Marriage & Divorce: Question: Why do I even care? |
- Question: Why do I even care?
- Question: Why is respect such a crucial issue for men?
- Question: How do I spice up my marriage?
- Question: I'm 5 months pregnant and unhappy with the child's father. What would you do?
- Question: My wife is mad at me for letting my Mom come in the doctors office room at an appointment with us?
- Question: Why do men always get screwed in custody and child support cases?
- Question: How fast can you get child support?
- Question: Does child support go down if my ex-wife gets married and has a child?
- Question: My husband cheated with s stripper?
- Question: Is it healthy for a woman to stay virgin all her life?
- Question: Do married men ever love the other woman?
- Question: What are some ways to make mu wife THINK I m going to leave her?
- Question: Who gets custody?
- Question: How many women have gotten married between the ages of 18-23 and are still happily married?
- Question: My husband keeps talking about this other woman and I think maybe he wants her, how can I find out?
- Question: Why do any poor or lower-class people choose to date or marry when they're working crap jobs and are struggling financially?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: How do I tell my husband that I'm leaving him?
- Question: I live in TN, I got married and there is still my maiden last name on my marriage certificate .?
- Question: I've been thinking about it for a long time and I've decided divorce is the only option...but am afraid. Help!?
- Question: How to deal with a ultra lazy wife?
- Question: My husband said I'm manipulative. What does he mean?
- Question: My husband is coming home later than normal the last two weeks... I'm getting suspicious?
- Question: Would wife number 2 be able to claim her husband's Social Security if wife number 1 is also, assuming they were married long enough?
- Question: What is the allure of chasing a married man ?
- Question: Tempted to have an affair?
- Question: What things made you the most angry about the way the media portrays love after getting married?
- Question: If your a believer in God , did you ever got married then divorce and got married again ? If so how was it ?
- Question: What's it like being married?
- Question: How do young people able to make their marriage work? I've seen quite a good amount of young couples (in their 20s)....?
- Question: Is it a weird thing for me to be a young male who never want any kids just want to be married?
- Question: My wife is feeling quite well now.Most of the time she remains sad.Please advice treatment.?
- Question: Are people REALLY taking their sweethearts to White Castle for Valentine's Day?
- Question: I cheated on my husband. I feel so guilty. What do I do? I need to tell him but I don't know how.?
- Question: What makes a marriage last?
- Question: Do some women stay with their husbands because they cant financially support themselves?
- Question: Are there any one how once married , had only one son and never divorced ?
- Question: My wife changed her Facebook status from Married to Widowed, should I be worried?
- Question: Is it rude and/or inappropriate to ask to see someone s marriage license?
- Question: Chidless people? Opinions....?
- Question: Does separation mean divorce?
- Question: Husband quit his job and I'm supporting him.?
- Question: Does separated always lead to a divorce... My parents told they are getting separated but they are still going to theory to work things out.?
- Question: This year makes the tenth year ive been married to my wife, any suggetions on a good well thought out of romantic loving gift?
- Question: Advice on cancelling Christian Marriage in India not registered in court by the marriage registrar.?
- Question: My husband cheated on me!! What do I do?
- Question: Why is it when a man is unfaithful to wife its his fault, but when a woman is unfaithful to her husband its still the man's fault?
- Question: Am I the only one that HAS to have sex more than once a week or I lose my mind?
- Question: I belong to a local gym. I'm married but I still get askedout by younger men. Thoughts?
- Question: Do you think this is borderline cheating?
- Question: In response to an earlier question regarding positive things about spouses - and since V's Day is coming -?
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 09:27 PM PST A couple months ago my ex married my high school bully. Life sucks. To top off the beauty of it all a couple of weeks ago they welcomed their son in to the world. (I in no way have anything against the baby. He's cute 😊) Anyways its like I cant stop thinking about the fact that the guy I thought I loved is now married to the girl I hated for years. Maybe I'm over obsessive about it but why do I care so much? |
| Question: Why is respect such a crucial issue for men? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 09:07 PM PST From the movie fireproof |
| Question: How do I spice up my marriage? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:56 PM PST Im 22 and married with 2 kids. Sometimes I feel like im too young, or like I'm not doing the things young adults my age are doing. I love my family, but how do I make myself more happy in my marriage and family. I'm always so depressed and sad. Part of me thinks its because I'm not living my dream and the other part feels like I moved too fast. |
| Question: I'm 5 months pregnant and unhappy with the child's father. What would you do? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:51 PM PST So I've been with this man for 3 years. We got engaged last year. For the entire year of our engagement I've been having different feelings and here's why. He works 6 days a week from 3:30pm to 2am. He lives with his parents and I live with my mom and we live about ten minutes apart. As time went on in our relationship he quit coming around. I maybe see him once every two weeks. When I ask for him to come over he says he's too tired because of work. Which I understand his job can wear him out. BUT here's the thing; about three nights a week after work he goes to the local gym with his friend. And on some nights he'll go and hang with his buddy instead of coming over here. So his "tired" excuse became non excusable. This has went on for quite some time and I have actually broke it off with him before over it and he swears he'll make more of an effort and of course, never does. Now I'm five months pregnant. And it still hasn't changed. He hasn't even been to one doctors appointment because he's so "busy" with work. I wanna leave. I'm miserable with him as well as miserable without him but only because I miss him. And now I have a baby on the way with him which makes it harder to leave. We don't communicate. We don't see each other. Honestly we don't act like a couple. I love him to death and I want this family to work but he doesn't even plan on moving in together until a year from now because of financial reasons. I don't know what to do. |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:36 PM PST We had an ultrasound and found out our son has a birth defect, my wife said my mom could be there for the ultrasound sense I wanted her there. Anyways after the ultrasound, I went to go to the doctors room when the nurse told me where my wife was at, and my mom followed me back. When I walked in with my Mom, my wife looked super mad. I feel my wife could of also told my mother she didn't want her in there not make it on me. Anyways, this birth defect runs in our family and my Mom kept telling stories about it to the doctor, and the doctor was getting annoyed because she kept trying to talk about our child not about medical history. My Mom kept going with it, then told the doctor "I don't know if my sons wife mentioned this to you but whenever I'm with her she has to rest in the grocery store I think she's gonna have a terrible time losing her baby weight." My wife got super mad because truthfully, my Mom is a bigger lady and gained 70 pounds while pregnant with me and my wife is 35 weeks and has gained 39 pounds. How can I fix this? |
| Question: Why do men always get screwed in custody and child support cases? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:28 PM PST |
| Question: How fast can you get child support? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:20 PM PST child |
| Question: Does child support go down if my ex-wife gets married and has a child? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:18 PM PST If my ex-wife gets married and has a child do my child support payments go down? I agree that a child needs to be taken care of but I would rather see the money actually go to my child. |
| Question: My husband cheated with s stripper? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 07:25 PM PST So yesterday i found out that my husband lied to me about working on christmas day but he actually went to strip club and hes been going there for a year and a half and spent almost 5 thousand dollars on stripper/lap dance/vip room and bj but he told me he didn't have sex with any stripper. So i told him a want a separation and the next morning while a was packing my stuff and getting ready to leave he gave me a hug then ask me not to go and promised me that he will never do it again. So i forgave him but i feel like he's lying about not having sex with any stripper. i still love him but my guts tells me he will do it again cause he know i always take him back. we been married for 18 years with 1 child and this is the second time a cheated, should a trust him again? |
| Question: Is it healthy for a woman to stay virgin all her life? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 07:23 PM PST my sister is 37 years old, shes saving her self till marriage, she didnt find the person yet, she said at 40 i dont want to get married anymore! is that healthy? |
| Question: Do married men ever love the other woman? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 07:23 PM PST So my question is do married men ever leave their wives and also do they ever love the other woman? It would be great if someone with experience answered. This is just out of curiosity because I was watching a movie and thought to myself these questions. Thanks! :) |
| Question: What are some ways to make mu wife THINK I m going to leave her? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 07:16 PM PST Odd question I know so let me explain. we ve been together since 2012 but just married 5 months ago.Im the only one working and paying ALL of the bills and all I get is nagging about what I DON T do.I ve grown tired of her very quickly but I still love her and our children..my question is basically what are some things I could do to basically make her think.."I need to get my stuff together before he leaves me". |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 06:41 PM PST My husband has conditional permanent resident card and my daughter and I are US citizens. He wants a divorce and he keeps telling me he's going to take her. Who gets custody? |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 06:06 PM PST I'm writing a blog about being young and married and just wanting to know how popular this life style choice is! Please no rude comments! |
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| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 05:34 PM PST If you're gonna include someone special in your life, shouldn't they first pay off ALL college debts that they'll have and work on saving up money and investing it wisely into good stocks and learning more in order to be qualified for real jobs that people respect? Now I'm not some rich snob snooting on everybody else. I'm bad on the economy scale, and this is just what I've learned. I dunno, personally I'd strongly suggest that someone who is wanting to date and marry should wait until they're making at least $50,000 a year since that way they have a good wage going. everything pepper. the money you spend on dating or marriage needs to instead go to paying off college debt since it's crushing at this point for most people not that I care whta people do with their lives anonymous it's just kinda stupid to me for anyone who's not upper-middle class or rich to date or marry when they first must make more money themselves if they ever wanna have a good life well if they can't make a good amount of money then they shouldn't get married or date to begin with. that way we ddon't have near as many bastard kids born to welfare moms or stds or poor ghetto areas of otherwise nice cities or whatnot |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 05:29 PM PST My husband and I live in a modest 1100 sq ft home with a one car garage on .25 acres. Our family has been growing and our living situation is becoming cramped. This past fall we started looking into bigger houses and large properties where we can build a house. After some searching we found a property that meets all our needs and requirements, and where we could build the house we've always dreamed about plus a large garage for all our vehicles, but my husband wanted to wait a little bit to make sure he felt good about putting an offer in. Well, a month goes by and my husband wanted to buy a new sports car (mind you he already owns a car, two trucks, and sports car, and that doesn't include my classic car and my van). We made an agreement that if he got this new sports car that we would put an offer in on the property we liked after the holidays (the second week in January to be exact). January has come and gone and my husband is now saying he doesn't think he's ready to put an offer in on the property. He has his new sports car and our yard is looking like a parking lot, but he doesn't care. Every time I mention the property he gets angry and say I'm being pushy. He then says that he should never make any agreements with me again because I'll hold him to it. I feel like he's being childish and saying whatever I want to hear so that he can get what he wants. I'm so mad and frustrated, but I don't know what to do. Any thoughts? |
| Question: How do I tell my husband that I'm leaving him? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 05:28 PM PST We've tried couselling and talking and taking a break from eachother but nothing seems to be working. I want to leave. How to explain this to him? |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 05:23 PM PST what do I need to get my husband's last name? Thanks. |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 05:14 PM PST My wife and I have had our issues in the past (Married 6 years this May) but have worked through everything and have an amazing 2 year old son together. Unfortunately, the last year we have entirely drifted apart (I'm taken for granted, talked down to as well as other issues, but long story short the main issue is not with me but with her) and now I think the time has come where we should go our separate ways. The reason I am afraid is I'm a blue collar guy without a ton of money and am afraid of being unable to afford a good life for myself and my son after we split. She works part time in retail and I'm afraid of alimony as well as my retirement and savings I've been putting away on my own for a house down payment. Also, the most important thing to me is my son and I believe his best interest going forward is being with me, I'm a more responsible person and he has had many minor injuries on her watch and I know for a fact she falls asleep while home alone with him which could lead to injury. When I'm home (I work 6 days a week) I get him up and ready for the day early, have a normal nap time, normal meal times and things like that. With my wife he wakes up whenever she rolls out of bed and has a late breakfast which pushes everything else back. I'm afraid this will create a large problem when it comes time for getting up for school in the morning. What I'm curious is...what are my chances of being able to have primary care of my son, and will have to pay alimony? |
| Question: How to deal with a ultra lazy wife? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 04:38 PM PST |
| Question: My husband said I'm manipulative. What does he mean? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 04:36 PM PST I honestly don't know what he means. When I asked what he meant he said don't play stupid because I'm doing it right now. Wth. The only thing I did was say I was leaving (we were arguing) and he sarcastically said he'll show me out. Is that what he means by manipulative? |
| Question: My husband is coming home later than normal the last two weeks... I'm getting suspicious? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 04:11 PM PST He has never worked late, and when he said he was working late I drove by and his car was gone. I couldn't find it. Could he be cheating on me? We've always been happy, it's just weird. |
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| Question: What is the allure of chasing a married man ? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 01:57 PM PST I have been married for 8 yrs and was just curious as to why other woman feel the need to have affairs with them, more than an available man, what is it ?? |
| Question: Tempted to have an affair? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 01:07 PM PST i have been married for 5 years and I know a man from online for 16 years. we have never met but when we were teenagers we havd alot of phone sex. We have started talking on the phone again and we have been having phone sex the last 2 days. My husband has not had sex w me in a year. He can't get hard anymore. He has only fingered me once in the last 6 months. i am considering meeting the man from online in person for the first time, there will be alot of sex. I am on the verge of haveing an affair. What do i do ? |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 12:34 PM PST For me, I was the most angriest about pictures like this (click in to see). These pictures aren't real depictions of love after the honeymoon phase. If my wife greeted me this way after 15 years of being together, then I would fall for her again easy; but this is not real life and I hate that they put images like these in our head as "real love" when it isn't. I'm also angry at love songs I grew up with, telling me lies about love that aren't true just so men or women can exploit the person who believed it. There's plenty that the media manipulates us to think something is true when it's not, I just would like to see what examples you have. How did the media lie to you about love and marriage? |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 12:16 PM PST Was the second marriage better then the last ? If comfortable why did you divorce ? |
| Question: What's it like being married? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 12:14 PM PST |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 12:10 PM PST that (from the surface) look very successful and healthy... I'm in my 30s. If I married in my 20s, I'd be overwhelmed with money issues and starting a family but I would probably be happy about it and excited too? I know they probably get a little bit of help from their parents though... I am engaged right now and I am stressed and overwhelmed about the wedding soon but I know I shouldn't be especially if it's the right thing :-) |
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| Question: Are people REALLY taking their sweethearts to White Castle for Valentine's Day? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:58 AM PST Where did all this come from? My man better not even think about it |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:02 AM PST Well here it is imma lay everything out. I'm 20 been married for two years to a wonderful man he's 26 takes care of me and our two kids and we have one on the way. I love him so much and he loves me but I fcked up BIG time. I conceived our second child when I was 18 with another man I've been keeping it in so long. I feel so ashamed that I did it. Before I cheated on my husband with this guy the only man I've ever been with was my husband ever I mean with everything kissing , dates he was my first and I just was curious about having other experiencaces I liked getting attention from another man I wasn't used to it it excited me I was lonely my husband was always working. I just feel so guilty I did this to him he didn't desurve it. Hes so good to me and the kids. I don't want to hurt him but I already have he just don't know it yet. Am I a horrible person for not having told him for so long?.. It was a mistake and I fully regret it. At the time he wasn't paying enough attention to my needs an this guy I knew who I had a crush on swept me off my feet yes it was lustful but I was young and never had any other experience with men I liked knowing another man wanted me yes that's bad but its the past me I wouldn't ever do it again |
| Question: What makes a marriage last? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 08:02 AM PST |
| Question: Do some women stay with their husbands because they cant financially support themselves? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 07:39 AM PST |
| Question: Are there any one how once married , had only one son and never divorced ? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 06:58 AM PST I took my wife's virginity and we both married fresh and never divorced till date .We have only one son. 28 yrs of our marriage starts from today. Are there other people like me. None in my neighbourhood . |
| Question: My wife changed her Facebook status from Married to Widowed, should I be worried? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 06:54 AM PST |
| Question: Is it rude and/or inappropriate to ask to see someone s marriage license? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 06:22 AM PST My wife s sister asked her this morning to see her marriage license. I basically told my wife to tell her, in as many words, f**k off. it s none of her business and what is she trying to prove, and to whom? her family has been meddling and nosy since we ve been together and I m ready to just go back with my wife and children home and never see them again. what are you guys thoughts? |
| Question: Chidless people? Opinions....? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 06:16 AM PST I have never wanted to have kids, even though I like them. My husband can't have kids due to an operation, and he didn't want them anyway. Some people say. "you will never be fulfilled as a person." It seems mean to say. I love my pets, and family, and husband, and life. Is it true that I'm missing out on something huge? |
| Question: Does separation mean divorce? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 06:10 AM PST My dad told me he is moving out for a while and he doesn't know if it's forever. He said he still wants to got to therapist( they have been and have an appointment coming up) but my mom removed her wedding ring is it over for good |
| Question: Husband quit his job and I'm supporting him.? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 05:49 AM PST He quit his job because he wasn't making enough after being cut child support & was making only $10 an hour. His vehicle tore up. He wasn't allowed to have a company vehicle bc we live too far. His mental health was being affected & he'd come home in awful moods. He quit & signed up for unemployment but DID NOT get approved. He pays $303/m child support & it's been 3 months since he quit. He's drawing out his retirement & waiting to get income tax, but half will go for child support. I'm "loaning" him the money for all his bills until he gets retirement and income tax money. But he doesn't want to start looking for a job till march or April. He was supposed to take this time off to get his mind right but won't go to counseling or to get antidepressants. He only leaves the house once a week when he picks up the child. He sleeps all day & plays video games all night. He has no sense of responsibility. He doesn't want to talk about the money problems at all because they stress him out. I go to college to get my masters degree. I'm in a program. Everyone in it has to take the same classes. So I can't just drop some & go get a job. I do substitute teach on the side but the pay for that isn't much & I can only do it rarely because of my classes. Idk what to do. He doesn't want to talk about money. I'm supporting us. I have to pay his bills because they're all in my name too. I had to consign because he didn't have any credit at all. Any advice? |
| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 05:43 AM PST My dad is moving out for a while and he doesn't know if it's forever. They are going to keep going to therapy but they don't know if it's going to work out. Does this mean they are getting a divorce |
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| Posted: 06 Feb 2016 02:25 AM PST I was married by a church in 2007. Due to personal disharmony we got separated in 2011, when my ex moved to Germany with my son. In 2012, I visited them to make a last attempt for reconciliation.. but my ex changed her mind and continued to live her life as is with my son. Since then we have been living as "singles". The church ceremony took place in Uttar Pradesh, India and we never asked a registrar to register our marriage officially in the civil court. Only thing we have is our marriage certificate from the church. Now we are looking for official divorce and the church "according to their belief" is not giving a document that cancels our marriage. The pastor of the church asks us to get a court document first, and the court refuses to give one since the marriage was not registered in civil court. They say they have no say in it since it was done by the church and according to the state of Uttar Pradesh that's considered to be a lawful marriage. Only the church has the power to cancel it. The pastor of the church is being a pain and even refuses to give me a document to backup his verbal statement "that the church has no power to give the divorce". He won't even acknowledge in writing that he has received both our requests for cancelling our marriage. I have no idea what to do. Is the church obligated to cancel this marriage? What steps can I take legally to get the church to some actions on our divorce request. Any legal advice with references will help. Thank you! |
| Question: My husband cheated on me!! What do I do? Posted: 06 Feb 2016 01:23 AM PST Hi, 23. Me and my husband I thought!! had a great marriage we've been married for a year and four months months. I was doing laundry on tuesday and found a wrapper of a condom in his pants! So ya know of course I got worried and suspected him of cheating how could I not have we don't use condoms because I'm already five months pregnant... Yeah you read that right... :( I'm heart broken but more so very angry at him I just couldn't believe it!.. so ya know I got sneaky and wanted to noisy through his phone while he was sound asleep and found phone calls and texts from a woman saying how she misses him and wishes he was there with her... I never look in his phone because I trusted him this was actually the first time I did this so I didn't feel guilty because I had to know. But how do I tell him I know... Hes acting so normal its sicking to me he's such a jerk! I love him so much and am so hurt and mad at him at the same time?!!.. I just don't know what to do I've been crying so much!! Is there any woman who's been in the same position ? I really need advice I don't wanna go to my mother about this as I'm not ready for the whole her wanting to kick his *** an pitty me uhh... Thnx |
| Posted: 05 Feb 2016 11:28 PM PST I know all women are not like that but please explain why some are? |
| Question: Am I the only one that HAS to have sex more than once a week or I lose my mind? Posted: 05 Feb 2016 11:21 PM PST My husband and I fight about sex constantly because he thinks I care too much about it and I think he doesn't care enough. I seriously get so mad and hurt and honestly a little psychotic without it. I'm used to having vices and I quit doing everything and I really rely on sex to de-stress me. And he says I'm just being selfish because he's too tired so I often cry myself to sleep because I feel lonely, and stressed and like he just really doesn't care enough about me to just maybe not play games or do something else and have sex with me instead. I just wanna know if I'm the only one that's like this. I mentioned a few other people to him that are this way also but apparently they're just trashy so they don't count I guess. I don't know what to do either, I keep consider having an affair but I know that's sooo wrong on so many other levels but it is about to make us break apart. So any advice also would be really nice. Thanks guys. |
| Question: I belong to a local gym. I'm married but I still get askedout by younger men. Thoughts? Posted: 05 Feb 2016 10:39 PM PST I'm in my 40's and I wear a wedding ring. I also have headphones on and I'm not the flirty kind. I am regarded as very congenial because I seem friendly. I noticed that some guys just try to make eye contact or watch me. A few manage to attempt to get my name, add me on fb, or ask my phone number. I do addthem on facebook but the proof of my marital status is all there (pictures, kids, etc). Despite all these, young men still aak me to hang out with them. What gives? I never said yes to anyone and I never give my phone #. Are married women easy to get or some guys just don't get it? |
| Question: Do you think this is borderline cheating? Posted: 05 Feb 2016 09:52 PM PST I contacted an ex because my niece wanted to see him and she's 7. So I told her that she would be able to even if we aren't together anymore. I contacted him on Sunday and I didn't feel like jumping into hey my niece wants to see you because we went through divorce a while back so I didn't know how to plus he didn't get alone with my sister but anyways I did and I didn't tell my husband for a week that I contacted him because he has the matter of jumping into things or getting mad quick so my sister said not to tell him because of that so I didn't plus my sister said it didn't involve him it's not like I was going to see my ex I was just trying together a hold of my ex for my sister since she didn't know how too and even how to ask since they didn't end in good terms when we were together and I was honest with my husband and told him today and he said I borderline cheated on him for contacting my ex to get my ex to see my niece so do you guys think that, what my husband said is true that I borderline cheated ? I only started a conversation with my ex and he told me about himself so I went with the flow so I waited a couple of days and saw that he didn't mind talking to me so I told him then about my niece and yes he wants to see her |
| Posted: 05 Feb 2016 09:42 PM PST When you think of your spouse, what is it which makes you most bitter about your spouse? |
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