So for the past 4 years I had a really close friend, but little over 2 months ago we had an argument. She needed something cleared up so she came to my house to talk in person because she thought I had lied to her. But she didn't believe and told me to " never message her again." I calmly held her because I needed her to know that i wasn't lying, that night she sent me a text to leave her alone because she was abused in the past and that I made a mistake by putting my hands on her. She blocked me soo I wrote her a long sweet apology letter and mailed it to her house with roses but a police officer came to my house the next day and asked me to leave her alone. We used to be besfriends and when everything got tough we always went to each other for help....once she even sent me a text telling me I was the best guy she ever me!!!! Do you think she will ever Come back around????? Any advice

How could you slowly pull yourself from someone. Im8in college and have this one friend I sit with everyday and eat with everyday and I'm tired if it and just want a break from her. It has kinda become our routine how can I back away? I just want to focus on school and not so much a friendship

I am studying abroad for exchange and is in a class with two girls, and we're also working together in a group project. I feel like we had a lot in common and we would be good friends. I'm leaving the country in two months, so I think it would be cool to get to know them before leaving. Although, we're in good terms and hangout together in class, it's just for studies. I have them on social media, but I'm not the type of person who would randomly chat with someone cause I find it awkward... So how can I be their friends? Haha

I am a high school guy who sometimes has my buddies over to hang out at my house. Recently they started mildly flirting with my single mom. I can understand why they are doing it as mom is VERY BEAUTIFUL. She has NO ROMANTIC interest in guys her son's age. I really don't like it when they do that. Mom is very easy going and a fun person to be with. She just jokes with my buddies and ignores the flirting. They just LOVE IT when mom jokes with them. They tell me it is great for their ego when a very beautiful woman talks to them. Should I tell them to knock off the flirting and if they don't just not invite them to my house again?

Tuesday I said she was smart, cute, intelligent and she was happy then today she gave me a huge and I got her number is she staring to like me more

My friend is 46 and met his girlfriend October 2016 , he really loved her in the beginning and wanted to live with her and marry her etc.. now he says he s having doubts bcause she is very snappy and controlling towards him, she has ago at him over the slightest thing like for example when she sneezed he didn t say blesh you and she kicked off at him for two hours, he said he s tired of her nagging him and controling him, she is really clingy with him and he likes his space he told me it s annoying that she wants to see him all the time, he liked it in the beginning but not now, she hates him being friends with Steph because she s a female and she wants to break their friendship up, he complains about her to me and says how much she annoys him and he doesn t wana spend time with her, but he won t leave her and it really annoying me, why won t he just dump her already??? He did try once but she said she would kill herself but he could ring the police if he worried about that, I can tell his girlfriend is really stressing him out but I don t understand why he can t just leave her? She s already doing his head in, he said if she mentions moving in one more time he is gonna snap st her and tell her he doesn t want to live with her

So, in one of my classes they made us get in groups. I was fine and all with my friends and everything. I have to work at my ratio of games and work (1:1) so I work and play games. My friend thinks I'm only playing games and I explain I've type pretty much everything on the slides so far. After that they take it into their hands and kicked me off the group. The teacher said no kicking people off the groups, but I could see all my work on there I just couldn't edit anything. I started my own google slides and got 3 pages done. At the end of class they had less done than me and they're like we're adding you back into the group. They never took my name off their google slide.... And now I'm wondering should I finish my presentation alone or go back and help them?

Ok so I work with this young kid, he's 19. He started working for the same restaurant as me this past January. I started with the original team in November. Anyways, to make this as short as possible, I look at everybody that I work with but I look at him more (obviously not long stares) and just because he's a handsome kid and I think out of all the young kids, he has the most potential and I just feel that connection with him. I've also in the past couple of months, added his mom and dad on Fb. I'm 38, same age as his parents. I think his mom is pretty and she is single. I don't know if maybe he knows that I'm interested in her but aside from that, I encourage (Skyeler) fairly often through social media but also face to face. I noticed him 3 times today looking at me. I know he doesn't all of a sudden feel ill of me. I know these were looks of nothing but love. That I'm a wonderful man that he is growing more and more to respect. Anyways, I'd like some people's thoughts on this. Any sick posts btw, will be deleted. I'm not gay, not even in the slightest. This is just a healthy relationship between a teenage boy and a man and maybe since he knows I'm the same age as his dad, he's starting to look up to me as such (like a father figure.)

Goat the goat wave at me and sucking on a piece of cheese the cheese looked good but i said nah i dont want to eat it so i kept walking then all of a sudden a car pulls it ask me for a ride i said no the driver shrugged and hurried away i was laughing

I'm 16 in high school and my friends always target me on "roasts". I usually try to be easygoing and funny but lately everything is starting to get in my head. I developed confidence issues and a low self esteem over the years because of the way I have been treated. It seems like everyone is judging me nowadays.

This girl started hanging out with us about a week ago. The thing is, me and none of my friends like her. We just don't get along. I find it really awkward because we never speak she just follows me around and it makes us uncomfortable. I don't want to be horrible because she is actually a very nice person but she's just not my type of friend. I want her to leave us alone but I don't want to be horrible. She has other friends who she's closer to anyway so I don't see why she has to hang out with us. How do I ask her to stop hanging out with us in the nicest way possible?

Hi my name is Emily. About me -- I'm nice and sweet, gets very good grades BUT only studies in school not at home. I have an enemy lets just call her rival since i don't wanna name names. My best friend is B. We've been friends for 8-9 years. I like B's cousin. Most my friends are all 2 years older then me but in same grade as me. No i did not skip a grade. I just made the cut line when i entered school when i was 5. Problem -- Okay, just hours ago i was the confident I known im beautiful im not going to let anyone get to me, friends and family is most important, keep my grades up, loves music, loves fashion, kind of girl. But now im the not confident girl. I realized a lot of people like my rival like they rate her 100000 and just rate me 8 and 10 and stuff. I met my rival when i was in 3rd grade. She was new to the school and i was her 1st friend. I told her my secrets and my crush. She turned on me and tried to go out with my crush. That lead us into a fight under the shed where the cameras couldn't see us. She punched me in the jaw. Later on years later we got into another fight. She started saying i was ugly which im not to my friend. She was saying this cuz she wanted my friend. My friend told me this and we had a fight on Facebook. That lead to an in school fight. We were in the yard with all girls surrounding us in a circle and me and her face to face. She was demanding to fight while i said no blah blah and i just wanna talk it out. She on facebook acts all goody two shoes with all them sayings like ''Dont worry if you cant get that dream you can always dream another" stuff but in real life shes a *****. And i dont put sayings like that up on facebook but im really nice. And when i went to a photoshoot after it was over and i changed back into my regular clothes the lady in her 50s said i was being disrespectful dressing like that. I only had a tank top with sparkles on it, skinny jeans, and boots on. Most girls would dress in booty shorts, tank top, and high heals, where i live. So i had to change. Then i wanted to do highlights on just my bangs, but my mom said no because my modeling career would be not good cuz they dont want highlights on my hair. But its summer! I'm an asian so you can see why my parents are like that. And my mom and dad might split up too! My mom kicked my dad out of the house and stuff. Then i'm learning all these stuff over the summer by myself. I'm learning my language Chinese and Korean, Then at school i learned Italian so i am not allowed to forget it or i'll fail italian class when i go back to school, and then i learned spanish because my mom took in these people and i had to learn spanish from the lil 8 year old girl to tell the 3 year old boy to stop this and dont do certain stuff. And I like my friends cuzin. I only met him once but it was love at 1st sight for me. I met him at her bday and he sat on my lap when i was talking to my friend. He is 2 years older then me and i started blushing I lightly pushed him off. On facebook it says hes married which means he has a gf but my friend keeps telling me its fake hes her cuzin she knows and stuff. All my friends are 2 years older well most and i feel left out when they do things i cant like go to a certain age limit party. they just make it and i dont make it. I need to know if i;m going through stress, or is there to much stuff on my hands, etc. please i need you opinion. I'm only in middle school

Go they didn't invite you. Would you feel Used?

I wsa, inserting my Flash Drive and it Broke!! I thnik some of it is still in my Computre. My brother, Told me that that meansit is prengant. Plaese help!! Also how do I knwo if my Comptuer is a GIRL COMPUTIER?? Also it'is A Macbook Air if that hepls

Ms. Willow would not give her age directly. She said, If you add the year of my birth to this year, subtract the year of my 60th birthday and the year of my 55th birthday, and then add my present age, the result is 41. Ms. Willow was ___ years old. I got 78. Anyone else? Thanks!

If I threaten to hurt myself, they tell me not to. But they leave me there, unable to solve anything. I try to tell them, but even the people who want me to not hurt myself won't help me fix my problems. Is there any way I can make a message that they understand, so my friends, if they are friends, will help?

So there is a guy that I like as a person (that means I just like him, he's no crush), we had a normal conversation once and we often meet each other in school corridors. I have BAD communication skills and whenever we meet, I don't know what to say besides 'Hey' and smiling. I asked 'How are you' two times and he responded with 'It's not a question you should ask often'. I'm afraid that I appear to have a dull personality. What could I ask him? Any spontaneous questions - the guy I'm talking about is open and funny.

After I emailed her she followed me on instagram and she's still following me. I also told her that I needed her. She followed me after I emailed her

I feel terrible for putting her in a bad mood or something. I put a sc of a before and after picture of an updo she s done since we re in cosmetology on Snapchat and I feel like she thinks I m trying to take credit and all but if anyone asked I told them to hit up my friend cause she s really good and she doesn t charge but she s mad I think she s like ignoring me how do I fix this because I can t stand her being mad at me cause it looks like I was taking credit it wasn t intentional..

My female friend is naked in front of her father, that's naked in front of him, that's strange.

I'm a 21 year old guy and I had a bestfriend who was a girl, we were friends for 3 years. But in the end of February she got mad at me. She was feeling like I lied to her about a situation, so she came to my house to talk. But She didn't beleive me so she walked away, so I calmly held her for a few seconds so she could listen to me. Later that night she texted me and told me to never talk to her again. And told me that my biggest mistake was putting my hands on her and not letting her leave because she was abused in the past. she blocked me from her phone and Facebook, I sent her 2 very long apology letters with flowers. But she called the police and I was asked to leave her alone of I can get in more trouble. We haven't talked since February and It's hard for me because she was the only person who really cared about me. In January she waited 7hours in the waiting room with my mom when I had neck surgery. She lost her job a few months ago and I even helped her pay her rent for 2 months. Could she ever forgive me one day???? It's not about the money I'm just explaining how close we were

I have friend of 10 yrs. She ended a relationship with a guy who did drugs n would steal her stuff. one day he stole her car and was found in it with a hooker and crack and was sent to jail. She didn t have a place to go and he had racked up a lot of debt for her. I told her she could stay with me 4 free (about 7months) and then jump on the lease with me But I regret it so bad this girl never cleans, is so messy, never chips in for anything. She has a 3 y/o who stays here twice a week and she just screams bloody murder at him. I am a social worker and this puts me in an uncomfortable predicament. I ve tried talking to her but she doesn t want to hearit. If your opinion isn t the same your horrible. She s always negative. From the minute she walks through the door it s "Negativity." I ve started avoiding my own apartment. Also she s in WAY worse debt than she led on. She has 13 credit cards. The credit card companies call her daily. Also I just found out she s been visiting that guy in jail and because of my job I can t be involved in any way with someone who does illegal drugs and steals I feel like a horrible person but I m going to have to tell her that in four months I will not be renewing my lease N I ll be moving into my aunts house (for free) I m having massive guilt about potentially sending her back into the world without a place to stay despite the fact that I will have let her live rent free for 7 months and she still has 4 months to figure stuff out. Help!

i was talking to someone and they were talking about a subject that i didnt like so i changed the subject. Then they got all annoyed. Others have gotten annoyed aat me for changing subjects. its a habit. i dont mean it, but people get annoyed. what to do

I bought my friend a shirt that says "I'm huge in Japan" for Christmas, and it has a picture of a giant stickman destroying buildings. My other friend told me it means that whoever's wearing it has a bigger you-know-what than Japanese men, so it's supposed to be funny but in a dirty way. I told her that it's supposed to be funny because of the picture of the stickman destroying buildings, and it has nothing to do with what she's saying. Well, just to be sure before I give it to my friend, what does it really mean? Do you think I should give it to my friend no matter what it means?

So, lately things have been going down hill. My best friend since lastyear is switching up. She started making fun of me because my other friend did. She was never like that before. She always shows everyone ugly things and says it s me without makeup. Honestly, I have really low self esteem already, so this is tearing me apart. My mom and brother are rude to me too, about my weight, which isn t even that bad and makeup. It hurts so bad. I started cutting on Easter, after my mom yelled at me for over 20 minutes, shaming me of my weight. I have been since. I was attempting to stop, and was clear for a few days until I did it again last night, because my friends got off on making me feel like **** in front of like ten other people. Also, my bff of 5 years from my old school has been ignoring me. She doesn t know about the cutting or anything. When I needed her the most, she disappeared on me! I don t know who to turn to. I don t trust anyone. I just want to be understood and accepted. What do I do now? I m stuck here, just me and my self destructive thoughts.

Hi guys! Its Mariam again on my sister's account. I have a friend who is a bit hyporcritcal at times. I love to sing and have recorded myself singing to see if I sound good. I liked it. I sang in drama auditions and won roles so I think I am quite good in singing. Anyway, I've always wanted to be a model but I am a bit underweight (31kg for a 12 year old). Ps. I know I am not old enough but this is my sis's account. I once told my "friend" (Layla) that I wanted to be a model one day. She said "Omg Mariam, you are wayyyy too young" *I am older than her*.She said, I look ugly and bony (and she is a bit overweight). She thinks she is at the perfect weight and I am just skin and bones. The next day she was telling all our friends that she used to be a famous model all over the magazines. Surprisingly, she lost all of them. Also she thinks she is really good at singing- but she is not. Once I was singing a song and she critisised everything. She said my voice kept on cracking, I was out of tune and it just didn't sound good. However, my other friends liked it. Then she said, "I will show you how to sing properly." When she sings she CAN'T accept criticism. She is really out of tune and puts on this fake American accent (we are from England) but I wouldn't tell her she is bad in a mean way. She told me her cousin is singing in a movie, but she won't tell me the name of the movie. Yesterday, I mentioned her cousin and she looked confused. Then, in a fake voice, she was like OHHHHH.

I was supposed to go to his house a few nights ago...he asked and I responded ''Yes, let me just wait for my roommate to get back safely from work.'' He said okay, About an hour I messaged him saying ''send me your address and I'll be en route''. At around 1 am., 4 hours later, he wrote back ''I'm good. Too stressed to do anything.'' WTF? Help. What do I do. I just wrote ''it's ok, take care''

Out of a group of people I'm always the first one to get picked on. it's always me and it's annoying.

my friend and i are having a little chat... i say 2000-2009 is a decade, she says 2001-2010 is a decade. we both agree there is no 0 AD, but i'm certain 2010 is a new decade. how does this work ? T_T someone explain ~ (in my favor, haha)

My friend is 46 and met his girlfriend October 2016 , he really loved her in the beginning and wanted to live with her and marry her etc.. now he says he's having doubts bcause she is very snappy and controlling towards him, she has ago at him over the slightest thing like for example when she sneezed he didn't say blesh you and she kicked off at him for two hours, he said he's tired of her nagging him and controling him, she is really clingy with him and he likes his space he told me it's annoying that she wants to see him all the time, he liked it in the beginning but not now, she hates him being friends with Steph because she's a female and she wants to break their friendship up, he complains about her to me and says how much she annoys him and he doesn't wana spend time with her, but he won't leave her and it really annoying me, why won't he just dump her already??? He did try once but she said she would kill herself but he could ring the police if he worried about that, I can tell his girlfriend is really stressing him out but I don't understand why he can't just leave her? She's already doing his head in, he said if she mentions moving in one more time he is gonna snap st her and tell her he doesn't want to live with her

My friends are always having an argument about where all black people are from and my African friend always say ALL black people are from Africa she says it like they are the best and people who don't want to believe her are clueless and don't know anything about their ancestors.Which sometimes can get annoying even though I have nothing wrong with Africans(because I have plenty friends who are including my best friend) but I don't believe that all Blacks are descendants from Africa. I don't know i could be wrong so can someone help me out? Is my friend right or wrong?

Ever since he entered the classroom I thought that he was very good looking. He has that mature charming look that radiates intelligence and wisdom. At first I didn't really pay attention to him but as time was passing and I got to see him teaching and sharing his knowledge, I became kind of infatuated with him. The way he talks about science and the world around us is magical, he's so eloquent and passionate, he really is the epitome of a good teacher. I excel at physics and biology and he was truly impressed by me and my skills, he encouraged me to take part in a science programme called STEM in which he was a part of and things were really good between us. We weren't very close and we didn't talk too much but we had that mutual respect that teachers and students have. Suddenly he completely distanced himself from me. We weren't even that close to begin with but I just felt that he was ignoring me in class whereas he was constantly teasing the other kids and he went from warm and friendly to cold and aloof. As a result I felt really awkward and uncomfortable and stopped participating in class because I thought that he realised I liked him and was disgusted by me. I feel this constant tension between us and I hate it because I used to genuinely enjoy his presence in the classroom. Now I can't even look at him in the eye. What should I do? I honestly don't want to keep feeling this way

I have a birthday coming up but i can't think of anything to do, I'm short on money, so free is what I'm looking for. And not like swimming or a sleepover because I want to invite some of my female friends.

Or bad idea?

Be honest. If you're male- would you date a male with no penis ? If you're a female - would you date a girl with a penis or whatever they have. I wouldn't. (question for straight people)

If you saw she looked unhappy when you talked to her

I am studying abroad for exchange and is in a class with two girls, and we're also working together in a group project. I feel like we had a lot in common and we would be good friends. I'm leaving the country in two months, so I think it would be cool to get to know them before leaving. Although, we're in good terms and hangout together in class, it's just for studies. I have them on social media, but I'm not the type of person who would randomly chat with someone cause I find it awkward... So how can I be their friends? Hahao

Hi! I need your opinions on what is happening to me right now. I've been friends with a girl since we were teens. We used to have a lot in common and talked a lot, until she met her boyfriend and slowly stopped communicating, maybe only meeting up once a year or so. Ever since she started her relationship, she has never bothered to answer the texts I've been sending her on birthdays and Christmas, and she has never again called or texted on birthdays or any other important moments. We have always lived in different towns, but that was never a problem before. Last year we met up and she told me she's getting married this autumn. What is really hurting me is that all these years she has never cared about me and now suddenly she has remembered me, sending me a Happy Birthday message and calling me all the time. I feel sad because all this time (I've been through some hard moments) she has never cared about my life, and now she wants me in her wedding because she says she wants a "big wedding full of people". I definitely won't be able to go as I'm unemployed and can't spend money on anything other than basic stuff. I'm genuinely happy that's she's found a good man, but her attitude and behaviour are a big disappointment for me. This has happened to me twice (other close friend did the exact thing to me), and I have a feeling of sadness really hard to get rid off. Please help! Is this a normal situation? Has this happen to any of you? Help and advice, thanks!

Im a 17 year old girl in 11th grade. Im super sensitive. I care about what people say about me but act as I dont. I have a extreme crush on my friend who's a girl too and im not lesbian and she's straight too. There are mean girls in my class who backbite and I saw one of them yesterday telling her friends how much she hates me that really turned me off. Im dying from sadness since yesterday. Im worried that she'll again be my classmate in grade 12th. My finals are near. What should I do with all these miseries :(

She was my first online bestie. We would be crazy together and talk and make people laugh in group chats. Eventually I had to leave social media for 7 months bc of my mom, and she got sad. When i came back she was so happy we talked just like before. But that was for a while. She seemed more drifted apart and I understood but i missed her. She was genuinely busy with school now but i felt like she was now close with another girl (she would tag her and stuff) i confronted her and she claimed it was all like before, she tried to make it better but failed again. I just left her alone. We would contact rarely but whenever she needed help (coming out) I was there for her, she would always text ME for her problems not her "new friend". Anyway, we talked the other day and we were being silly so i screenshotted a funny picture of her and she freaked out. I apologized 5 times but she called me a horrible person. The next day she was being her usual self I thought it wasnt a big deal anyway, last night I saw she had blocked me and removed me from all social media OUT OF THE BLUE! I managed to contact her and she sounds so pissed at me but im still waiting for an explanation. Idk what ive done to her... except always be there for her. Is she a fake friend?

I came from Northern Europe to U.S and girls at my new school playfully tease me(not in a bad way), say that my accent is cute and are pretty touchy. One girl has even said that i'm good looking(one I have crush on. She didn't say it to me directly, but I overheard her.). She also wraps her legs around my legs, puts her head on my shoulder. I'm 14.Does she like me ? Why do so many girls even care about me ? I'm a guy. Sometimes she flirts with me. (I have crush on one of them)

Should I ask my online friend directly about her postal address in order to send surprise birthday gift since we are living in two different countries? Or should I just look out for one of her friends who lives near her area and secretly ask for it? I greatly appreciate every helpful answers

Ok so I am a 14 year old boy and am a freshman in high school in turkey, and I am a pretty strong dude however I don't know how to fight and I have a lot of anxiety and the school I go to is pretty toxic and the students too and there are just people throwing stuff at my head pushing me and trying to start fights which I don't really understand and every time they do it they scream saying 'whatchu gonna do huh *****' like I have done nothing to those people like wtf, and maybe I can fight with them I am a strong dude but I don't like fights never had one either and I just want peace you know like why can't they just leave me alone, I can't talk to the teachers about this as well since I have a fvcking stuttering problem which sucks I have told my mom to but she doesn't seem to care much and just tells me to fight back and my dad is in prison in another country so he can't really do nothing about this, please I need someone's advice on what to do

So where can i learn the fighting style used by captain america and black panther as shown in marvel movies????...and i am serious...!!

I'm only in high school yes I know I'm too young and all that but I'm not just talking about the present. I'm from a small town near San Fran. 4 years ago my parents decided to move for whatever reason. In the first two years that we moved I was going thru hell. I didn't know anyone I missed all my friends I was an outsider in school I ate in the bathroom. My dads been abusive since I was very young and finally my mom left him so he was threatening to hurt us for months until he finally got arrested and they're now divorced. Ever since then I've been home schooling and just been depressed since then. I feel like it's because I miss my best friend and being around people I know. If I go back to my hometown and walk to my local store I'll see someone I know but here I go months without seeing a familiar face. Is it a good idea to move back and stay with a relative to finish senior year and go to a college there like Cal state Hayward is pretty close? Or should I just try to move on even though I've been trying for years and it hasn't worked

PEOPLE INVOLVED IN THIS STORY: Me: I'm 21/Male My best friend: Jim The child molester: Devin We are all the same gender and in the same age group. Anyways, onto the story. I have a bit of a dilemma here; I have been friends with Jim for a long time, he's kind of like a brother to me. However, Devin (who use to go to the same high school as us and was in the same class) molested a child back in the summer of 2014. Devin was convicted and sent to jail, but recently he was released. What makes things awkward is that Jim has decided to continue being friends with Devin. I hate Devin for his horrible act and I cannot get over what he did... However, its a tough situation since he's kind of in my best friend's circle of friends and I don't want to have to end my friendship with Jim over this but, at the same time Devin is a sex offender and continuing to be friends with Jim would be awkward... what should I do? Any answer would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

which man is better looking ..the first one or the second man with the long hair? will choose best answer...thanks http://s1082.photobucket.com/user/kfccruelty/library/chumly?sort=3&page=1

My friend helped me through a lot, she knows my personal issues and has been nothing but kind to me. When we caught up a few days ago, I started crying and explained I've been doing worse than before. I didn't tell her the details, but I told her I was going to see a therapist about it. She was supportive but said that she hoped I wouldn't see our relationship as less than trustworthy..and that she wanted me to tell her these things. I appreciate her efforts, but I'm not ready to tell her all the details. She made plans so we could talk about my recent thoughts, she especially wants to know my thoughts after the therapy visit. But I'm uncomfortable with sharing VERY personal feelings. I don't want to trivialize our relationship by telling her I'm not ready or uncomfortable. Sometimes I feel obligated to tell her my personal problems because I somehow end up admitting I'm not ok or I tear up. I feel like I owe her my secrets because I already told her some of my issues. She knows I don't cry usually, so I think that's why she wants to be there for me even more...but I'm just not ready to tell her. I just don't know how to approach the topic because I can't say that I don't want to tell her anything. So please help me..I don't want to hurt her.

He has a long distance gf he s been a seeing for a long time now and is about to leave soon. Therefore, he started to give me the cold shoulder and stopped hanging out with me like we did before. So I cursed him off and told him what I had to say but aplogized about some aspect that wasn t true. Then he told me, " For the record, I valued your friendship."