Show loyalty to them so my cousins and aunts don't think I am a representation of my mother or somehow like her? I don't want to say "sorry my mother does this to you all" because its my mother but at the same time my mother is so bitter and doesn't let go of stuff even if temporarily her feelings are hurt. What do I do? I don't want to lose extended family forever. I am aged 20

LAST WEEKEND. well last weekend was relaxed. after school I went home ,watched tv and spent time with my family on Saturday I went on a walk with my mum and sister on sunday I visited my grandmother and chatted with her. THIS WEEKEND: this weekend I am going to go home and relax after a long week, on Saturday I hope to go for a walk with my mother and my dog penny , on sunday I will make the dinner for my family EVERY WEEKEND: at the weekend I relax and spend time with family I go for walks with my mum and help with the dinner on sunday after mass. PERSONALITY my mother says I am a little bit stubborn but im my opinion I am just right. I like to think I am friendly and funny. LIVING; I live of the out skirts of (enter town) in a housing estate. my house is average, there is a sitting room kitchen,office, 3 bathrooms, and 4 bedrooms.My favourite room is my bedroom , I share it with my sister,(enter name) my room is bright and cozy, there are two beds , a dresser , purple curtains and white walls. My ideal bedroom would be big, spacious with an en-suite. SCHOOL: I attend (enter school name) ,the school is an all girls school and is situated in the town. there is around 600 students and 60 teachers in the school. the facilities include a brand new gym , a library ,a running track, a hockey field ,50 classrooms and a concert hall . The uniform in the school is lovely.as you know, the jumper is blue, the shirt is blue the trousers are navy and the shoes are too. THANKS.

So I m 15 my youngest sister and her friends are 10 and I ll usually just like chill out in my boxers or whatever around the house and her and her friends keep on punching and kicking me there as a joke and I hit her back and my mom yelled at me what do I do?

we are staying in the state and not leaving the state (Georgia) My family (only family I have in this state) is moving 3 hours away from where we currently live now at the end of the year (my baby will be born by then) and my boyfriend does not want me to go but he is transferring to a college that is an hour away from my house to begin with. I cannot financially afford to live here and raise a baby while going to work fulltime and attending school myself. my boyfriend didn't want to work while in college cause its too hard for him (not happy about that either) I cannot move in with his parent either because they live an hour away from my current job, nor do I want another family other than my own supporting me in that way. My question is can he stop me? is their anything I should do legally before I leave or even give birth?

My parents divorced when I was 8 and my mother was guilty, very guilty, of parental alienation (keeping me unjustly from my father). In her defense my Dad married my mother's cousin who is known for mood swings due to Bipolar and recklessly stopping her medicine so my mother said she was protecting us. However, my mother told me "Dad chose my cousin over us (including his kids)"and "He left me for her" when my mother filed for divorce long before my Dad fell in love with this cousin and multiple people have confirmed to me my mother misled me here (including my maternal grandmother (Mom's mom). So now my mother is bothered because at age 32 I see my Dad more often then my Mom and due stuff with my step-Mom also. My mother later remarried and I was with my step-father this weekend at a baptism in his family and he said in a kidding way "Mom is terrified you don't like her since you are over while she is out of town". My step-dad said he told my Mom that is ridiculous and reminded her I'd come by to see her New Years Day but she was away. I like my step-Dad so socialize with him. So to ask, if my mother ever asks me "why do you like Dad and not me" or "why do you avoid me but go with Dad and his wife to places" how do I answer? The truth is Mom makes me nervous because of her bitterness over the years against my Dad and how it caused me immense anxiety and guilt that I believed her about my Dad for a time as a kid. How do I politely respond to her I do love my mother, but she makes me nervous whereas my Dad and step-Mom don't as my step-mother, while she has some mood disorder issues, is not bitter and doesn't gossip to me. I don't want to hurt my mother but she does cause much of my anxiety I am in therapy for. I'm 29 years old

He lives with my parents and is 20, dropped out of college and doesn't work. He has had some drug issues and my mother worries he might get HIV-AIDS because of all the girls he goes with for one week or two. He is an adult though and they seem to be also. He tested negative for drugs recently so that is good but my mother asked me to go by and see what he was up to fearing he was in trouble (she is out of town for a funeral and my Dad refuses to go check on him as though he is little). So I checked in for my mother and am the 29 year old older sister who is out on my own. Should I ball him and the girl with him out? It is no one we have ever seen him with. I did leave a note on the girl's car that sex is not for casual fun with strangers.

I feel like I just don't belong. My dream is to become a singer/dancer and I feel like my life is getting in the way of that. My family never trust me and most of them are not apart of my life. My mom works all the time so if I wanted to go somewhere or do something I can't because she's not there. My father not here, not my siblings most of the time. I'm the youngest(15) so all my family moved on without me. My friends are the definition of controlling. They tell me what to do all the time and they're all lesbian so everyone thinks I'm a lesbian and then it goes to my crush. I can't talk to him and I had plenty of opportunities to do so but in the end I was too late. My life sucks, I have no social media life nor life in general. I have no friends who actually think of me as a friend not something different. I don't have a family that understands me and compare me to every single thing even my aunt who died years ago they still compare me to her. I feel unloved so I'm thinking about running away. Idk when but when I get this singing carreer started in gone because I can't take this anymore.

I'm half European-American and half African-American, and I feel disappointed for that. I don't receive racial prejudice, since I live in a diverse city. However, it's just that I feel lonely and confused for my biracial heritage. Some confuse me as a Latino, since I kinda look one. All I ever wanted was to know something, so can somebody tell me if it's right?

My kids have been upset that their dad cannot go on vacation with us or doesn't do anything with them. Earlier this year he took his gf and their son to Disney and our daughters were DEVISTATED that he didn't take them. I was thinking about taking our girls to Disney next year and asking their dad if he would like to go with us. Separate rooms etc. Do you think its a good idea? Its for the kids

I haven't had a relationship with my father since I was 16. He was a drug addict for the majority of my life. He became physically abusive when he was high and never had the desire to get sober. In the last 7 years, we've spoken a handful of times. All of those times were spent arguing, not seeing eye to eye, begging him to get sober, etc. He had a girlfriend that constantly emotionally abused me and wouldn't let my father and I resolve anything. He died 3 weeks ago and I don't know how to deal. I'm mad. So mad he let things end like this. I'm sad I lost my dad. I feel lonely and lost. There are so many things I want to say to him and so many answers I want...like why I wasn't enough for him to get sober, etc. What should I do? Should I go to counseling? How do I get over this?

I'm 16 years old and my family has financial problems,my father lives in Germany and I'm not very good at school.I feel like I'm the reason why everything goes wrong in my Family's Life and I can't take it anymore;I want to end it Please help me

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My brother is the most self absorbed person I ve ever met. He s extremely rude to both my parents and me, and he is only capable of seeing himself, and not anyone else. I really hate him sometimes, which I don t like at all because I really wish I could have a good relationship because he is my only sibling and I don t like hating anybody, but sometimes I really just can t handle it. He doesn t consider anybody besides himself, not that he is manipulative, he simply can t comprehend it, and doesn t care how his desires affect others. Atop of that, despite how he acts towards them, he constantly insists my parents buy him things, and blames them for him not eating anything all day (my mom wants him to have a healthier diet, so she packs him a lunch that he never eats, and then he says it s her fault he doesn t get to eat anything that isn t disgusting until he gets home). He also frequently swears at me (to my face) and my parents (behind their backs), Does anybody please have any advice on how to deal with this because I really don t know anymore. I m sixteen and he is thirteen, if that helps. My friends tell me this is just a phase, but it's lasted so long I don't know how to believe them.

I'm not over exaggerating like this is everything she does. She always gets mad at the littlest things. So like if she saw me sitting down she would yell at me and say "Why are you always sitting around all day they're chores to do?" Like don't get me wrong our house is very clean she'd yell at us if there's a cup on the kitchen counter. Or she's a VERY big hypocrite. If she can't do something herself she'd get really mad/annoyed and make really loud sighs. When she asks you to do something for her cos she can't get off her *** and do it herself she'll call us "Lazy" Another thing she HATES happiness like if you laugh she'll be like "Calm down why are you always so wound?" Then when you're silent she's like trying to make jokes like really? She always wears shorts then when I do she's like "I'll cut those shorts right off of you if you don't change" and she always expects us to act like adults and do adult things but we're still teenagers😐 She's phony to when she's on the phone she'll have a high pitched voice and talk like she's all happy but she's not she's also sooooooo bipolar

So, I'm living with my little brother and mom. My mom tends to get mad at the littlest things, ans my brother is always a problem. Needless to say, it's never quiet in our home. I have really big exams coming up (similar to GCSE, SAT etc.) and I really want to ace them. I have trouble focusing on the task at hand, and usually try to ignore them or sometimes, put on some music, go outside etc. Is living with them going to affect my studies? Medicine is my dream. I want it so badly that I don't care about anything else but that. I don't even know how to explain it. Right now, I'm not exactly a great student. Just average. Thank you in advance.

So I talk to a guy I met online but we are friends and we talk everyday even though I don't know him in real life but I am careful.... But my parents got suspicious so I told them im talking to a guy i like at school but she doesn't let me talk to him and now she and dad get very suspicious of me and I don't want them to find out bc they wont understand about my online friend... I'll get grounded for life without internet. Last night I think mom went through my phone bc I turned it off before going to bed but when I woke up it was turned on and moved to a different place.... I'm scared I've locked everything but.... She wont understand if I tell her the truth....

I'm not an extreme cheapskate and I don't mind spending on my loved ones but when it comes to my looks, I feel bad about spending money. I have a cheap prepaid phone, I buy a few clothes every 3-4 years when they get visibly worn out or they get too tight or too loose. Some pieces are not flattering. I buy the cheapest items either new or at a thrift store. I own only a few pair of shoes. I like make-up but I still have make-up from the time when I was in college 10 years ago. I add to it when I run out of foundation or lipstick and I only buy cheap jewelry for a few dollars. I haven't been to a hair salon for years, I dye and cut my hair at home and I'm not too good at cutting it. For this whole time, I thought I actually did something good because I've saved so much money for my family but I have some new friends and when I see them in the mirror next to me, I can see how cheap I am to myself. They are about a decade older than me but look so much better. I don't think I take care of myself too well. Sometimes I tell myself not to use conditioner or lotion because it could last longer or not to waste money on a gym membership simply because I don't feel like I deserve to spend on myself. I do have a job and an income so it's not like I can't afford basic things. Do you think I should keep up my lifestyle or should I invest more into my looks? I'm only 29 and have been married for several years. It has crossed my mind that people see me as a slob instead of someone frugal.

On top of all this the bro in law doesn't do anything around the house but cook for himself make a huge mess and play games. He's almost 40yrs old and he hasn't worked for 20 yrs and just started working a few years ago and just got his drivers license around the same time, I'm really sick of him, don't want to be anywhere near him. He complains about us making too much noise while he talks loudly on the phone until 1am and goes to safeway at that time to "avoid" people, theres so many messed up things he has done i don't have enough room to write on here, he's just a big piece of ***t that nobody should have to deal with. He doesn't even deserve the job he has and he still steals from them, he got it through their deceased mom. He steals anything u could think of including toilet paper! Yes i'm just venting now, I can't believe this kind of person exists.

Things like "My Mom told me that my brother worries that so and so dislikes him" I have weird fears and my mother has unfortunately told them to my sister who is the king of gossip in the family.

My mother can often predict when someone doesn't like her and she is always right I later learn including during a phase I didn't like her that much during (we get along now). So my question is how do I know if my uncle, his wife, and their kids don't like me as it seems because 16 years ago during some manic cycles I was stalkish and intrusive when living with my parents in their neighborhood. It was not mean stalking but just not respecting social boundaries (never was I or were they mean or anything). I could tell they were annoyed especially his wife at the time. My mother told me not to bring it up to him as her family doesn't like to talk about past emotions and stuff. Just sort of how they are (it is my Mom's brother)

I am being forced to go live with my grandma and do NOTHING for two weeks. I want to do online school but they don't take my schooling as a priority. I have depression and bulimia and my parents just cant take it so they are sending me away. The feeling of guilt I feel for missing school is undescribable. I just need to convince them to let me do online school but they dont care. Urgent help please

I am 20 and my brother is 23, we live with our single mother. My brother has always had anger issues. He is about twice my size. My mom not being able to speak much english can't do anything. He has no respect for anyone, he will break anything he wants. He always beats me and basically calls me his *****. I am leaving for the Air force some time next month but I cant wait. Tonight he destroyed my phone and tried to knock me out for talking back. he gave me a bloody lip, and the reason he stopped is because my dog bit him.He has made me a stronger man but I cant take it anymore. If I go back to school I know that I'm going to take my anger out on somebody else. I'm thinking of leaving but I do not have money. Should I try to convince my recruiter into letting me leave earlier.

She is mad because I will be going with my Dad and step-mother to the funeral. I work for my Dad so will be taking the day off. My mother thinks I should be taking my own car if I am going to go because she thinks my Dad and step-mother gossip with me about my Mom (only once have we ever done that). I am 26 so an adult and live on my own. How do i respond to my mother? She did this last time I went somewhere with them. She found out because my sister told her (my sister lives near the funeral so is taking her own car).

My parents dumped me at birth,only my grandfather took care of me till he died,his wife,older daughter and her children always mocked me,taunted me and insulted me coz he took care of me like I was his child. Dont you think karma should pay a visit to them for all the misery I have endured from them?? grandfather from mums side.. I dont live in America. Please helpful answers. Thanks guys!!

So again this happening over and over and i cant live with it tbh, i'm. being physically abused by my dad to be particular, so the problem goes on like that. For example, i come to my brother and i tell him something but he respond rudely so i did too, after that he tells my mom about it and my mom screams at me so i just responded he acts like that too then she gets mad and tell me i shouldn't back talk her and all that stuff called me you're stupid, you don't know what you're talking about like seriously so she just called my dad, and here comes all that usual talk, "ill kick you out of the house" "you're worthless""ill take your car" and when he comes home i get hit by his belt and till now i'm full of bruises and red marks, like seriously does anyone deserve all this, parents just think that they always should be right and if you respond or anything you disrespect them even if you tell them your opinion. In addition, my dad think he's a good father just cause he got me a car, laptop and a phone and i should be always thankful to him, whereas in the other he just abuse me emotionally and physically Sorry for the long post, but how can i stop all that? cause i feel tired of my life and now i'm fully depressed just cause of my parents unnecessary actions that they think it will discipline me but its not and i told them about it too much times, i just cant understand them.

I'm 20, and she is almost 14 but she acts like she is about 5. The other day she was wearing my shirt, and said she wasn't going to give it back - saying that if it fit her, it wouldn't fit me. I tried to explain to her that I had just bought it right before Christmas, that it still fit me,and that she wasent allowed to keep it. My parents made her take the shirt off and have me go in the bathroom to change and prove it fit me (which it does, everyone acknowledged that). During the whole thing she just gave me this horrible awful glare, like she hates me! I don't antagonize her, I don't try to pick fights, and I don't act like a child - but even in situations like this everyone says to "not let her get to me." Well it's annoying when she steals my $#I+ and says she won't give it back! How can I get her to stop doing this?! I didn't "fool" her... What are you talking about, @whyskyhigh ? Also, K, I don't live at home anymore. This is how she behaves when I visit.

I m 18. His dad turns 18 on March 10th. My son is almost 2 years old and his dad has only bought him one box of diapers and one toy and two shirts his whole life. While he makes more money than me. I have my high school diploma, license, a car, my own apartment. His dad used to be on drugs and as far as I know still is. He moved from home to home and job to job. Drives without license and has charges on drugs,. He has only seen his son a handful of times since he was 6 months old and I had to try hard to get that and I don t think it s really my responsibility to kinda force his dad to see him. To even get anything out of him all we do is fight. He takes care of his girlfriends son and his girlfriend threatens to fight me. I m not sure if I should go after child support( I ve had a case going since my son was 6 months old, but they say they can t find him) or go after full custody

I am 15 years old and he is 16. I live with my biological mom , my half sister , and my moms aunt (my great aunt). My mom is responsible and has 2 jobs but she doesnt have enough money to support me and my little sister. She called child support on my half sisters dad and my dad. I have problems getting along with my mom , we dont have a healthy and open relationship. My mom agreed to giving me to my boyfriends mom and my dad doesnt know about it. He himself isnt there for me as a parent he rarely sees me and when he does all he does is ask me if im pregnant. My mom threatned him about putting child support on him and he has not once bought me any kind of clothes for school. My boyfriends mom is willing to adopt me and take full responsibility for me. Which means feeding me , putting clothes on my back, making sure i go to school fit , making sure my health is perfect, and take responsibility if anything bad happens or if i get into any trouble with the law. She said she doesnt mind raising me for another 3 years till i turn 18 . By then i should have a job and help pay rent with my boyfriend. Is this possible?

Okay so my mom keeps yelling at me to re do a test i passed and im about to have another test in a few days. Then she laughed at me because i didnt get all my over due assigments done. I did 5 and yeah. She tells me how stupid i am. (I have an a+ average. How lazy i am ( i do a ton more than what her 30 year old daughter living at home does) She also tells me i eat too much (i hardly ever eat lunch and never eat breakfast) and yeah..and she litterally controls my dads life. My sister is a whole nother story but my mom sides with her 24 / 7. Im 14 and honestly wish ive never been born..also because of her i have no family because they all hate us. So its just me, mom, dad and sister. I do have a friend's house I really wanna move into and in my state they will let you do that if you know them really well. Icps here sucks. Thats what my sister says..then again she's usually wrong but she's a criminal justice major. She's been in college 6 or 7 years... Today my mom told me I was acting dumb..I didn't want to talk to strangers so looked store window and no one was there. Then she told me I pxss her off for crying and acting dumb. I can't help it when I cry. I try my hardest not took but I can't stop it. Also I cater to my sister. One time i was sicker than a dog and my sister made me get up to get her headphones. I was sitting in the other room and it turns out she was sitting on them. But i ask my sister to check my homework when she had a cold. I got screamed at by my mom.

My father barely spent time with me during childhood, using his job as an excuse not to bond, despite the opportunities. He had relationships with nearly 300 women over the years and used my mother as a scapegoat to blame her for his incompetence, which shows that he is blinded by his own faults, even after he remarried, he claims that he's "changed", but still acts the same, sometimes. He is a self-righteous narcissist with hypocritical beliefs, criticizing "Liberals" for using history in an argument, despite the fact that he uses history, himself, but discredits people because he doesn't want to lose in an argument, such as stating muhammad's conquest of mecca as a jihad and believes that the muslims want to do the same with america, which tried to correct by saying that not all muslims are terrorists, that most of the terrorists we've been fighting are resistance fighters against americanization, and that Al-queda and ISIS are a cult and aren't truly muslim; i'm a centrist, by the way, and like to hear both sides of the story, unlike my dad who acts like a tool for believing in the brainwashing propaganda of Fox News more than doing actual research. I tried to point out that america and christianity have done the same thing and have bad apples, themselves, such as Philippines annexation (until the 1900s), the occupation of Japan and the atrocities we americans committed until the 1960s, the Crusades and the inquisition christianity started. My dad refused to acknowledge it and condescendingly told me not to use history in an argument, which he hypocritically uses in his arguments.

Hey guys. I have always wondered if I was. In my family it's my mom, dad, my brother and I. My dad makes about 50,000 a year and my mom 20,000. I know with just this salary alone this makes my family middle class. But my dad inherited about 2.2 million from my grandparents and bought 5 rental properties with it and has tenants. On the rental properties, my dad is making about 35,000 a year. I'm not sure if this makes my family rich or still middle class? And does it make our family well off?Thanks for the help!!

I'm 36 and she's 18. She's extremely hot. Her mom hates me, her dad doesn't talk to me and her sister hardcore hits/flirts on me. She said maybe it was my rock and roll lifestyle..help?

I am hurt that my mother frequently insulted my Dad to me as a kid (the divorce itself was between my parents and I have no opinion). However, I am 31 now and my mother thinks, my step-father noted, that I hate her because I see my father more often and have told my mother before that the insults she told me hurt me and made me feel guilty for listening. So my question is if she asks me "do you hate me" of course the answer is not, but if she asks why I see my Dad every weekend and her like every third weekend what do I say? She is away half the time at my step-father's sister's farm anyway.

I tried last year and no one would hire me

She was verbally abusing, she was pushing me and she slapped me all because I didn't tidy my room, she thinks because she's a adult she can discipline me, after I spat her she told me I'm not a man and a coward for spitting at her, but she hit me first so doesn't that make her a coward also?

My parents are well off and they make me drive their **** minivan everywhere. They say its because of my attitude, but they really just want to keep the money for themselves because they are pretty selfish. Also, I have a deformed face and they won't even spend 10,000 to let me have a normal life and face. I hate them so much and they can't even do one thing for me as to make my face look normal. SOMETHING I CANT EVEN CONTROL!!! They are so annoying and I can't even have a normal face with or a car which all my friends tease me about.

I never had a real mother. My mother has always been mean, overly critical, and unreliable my whole life. I've suffered both a lot of emotional and some physical abuse by her, and in my mind I have no real mother, only someone that brought me into this world and that is it. I have a little boy that I love with all my heart, but now I think that I would love to have a little daughter in the future so that I can have the relationship with her that I never had with my mother but always wished for, and to help her grow up and be the beautiful person that I was never allowed to be, and raise her the way that I wish I could have been raised with (with love and support, patience and kindness and understanding), and be able to have a fun cool relationship with her. But since I never had a good example of what a good mother should be, the thought of raising a little girl also scares me. So for those in the same situation that have a daughter, what is it like to be the mother of a little girl when you never really had a "mother"?

Alright so I have a 1 year old and a 4 month old. I am currently living at home with my parents until me and my boyfriend find a place. My mother is trying to kick me out of the picture it feels like. She doesn t allow me to dress her if I do its ugly and she changes it. If I fix her hair she hates it and tells me to go fix it how she likes it. She doesn t want me taking her to see her father. She wants my daughter to refer to her grandpa as daddy. They do NOT speak ab her father nothing but dirty words. For example this saturday is my daughter s 2nd birthday. I had everything planned... party, outfit, place, everything. My mother changed the place the theme and the outfit. I hate that I feel as if I done know what I m doing or something. I seriously don t know what to do and now she is starting it with my son. If we go to the store or the mall she gets mad of I push the stroller and tells me I won t break there bond just crazy stuff. She always trys to out do me. It s pissing me off.I m 20 years old and I feel as if I m 12. If I go somewhere I have a hour limit and she calls me non stop asking me what am I doing where am I at?? HELP!!!

Is amazing and all and I know I m lucky tostill have her but all she does is try to change me.And my parents agree with her! For example, I love this band called 5 seconds of summer and so yesterday i was blastin their albums with my bff.So my grandma came into my room and says why don t you listen to some music with a meaning that resembles your heritage (I m indian btw) so I just ignored her.My mom comes in and tells me turn the music down cause my grandma doesnt like rap.WTF its not even rap lady chill! And i also feel lukr I m not good enough for anyone because she is always talking about the way I dress and how No man will love a girl who wears band merchandise and loves so many bands. Also, I m already insecure about myself so my grandma calling me worthless Stupid and Hideous doesnt really help much. So what I m really asking is,How do I stand up to my grandma without hurting her feelings?

Im 16 and my sister is 14 and she had her first BF a while ago but he broke up with her about 2 weeks ago, she was very sad. But since then she is diffirent. She huggs me almost all the time and always asks me if i love her, and ofc i love my sis so i tell her yes and we just cuddle for a bit. She also sometimes asks me if i could kiss her and she is really sad when i say no so i mostly say yes and kiss her but its a bit odd. Also we share a room and almost every night after i fall asleep she sneaks in my bed and sleeps with me dunno why. I a bit concerned, whats happening with her?? no Simon im a guy, im her brother

I am sharing room with my older sister she is 9 years older than me i'm her 15 brother.. I just came home early and directly go to room the room door was open as i entered in the room I saw sister is applying body loction on her nude body. I left the room asap. But after this incident I feel embarrsing to talk to her. As she know i saw her. After sharing room with hrr it was 1st time i saw her in this way. Normally we use curtain to split the room when we need privacy. Normally i did not be at home at this time therefor she did not take precauttion for privacy. Btw what should i have to do? she is very loving sister i don't want to destroy our relation ship.

My mother has three kids total & she is very nice & loving with us and with relatuves but she is a whole other person towards strangers. Example, i went into a store to buy detergent and bleach & a woman about my moms age said something rude to me. I came out into the parking lot & told my mom & she circled around. She ended up in a verbal altercation & threatened the lady. Earlier today, a woman cussed at my brother and his friends for walking to slow. We were driving & my brother pointed out the lady & my mom pulled over & cussed her out & punched her in the mouth. My mom frequently gets into fights and altercation especially if someone bullies us or is mean to us. She has a serious temper. I gave up my swing at the park for a girl and my mom told me i should've stayed there cuz she wouldn't give up her swing for me if it was vice versa. Why does my mom have to be so mean & evil? What can i do to help?

I have intercepted it more than once. my brother did get caught though last year and got a paddling. I haven't had one for since 7th grade. It was two years ago. But I hope they would only ground me longer since I'm older now if they caught me. I have try.

Okay I want to change my family mentally physically I don't know where my mother father got this yelling and fussing But I but southern black America has to be fixed We are not in salvery let treat each other Nicely and kind

Im 15, female, and i got it from smoking cigarettes. My dad hates cigarettes... And i have no idea how to tell him, i need to tell him though so i can get treatment, its starting to really effect me. I was proud of myself cause I stopped doing methinphetamine and sh*t like that (i did other drugs cause i wanted to get my mind of my moms death) ... But then i started smokin cuz it calmed me down... Should i tell my dad i did it to help me handle my moms death? Im scared hes gonna kill me... However when i told him bout me smoking weed (one time tho) he didnt even care really... But he HATESSS cigs.. Especially sense i have a precancer syndrome that makes tobacco and nicotine very very bad for me...

I just made friends with a colleague of mine, we spend most of the day together while working .We planned on meeting up sometimes after work too or on the weekend and program together, but my girlfriend is freaking out telling me it is not ok meeting him in my free time, because we already spend a day at work together. I tried explaining her that it is different spending time at work or in a free time, but she won't listen, saying evening and weekends are for us. I do not neglect my girlfriend and she is always my priority, but I would like to be able to see my friends when I feel like it, without her getting angry. She told me if I want to see him, it should not be more than once a week. Am I doing something wrong here?

My upbringing was very stable. Husband's family totally opposite: Mom has mental problems and has violent tendencies, tried committing suicide a few times, married 40 years to Dad but miserable, Dad has given up and "checked out," 6 kids- 1 a schizo, 1 a possible drug addict, 1 a recovered alcoholic, my husband, a sister, and the youngest sibling who is also and lives with us (he's 25 or 26). I have never dealt with anything like the dysfunction that goes on in his family, and I do not know how to handle it. Last night, my husband was filling out paperwork. I was on my phone and saw that his sister posted what is basically a suicide letter on FB. My husband and I strongly suspect this sister is on drugs. I got really worried as did the rest of the family and then my husband got wind of what was going on. A lot of stress befell our household. I am 7 mos. pregnant. This sister and his mom have a very codependent relationship. The mom is what I would consider an enabler as she seems to be oblivious to the sister's drug use and defends her at every turn and provides a house a food at her husband's disagreement. Sis has 3 kids with 3 diff fathers, and recently got the 2 boys taken away due to bad decisions in the past and continues to make. The sister posted this message on FB and later stated it was bc her boys have been taken away from her, even though it's things like this FB message and other stuff she does that got them taken away in the 1st place. ..read update for the rest So basically, she makes bad decisions, there is a consequence for those decisions, and then she uses the consequences as a platform for sympathy and the excuse to make more bad decisions. I think drugs are playing a huge role, so does my husband. I think we should stage an intervention or something like it. Then there's the mom. She has recently been arrested for abuse of a child for biting one of her grandsons, and she has also displayed anger problems all throughout my husbands childhood My mom died in 2012 so as the primary grandmother, she thinks that she will be watching our son. I told my husband over my dead body. She has an anger problem, has been arrested for biting a grandchild already, and displayed severe anger problems throughout my husbands childhood and it's only gotten worse. You go to their home, and there are holes all over the walls... every wall has been punched or kicked in. The kitchen has been destroyed, all cabinets have holes put there by angry outbursts So I am asking how to handle this situation. I've never seen so much dysfunction in my life. I think we need to stage an intervention on the sister, for one thing. And how do I handle the conversation with her about her not being allowed to watch our son because she has a severe anger problem and I don't want my child around that kind of trauma. Times like these I miss my mom more than ever. I have hardly anyone that can watch him when I need it, which luckily, won't be much.

We all have probaly heard "If you are to sick to go to school you are to sick to use our computer too" So here is the deal, when I am sick or on rare occasion pretend to be, I am apparently always too sick to for the computer But if my cousin is (he lives with us because we live much closer to his school than aunt and uncle) he is magically almost every time magically healthy enough to use the computer for schoolwork! Our computer is still the same computer when I watch Pokemon or he read school-stuff

so I have a lock on my phone and the parents know my password so my dad went through my phone and all my text and caught my girlfriend sending me nudes and told my mom and they are freakin pissed at me. and now they want me to break up with her what do I do?

I'm her "baby child" and she literally yells at everybody.. Certain friends have been lost because she goes crazy for no apparent reason. In-fact she is actually known by her whole extended nephews and nieces which are cousins to us as a "crazy out-of-control-person" . right now i have a therapist and its sort of helping but not really.. I think she incourages my mothers behavior which i would like to stop. I swear she will pull over just after I make a comment especially when its driving back to high school and threaten to call the police(which doesn't threaten me at all) and the annoyance is that she can't keep her mouth shut and barely lets me go out of the house.