Marriage & Divorce: Question: Linked in recommendation? |
- Question: Linked in recommendation?
- Question: Best non alcoholic date for married couple likely to lead to sex, lol, which they haven't been having often. Also the date itself should?
- Question: Raped at 14, married the man, had three children, he went to prison for raping another woman, now divorced for 4 years. Scared for my kids?
- Question: What Would You Do If Your Husband or Wife Came Home From the Park With the Wrong Children?
- Question: Poll: Are YA users ugly c unts?
- Question: How should I spice up my sex life?
- Question: My husband of 17 years just found out he had a daughter by another woman, how do I handle this?
- Question: Should I get married?
- Question: I'd be willing to get rid of child support as long as it means men have no parental claim over children?
- Question: If it were your husband who worked for a woman and you saw that woman slowly starting to seduce him knowing full well he had a wife?
- Question: Is marriage needed to prove you love someone?
- Question: Why do people who go on about "traditional marriage" leave out...?
- Question: Whats it like when youre over 30 years old, not married, have no career and both your parents die?
- Question: Women, would you allow your husband to use a dildo on you that was a little bigger than your mans penis?
- Question: Did i hurt his ego?
- Question: Since men can marry other men now do you think men should be allowed to marry more than one women.?
- Question: Why does my husbands penis stay hard and then we when start having sex it goes down ?
- Question: How to let go of the past?
- Question: Can an ex-wife force you to take a cell phone for your son?
- Question: Why won't my husband eat my pies?
- Question: How do you handle fear in your marriage? Your fear and your spouses fear?
- Question: Is it possible my husband is addicted to pot?
- Question: My wife and I are living apart because she needed her space she told a friend that our marriage is complicated what does that mean.?
- Question: Guys what's the best way comfort my husband if he's up set tired and grumpy?
- Question: My mom s sleeping with a married man?
- Question: Can you get deleted messages?
- Question: How do I continue living now after my husband admitted to being unfaithful to me before and after our marriage?
- Question: Why does my wife visit her mother in the hospital but she did not visit me when I was in the hospital?
- Question: My husbands ex has cancer?
- Question: Why do people associate immaturity with not wanting to get married?
- Question: Is it legal for a wife to threaten her Husband during the Divorce Settlement with Posting pictures of him in Women's Lingerie?
- Question: Military annulment for kansas need info!?
- Question: Is giving your husband a BJ a great way to apologize for not helping after work like you promised you would? Or is it a bribe to not be mad?
- Question: Divorce Question?
- Question: Spring game football tickets a good gift?
- Question: Do you believe the structures/rules to marriage (as explained by psychologists and marriage counselors) apply to everyone in a marriage?
- Question: Help child custody (parent is trying to claim parent alienation)?
- Question: What Do I do? I found a suicide note written 5 years ago?
- Question: When can a foreign born women sue for child support? And Can she sue?
- Question: Wives: Would you bribe your husband with oral sex if it meant you didn't have to cook dinner or get fast food on a night you said you would?
- Question: Would you stay with a guy (your husband) if he broke a portion of your heart that nobody else has in regards to the marital status?
- Question: Can a marriage last if you sleep at separate beds?
- Question: Christians - Do you let your faith guide you in the advice you give people who need marriage advice? Psychology? Both? Neither? Why?
- Question: Is there anything I can do about my husband with mental illness leaving me?
- Question: Does this sound bad?
- Question: I have a problem with the "love/respect" structure permeated here. Mainly because it's fake. Why are "other" marriages dysfunctional to you?
- Question: When my hub and I have poblems he goes to meet other woman, there are times he curses at me, he lies to me, he threatens my guy friends?
- Question: My husband is truth full?
- Question: My wife want a baby?
- Question: Is my husband in the wrong or am I? I'm 25 weeks pregnant. First child.?
- Question: Why does my husband not allow me to speak?
- Question: How do you bribe your husband/wife?
- Question: Do you consider yourself lucky in your marriage ? why?
- Question: Are marriages in America a Christian thing since we are all God's children and obey His word?
- Question: Should I leave my husband? I don't like who I am with him.?
- Question: Which is worse?
- Question: My husband is suffering from PTSD. Please help!?
- Question: Is it appropriate for another woman to text my husband who is openly having an affair with another married man?
- Question: Husband suffering from PTSD from past relationship. It s affecting our marriage. Please help!?
- Question: I am conducting a study on the topic of how interracial marriages were viewed in the 60s-80s compared to how they are viewed now.?
| Question: Linked in recommendation? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:15 PM PST Hello, i am writing a recommendation for my Personal Manager (still i am employing under him) and just want to make sure the way i started is correct. -- I had the privilege to work under Mr. Neel Johnson for almost 4 years now. ..... -- |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:09 PM PST Be a great time. Any creative ideas , details, different price ranges be good |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:08 PM PST Statuary rape, married, had children, he went to prison for rape another woman, divorced. |
| Question: What Would You Do If Your Husband or Wife Came Home From the Park With the Wrong Children? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:40 PM PST The children look nearly identical to yours and wearing similar outfits to the ones your children left in, but there are small differences that would make it obvious to you that these aren't your children. |
| Question: Poll: Are YA users ugly c unts? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:01 PM PST |
| Question: How should I spice up my sex life? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:58 PM PST Been married for three years and honestly it's been hell we have fought our way through the last three years until we had the big fight in December we separated for two weeks i thought it was all over then one day I realized what was important to me I noticed that most of our problems where me the lying the drinking. How I treated her I really was a big pos I have tried my hardest to be a better man for her and out daughter and it's working amazingly we have never been this happy there's only one problem sex! We talked about it and she said our sex life was boring so I asked what she wants , and she said i dont know. So I asked what does she like and she said i dont know. I read books and online they say things like complement her all day or give her a massage, kiss her ears, do things around the house to make her day less stressful but I already do all of this on a daily basis and more I rub her back and feet every day tell her how amazing she is the second she wakes up I do everything I can for her, except turn her on when we do have sex it's Because she Thinks I will get mad that we don't. I need help here what am I doing wrong Iv given her plenty of outs she says she loves me and she's here for me so I don't think it's a love issue maybe attraction issue i dont know any Advise helps |
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| Question: Should I get married? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:04 PM PST got nothin' else to do. |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:03 PM PST I find offensive when men think they have a claim to our children. What do you guys think? Gender studies |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 06:56 PM PST and then he left you to be with her. when he did come to talk she came to your house crying and he left with her yet he keeps coming back every time shes gone for a min. what would you do |
| Question: Is marriage needed to prove you love someone? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 06:48 PM PST I don't want to get married. My boyfriend wants to, but at the same time doesn't. He perfectly happy just living together. He witnessed an abusive marriage and a horrible divorce with his parents when he was just a child, so he himself isn't a fan of the legal mumble jumble. We both believe that marriage isn't needed to prove you love someone. What's your view on it? You didn't answer my question? I asked "is marriage needed to prove you love someone?" I said nothing about children. My boyfriend and I don't want children anyways. I already said we were living together... you really need to learn how to read. There's no legal benefits that actually benefit my boyfriend and I, another reason why we won't get married. Living together is a serious commitment... |
| Question: Why do people who go on about "traditional marriage" leave out...? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 06:40 PM PST 1. That he was like 10-15 years older than she was 2. That she'd get married soon after her first period 3. That she'd be pumping out babies to help on the farm 4. That if they get divorced, she'd have to wear a large conspicuous letter 5. They both had to be the same color 6. That if he wasn't rich, he'd have trouble finding a wife. But they always harp on about "one man one woman". |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 06:29 PM PST im getting closer and closer to this reality and wondering what people do in these circumstances. |
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| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 06:20 PM PST I ended affair with married man. He couldnt let go . I had to slap him for belittling me. He got mad called me a slut and ugly. |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 05:39 PM PST that sort of arrangment is widely practiced in many parts of the world and has been since the beginning of civilization. Men marrying men..that concept was just made up recently. |
| Question: Why does my husbands penis stay hard and then we when start having sex it goes down ? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 05:35 PM PST |
| Question: How to let go of the past? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 05:18 PM PST my husband & i have been together for 2 years. We were together in the past but parted then recently got back together about 2 years ago. We got married July 2015. I am starting to feel as if our relationship is not going to work out. It scares the hell out of me. I love him with all my heart. But we have major trust issues. When we first got together 2 years ago I didn't take our relationship seriously for the first 2 months. Then after my feelings had gotten stronger for him I realised that he was the only man I want to be with and that i need to focus on us than talking to other men. We ended up deciding to get married & we eloped in ATL. A month after getting married he left me for 3 months &wouldn't talk to me bc a lie his family made up about me. Well while we were separated I found out he got on dating websites, & talked to multiple ex gfs. He told people he wasn't married & was never married. We got back together & i went through his phone when he was in the shower he was still texting his ex. We got into a big nasty fight. We stayed together. But we have separated at least a minimum of 6 times since we got married in july. He always leaves me when his ex gf comes into town. The last time he left me was when she was in town. I saw his car at the same place she was at. He claims that wasn't his car. I just don't know how to trust him anymore & to move on from everything. I just feel like giving up sometimes. When i try to talk to him about things he laughs at me. |
| Question: Can an ex-wife force you to take a cell phone for your son? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 04:48 PM PST My update and background information was too big for this section so I posted it as an answer. See below for the rest of the question, please. Thank you! |
| Question: Why won't my husband eat my pies? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 04:45 PM PST He says they're not as good as my neighbor's pie. I wanted to slap him. I went outside and cried. I'm so tired of not be good enough. Not as good of her. Why does my husband like my neighbor's pie more? |
| Question: How do you handle fear in your marriage? Your fear and your spouses fear? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 04:20 PM PST |
| Question: Is it possible my husband is addicted to pot? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 04:18 PM PST My husband smokes pot everyday. I've asked him to stop because it makes him moody and out of it. He will then say he is going to the store and smoke on his car and come home stoned. In raising our daughter by myself as my husband has checked out mentally and physically. He says pot is not addictive but he cannot stop. All he does when he comes home from work is smokes and plays video game and watch porn. What should I do? I am so unhappy in my marriage right now. |
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| Question: Guys what's the best way comfort my husband if he's up set tired and grumpy? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 03:47 PM PST Our sexlife is on point. But when he's having a bad day I don't always say the right thing sometimes I make it about me or us when I know its not. I get offended thinking I did something.. How should I approach him?? |
| Question: My mom s sleeping with a married man? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 03:43 PM PST She s been friends with him for a while and I never expected anything to happen between them. He s married with three kids. I don t know what to do because I read her messages and I m not supposed to know what the messages meant. I m 13. I can t confront her so I need help. |
| Question: Can you get deleted messages? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 03:15 PM PST Okay think my husband cheating , got his phone bill for last year and there has been numbers to one number the hole time to a woman ... Checked husband phone and the messages deleted ... Is there a way I can get thoughs messages or hack or something |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 02:57 PM PST Realistically, I am only looking forward to being strong enough to find a way to kill myself. I only desire to die. But ideally in my heart, I just want to pretend it didn t happen and trust that God will only make our marriage stronger and happier forever. Because I will not live without my husband. |
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| Question: My husbands ex has cancer? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 01:45 PM PST My husbands ex has cancer, he has two children with her aged 6 and 7 and it's a very hard time. I feel extremely guilty because even though I, upset and wish her the best, I hate that my husband is suddenly so involved with her and caring with her and being there for her. We have a 5 month old together snd I feel like she's been pushed way into the background, along with me, as he is putting so much focus into them three. I know I'm being petty snd selfish but this woman has caused so many issues for me, she was a very nasty and angry woman who did everything possible to ruin every second of my pregnancy and daughters life just out of pure spite and jealousy. So now she is the center of every subject, every conversation, every day. And it hurts me and is difficult for me. I am sorry if I sound like a brat I Just need advice on how to deal with this :( |
| Question: Why do people associate immaturity with not wanting to get married? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 01:44 PM PST |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 01:34 PM PST And Just to be Clear she was really into this and Kind of made me wear the stuff. Unfortuntely I am smiling in many of the pictures so it gives the wrong impression I can't ask my lawyer, she is an attractive feminine women. How would I explain what I was doing in silly things like a babydoll nightie ? |
| Question: Military annulment for kansas need info!? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 01:29 PM PST I married my wife in november 14th 2015. I currently am looking to get an annulment asap. I learned last tuesday I tested positive for chlamydia. (i was checked during the military and i came our negative and DID NOT have an affair or sexual contact what so ever) she told me in january 2015 she was test positive for chlamydia from her X boyfriend. she was cured and test negative later that month. she was told to re-test june 30th to make sure she no longer has chlamydia. I did not know about this and started dating her in march 2015. we had sex july 5th. she got her test results july 8th and it came out negative. I still was never told any of this info... so if sh tested negative for jan and july of 2015 how did I get chlamydia? she says she connot confirm her X boyfriend was treated. Do you think she had an affair? she is denying it. she agrees to sign an annulment only if I go to marraige counseling first to try to get back together. What should I do? I am in active duty u.s Army. |
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| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:53 PM PST When I get a divorce, do my children get to have their last name changed to my maiden name? Is that included in the divorce or do I have to pay extra? Oh, and don't attempt to be my marriage counselor. I posted this question posing as my Mother. All it takes is a simple yes or no. Until you meet my biological father and his no good relatives, don't comment about falling in and out of love and etc. |
| Question: Spring game football tickets a good gift? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:52 PM PST For a first wedding anniversary gift, I got tickets to my husband s favorite football team s spring game. Mainly, because tickets for the actual games were several hundred dollars. Is getting tickets to a spring game a lame idea? I figured we could just make a weekend trip out of it, since it s like 5 hrs away. |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:47 PM PST Getting advice from blogosphere like psychologytoday.com or the like counts as getting psychologist advice. Same goes for "self help" books and "how to save a trouble marriage" articles in girly magazines. |
| Question: Help child custody (parent is trying to claim parent alienation)? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:29 PM PST My husband won custody of his child in march 2015. And the mother hasnt picked up thier child for her visitation days in 10 months. And i believe now she is try to claim parent alienation on him because he doesnt answer phone due to him wanting voicemails of her saying she isnt picking her up. Also when the voice mail was of just her calling she just says this message is for (childs name) and tells her she misses and loves her....the child knows she can call b4 8pm and she never ask to call |
| Question: What Do I do? I found a suicide note written 5 years ago? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 12:05 PM PST My husband and I recently got a computer working again and I was going through pictures and files. So I was deleting files when I noticed a file with my daughters name on it. I opened it up and from what i see it is a suicide letter and from my understanding in the letter my husband had plans on leaving me and explained to our daughter why we didn't work out. We have been together 7 years and this note was written about a year and half into us dating. Should I bring it up to him or let it be as none of things stated in the note happen we never split, he is still here. I am just so hurt by this that I didn't know what he was feeling this way. |
| Question: When can a foreign born women sue for child support? And Can she sue? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 11:31 AM PST Lets say an American man married a Mexican lady and together they are LIVING IN MEXICO. When can she divorce him and get the American court system to force him to pay her child support IN MEXICO, while she is living in Mexico? Now lets say that American man has been married to the lady in Mexico, during which time they both have 2 kids. After a few years he brings her to America and the next month she divorces him. Can she NOW sue him for child support for the children that they had together in MEXICO? |
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| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 10:51 AM PST The scoop: I m married, very unhappily so, to a man that refuses to bring his children into his life. Every day that I look at him I m reminded of how he s not doing anything to fullfill his dreams, including the ones of bringing children into our daily lives. Should I stay and suck this up or just move on? I love him but I am oh so tired of the heartache as well as the other things that have been going wrong. |
| Question: Can a marriage last if you sleep at separate beds? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 10:09 AM PST |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:58 AM PST Level 7's in Religion & Spirituality, if you find this question in your section, please move it back to Marriage & Divorce. This question is about Marriage advice and the influences people use to make decisions in how to answer questions, not about Christianity itself. |
| Question: Is there anything I can do about my husband with mental illness leaving me? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 09:02 AM PST Okay. This may be long, but here's my situation. I got married in 2015. Not too long after I got married, my husband was diagnosed with a mental illness. It was something like schizophrenia. He always thought someone was out to get him. He accused me of cheating (I've only been with him). Talking to his family made it a lot worse because they would always say bad things about me. We got into an altercation in December and his family came and picked him up. That was the last time I heard from him. The last time I talked to him, which was in January, he told me to come get him and he wanted to be with me. When I got there, he was no where to be found, but I'm sure I saw his mother's car parked, so maybe she found out. I just want to know if there is anything that I can do. He was in a mental hospital for a week and no one told me. They did not allow me to see him. I'm his wife, but it seems like I have no control over any of this. Is there anything that I can do? I don't want to be disrespectful or get into any trouble. |
| Question: Does this sound bad? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:32 AM PST I dropped by my wife's work to drop something off, and I saw my wife's boss power-walking, any faster and it would've been a jog, he was hauling like he was on a mission. He didn't see me. Everyone has walkie talkies. I asked one of her coworkers to call her, and there was no answer. They called her boss, and he didn't answer. They were ghosts. 20 minutes of waiting and they reappeared, and apparently they were in a locked door meeting, in a spare office (her coworker thought that was weird). I noticed some people rolling their eyes and grumbling during the disappearing act, which didn't make me feel too good. Am I right to be concerned about that? |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:30 AM PST By "other" marriages, I mean ones that are not dictated by rules, boundaries, regulations, codes of conduct, religion (not all people), and norms? Why do you all like control/power so much that you need structures to make you humane people who treat others decently? I don't get it. By my comparisons over the last 6 years on here, the only reason many of you act the way you need to for your marriage is because they are the rules. There's not very many "kind souls" here who are just good people because that's who they are. So duh, you needed "structure" from church, the government, military, psychologists, and family to live your life with a good head and heart. But when people look at me, and my "learn as you go" marriage, you all look down upon me and think of me as a monster or an abuser. I am neither though. I just don't play life by YOUR rules. Even if your rules are mainstream or the majority does NOT make them correct/truth/fact. It just makes you pro social and me anti social. Big deal. So why hold me with contempt? What are you gaining shaming me? What do you gain shaming anyone? To know your beliefs are more powerful and more significant than my "unruly" ones? I'm waning from this site. You all sound like whiny extremists to me. You're either extreme traditional/conservative or you are extreme modern/liberal. There's no gray area. No one accepts that there are other ways. And I really just want to know - WHY IS IT THIS WAY!? |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:17 AM PST telling them to stay away from his property even though we are separated now for 1 year, but its ok for him to meet other woman yet being married we have a 2 yr old son too. I'm too the point where I have gave him 6 years to change, Should I just move on and divorce him stop playing these games. Meet someone who can respect and treat both my son and I better, and make me happier. |
| Question: My husband is truth full? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:16 AM PST |
| Question: My wife want a baby? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 08:00 AM PST my wife told she want a baby i told her no baby |
| Question: Is my husband in the wrong or am I? I'm 25 weeks pregnant. First child.? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:58 AM PST For a few hours, my Husband usually shoots pool with his friends and has a few beers while I am at work on Saturday or Sunday, sometimes both. Pool is a very serious hobby of his. It still angers me that he will have a few beers, I wanted him to avoid alcohol altogether while I was pregnant for support. I told him it's ok to shoot pool but do it without beer? He claims it is like hunting without the ammo. Ugh! Anyway, when he goes out to shoot pool he's usually home before I am or shortly after. Saturday, I was getting off work and called him to see what he wanted to do for dinner. He said he didn't know and was going to play a little longer because he was shooting well. This angered me. I told him he was being an unsupporting father right now. This in turn angered him. After we got off the phone, he texted me that I didn't trust him and so on. He blamed it on my hormones, which angered me more. He claimed he would have been home in about an hour if I hadn't made a big stink of it. We didn't talk that evening when he came home. Next day, I came home from work to see some flowers and cookies he bought for me. I didn't acknowledge them or him. I was still angry. This morning I found the cookies and flowers in the trash and confronted him. He said I didn't care, so he threw them away. He thinks he's in the right and I think he's wrong. I thought they were his way of apologizing, guess I was wrong. he said he bought them to brighten me up, not as an apology. Still fighting! Ugh! |
| Question: Why does my husband not allow me to speak? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:52 AM PST I have begun to notice that when my husband and I are around people conversating he feels the need to cut me off or finish my conversations. Just yesterday his mother asked me where we had went out to eat the night before and before I knew it he was taking over the conversation. I recently went with him to return an item to a store which was an item for myself. When I approached the clerk for the return he began explaining what was wrong with my item. How do I make him aware of it without causing a fight. It has become very irritating to just be the one on the side not being able to converse. |
| Question: How do you bribe your husband/wife? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:44 AM PST |
| Question: Do you consider yourself lucky in your marriage ? why? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:36 AM PST |
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| Question: Should I leave my husband? I don't like who I am with him.? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:31 AM PST My husband and I have been together for 3 years married for 1 year. We're both 24 years old. To make a long story short, I HATE who I am with him! We fight once a week. BAD FIGHTS. Most of our arguments start because every time I try to sit down and have a decent discussion with him, he'll bring up something from a past argument and throw it in my face. I've told him for the past YEAR, to not bring up old things and he does it anyway. He claims that he's trying to change. He also says he's not bringing up old stuff on purpose, he just doesn't think before he says it. He said, I should support him and I shouldn't get mad at him for bringing up old stuff because the old stuff still hurts his feelings. Even though I apologized numerous times. He just wont let it go! When he brings up old things, I get mad and I say BAD things to him. I call him names and I tell him he's dumb. I've even hit him before because I was so angry. I try my best to respect him. And I usually do but when he brings up old stuff, I just lash out. And after awhile I feel so bad because he's my husband I shouldn't talk to him that way. It's unhealthy! I've warned him for over a year to stop bringing up old stuff, I even begged and I threatened to leave him if the fighting continues, he just wont change! And he says if we break up, it's my fault. I don't want to be the reason we separate BUT what more can I do? I asked him to change and he wont! I feel so bad.. I love him but I'm tired of being unhappy. I DIDN'T CHEAT! THERESNOCHEATING INVOLVED!!!! I DIDN'T CHEAT!!!! He's mad about the thing I've said... not the fact that I cheated! |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:20 AM PST 2 years into marriage with no children living in an apartment at ages 22 and 26 woman has emotional and sexual affair with co-worker for 6 months at the same location where the husband works. 13 years into marriage, 3 kids, nice home. Wife finds out husband has been seeing prosititutes for 3 years at 4-6K per year. |
| Question: My husband is suffering from PTSD. Please help!? Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:11 AM PST Long before I had met my husband, he had been in a relationship with a woman named Kelly for 10 years. The relationship started out great for the first year and a half but then quickly began to deteriorate. Even so, he loved her and talked about marriage with her. She laughed and then began to manipulate and abuse him. He was telling me about the things she would say to him like the world would be better off without him and how he'll never amount to anything. It got so bad one night that he put a gun on the night stand and planned his suicide. By the grace of God he didn't go through with it. He eventually packed up and moved back home. When he did this Kelly (master manipulator) tried to cling on to him. She would call him a few times a week trying to keep in touch. He said he always talked about how bad things were. When asked why he continued this he said because part of him enjoyed seeing her suffer and made him feel good when she needed him. When we met they broke up for good. He has talked on and off about her over the years but when he did, he talked about the fun they had, how smart she was etc... I knew about none of the abuse until a few nights ago. I found her page up on FB. I questioned him about why he was looking her up and he lied. He then questioned me about why I was using MY iPad. After that he told me he has thoughts from time to time about her- very dark thoughts. He wants to make sure she is still suffering. I told him he needs to let her go and forgive. He agreed to enter therapy. What should I do? Part of me has been feeling like he might still love her but part of me doesn't. I want our marriage to work. We have a 6 month old daughter. What should I do? Please help He hasn't spoken to her since we married 2 years ago |
| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 07:10 AM PST I know it may just look like I'm some jealous wife, but we both have opposite sex friends. He's gone out to dinner with a female friend and I'm totally cool with it. My husband owns his own business, and this particular gal "Jane" works for him and has a very public affair with another man. My husband told the company not to call him after business hours unless strictly necessary. I trust my husband will not sleep with her. However, I feel it is inappropriate for this gal to text him as often as she does about non-work related things as well as late texts after 9:00pm. My husband defends her and says it's just friendly and that I don't have a right to tell him what to do. I don't but explain to him Jane makes me uncomfortable and to respect my feelings. |
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| Posted: 07 Mar 2016 06:53 AM PST It would be great if some of you guys could help me out in my survey! 1. How do you feel about interracial marriages? Why? 2. Do you feel that these types of marriages have become more widely accepted than they were in the 60s-80s? Why do you believe this? 3. Are interracially mixed couples treated different than those of the same race? 4. Is racism still a problem that we are faced with? 5. Should everyone be treated with the same respect and dignity regardless of their choice of spouse? |
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