The place of affair is over an hour from home and I know he has been there on these dates I was told as he was apparently seeing friends there. I have confirmed he has contact with her and that the number is in fact hers. They both deny it of course. Problem is, I can t stop thinking about it. The person who messaged me does not know me but has managed to track me down to tell me. Giving me details that are worryingly correct. But I have no actual proof other than this. I don t know what to do, I have been working away from home over the last month or so and we have been having issues for the last 6 months. Any advise would be greateful.

And I found my topless husband sleeping with my best friend wearing only a bra on our bed. I asked them what happened but she said "it's not what it looks like" and then she immediately left... Is it possible that nothing actually happened between them and that she just happened to sleep in our bed???

Women are really strange, they act strange and have a strange thinking! She keeps talking with her husband like there is nothing, she lives her life without love, without sex, when she needs you, she always calls you but whenever you mention about why don't you get a divorce, she says i will i will and run away, she ain't making new relationships, like getting a boyfriend or even thinking about getting married again, she ever wears a ring on her right finger to make guys think that she's taken...now what the hell is happening? it's like she left you, you can't be with anyone and she doesn't wants to be with anyone too and refuses to come back home...have you ever experienced such thing?

This woman I work with who's married and has kids. A few days ago she invited me over to her place when she overheard me talking about a big football game that I (and many other people) want to see but I don't have the channel. She immediately said I could come over after our shift and see it at her house. She told me to wait until she arrived first though so her husband wouldn't get mad. I then jokingly said "ehh I don't want her husband thinking something's up" to anconworker next to us and the woman didn't say anything. Why do you think she invited me over? Is the thought of her wanting me to come over emotionally cheating? She seems to flirt with me a lot but she's weird. She'll be super nice to me one moment and then rude and b-itchy(excuse my language) the next moment. And she'll purposely do it. If I ignore her when she acts this way, she gets upset and ignores me back too. What's her deal? We work at the mall.

She emailed him saying she was in a restaurant that reminded her of him, I saw the email she sent. Should she be confronted about this? I would like to hear some women's opinions on this, the jump all over questions about men cheating but are silent as h'e'll about questions with women possibly cheating

My husband has a good job with good benefits, sometimes he asks me to did a massage for his body which is normal! But recently he asked me couple of times to focus on his butt, furthermore, sometime when I am tired he said just massage my butt! my friend said he is not straight! Guys! Do you like to get massage on yours? and that is just fine? what do you think please HELP ME

Hi My husband is so nice guy! I love him a lot, but there is a strange request he is keeping asking me. I thought it was normal but when I shared it with my friend, she let me think a lot about it. My husband has a good job with good benefits, sometimes he asks me to did a massage for his body which is normal! But he is asking a lot to focus on his butt, furthermore, sometime when I am tired he said just massage my butt! my friend said he is not straight! Guys! Do you like to get massage on yours? and that is just fine? what do you think please HELP ME