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My wife loves laying in bed and sleeping on my chest and cuddling with me. Why ?

For the past year, on and off my husband has had a "sexting" affair with a co-worker. It began about this time last year and on and off all this year I find out that sometimes they still texted each other. The last episode was in September when her boyfriend confronted my husband about it after finding texts between them on her phone. At that point I asked my husband to leave and he did for a short time, and we have since tried once again to work this out. There is also a new clear understanding that if I ever find anything of this nature again between them or any other woman for that matter I am done for good. I have done my part on trying to work this out so if he is not going to do his I'm no longer going to live this way. We have 3 children and have been together for 8 years and have never had a problem like this before at all. Either way, we had a discussion a few days ago about us going to his office Christmas party, we didn't go last year because all of this came out just before it. He said he certainly didn't expect us to go this year either, as its still only been a short time since the last episode of this took place. But he did make the statement that maybe next year I should be the "bigger person" and go and try to have a good time. I'm really curious as to how others might view this situation because I truly have some very mixed feelings about this. I honestly don't foresee me ever having a good time anywhere in the vicinity of this woman, so is it reasonable for him to think I would ever go or is he right? Should I be the bigger person and suck it up and go whether I have a good time or not...I'm not looking for advice on my relationship as a whole, I'm only looking for advice on the question at hand please. Thanks.

Why do I have this feeling that I see a divorce everytime my wife and I are in an argument. Am I being insecure? Why is my thinking so drastic? Every couple have arguments. But why I see a separation is the best solution to settle the argument? Am I beganning to set my mind for a separation? Just curious...

I have a chaotic family and childhood. So does my husband. I do everything to make my kids have a good life and perfect. (I know perfect don't exist but I do my best.)

Last year, I had an affair. It lasted 3 months. The first month I was just talking with the OM. The second month things got physical. The third month, I spent most of the time trying to get out of the affair. I was nervous that the OM would go crazy if I just ended things, because he was in a shaky situation with his job and home. I helped him find a more secure situation, which was the extent of our hanging out, and the day that things looked up for him, I told him that I loved my fiance and wanted to make it work, and then I cut of contact with him completely. I began to see a therapist, who helped me realize that although I made a huge mistake, sometimes it is better to not tell your partner, and just move on. I chose to keep my affair a secret, and worked hard to build a life with my love. I didn't stray, and when I received messages from the OM I would either delete them or ask him not to contact me. I was really happy, my love and I were engaged and I felt better than ever, secure in my decision. 3 months ago, the OM's ex found letters that I had written to him, and forwarded them to my love without my knowing. I have never met this woman. My ex broke up with me. He agreed to 2 therapy sessions, and in the second said he couldn't trust me anymore and left me. I am devastated, having an awful time forgiving myself, my ex for not agreeing to try to work things out, and the woman who took it upon herself to destroy my life. I am seeing a therapist, trying to work on myself and figure things out. I am moving out of the house I shared with my fiance, slowly (I have been staying at a friend's house, but haven't yet moved all of my stuff.) I am trying to stay around friends who I know he trusts, trying to keep my spirits up, although I am in a deep depression and constantly think I cannot move forward. I hate myself for what I have done to him and to our life. I miss him constantly, and want my life back. I want my relationship, my love and best friend back, but he keeps our text correspondences very business-like, about my visits with the dog and moving out etc. Is there any way that I can convince him that I love him, that I want him back, that I am so sorry. We were together for 10 years off and on, I have forgiven him for many things that he has done to me in the past. I am not sure why I had the affair. I know that there are things that weren't perfect in our relationship but that was no reason for me to do what I did, and I always loved him... I cannot believe that I did what I did, and I am truly suffering. Every day is a struggle. Please help!

In between friends, and my ex-girlfriends family and mine- in the last year we had gone to 8 weddings. These ranged from the all-out go for broke lavish weddings to nice, intimate backyard ceremony and cookout affairs. I've thought about this, and though most of these people are dear to me and I want them to be happy- it seems the majority ( except one ) of the marriages was for convenience, rather than love. My cousin- at his reception actually told me that it was about time for them to get married, so he could get her kids on "his insurance", and I've heard this from others when children from past relationships are involved. It just seems alot of people just either 1. think they have to be married. 2. do it for financial reasons ( split bills/ insurance) 3.not sure- some of these people seem to have nothing in common. I've explained to my girlfriend the only reason for marriage is 1. if you want to have and raise children together. This is one reason I would not marry a woman with children from previous marriages- that bond cannot exist, and for the most part alot of single moms are looking to get married for the financial purpose. or #2 if you meet your soulmate in another country and you need to be married to be together. I know alot of people look down on " mail order brides " but my friends that have done this seem to have the best loving marriages I have personally seen. do you think more people "settle" or marry the person they love? One more though for extra points- what is your opinions on arranged marriages? I know one family that have this situation, and they are the most loving, functional family that I know.

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Screwyou. I will not even look at a man who is not a leader, provider and protector of me. Period. You are the scummiest men on earth to try and whinge and manipulate women into dating losers like you who want to use us women who are gems in the sight of God. You should really be ashamed of yourselves. Say that claptrap to the fathers of all daughters around the world you nasty scum pigs on the internet! May God punish you for your disgusting words and acts! Sincerely, a Godly woman who knows the Bible is the truth.

My husband is a chronic liar. He does things and when I find out about them I will ask him about it and he flat out lies. Even when he knows he's "busted" he still pretends like he didn't do it. I'm just wondering if other wives have this same problem and what do you do about it? Somedays I just think maybe we should split up since he obviously has no thought or conscience or even cares how much it hurts me. Any suggestions?

For example he will say "I'm gona run up town" and only that then 5-10 minutes later he'll say " well aren't you gonna make me something to eat?" I'll say "you never asked me to" and he'll say "yes I did, I said I'm gonna run to town could you make me something to eat before I go?" When I tell him no you didn't you just said you were running to town he'll say that he did say more and I just wasn't listening, how do I deal with that.

Hi, I just wanted to get some advice.... We have a 10 month old baby girl but all we do is fight now (not in front of child) over his parents! I'm finding that when ever they come over, or we go over to their house I always leave angry. Sometime his mother says rude comments to me regarding me telling her what my child needs etc (like how much formula in a bottle) she just cuts me off and walks away or says yeah yeah yeah as i'm talking to her. Also I've noticed they never ask me about me? like how are you, or how is your family...It's like they are not interested in me or my family..As i said to my husband, they simply dont know me! They have no idea about my fav food or just simply what i like doing in life? The other day, my own mother came over and so did my parent inlaws by chance (they have all met before at BBQ's etc), so were all sitting there like there is a line drawn down the middle...my mum was always asking them about what they have been doing etc, you know like trying to get to know them, my mum must have made conversation with them more than me...but not once did they ask my mum anything, they just sat there and talked to their son (my husband) when everyone left, me and my husband both agreed that that was so uncomfortable but we had a fight because I mentioned that they didn't even ask my mum anything about her, or her day, nothing! Anyway I've had enough, I hate going to visit them now...It's like they are only interested in my husband and child.I told my husband that they have to make more of an effort especially since i'm their granddaughters mother, we all have to get along and thats what I wanted. What do you think? Thanks for any answers I find it weird and very rude

I know of "someone" who just found out her husband was having an affair with their special needs childs school principal. Not sure how long its been going on but it seems teachers and principals of elementary schools should of some sort of ethical policy they must adhere to. Any teachers or school district staff out there that know? The child since finding out has been severely acting out in school and at home so this affair has affected the child and the childs family. I looked on the school district website and it says nothing. The only thing I found was if you have an issue with a teacher contact principal but nothing about the principal. Any help?

What if you liked her physically? I'm dating someone and although she seemed pretty nice at the beginning (I believe she is, we are just incompatible) she critisizes my lifestyle, tries to make me change and lose weight, stop seeing my friends etc.

Me and my husband have been separated for 6 years. We signed a handmade paper for custody, would this be legal or not? State of illlinois. Serious answers only please.

My wife initiated a divorce, split our family up, wants me to watch our kids so she can do her social stuff, split all of our savings, put us in a position where we will be unable to help our kids with college, broke my heart, caused our son to have a panic attack when she told them we were splitting up, set both of us back financially, ruined some of our friendships in the process and took half of the family furniture. Now she wants 'to stay on good terms' after all of that? WTF?!?! I didn't abuse her. Didn't do drugs or alcohol. I didn't cheat on her. I did all of the housework. We ha a rough four years of external stress that caused us to argue a lot, but seemed to have stopped. She had an emotional affair and says she fell out of love with me. I asked to go to couples therapy to work through issues. She went to 3 sessions and was never really actively participating. She quit going. Tried catering to her for nearly a year...bought her 8 dozen roses, a $1500 diamond necklace, 4 rooms of furniture, etc.. she ultimately divorced me. After all I have been through with her, its almost insult to say she wants to have a nice respectable friendship. We had babies together, got married, supported eachother for 17 years, chased dreams, she had a health scare that was life threatening and I was by her side holding her hand throughout.

I recently discovered that my wife is seeing another man. They are in the early stages of seeing each other, and she says that they have not become physical. She says that she has not been happy for a long time, and that because we got married so young (she was 20 I was 21) she isn't even sure she ever really loved me. Its been 12 years of marriage, 3 kids aged 12-6, and we've made it through a lot together. It has never come to this though. She doesn't understand how I can be in love with her because I have just as little experience as her, but I have always cared for her. I have had my doubts, I have even been tempted by other women, but I always kept them at arm's length because I am committed to my marriage. I am questioning that about myself now. This is not the first time she has told me that she wasn't sure if she loved me, but it is the first time a third party has been involved. I have no idea what to do. I am too invested in this woman to just throw away the 12 year marriage and 14 year relationship but I am afraid that there might be no going back. I understand that people that get married under the circumstances that we did generally fail, but I always thought we were different. She suggested that we go to counseling but she still wants to see what happens with the other guy. I can't bring myself to be ok with that though. If she wants to work with me shouldn't she stop with the other guy until we've given counseling a fair try? I am between careers and am currently working toward my Bachelor's degree in education, I really can't afford a divorce right now, or the distraction. Should I just cut this off and end it now and risk screwing my kids up for life, or should I continue on the plan for counseling?

Or am I just over-reacting? Let me know so I can let him know!

12 months ago I caught my wife having an affair with a 20 year old (she 35, I am 37), she was spiralling out of control, spent a month in psychiatric clinic during which she told me she wanted a divorce, came out and moved in with the other man. After many many moths of pain I met and started someone and started a new relationship..... We had been married for 7 years, and living together for 12. She has always taken depression medication having been diagnosed for depression when she was young and periodically has battled anorexia and at times. I caught her having an affair with a 20 year old. She initially lied to me for 4 hours making up various excuses before finally admitting that she was sleeping with the guy and had been for the past month. She told me she was unbelievably sorry, doesn't know what she was doing, had been seeing her psychiatrist who hadn't been helping and would do anything to save her marriage and make it work. She went back to see her psychiatrist and Dr who told her she should be admitted and she spent a month as an inpatient at a psychiatry hospital. She had becoming increasingly angry at times leading up to this, and had recently got a tattoo on her wrist which was much much bigger than she said she was going to, she had also been looked over for promotion three times at the firm she was at which had rocked her confidence. She had also starting drinking a lot. I put aside my feelings of anger, betrayal and hurt and gave her support. I did not let her off the hook though and told her that irrespective of the diagnosis, it would not change the work that her and I needed to do to rebuild out relationship. For about 2 weeks she was telling me, my family and our (usual) friends that she was going to fix our relationship and get control of herself. After two weeks of being in the hospital she told me she had continued to see the 20 year old she had the affair with (had told me she had cut off all contact) wanted to separate and wanted a different life. She came out just before christmas 2013 with diagnosis of bi-polar, depression and alcoholism. The plan was for her not to drink for 6 months. She moved out, took her things and essentially lived with the 20 year old and continued to party. After 1 car accident, 6 months and almost killing herself with alcohol poisoning she went into AA, got clean and has been pulling her life back together. She broke up with the 20 year old, got rid of the shared friends, moved into her own apartment and is wanting to fix the marriage (we had in this time completed a financial settlement so are still married only in name). It has been rough, she has been back in the clinic and suicidal at times. I have been supporting her emotionally. I feel a strong sense of 'duty', but also genuinely want her to be well. She is now stable and doing well. I never got angry at her during this process and still feel deep fondness to her, but know that she clearly didn't love me at this time, you can't love someone and do what she did to me (she knew I could see in lots of detail what was going on after she left and would tell me lots of things I didn't want to know about her sex life). I loved our relationship, for me it was a big part of my identity and was in dispare when it fell apart. After many months, I started a new relationship which was great, but also not easy at times and was/is (maybe) full of risks of its own. I don't feel special to be around my wife anymore, I feel a strong sense of rejection and just can't seem to work out how or if I should be trying to get past it. I think her view is the old life with me was better (more stable etc), she says she loves me, but I think she loved the qualities of the old life vs me. Finding it hard to be brave and move forward - possibly end up with nothing - or to understand if the fact that the bond is still there there must be something. I know I loved her more than she loved (or even cared or respected me) in the last few years of our relationship. I have grieved for her (as my best friend), I have grieved for me (as the husband that was no longer in the marriage) and I grieved for the future that I had thought we were going to have. We still see each other a lot which I don't know whether is a good thing or a bad thing. Wife: sense of duty/obligation, fondness, rejection, care, pain at thinking of not knowing her (possibly still grieving of the future that we thought we were going to have). New life/relationship: excitement, possibility, fear (uncertainty). If I could choose - no question - I would unwind it all and go back two years, I loved the relationship and the person, but I know life doesn't work that way. Feeling lost and under-equipped and would welcome any thoughts/comments.

I've read articles about American men who are frustrated with how career-driven, selfish and masculine most American woman have become (just quoting what they often say), and how such men deliberately seek out women from foreign countries with more traditional values to find the traditional wife they want. I'm was born and raised in the U.S. (by two hard-core liberals, I might add) but I'm in my 20s now and have seriously thought about the kind of man I want to marry and the kind of marriage I want to have, and I know for certain that nothing would make me happier and more fulfilled than to be a traditional wife (work less or not at all and do all the housework and cooking, be a stay-at-home mom, support my husband's career goals, and just generally be more submissive). The problem is, every man I know wants a career woman and they are very put off by the idea of having their wife stay home with their children. Where exactly can I find a man who wants a traditional wife? Because they must exist somewhere... I just don't know where to find them! Are there any specific dating sites for this or anything?

I was hoping that the awesome Answers community can help me out! So the baby daddy to my child is out of the picture. He doesn t care about my daughter in any way, nor does he wish to ever see her again. He s a shithead! I recently got married, and my husband and I are wanting to get the baby Daddy s name off of the birth certificate and to get my husband s name on (basically my husband adopt her) so that we can get her last name changed. The father is located in South Dakota (where I lived before getting married), and I currently live in California with my husband, if any of that makes a difference. He doesn t nor has he ever paid child support. If anyone has any experience with this stuff, please help me out! Thanks in advance!

My husband and I went to dinner with a guy friend of his, and when we got home he started getting texts from him. Here's the convo: Friend- RE:| You still thinking about picking up some extra $ either in the biz or some hazing. Didnt think good idea to ask at tylers *(im guessing bc I was there) Husband- What's the deal with the hazing Friend-What Brent and I did to you but just me Husband- who are we hazing Friend- haha me haze you for $ unless you got some fresh meat **Now some background you might need to know is that his friend used to cast porn for Adam and Eve. I'm scared to death my husband is involved in some gay porn or something and I'm really upset, I need to know what the hell Hazing means. Because I'm d*mn sure they're not talking about the fraternity kind of hazing.

If you actually believe it, it's foolproof. I'm fitting therefore, I'm right. The other person is an aśś because they can't see that I'm always right. My wife actually says and believes this. And it absolutely impossible to convince her that she's wrong or for her to accept any fault...period, ever. She is literally incapable of admitting she's even the slightest bit wrong about anything. When arguing, and I point out something that she did that was wrong, mean or whatever, she'll dredge up some old unrelated issue to divert the conversation, she'll insult. She'll give the silent treatment or become instantly too tired to talk or... I love her but it's very frustrating. I know she needs counseling and/or medication which she admitted once but refuses. When I bring up the topic, she says, "YOU NEED COUNSELING." TH WHICH I RESPOND, "OK, sure, let's both get counseling." And she says, "No, YOU," I believe she's bipolar. She spends most of her life either sad and morose or angry and god knows, it's my fault.

a man can say he been with a woman and it was good tell his friend and his friend go get it and they give each other props and talk bad about the lady why is that?

Should I be worried if my wife touches her herself in the middle of the night? We have sex like four to five times a week and sometimes she does it even after our sessions. She does not know that sometimes I am awake and I am not sure how to deal with this. I dont want to embarass her but it is begining to be hard to bear. Is this normal? Only serious answers please, I really need help/advice.

All I posted was a simple question regarding my marriage, and now I'm being demonized as a horrible person. I demand, after reading what people commented, that I receive a public apology. Otherwise I am leaving. This is the post: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20170504200415AApCwU3

We have been living together for almost 1 year and she has made the most unbelievable mess of my house (Bathroom, Living room and above all the Kitchen). She cannot wash a cup or a plate. She attempted to wash a cup 4 times (I had to ask her 4 times because she kept putting on the rack all dirty with flour and sugar at the bottom) and failed all 4 times. She said "I can't do this!" and I said "well, then get out of my house" It is sad, but, I am truly exhausted from cleaning up after her 24/7. She is 34 years old and cannot wash a cup. She just returned and is boiling some water. I think she is going to give that cup a fifth attempt. She succeeded in washing the cup.. and then left.

My husband is so obsessed with sex it's ridiculous. Doesn't he see that it's not necessary? He acts like a tempermental baby all the time. So what if he didn't agree with this? We don't need sex to be happy! Before we got married, things were great. We were both from Christian families and were virgins. Sure, we knew about the stuff, but we never did anything related to that. Personally, I find sex completely disgusting and animal-like. I remember our wedding night... I've never seen anything more pathetic! I actually felt kinda bad, when I told him I didn't ever want to have sex. It was like I had slapped him in the face. He kept begging me, citing the wedding vows, but I told him that this is how we're gonna do it and he needs to stop crying like a baby. Our next couple of months were awful for me. He kept literally begging me like some sort of spoiled child. I just kept saying no, and I told him how I felt about sex. He was like why didn't you say this before? I told him that sex doesn't matter and we don't need it to be happy. He finally stopped begging after a while (although he does regress occasionally). My husband, he's supposed to take care of me, he's supposed to be my provider, he's supposed to love and support me. But he acts like a baby without a bottle. He's so stinking miserable all the time. Doesn't he see that he has a beautiful wife and house? Why does he need sex? I literally have no desire at all for it. Why are men so stinking obsessed with sex?? Why are you people so rude?

I often turn to a guy friend of mine when I'm having trouble in my marriage. He's said my husband isn't very understanding and othet things that have made me view my husband negatively. Is my friendship ruining my marriage?

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I found out recently my husband cheated on me 6 years ago. we have been married for 5 years. We are 25. I just found out. I found out by snooping. He had sex with 2 girls a month before we got married. I know this was a long time ago but im just finding out. Im so hurt. I dont know how to feel about this. should I ask him about it or let it slide? And he had oral sex with another girl a week before

My husband and I have been married for 10 years and we have 2 kids he's 32 and I'm 30. He works in a drugstore and this girl was a trainee there and that's how they met. This affair has been going for more than 4 months. Two days ago my he forgot his facebook open and when I went to use the laptop to buy something on Amazon I saw this conversation some of it was very graphic there was that said (I'm addicted too your p.ssy and I can't wait to have your d.ick inside of me again and it went on and on) I can't remove what I read out of my head. I waited for him to come home from work and showed him the conversation he just sat there and said he was sorry and asked me what I wanted to do. Then he tried to blame me saying that the reason he did was because we don't have sex as often anymore and he felt neglected and ignore. I mean come on we have small children and still we have sex like 2 andamp; 3 times a week sometimes I can't because I'm too tired but I'm home looking after 2 small kids, cooking, cleaning, running errands etc, he doesn't understand that. I love my husband and I want to keep my family together today he asked me if I want to see a marriage counselor I told him I was going to think about it. I'm trying not to think of it but I can't and now I'm paranoid about him going out. This is terrible what a jerk and what a disgusting wh0re. Had not been for my kids and I would have beaten the crap out that *****

He has bought me lots of feminine nighties, and peignoirs which are not my style. Even babydolls which I am told old and big for.

My co worker is telling me I am weird because I told her my husband and I do NOT go to the bathroom in front of each other. She says her and her husband do and it is normal! I have never heard of such a thing. Am I wrong or is she? Please settle our debate.

Let me start by saying that I am healthy, employed in a rewarding career, and happily married for 13 years to my soul mate. Most of the time, I feel reasonably confident about my future and stand behind the choices I've made. It is true that, like many women my age (mid-50s,) I sometimes mourn my lost youth, and have begun feeling invisible -- but I am not generally preoccupied with such thoughts. Or, I wasn't until quite recently. It also brought back vivid memories of a man I was involved with at the time -- someone I liked very much, but was not in love with. I can't get him out of my head! I find myself spinning dangerous fantasies in my head, and imagining conversations I'd like to have with him about things that aren't even true! He was sweet; he treated me well and I genuinely enjoyed his company, but that was ALL there was to it; I knew from the start that we weren't right for each other, and after I graduated, we went our separate ways with few regrets. Yet in my mind, I've blown this up into a remorse-and-passion-filled, star-crossed romance, and I don't understand WHY! I want to reach out to him and find out how he's been. I kid myself that I just want to know that he's happy, and as soon as I discover that he IS happily married with a passel of kids, (as well as probably fat, balding, and unattractive,) I'll be able to put the fantasy to rest. Common sense, however, tells me that nothing good would come of this, and I should just wait for the storm in my mind to blow over. Except that it's NOT. Has anyone else been in this situation? What did you do: contact the other person or not? And if you did, did it help or make things worse? Driving from work the other week, I heard a song that had been popular when I was in graduate school. I had the album so I popped it into the CD player when I got home. It was like a kick in the gut! It brought back everything I felt and thought about myself during that incredibly intense, exhilarating, emotional life stage -- a time when I was still young, at the starting line of everything, with my horizons truly limitless. This period was 2 decades ago, but felt like YESTERDAY!

Apparently her ex got her into the thrill of risky sex in public I just don't feel comfortable but she insists it's her biggest turn on This isn't normal surely?

I'm afraid my marriage will be over soon but I do love him with with all my heart I just want to know how to keep from arguing all the time.

I'm literally the laziest person that I can think of. I put off laundry to the last minute same with all my other house chores. My husband is very much over my lazy bitchy self. We are not very intimate anymore either and we've only been married for less than a year. But have been together for almost 7. He told me I need to just completely change who I am for the better for he is done. I need help. Any advice is perfect for all matters.

We've been married for 8 years. I'm going to start by listing all the ways he's wonderful because I know he is a good husband. He works hard to provide for me and the kids. He supports me in my dreams for my career. He usually listens to what I have to say and remembers what I said later, much to my surprise. He believes in me when I don't believe in me. He calls me his "beautiful wife" once a day, usually as he's saying good night. On our anniversaries he usually does something sweet that is a traditional gift. Last year it wasn't traditional and he picked out a spa for me to visit and wrote me a letter telling me to go the spa and then get lunch and then go shopping for myself. It was very sweet. He writes me little love notes once a week. The thing is, except on our anniversaries, I feel like I am nothing special to him. He started writing me letters a couple years ago but first they were daily and then he changed it to once a week. I didn't mind that, but over the last several months he constantly forgets to write them and a lot of times doesn't remember unless I remind him. If I have to remind him, it makes it less special and I feel like it's a chore for him now and he doesn't really want to do it. I don't want letters from him if he doesn't want to write them...He used to buy me flowers just because. Now that is rare and usually it's to make up for me being upset for some reason. (CONTINUED) I've talked to him about romance, and every time I do that he tries for about a week and then it tapers off. I've also taken things into my own hands and tried to do things for him these last few months, but he doesn't return many favors. I planned ALL of our dates for this year, he hasn't come up with any ideas to make me feel special. I have brought him home things from the store that he likes to show that I am thinking of him. Does he not love me or think I'm special anymore? I just said in the update that I am making an effort and have been for the past few months with little to no reciprocation...that is my problem Are you ******* kidding me Patricia? I should feel grateful that he isn't a drunk or abusive? That's supposed to be my baseline? I should feel "lucky" that he isn't like that? ******* ridiculous. Not only is it offensive to men since it says that the most women can hope from them is that they're not abusive and that's as good as they get. But women should feel LUCKY that they're not abused? There is no world that women should have to feel lucky about that. It just shouldn't happen!

My wife and I went out to meet another couple to go dancing and my wife got pretty drunk. The couple left and I wanted to leave and wife was kinda of giving me a hard time. I told her before we went out I wanted to come back early because I have a lot of things to do the next day.I finally got her to leave. In the car she started bring up another situation where this girl kissed me on my forehead but that was a while ago. So I got upset with her and her being drunk and told her several times to shut the f up. When we got home I crawled in bed she came to me and said we are done and over and then took her keys and drove off driving intoxicated. I ran out to the garage but was to late. I called her brother and father because I did not know what to do. She ended up going to her daughters house. This has almost caused us to get a divorce. I took my ring off and we hardly have been talking. What to do?

I spotted a pack of cigarettes in her pocketbook the other morning before she left to work. I don't want to get in a fight with her about this, but I don't want her to smoke either.

My wife suggests that husbands and wives must keep their incomes separate. She chooses to spend her salary income on her fashion/beauty articles and her car's loan installments, and she also refuses to ask for funds from me (husband). While I think that no matter how much our incomes are, we should share and spend it on common expenses first and then on personal expenses. What is your opinion and can you point out some pros and cons?

putting on undies, bras and nighties ? What would you do or say

to my pastors wife be a good idea or the women in my Bible study ? I came back early from a visit to my sister and there he was, all made up like a women in a chiffon dress. He was even wearing a darling lacy full slip. I was laughing so i didn't cry but took lots of pics

I have notice when my husband sees someone he knows he speak or even hold a short conversation without stopping to introduce me as his wife. I confronted him about it and he says it never crossed his mind that he does that. (Liar) Its starting to make me feel insecure and that pisses me off. Should I be worried?

My husband and I have been married for 3 years and we have a 4 year old daughter. I love my husband and my daughter so much and the are my life. My husband is a nurse and I am in grad school so I am basically a stay at home mom and student while he works. He takes care of us so well financially and he is also an amazing husband and father to our little girl. He is an ex marine and he was an infantryman so I have always known that he has done and seen some things that make me quiver just thinking about them, but he has never been violent with me. He was beat by his father as a child and teenager up until he got bigger than him and could handle himself. His dad gave him a concussion once and put cigarettes out on him. He even has a long scar from stitches on his back where he threw a broken bottle at him. I have always been very careful when talking about his parents because I know that it is a very sore subject with him. What happened though is that our daughter did something that she knows she is not to do and I did exactly what my mother did to me when I was growing up. I gave her a slap on the face. My husband saw me do this and he grabbed me by my shoulders and pushed me hard against the wall. He got really close and said "Don't you ever ******* hit my daughter again." then he just turned around, picked up our daughter and walked out of the room. I have honestly never been so scared of him before or ever for that matter. I just stood there and cried. This happened yesterday. We haven't spoken a word to each other since. When I went to bed I was shaking because I was so scared crawling into the bed while he was lying there. That is how I was disciplined as a child so I saw nothing wrong with it, but I know that his childhood was the worst time of his life and if he ever had the chance, my husband would have killed his father. I don't know what to do or say and I honestly don't know if I was completely wrong or if I should be somewhat mad at my husband, all I know is that right now I am very frightened of him. What do I do? Thank you for any advice.

Like when you get someone number, what is the good time to wait to not seem eager or something? I got this girls number last night and I'm really nervous about my next move. I went out to watch the playoff games at a bar with friends and started talking with her. I had talked to her before but this was the first time we had talked for more than a few minutes and we didn't even watch most of the game. I got her number before we all left and now I'm not sure what to do. Should I wait to call her? It's Thursday so should I wait until next week? Or should I just call her to see what she's up to tonight? Or should I just text her? Sorry for all the questions I'm just really nervous.

My husband goes out drinking either with his friends or with his cousins. I am a mother of 2. My eldest is 5 and my newborn is only 2months yet my husband goes out every weekend. He gets mad when I tell him not to go. He works weekdays and has no time for us. He says he needs alcohol to end the weekdays as he works early morning till 8pm.. is it wrong for me to be mad at him and to try and stop him?

I found out 9 months ago that my husband (soon to be ex) was cheating on me. He was so cold about it. I still wake up feeling heart broken daily and have nightmares relating to the situation all the time. Is this normal? When will I stop feeling so devastated?

I masturbate like all women, I do it privately maybe once a week, I think of my husband and other men and have nice orgasms Now he keeps asking me to do it while he kneels in between my legs and watches, but I feel uncomfortable it's always been my private pleasure time. Do other married women get asked to do this?

I have come round to the idea after ten years of little or no sex, but wonder what the effect would be on him seeing a young hard guy in me?

Long story short, my new Sales Manager position places a lot of pressure on me to generate sales in this tough economy..especially in the Building Materials trade. An older (late 40's to early 50's) female architect/designer which my company has been trying to do business with the past 5 years is once again asking us to present a detailed proposal to supply materials and services on a new project. This one job could possibly generate up to $8-10 million dollars for our firm in the next few years. The only catch is that its common knowledge for her to expect "things" during the sales presentation. All meetings are at night, 2 hours away from our office so hotel stays are required. Our last 2 sales managers were overweight, cigar smoking alcoholics who never got past the preliminary 1st meeting. We (I) , have been asked to move forward to prepare 2nd and 3rd level estimates, shipping and procurement details, and product specs. The owner of my company is excited that we have gone this far for the first time. He came up to me on Friday and asked me me how I was doing because I only have a week left to prepare. He also said that I should do "whatever I have to" to close the deal, and then explained to me what may be expected of me. This woman (called Leslie for example only) managed to sleep her way to the top of her company, then was lucky enough to become a wealthy widow and take over. She is very attractive ( I would say she reminds me of a mixture of Katie Couric and a younger Goldie Hawn), and has a very good body, so the physical requirements will not be hard to deal with. Also, a $20,000 bonus over my normal salary commission will not hurt either. Plus, this deal would ensure that there will be no lay-offs or job losses in the next few years. The only difficult part is keeping the fact from my wife. Or, she I hope that her rational side sees the same benefits that I do, and possibly a new set of jewelry and cruise ship vacation will put her at ease. I may only have to "seal the deal" once or twice until the contracts are signed.