I have feelings for a guy in my University class. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He was very verbally abusive; saying he wasn't sure he would cheat on me, that I was mental for having anxiety attack and he would leave me if I didn't change. However, he's been so understanding ever since we talked it through. But I can't trust he has changed which is a problem. I fear for our future. I have feelings for my classmate. He's super shy and very smart. I've been pushing him away because of my bf but I'm so interested in getting to know him. I want to make a move (me, a girl) but I don't know if I should....I'm still in a relationship.

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I was dating a guy, only for 1-2 months, he had so many amazing qualities and made me so happy when we were together as he was so caring and affectionate (my last relationship was a long-distance five-year relationship with someone who wasn't affectionate, so I guess I easily fell for this new guys game). I knew it wouldn't last as he wanted casual and I didn't, but idiot me liked him too much to walk away at first. Turned out he was a narcissist, the affection was just an act to try to manipulate and coerce me into weird sexual stuff, he had odd fetishes and wanted us to have sex with multiple other women together. He was a jerk. I ended it. BUT... Here I am over two months later and I'm still pining for him! It's not as bad as it was but I'm still checking his Instagram and Facebook profiles (knowing it'll hurt me seeing he's posted anything), I still secretly hope I see him around town, I still think of scenarios where maybe he'll see me looking amazing and realize what he missed out on. I can't seem to get over it or move on, I'm finding it impossible to find other guys attractive when compared to how this guy seemed at first. I made the mistake of popping on the dating site I met him on to see if he's still using it, he isn't...I know he was talking to other women when I ended it with him, I wonder if this means he's committed to one of them. I know I'm being pathetic. I know he's a jerk. I know why I got so caught up on him. Yet here I am.

He's in two of my classes, in one he's alone in the other he has friends. I just want to get to KNOW him, find out what kind of person he is. I'm socially awkward though so I have no idea what to say besides "Hi" what do I say after?? I could talk about class, but I don't know what to say which is the problem I just know I'll come off as awkward.

This is my second date with a girl I ve known for years, she really wanted to see this one movie in particular but I haven t seen the rest of the series. I said if I should see the first one then we could see something else and see the one she wants later then she said "you should pick what movie we see this time." Should we see the one she wants or is my idea better?

There's a guy who works at a sandwich/salad store I visit often. He only works in the back cutting up food and washing dishes so I never see him up front helping customers or working the register. Anyway, there's a window to show where you can see to part of the back room and whenever I walk in to order, the guy will come over and just watch me. A couple of times I have looked over at him and give a small smile, but all he does is stare at me until I leave. Sometimes it's like he knows I'm there and he'll stop what he's doing (washing dishes) and come over to the window to make it look like he's talking to one of his coworkers but he'll really just watch me. 😂 It doesn't bother me but just don't know why he does this.

I m 17 and really wanna lose my virginty really badly but I don t know how considering I m anti social at school and avoid everyone but my friends I m also really self consiouse and feel like no gu is attracted to me

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My boyfriend is 19 and I am 20. We have been dating for a while and, while we are young, both fully intend on getting married in a couple years. We have both agreed that nothing is going to harm our relationship. Still, I worry. We currently live 10 minutes away from each other and spend 12+ hours together every day just hanging out/watching tv/etc. This is important because he's a terrible texter/communicator through the phone in general. He has what could be considered pretty "low-functioning" autism, and, while i love him, that really poses a challenge since most of our conversations are somewhat nonverbal/repetitive. He was recently hospitalized and I spoke to him daily on the phone (wasn't allowed to see him in person) but it was very challenging. Phones just don't work for him well. When I move I will only see him about once a week, which will be a big change. he also gets very anxious- he will start thinking i don't care about him anymore if he can't see me in person to confirm it. Basically, driving to see him will kill my car. I can take public transportation but it's expensive and it would all unfortunately be on me. He can't take public transport by himself, and i'm not comfortable pressuring him at all by asking him to. I love him and I just fear that our relationship may suffer with suddenly seeing each other so much less. How can I keep things going well when I hardly see him?

Just for some background, I'm 23 he's 25 and were both Indian, which means we can't move in together until marriage and its really hard for us to go away on trips together without sneaking around. We've been dating for 6 years now, were both financially doing well and really just ready to move in and move forward. He sort of suggested to his sister that he may be ready to pop the question and she got absolutely furious at him, and basically said if he gets married before she does she will 'snip his d***. Now she is 28, single and no where near getting married. My bf then turned round to me and ruthlessly informed me he would never marry me unless his parents were happy, and that it was sort of my fault she was so angry at him for bringing it up. He said at the moment he will not even talk to them because he would like to give his sister a chance but maybe in a year he will bring it up. This has just created so much resentment and bitterness in our relationship. I can't help but feel completely resentful towards them and feel like they are controlling. And I feel like my bf should stand up for us a little more. I'm happy to wait for a year or so but more than that it rings alarm bells, and quite frankly it is so irrelevant! We can't move on and do things with our lives. I'd like to go ahead and travel and do things while we have no liabilities. Any advice? Am I being unreasonable or should I be more patient?

I noticed girls here rather date handsome dudes than ugly, nerdy, geeky but successful ones. Some of the girls I used to ask on a date and after a few months, weeks or so, they now have a boyfriend, most of them are good looking than me and has bad school reputations and grades. I work as a computer technician while studying to further my skills in the future, why!?

I work with a guy who I've noticed in the last month or so has started interacting with me more... striking up random conversations, making small talk. The other day he showed me something on his phone that was funny but was very sexual, and asked if I like sexual humor. He turned into a complete goofball in front of me, especially when we're one-on-one. I feel like there's been extended eye contact and he smiles at me often. I feel like he listens when I talk to others because he'll bring up things I said in other conversations... one time he asked if I was talking to a boyfriend or something. We've worked together for almost a year, and honestly I'm confused by all this new attention I'm getting from him. Do you think he's just being nice or flirting?..

There is this girl at my work, that i have been trying to ask out for 2 months. I don't know how to describe her, even inside work, she isn't really talkative. Maybe she is shy or something else, i have no clue. So she works inside a restaurant, and I work at the restaurant's parking. Restaurant is always busy, so there is no time for both of us during work. Only time i see her that she is free is after she gets off, walking to her car. We have had small conversations before, still do like "how was work today", "was it too crowded". I want to make the move and ask her out. I have some ideas, but i want to hear what other approach suggestions and things to say you guys have in my particular case. Thanks!

I'm in grade 11, he's in grade 10. He is in two of my classes, first period he sits alone and fourth period we have gym and he hangs out with some guys. I don't know him except his name, but I think he's kind of cute and want to get to KNOW him but I don't know how to just go up to him and talk because I have no idea what to talk about and I don't think he knows my name or who I am, just that I'm someone in his class. Please help I'm already socially awkward. I was thinking I could go up to him in gym and talk about our first period class, but I know I'll sound absolutely awkward because I won't know what to say

I'm 30 and my girlfriend Anna (not real name) is 23. We've known each other for 3 years, but have been dating for 5 months. I first met Anna 3 years ago when I started working at the same company she worked. I worked in a different department from her but our path crossed often. We talked and joked but for the first 2 years, nothing developed beyond simple acquaintances. From August until October, Anna, two other co-workers (one male, one female) and I used to hang out outside work, as friends. The more I hung out with her, the more I felt attracted to her. Middle of November Anna left her notice at work because she found a higher paying job somewhere else. I had been debating whether to ask her out. Her last day on the job I asked her out. She was surprised but said yes. On our first date, it was nice, but she was a bit distant. Near the end of the date, I reached in to kiss her and her kind of pulled away. I thought for sure she wasn't interested. But an hour later she texted me saying she had fun and wanted to know if I wanted to go on another date. I agreed. The second date she admitted that she was very reserved, and was still a virgin. It wasn't until our third date before we kissed for the first time. It was this date I found out that she grew up in foster care and that she said that she has a hard time letting people close as she has been burned too many times. She said that if we were to go any further I needed to know how she felt. I really liked her and my past few relationships had moved way too quickly. So I was willing to give it some time. After our 5th date, almost a month after asking her out, I asked if she'd like to go exclusive and she said yes. The first three months we saw each other two or three times a week. We hugged, kissed, and spent a lot of time together. Around the three month mark (a little over two months ago) I asked her if she wanted to spend the night. At first she said no. Then nearing the end of that date she told me she was afraid if she said yes, that I'd be obligated to have sex with her but she wasn't ready. I told her that was not the case at all. I said I just really wanted to make us supper, watch a movie, and really just have someone to wake up to the next morning. Sure in the back of my mind I'd love to have sex but I have enough respect for her to not force her to do something she is not ready for. So she finally agreed. I told her I'd take her home at any time if she felt uncomfortable. We had ordered take out, cuddled on the couch watching a movie and went to bed. It was fun. Since then Anna had spent the night at my house at least once a week. (she lives with roommates, so better to spend the night at my place). Today we met for lunch and she told me she felt she was ready to have sex, and wanted it to be with me. We might not see each other again until Friday night. My question is how do you handle taking a woman's virginity. I feel really honoured she trusts me enough to take this step. I don't want to ruin her first time. This is really about her more then it is me. Any suggestions?

My (now ex) boyfriend and I are both 30. We've never really fought and he is such a romantic that he kept a journal and would write every day about us. Then he told me one day he couldn't ever see me again but he loved me and he started to cry. I left quietly thinking he was having a moment. That day he moved back to his parents, left everything in our home. He had his phone turned off for 5 days, turned it on today and still has us as his FB pic. Still in a relationship, but no contact. I haven't contacted him or vice versa. Not even a liked post...no contact. I have his clothes, all of his stuff. I mean his other car is here. I'm so confused and not about to reach out or even like a post. I know it's not another girl bc he would want his clothes or take me off of his profile or something. Help please! Love

I'm going to 8th grade and I've had crushes before but I've only ever really liked one person, but I was really young so our "relationship" was really nothing but now that I'm getting older and everyone I go to school with is in a relationship I know sooner or later I will be too but it really really scares me cuz. I guess I'm so new to all of it. Like I've never made out with anyone I kissed a couple people but we were playing spin the bottle lol and I just dont know how to be in a relationship if that makes any sense at all. Help

I'd like some mature advice on this please. I met this woman who is 33 years of age. We hit it off and everything has been good. I just told her I've never had a gf. The reason why I've never had one is because as soon as they see I was born with a small penis, they run. So, she's cool with me not ever having a girlfriend but should I tell her now about my size or not at all? Thank you to all who give me good, sound advice. I really do appreciate it.

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I don't want to ask which one is better or anything, just what you think. People always say I have a bubbly personality, which makes me come across as young and "lively" but at the same time I feel like people expect me to be an airhead and they don't take me very seriously. Then, I had a friend who is very serious about almost everything, she looks older than she is, but she seems to get more in her professional life than me, though I attract more guys. Neither seems better, but what do you think of women on both sides? Just curious what people say...

She likes playfully pinching and shoving me, even in class. We're good friends, but lately, I mean, after I bought her hot coffee and wrapped her around a blanket during a cold day, she's been closer to me. She hugs me tightly and sometimes she'll kiss me. She saw me talk to another girl and after we finished, she hugged me tightly. She called me an awkward taco. I blushed and told her I wasn't awkward (but that's why she likes about me). Then she pinched my stomach. I asked why she did that, but she smiled and walked away.

So I'm in 7th grade and i like this guy, he keep looking at me and i keep looking at him and when we look at each other at the same time he blush and looks away. and he also trys to get my attention by talking to his friends about him really loud but he might just be excited, and he also trys to get close to me without been too obvious, so does he like me?

There's a guy at work that has no reason to talk to me but he always says hi and imitates the way I talk or gesture in a playful way. Then, he asked me if I was going to a work related dinner. Seemed happy that i was and was smiling. Does he sound interested?

I'm looking for the car on criagslist. So I asked the person to see if person does trade. He asked does I mean partial trade or even up. I doesn't understand what does he mean. In my thought, I want to trade the car.

i know the obvious bit, but like, where do you rub, does the finger actually go in? im really confused? NEED ANSWERS!!

Me and my girlfriend were talking the other night and we ended up talking about sexual stuff. We started talking about what we have done with our past reltionships. She said that she would give my head and maybe have sex with me if we were alone. If she is at my house, how should i start coming on to her ? I dont want to just be like "so are we gonna do it now?" How should i start off. Thank you (:

She texted me outta the blue saying I hope college is going well and i hope there s no hard feelings between us. She ended it btw. I felt so confused as we had this conversation before. I just said ok thanks sound you too and that was it. As much as I miss her I really didn t wanna get to talk to her I have no idea why she texted but I know I miss her but I have to have self respect for myself right now as when we we were in a relationship I done everything I could almost too much. What you guys think?? It s been over 4 and a half months since we talked before today .

The person im with doesnt believe i love him. And wants me to prove it in a non sexual way. How do i

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I've been trying the online dating scene since I have moved to a large metro city and find it a bit harder to meet someone (Everyone has their own thing going) The first match I got promptly gave me her phone number in the first conversation and asked if I wanted to meet over the weekend--spooked by that, I blocked her. The next match, we had a nice long conversation, and at the end, she said, "I really hope we can meet soon" I said, "Well see about that"....and she deleted me. I've heard plenty enough horror stories of people being kidnapped, robbed, beaten, raped, etc by people they met online and I'm trying to spend a good month or so to see whether I am dealing with someone legitimate, or someone with psychiatric issues. (The story that spooked me the most was one where some guy went to someone's house to meet a woman he was talking to online....he was lead to a living room, and shot to death by some lone 22 year old guy who never gave an explanation for why he did that) So in all fairness...is a month or so too long to ask in terms of getting to know someone online? A date after 1 day of talking is not gonna do it for me, I'm sorry! What's your opinion?

You realize she is always going to remember her first love , her first the guy who took her virginity that was a milestone moment in her life . How do you know she is not just settling for you. How do you know that if any one of those guys from the past came back and cleaned up especially her old high school sweetheart and old soul mate came back the one she couldn't be with due to certain circumstances how do you know she is not going to cheat on you behind your back or have an affair or leave you for him or cuckhold you with some other guys kids ? Call me insecure if you want but it happens to a lot of guys in the world and in history how can you know for sure it won't happen to you ? How can you foolishly put so much trust and faith into one woman Why tell me Why Do you settle For Last Place. Do you have No Pride Do you have No Shame Do you have No honor as a man Do you feel that you have no other choice that this is the best woman you can get ? Is this what Feminism taught you ? to marry and take up a woman who has already been to bed with another man before you ? I just don't understand , the very thought infuriates me irritates me and makes me sick to my stomach and want to barf I married a pure chaste virgin girl I don't settle for Last place I am first and foremost and I am the One and Only or nothing that's how i role I don't understand other men and in case you haven't noticed i don't give a $hit about SJWs PC police and Feminist and Feminism says I'd rather be called insecure and play it safe then take a stupid high risk and be sorry for it and regret it later and yes I am aware that this is 2017 your point ?

Like if someone tells me I'm pretty or kind to me an any way even hugs and such I just get this horrible dark sinking feeling almost like my feelings are hurt. I don't understand. I just want to run away from it all.

There's this guy I work with, he is very nice. However he is shy. I've heard from some people that he likes me. We follow each other on Instagram, and he likes my posts. He seems very sweet. We haven't really talked in person besides some small talk. We work at a restaurant... He is a cook and I'm a host so we don't really see each other much and we don't go to the same school. So my question is, should I message him on Instagram? I just don't think he'd build up the courage to talk to me in person, especially since we work in different departments. Id be interested in him to, and I wouldn't want it to go nowhere. If I should, what should I say to him? I've never had a boyfriend or talked to anyone like this..

I'm in 9th grade at the moment i've been straight always, i.e. jerks off to straight porn and think sexually. I've never had a crush on a girl although I've felt sexually for a girl but even when I talk to her, I feel nothing. It's kinda sad. I have this sexaul attraction. But no actual real attraction. So anyway, I was just starting middle school. Doing my thing when I met this guy. I thought, "oh my god what a ******". Literally slagged him with racist and homophobic comments. And now, over around 3 years, i've developed a very very deep crush with this person. I was sitting across from him in class and for the entire class Inwas just staring at him. It was like butterflies everywhere in my stomach. I felt too nervous to get a ***** (makes no sense but yeah). LONG STORY SHORT I CANNOT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM. WHY THE **** IS THIS IF I'M STRAIGHT

One of my friends ALWAYS asks me to hang out with her. And she's really bossy and can usually be really mean so I don't like to. She literally asks me everyday and whenever I say no, she asks me why. I don't want to say "Because I don't want to hang out with you" because that's too mean. And I mean sometimes, sure but defintley not a lot. She doesn't seem to get the fact that I don't want to hang out with her. So i need some excuses. I already know about the doctor/dentist apointment excuses but that only works like twice a year or so. Please help! 10 pts! Thank you!

I have a crush on this guy, we're both in 7th grade. And by the way he acted around me I'm pretty sure he likes me(showing off around me, getting close to me, stare at me and stuff), but summer is almost here and it's unbearable to me to not see him in 3 months!!! Any suggestions? Oh and I don't have any ways to contact him, and there is no way I'm doing it either.

So I've known this girl for awhile but about 2 months ago I asked her to come with me to see townhomes as I was starting to look. I'm 22 and she's 21. She came to look to all the showings (again last 2 months) and long story short she was flirting, long hugs, head on shoulder, and texting a lot of smileys and exclamation points. We would also joke this closet is too small for all her stuff or this kitchen is not nice enough for her. Yesterday, we went to see another town home and decided to ask her out for the weekend. She then said she's engaged. All this time she never mentioned a bf. She also gave me her FB and instagram early on and no boyfriends in both. I played it cool and acted normal but was alitte upset afterward we left. Just wanted your opinions on 3 things: * Why didn't she ever tell me her BF all this time? Showing interest, texting (evenings and night) and even letting me hold her hand when we go see town homes? * What should I do next when she texts me? * She works at a place that I buy my health products (protein shake, vitamins etc) and she always asks me to take the survey to give her store and her good marks. Should I stop doing these surveys? Sorry as I'm probably not thinking straight at this time and therefore wanted your opinions on these questions I have. Thanks.

Hello i hope this helps me. I am 24 year old guy. i feel like a total looser feel like i haven't achieved anything important in my life. I was a virgin till i was 23, lost my virginity to a girl last year i never liked/ loved her just out of desperation i did that , that so called relationship lasted for a month that girl dint loved me either but she had a big crush on me that's why she approached me( she told me that ) she was quite an experienced girl in that field . She broke up with me anyway we were totally different person.i ended up in that relationship out of desperation , my friends used to make fun of me (about my virginity) that y i did that i think. Now i feel really bad about myself and now I dont even feel like looking at any girl anymore, I fear that im gonna end up again in a situation like that . And addition to that Im not really doing anything good in my career( im jobless). i have stopped talking to almost all my friends now as my ashamed of myself as they are really doing very good in their life (im not jealous i just dont feel comfortable when they ask questions about my future and stuff like that) , I really dont know how to sort my life and move forward again in my life... because of all that **** happening in my life my relationship with my parents i not very enthusiastic either, (they are very good), im the problem i dont talk much with my parents any more any advice will be very Helpful... Thanks

So I'm 17 and prom is coming up and some girls asked me to take this one girl as my date to prom but I really don't want to go with her. I have nothing against her she's nice but I would rather go with someone else and I also have a family wedding to attend that day so I really can't go

He went to bed in the evening yesterday. I went to sleep later. We basically spam cute messages on FB for each other for us to read when we wake up or get home. He messaged 2 1/2 hr after I fell asleep, telling me he loves me. I woke up and texted him very tiredly that I love him, but I'm exhausted, so I was going back to sleep. 20 min later, he says he loves me again. An hour later, he shortens it to "ily". More than not, something is wrong when he shortens it. It's not something I can brush off. He was meanwhile commenting on Reddit posts all morning, which confuses me. He sometimes multitasks even when he's tired, and he will type a lot to me, whether I'm gone or not. Normally he comes home from school for lunch break to talk to me. I was in class. This time he was on, and on Steam, and just got offline when he had to go back. When I was home 4 hours later, he checked skype to check my status twice so far but still didn't say anything. He hasn't been online on FB, Steam, or talked to me since. He could be upset about some things I did last year that he never was able to get over. We get tense about it pretty often. It happens a lot. It's been 2 1/2 weeks since we got upset over it and I'm really hoping we don't again. He could also be really tired around this time. I miss him so much. I have anxiety and depression as well. I want to calm down but It's hard because utter silence is the most emotionally wrecking thing I get from him. This has never happened before with us.