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- Question: Can someone tell me my hairtype?
- Question: Are there any apps that'll go to someone's house for me to pick up something I need?
- Question: What would happen if white people demanded free school? And white only schools?
- Question: Making friends freshman year college?
- Question: This really popular girl hates me for no reason?
- Question: People are being mean to me and i don't know how to just ignore it or let it go.?
- Question: Kicked Out, where do I start?
- Question: Saucy minx is truly a rape victim bully which needs to have his/her account suspended indefinitely, immediately...?
- Question: All them silly hillbillies where u at?
- Question: Would most women be fine with viewing their male friend pleasuring himself if he asked them to watch?
- Question: What do you think that today: September 2, is my birthday?
- Question: What are some fun easy ideas on a 2 person Christmas Eve/Morning themed sleepover? Read details before answering.?
- Question: Was I In The Wrong Here?
- Question: Help me stop fake friends!! I am 13 years old.?
- Question: A guy with this facebook profile pic sends me messages.What kind of person is he?He also mentions about black sabbath.?
- Question: How to deal with school in my situation?
- Question: How i can find and be friend with antisocial people(who dont have friends) in real life ?
- Question: How can I stop bullying from my friends?
- Question: What to do when you're doing something with a friend that you don't want to do?
- Question: 20 soon to be 21 with an extreme lack of exposure?
- Question: Why are some people so bad?
- Question: Is it wrong to ask a friend to bring extra money for snacks? Is my friend being cheap (please read)?
- Question: I'm a Pisces and I got angry/upset with my friends What should I Do?
- Question: Why do people make me feel this way ?
- Question: I Feel Like a Fool...?
- Question: I didn't respond?
- Question: I hate the way i look? Is there anything I can do?
- Question: Did she lie to me?!?
- Question: What should I do, if anything?
- Question: How can I get a rival?
- Question: Why do my best friends choose to leave me out?
- Question: Why am I always target to girls?
- Question: How to do something when your sick?
- Question: Why do people leave me for talking too much !?
- Question: If your best friend stopped communicating with you what should you do?
- Question: My friend overdosed on 21 tablets of seroquel XR and then drank hand sanitizer!?
- Question: Why doesn't my old friend miss me?
- Question: What kind of person does my former friend sound like to you all?
- Question: Should I kill myself?
- Question: Just tired and done?
- Question: Feeling guilty about telling people something....?
- Question: What should i do with my friend groups!?
- Question: Is this normal or is my friend bit too old to still be getting blackout drunk?
- Question: Is This Pretty messed up what my "Friend" Did?
- Question: Would it be appropriate to ask a female co-worker out on a date?
- Question: This girl I texted to ask to hang out apologized for not answering my text, should I give her another chance?
- Question: What is this guys problem?
- Question: My friend is the complete opposite of me politically. How can I continue being her friend without being upset by her comments?
- Question: Miserable at community college while high school friends have fun at universities?
- Question: Is it weird that we are so close ?
- Question: Tell me what are the impressions you look for in making a good friend?
- Question: How would you react to a disagreeable opinion from a longtime friend?
- Question: Bad at making and keeping friends in college. Advice?
- Question: My best friend doesnt care about me?
- Question: Is this weird?
- Question: Is it ok that I have a crush on my best friends brothers best friend?
- Question: How do you meet people in college?
- Question: I was discriminated against?
- Question: Weird photo..?
- Question: Best friend is moving on?
| Question: Can someone tell me my hairtype? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 05:32 PM PDT I was told I was 3c by a friend and I believed her because the products I used worked for 3c hair then I got in a arguement with a another friend and she was telling me my hair was 4b because the curls are tight http://userimages-akm.imvu.com/userdata/12/93/11/85/userpics/Snap_VsqEjgPSH31686203382.jpg |
| Question: Are there any apps that'll go to someone's house for me to pick up something I need? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 05:25 PM PDT Like I need to know if there are any apps that'll have people willing to go anywhere to pick up something I need from a friends house as an example and get the thing I need for me. Something like uber eats except they don't get food for me they get what I need from a friends house. of course i'd pay |
| Question: What would happen if white people demanded free school? And white only schools? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 03:39 PM PDT Asking for a friend ;) |
| Question: Making friends freshman year college? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 03:39 PM PDT There's been a week and a half of school and my roommate has already made friends and gets invited to stuff. I still haven't and feel bad to tag along when you asks me if I want to come with them. Your opinion |
| Question: This really popular girl hates me for no reason? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 03:19 PM PDT This popular girl hates me in primary school she bullied me when she joined in year 4 I left in year 5 now we're in high school she moved to our form half way through yr7 she liked me at first I think then I found out she hates me and i don't know why but she hides it she had a party tonight all the popular ppl were there and some of my friends I'm in the middle and i don't know why how can I make her not hate me |
| Question: People are being mean to me and i don't know how to just ignore it or let it go.? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:53 PM PDT How do you stay strong when there's hate thrown at you? When people on the internet and in the real world are being rude and you want nothing to do with them, but they still don't stop when you ask. Please help me |
| Question: Kicked Out, where do I start? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:44 PM PDT I got kicked out because I didn't pay "my share" of the bills and I'm not going to college for something my father wants me to Anyway, I lost my car and I'm temporarily staying with my friend. I start my new job @ 13.5 an hr in a week so there's that too. Basically I feel lost and could use some advice... winter is coming and I'm gonna need a car and I can't stay with my friend because of emotional conflict with someone else there... advice? Share your story? |
| Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:39 PM PDT https://answers.yahoo.com/activity/questions?show=4B64KOFKD2W5ZGDEXOIOZCQNHU&t=g https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20170902213518AAYzBbf&rptabuse=1 This is not the first time he/she has bullied me. The stalking and abuse needs to be put to an end. |
| Question: All them silly hillbillies where u at? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:38 PM PDT |
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| Question: What do you think that today: September 2, is my birthday? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:03 PM PDT |
| Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:02 PM PDT So Ive been wanting to spend Christmas Eve/Morning with my best friend for years now/since i can remember but it just hasn t worked out. So me & her decided for like a few months now that we will just do are own Christmas Eve/Morning Themed sleepover with just the 2 of us at my new place. We are now both adults & we finally decided to do this. I am 21 & she will be 19. We are planning to do it sometime between the end of November & beginning of December. We are both kids at heart. We are planning to combine like a couple of are little traditions. Its gonna be like exactly like the real Christmas Eve/Morning like when we were kids but with just the 2 of us. Fyi: We Don t drink (We just decided not to) We are just curious what are some family friendly ideas that other people have that we can maybe do. Thanks. |
| Question: Was I In The Wrong Here? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 01:42 PM PDT So, I was spending the night at a friend's house, as we were going out to celebrate her birthday the following day. I'm going to cut to the chase and just say I unintentionally stumbled upon "that" side of the internet and saw things I really didn't want to. It mentally scarred me and I told her in the middle of the night I wanted to leave because I wasn't mentally stable - and while she understood, she still seemed really upset I was leaving. I did give her a $20 bill as a birthday gift before leaving, but I still felt bad...so my question is, was I in the wrong or is this all just in my head and she isn't actually mad at me? |
| Question: Help me stop fake friends!! I am 13 years old.? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 12:07 PM PDT I have many friends who always bully me but then they apologise.I give always chances,but they keep on bullying.I am the second on my school,and I am excellent in math.They give their books to solve their homeworks.I do their homeworks.Also,my best friend asks me,and I do because I love him a lot.... I can not react to their bully that makes me cry... |
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| Question: How to deal with school in my situation? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 11:35 AM PDT So I am a dick I am aware of that. Basically In 8th grade I thought I was **** and I only wanted to be friends with people who I considered badass, I thought these two girls fit the bar and I became friends with them. They turned out to be these two girls who never did anything exciting except go to church and school. Later that year I finally found the people I was looking for to fit my little "Badass" criteria. I am now very good friends with these people, Ive done a couple evil deeds and I am not sure they know about them but I don't want them to find out and I have ignored them most of the summer but now that school is about to start they want to start doing stuff. I am still trying to ignore them but ik I cant do this forever so any advice? |
| Question: How i can find and be friend with antisocial people(who dont have friends) in real life ? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 11:20 AM PDT i dont want to be antisocial anymore and i really like to be friends with same kind of people ? |
| Question: How can I stop bullying from my friends? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 11:19 AM PDT I am 13 years old.I always get verbally and physically abused in my school. They really hurt me. I can not handle a word until I start crying!!Please help!! |
| Question: What to do when you're doing something with a friend that you don't want to do? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 11:07 AM PDT |
| Question: 20 soon to be 21 with an extreme lack of exposure? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 10:57 AM PDT I'm starting to feel as though my existence is such a waste of time.. Basically, since birth up to about 18 years old, I've never gotten that chance to hang out with friends, or even make few mistakes here and there as I should have (due to an overprotective parent). I was basically sheltered, and because of that, I ended up with severe social anxiety problems. Now, even though I do have a bit more freedom...its as though I don't know what to do with that...I barely have any friends and the friends I do have seem to have better friends or friends they'd choose to hang out with in a heartbeat over me. I mean, of course, one would think to make friends of their own...but..I suck at it and honestly...I don't think I have much to offer anyways...plus my anxiety just wont allow it. As a person, I feel so worthless and dislikable. I have gotten help for it in the past, but I've relapsed pretty badly and whenever I try to open up to one of my parents I get shot down for it and made to feel like I'm weak or something. I just don't see things getting any better for me at all..I'm not sure I even see a future and honestly...I feel like being dead is better than this..I'm not happy at all..I feel so worthless and out of place...I'm either depressed or numb..I honestly don't think I want to be here anymore either. Is it too late to do anything with my life? Should I even bother anymore or just accept the fact that I was meant to fail and be all alone and miserable? |
| Question: Why are some people so bad? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 10:46 AM PDT There are many people who annoy me Someone called me to buy sth from me and he said he will buy it 2 days later and told me tell other ppl that I sold that thing.now he says I tricked you and laughed. WTF?! WHY ARE PEOPLE SO BAD?! THIS IS DRIVING ME MAD. |
| Posted: 02 Sep 2017 10:19 AM PDT Okay so today we're going out for lunch and movies. I only have money for lunch and a movie ticket. I asked my friend if she could bring extra money for popcorn. She asked how much it is. She always asks that. I would often tease her for being cheap. I would say "Cheap ***!" But as a joke but she takes it seriously. She needs to quit being so sensitive and serious all the time. She has a job so she shouldn't be cheap. I understand she wants to save money but sometimes you gotta let lose and have fun. She is very cheap and won't buy anything over $10. No no I'm not trying to take advantage of her. I would never do that to my best friend. I hate asking but sometimes you gotta ask. I know popcorn is expensive but it isn't like we go ALL the time. She needs to loosen up and quit being stingy. |
| Question: I'm a Pisces and I got angry/upset with my friends What should I Do? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 09:53 AM PDT so basically what happened was I went on a 3 day camping trip with my year we stayed in a hostel the 1st night and camped the 2nd night and went home on the 3rd day. I am sort of mad at my friends. no I think I'm really angry at them or upset honestly atm I'm not to sure.....there is an uneven number in our friend group. another girl joined are friend group this year lets just call her x. because she felt left out from her old friend group. There are 7 of us. So the place where we were staying was a good bit away so we took a bus and on a bus you sit beside a friend. so its two man but 7/2 do the maths someone was left out if was me oc. I felt that was extremly unfair and it was the same on the way back. another friend lets just call her y said she felt really bad I was sitting on my own and asked if I she should sit beside me I just said no I'm fine. She felt bad Meaning she pitied me....That's the only reason she asked and she also asked in front of everyone I'm 100 percent not blaming anyone I just need somebody to tell this to. don't even get my started on the ******* tents.this is the big part so on the 1st night we stayed in a hostel all was good. 2nd night we went camping. then the people there were trying to sort out the tents. I'm still really ******* pissed they said 3 in this tent every stood back from me and three of them put there hands up. the guysaid 3 in this tent again everyone stood back at me and put there hands up. I store at them and they looked at there |
| Question: Why do people make me feel this way ? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 09:32 AM PDT I'm 21 and I don't smoke cigarettes (or anything else) and I barely drink. My boyfriend drinks ALOT and he smokes cigerettes. When we are around his friends, they all make me feel weird because I'm the only one in the room like that. I mean, I don't want to smoke cigs , EVER. But I will as admit when everyone in the room is smoking and talking about cigarettes and stuff, I feel left out. Also I don't drink a lot and it's mainly because I don't want to drive afterwards. So when everyone else is taking shots, I'm sitting there bored. I just wish my boyfriend was didferent sometimes or had different friends. They all make me feel like a loser honestly. Btw we are all in our early 20s. Any advice ? |
| Question: I Feel Like a Fool...? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 09:32 AM PDT Yesterday day I had a panic attack in public in the middle of a parking lot. I was ads football game and so many people saw me break down, shaking in tears. My crush saw me, my friends saw me, strangers saw me, classmates I rarely talk to saw me, and I was just crumpled on the ground with mascara running down my face and my false eyelashes severely out of place. A couple friends came to help me and so did some adults, but my crush and his brother and my other friends and classmates kept their distance. Some of my friends were near and tried to help me at first, but they mostly just watched, not knowing what to do, and then left to join the others. I didn t think about being embarrassed then; I was too busy figuring out how to breathe. The best day (today), I began to feel an overwhelming sense of dread. So many people saw me, too many people saw me. How do I reclaim my dignity? What do those strangers and my crush and my classmates think of me now? Am I now that Girl Who Had a Panic Attack at the Football Game? Were my friends who didn t come to help me embarrassed to be seen near me? Did they feel awkward and not know what to do? Did they not care? One friend who had left after not knowing what to do and seeing she couldn t help texted me to see how I was doing, which I appreciated. It makes me think that maybe she was embarrassed to be near me. This is more of a rant than anything, but the questions I have scattered in there I d really like to know the answer to. |
| Posted: 02 Sep 2017 09:07 AM PDT So I'm in a chat room and this morning I said hi. My friend said hey back but I didn't respond. The thing is she hates when she doesn't get a response and now she's mad at me? I didn't mean to hurt her I'm just really awkward at starting conversations |
| Question: I hate the way i look? Is there anything I can do? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 09:05 AM PDT I hate the way I look. No one wants to date me sit by me or be my friend. Im always the first person to get picked on in a place full of people. I cry everytime I look in the mirror. |
| Question: Did she lie to me?!? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 08:30 AM PDT My friend told me she wouldn't lie to me. Something was bothering me I didn't want to talk about it. She told me she is here if I needed her. I decided to tell her what was bothering me (I'm jealous of my crush's friends spending time with him because I want to spend time with him) she told me to leave her alone for good and if I didn't leave her alone then she would call the cops on me. She even got her mother involved and texting me on my friend phone. Btw my friend is in her 30s. Did she lie to me? |
| Question: What should I do, if anything? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 08:27 AM PDT Hi all! I'm a 16 year old girl about to start junior year. Lately I've been having second-thoughts about some of my friends, including one of my closest ones. I consider myself to be a pretty good person in terms of character: I don't complain about trivial high school things, get involved in gossip, and genuinely care about those close to me. Most of my friends, I've begun to notice, seem to only care about their own personal goals and concerns, with one of my closest friends even telling me she thinks she's pretty selfish and will do anything to get what she wants. When something really personal and upsetting happened to my family last year, none of my friends seemed to really mention it or care. All I want is to have a friend who doesn't seem to be caught up in their own self-interests, but that seems impossible where I am, and I like my current friends, it's just that their self-absorption worries me. Should I do anything, or should I just accept that most high schoolers are like this? |
| Question: How can I get a rival? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 07:58 AM PDT So, I've always noticed that when people are actively trying to beat someone else, they seem to do better. So, I decided I'd like to have a rival. The only problem is, I don't know how to get one. How do I? |
| Question: Why do my best friends choose to leave me out? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 07:10 AM PDT so i have two really good friends, for some background: they have been on the high school running team for two years, and i have not. but we have all been best friends for many years. i joined this year, and one the reasons was so that we could hang out together more (for example, at practice and after practice) to me, this would solve the problem of the last two years of them hanging out so much after practice without me, because i guessed that since i m finally on the team, they might invite me, cuz why not? we are all best friends after all. but yesterday, after practice they both went shopping together, something they both know i love to do. i obviously had no plans that night, trust me, they knew that, yet they decided just to not invite me. it makes me feel super excluded, cuz it s not like we hang out that often as a group, so it s not like they just needed a day without me. they hand out ALL the time without me, and i just truly don t understand why they won t invite me willingly. if i tell them the truth though, they will probably think that i m trying to control them, even though i just want to not be alone. and if i tell them how i m feeling, they will always invite me out of pity or because they feel like they have to. so what do i do? and why are they doing this? |
| Question: Why am I always target to girls? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 07:06 AM PDT On a first day of school I was talking to my friend and we saw this group of girls staring at me (im a girl BTW). Every time I would past by she would say something to her friends. At her table she whispered something to her friends and one of them stared at me the whole hour. I didn't know any of them or seen them in my life. The next hour this girl stared at me the whole hour also. This wasn't the first time this happen more like the millionth time. Another time I was in the elevator with my Aunt and this woman was staring at me in the elevator was staring at me. She was talking to her son acting all shy and he was looking at me from the corner of his eye on his phone with a straight face.I can tell her was from my side. I dress normal, straight teeth and don't look exotic at all I dont think im pretty either (I THINK) |
| Question: How to do something when your sick? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 06:04 AM PDT Hey so I am going out to eat with my friend and having a sleepover with her tonight but I ve been sick for a few days and I ve been so busy I just need to rest :( My mom will not let me cancel now and the issue is is that this friend I have LOVES staying up until like 1 am and usually won t let me go to sleep and then waking up at around 7 am and makes a bunch of noise on "accident" so I ll wake up. It s super annoying. I literally just had my first week of highschool tons of tests projects and stuff I m already tired enough! I can t cancel so what do I do? |
| Question: Why do people leave me for talking too much !? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 06:02 AM PDT It's not like I'm dumb but they usually treat me like I'm dumb or stupid smh. I'm 18 and I have no real friends cause all of my friendships last like 2 weeks :] I'm badly depress by this. I AM ALONEπ£π£π£π£π£π£π£ |
| Question: If your best friend stopped communicating with you what should you do? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:03 AM PDT |
| Question: My friend overdosed on 21 tablets of seroquel XR and then drank hand sanitizer!? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 01:34 AM PDT Will anything happen to her?? She's thirteen and my best friend! Will she be in pain?? What will happen to her?? Should I call the ambulance or not???? PLEASE HELP |
| Question: Why doesn't my old friend miss me? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 01:02 AM PDT Back story that I'll try to keep this all as short as possible: -old friend suddenly stops showing up to our group -ask her where she has been. says she was busy with one of her clubs -never heard from her again. now she's only friends with people in that club My other two friends and I walked by her today and when I looked at her she was avoiding our glances as much as possible. Tho she didn't have a nervous face or anything but more of a serious and straight one. I don't know if she hates us or what because she never said anything about why she left BUT she did always use to talk about how she was annoyed with the other two friends a lot. However, I would think she would at least still be in contact with me since she always asked if I wanted to go somewhere without the other two. She now moved on and now hangs out with a bunch of people from that club but I don't understand. Maybe one of you with experience in this stuff could help me... why did she just stop talking to us with ZERO explanation? It makes it seem like we never mattered to her. Do you think she misses us (and I know this sounds bad but she always wanted to hang out with me privately) or at least me? Why doesn't she act like it? She blocked me on all social platforms like twitter, sc, and insta but I don't get what I did wrong?! I get sometimes things just don't work out but why ZERO explanation?! I know I need to get over it and it's immature but it's not easy when you are given no closure. Help plz? Woww you dont have to be rude... I'm not obsessive I'm hurt and I'm curious. I was able to ignore it for a long time but seeing her again triggered curiosity. I only texted her once asking where she was monthsss ago which I mentioned. It's not like I'm constantly texting her "OMG WHERE R U OMG I MISS U I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT U I NEED U BACK IN MY LIFE" I was never clingy in the friendship either. We had a normal mutual caring friendship or at least so it seemed. |
| Question: What kind of person does my former friend sound like to you all? Posted: 02 Sep 2017 12:53 AM PDT She was really nice until I invited her to my college graduation. Not only did I invite my ex-friend & relatives, I also invited one of my teachers from grade school. After my graduation party, she said bad things about my teacher, "She looks 10 years older & has too much makeup on!" She said that she's a psychic & with her "psychic abilities" she saw her having an affair with my dad. I think she was extremely jealous of her because she's prettier than her. My friend is 74 years old, trim, and very pretty at her age. My ex-friend is 80 years old, fat, & her whole face is all wrinkled. She told me not to tell my parents what she said about my teacher, but I told them anyway. Anytime I would go to CA, she would always beg me not to go see my school teacher & she told me to keep her away from my dad. When I couldn't take it anymore about her saying nasty things about my teacher, I happened to tell her that I told my parents. She got angry at me & asked me why I told my parents. She told me that it was supposed to be confidential between us. She then said, "I don't know if we can be friends." I asked her if she was jealous of my teacher & she threw a tantrum & said, "What?! I'm not jealous! She's just a skinny woman with a lot of makeup on & she's not that attractive." I showed a picture to a lot of my co-workers of my grade school teacher & they said she looked very stunning. |
| Question: Should I kill myself? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:58 PM PDT Pros 1. it would be easier than living 2. it would permanently end all of my problems 3. I would stop being sad no matter what I do or try 4. I wouldn't know that I was alone 5. I wouldn't be a disappointment to my family and friends anymore Cons 1. My family would miss me I think (although they would get over it) 2. It scares me 3. I don't know what happens (But it must be better than this) |
| Question: Just tired and done? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:56 PM PDT I m constantly looking around seeing people who have those so called best friends and as a fresh man it s already hard enough figuring everything out. I m supposed to have those people that help me out invite me to things and are there to listen. I have a few like that but they never invite me places or ever really seem super interested in me. I am tired of crying myself to sleep over this. All I want is "a group" to call my own to sit at lunch with. I want that security more than anything in the world. I wanna stop feeling like I have no one and nothing and being depressed all the time or just completely done. No ideas on what to do would be appreciated |
| Question: Feeling guilty about telling people something....? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:48 PM PDT I have anxiety and am in an online therapy group that is private. I met someone on it that lives kind of near me and I connected with this person. We have become friends and talk a lot. One night, the person was saying things about how they felt and it made me uneasy. I got rattled so I messaged their spouse to make them aware. I told my friend I did that and they were happy I cared so much. It was kind of stressful for me because I was worrying a LOT about this person. I care and want them to be okay. In the days that follow, I was having a conversation with 5 of my friends after work and we were talking about how I have been struggling lately. I shared that I joined a group and met someone online and how they were struggling, too. I told them what the person said and how it made me uneasy and how I messaged their spouse. NOW I FEEL AWFUL AND GUILTY. I know that none of them know each other, and I don't believe I gave out names, but I worry about if I have a party or something in the future and they all meet. My relationship is based on trust with this person and I don't want to lie to them, so part of me thinks I should tell them I shared with my friends. But, part of me thinks I just needed a release and some reassurance because I was stressed out worrying and needed to hear I did the right thing by telling. I don't want my friend to be mad at me. What do I do? If I don't tell her I talked about it, I feel like I am lying. But, if I DO tell her I talked about it she might get upset with me and never trust me again. I want to help her and make sure she is okay. She is am amazing person with a lot of the same struggles as me, and I want to make sure she's okay. Maybe I am over thinking. I needed to vent and get advice and I did. Or, maybe I am a terrible person and it is horrible I told people about it. HELP! To be clear....I am a woman and this girl is a woman....we are both married and are friends. |
| Question: What should i do with my friend groups!? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:42 PM PDT So I am going to try to condense this... I just got to college and I have started meeting some friends. I had three separate groups, but now two of them have kinda merged into one friend group. so the one group is more nerdy and the one group is more preppy. I get along super well with both. Just today, there was a huge fight between on of my friends from one group and one from the other (they are roommates) And now they want me to pick a side. when I hang out with one group, the other talks crap about me. basically I have no clue what to do. I came here for any advice you guys have to offer. Help me please!!! I also want to add that if i pick a side, its going to be super awkward because the two that fought are roommates and I would be forced to see at least one of them somewhat regularly |
| Question: Is this normal or is my friend bit too old to still be getting blackout drunk? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:35 PM PDT my friend is 24 years old. and the other is 26 but they both got smashed drunk at my party last night |
| Question: Is This Pretty messed up what my "Friend" Did? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:31 PM PDT Ok so here's what happened, me and my friend had made plans to go eat Chinese food today and stuff then I was waiting for my friend at the corner of the street for 15 minutes then 3 minutes later my friend called me saying she couldn't go I was so upset because I was waiting 15 minutes for her in the heat it was so hot and then cancells plans in the last minute and then we were texting and stuff later this day ( she's the one that texted me first ) and then she ignored my Snapchat after I replied like wtf Do I have a Right To Be angry at my friend for this? ( I really need advice ) |
| Question: Would it be appropriate to ask a female co-worker out on a date? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:17 PM PDT This girl I work with, I made friends with. And we get along well and enjoy working together. Should I ask her out? and would it be better to do it away from our supervisors and other co-workers, outside of work or at work?. |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:10 PM PDT So last Monday I texted this girl I made friends with, she said the Thursday before to text to ask if she is available to hang out . She didn't respond, on Thursday she apologized and said she was both busy and sick, and told me to still keep in touch. I don't know, I'm thinking of laying off her and try to find someone else that is really interested, nothing personal against her. It's not like she ever agreed to be my girlfriend and then cheated on me, but I just want someone that's willing to get out of there comfort zone like I did. If I still don't find someone I'm interested in a couple months, and she's still single then maybe I'll try again. I still consider her a friend. |
| Question: What is this guys problem? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:00 PM PDT So basically there's this straight trans guy in my school. It's an all girl school. So he changed from a girl to guy I guess. I mean I'm generally really supportive over the whole LGBTQ community so. We started becoming friends a few months ago and we really clicked and we'll study together and go for art classes together. So I recently sent him a message saying I'd always be there for him and that he could talk to me and I'll listen. Because he was really hardcore depressed and felt that he has no one. And I knew about it so I wanted to do things to make him feel better so j made him a playlist and he was really touched by it saying he didn't expect anyone to do something like that for him. He was confused with his identity, grades and a lot of things. I also told him I'll check up on him everyday to make sure he's okay and texted him everyday stuff like I hope today is okay or I'm here for you kind of thing. THOUGH LATELY. He's been ignoring me like for the past two weeks. Like I know he sees me but he pretends not to and he doesn't even wave at me in the halls even when I wave . Which is wierd because he's always the one waving first TO ME. On top of this he's always staring at me and I mean ALWAYS even when I'm not doing anything. Even during exam hall. My friend once told me that he was once outside class looking in on me. And whenever I talk to him first, he seems eager but is shy. He was never shy befORE. so I don't understand. I never did anyth wrong. So why |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:34 PM PDT Ok, so I know this question is going to get a lot of negative remarks just because it does involve political opinions. Basically, me and my best friend made a third friend a couple years ago that is becoming very different from us. I was raised as a democrat (I live in California, so that has to do with it a lot) and my original best friend was too (she has gay parents). But the third friend is very christian, very naive, and VERY republican. Every once in a while, she'll make a disturbing remark. During my original best friend's Bat Mitzvah, she said something like," I don't go to 'these things' because I don't think Judaism is right." I think she meant that she thought it was the "wrong" religion and christianity was right, but it's scary to hear. She also said, "I don't support gay pride because I"m not gay." In a music video with gay actors, she said, "I just pretend they're brothers because otherwise it's gross." She doesn't like going to my original best friend's house because she's "scared her parents are going to hold hands in front of her." If I say, "Luv ya" through text to them (most of my friends do that) she'll respond like this, "Well I'm NOT lesbian so..." She says things like "Yeah, I'm racist," and "Jesus knows best," and "Trump's great," all the time in front of us.I keep getting upset after hearing her comments. What should I do? She's a very nice girl but her non-progressive comments are getting in the way of our friendship. Please no war in the comments! |
| Question: Miserable at community college while high school friends have fun at universities? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 09:39 PM PDT I have a huge anxiety with FOMO (fear of missing out). Throughout high school, I fell into depressive states when I knew that people were having fun without me. Summer of graduating high school, I moved away and was not able to hang out with any of my close high school friends. This upset me so much, I got drunk by myself and cried almost every night while I was crammed into an apartment with my parents as we looked for a house all summer. I started classes this week and I thought it was going to be life changing and that I would have friends, but it's just as miserable as this summer. I didn't realize community colleges had the reputation of being boring and for loners. I haven't made any friends, and everyone is either much older than I am, or is not interested in any type of friendship. I just moved here so I don't know anyone, school is my only social connection. Call me a dumb teen, but I just want to have a college experience of partying, drinking, and having the time of my life with friends. All of my high school friends are already making friends at their universities, going to concerts, and having parties. It just sucks because while my high school friends are partying and living in dorms, I'm living with my parents and going to a shitty community college. Any advice on what to do? Any advice for how to deal with my FOMO? It's been a huge issue in my life, and I get extremely depressed when people have fun without me. |
| Question: Is it weird that we are so close ? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 09:29 PM PDT I've been at a low place in my life and I'm just not doing too great.. my friend has noticed and has checked up on me a lot lately because of how I've been, I cried to her on the phone the other day as I wasn't doing great at all. She's helped me through a lot but she told me she's monitoring me and watching what I post and making sure I'm fine or not doing anything dumb. Why is she doing all of that? She even put me in heck the other day (got after me) for considering something bad. Why has she been all over me like that? She even told me if things got worse she'd call my family.. she's super caring to me but why is she all over me? I'm 19 and she's 60, we're very close friends.. like I had said, she said she would be monitoring my posts and if she saw anything that worried her she'd call my mom. She even threatens to drive all the way over here and whip my butt. Why is she so worried? |
| Question: Tell me what are the impressions you look for in making a good friend? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 09:27 PM PDT |
| Question: How would you react to a disagreeable opinion from a longtime friend? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 09:25 PM PDT One of my best friends of 15 years is a police man. Casually talking to him I found out he doesn't consider pets to be family members and that referring to them as children is ridiculous. He said if anyone's dog comes near him, vicious or not, he'll shoot it and doesn't care what the owner thinks. Someone's dog approached him recently and he pulled his gun out. The owner was furious and asked my friend why he had his gun out and told him not to shoot his dog, saying he was his child. My friend's partner mocked the owner for saying this and my friend agreed and laughed. When I heard this I was shocked and told him to be careful about how he dismisses pets and their families and not to needlessly hurt them, but he didn't care. My family, who cares deeply about animals, has always considered him to be a sweet young man. But now I don't know how to feel finding this out. |
| Question: Bad at making and keeping friends in college. Advice? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 09:04 PM PDT I'm in my 3rd year of college so far and I've only been able to make one friend. I met her my freshman year and then was her roommate last year. This year we were planning on living together again in a 4 person apartment on campus. The first day that we moved into our room though it was flooded. We were both moved to live in other people's apartments until they fixed the room. I've been living with 3 others girls now for a week and I could see myself becoming friends with them. However, I'm being moved back into my old room tomorrow. I feel like I can only be friends with these girls if I live with them. Once I move back to my old apartment downstairs I probably won't ever see them again. I don't know what to do without making it really awkward. Overall, I'm just really bad at making friends and I see this as an opportunity to make some, but I don't know how to get to know them better after I leave. Any advice? Thanks! |
| Question: My best friend doesnt care about me? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 09:00 PM PDT We've been friends for over four years and lately she just doesnt care about me. I mean, I'm not an attention who re or anything, I just need advice. She always wants to hang out, but when we do, she just talks to her XBox friends. She spends hours talking to them and yeling at me when I try to talk to her or them. I dont know why I stay friends with her sometimes. I feel so bad. She is one of my only friends and to see her just ignore me or yell at me when SHE asks to hang out, it makes me feel liks an idiot. |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:44 PM PDT Well I was homeschooled 6-9 grade and I'm starting 10 grade at a regular school and I want to have friends but I don't like hanging around girls(I'm a girl)because I don't like drama and mood swings and I'm sort of a tomboy so I'm gonna hang around boys I like video games and boxing and basketball and all that stuff is that weird? 10 points for best answer Thanks in advance, π |
| Question: Is it ok that I have a crush on my best friends brothers best friend? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:43 PM PDT |
| Question: How do you meet people in college? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:31 PM PDT This sounds like a stupid question, and I feel really dumb for asking it, but I'm kind of having a lot of trouble with this. I am a transfer student at my school (which I think is part of the problem tbh), I just started my first semester at my new school. I'm kind of in between my sophomore and junior year. I live off campus (another problem). We had orientation groups, and I felt like I was kind of making friends with them, but then classes started and don't have any classes with them, or when they want to do something I am in class. I see them around, but never for long enough to talk to them. I try and talk to people in my classes and make new friends that way, but since they are all sophomore and junior level classes everyone already has their established friend groups. I went to a few club meetings but it felt the same way, I didn't really fit in because everyone already new eachother. I tried joining a fraternity during rush week, and I guess they didn't want me or something. It's getting to the point where I don't even want to try anymore and I don't know what to do to meet people? |
| Question: I was discriminated against? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:20 PM PDT I can t seem to make friends, everyone at church acts wierd towards me. I try to act sociable but it doesn t seem to work, everyone looks at me wierd. I had a job, but I was discriminated against. The job was handing out samples at a store- I couldn t reach the top shelf and the company sent a special agent to conduct surveillance against me- they hid in the produce department and took pictures of me non reaching of shelf. My family only calls me on the second Saturday of every other month at 9:00 am- they're jerks! What should I do? |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:04 PM PDT Hello! My friend s mom was taking a picture of my friend, with a Samsung S6, and my friend s picture came out with her skin grey, lips green, and a pinkish-redish-tint. Her mom did not filter the photo. The mom has never had this happen, and it only happens when my friend is in the same pose (the light is white). Has anyone had this happen? If so, is it normal..? |
| Question: Best friend is moving on? Posted: 01 Sep 2017 07:47 PM PDT I'm going through allot emotionally right now. I'm currently 10 years old. Two of my best friends were calling me nasty names and urging me to suicide, so we had a pretty bad break up. My friend since kindergarten, though, is still with me. However, she got a boyfriend that hates my guts, and sometimes ignores me. I introduced my new friend to her and they're really good friends. When he texts her she immediately responds, but when I text her she doesn't text back sometimes or it takes a few minutes. Then she says "Sorry, I'm drawing and I wanna focus." while she's talking to my friend. Her boyfriend has been cheating on her but she still forgives him. Did I mention he's 14? Yeah. My bestie and used to talk 24/7, but now we barely talk and when we do it's just catching up with each other. I feel like we're not even friends anymore. I try to tell her and she says "Maddie, you're my best friend, we'll always be friends." but I don't think she means it. I try to tell her how I feel but she ignores me. I feel like I have no emotional support and the person I had to lean on just walked away. I've never been good at making friends and I hate saying goodbye. I feel ashamed to admit that I'm jealous when she talks to new people because I can't move on. |
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