My x and I separated Nov 1st, we had so many issues which cause for me to stop loving him, there is day that I hate him. So he told me today that if I am not happy to get the **** out. I havent gone because my kids will suffer and i am scare, he SD if I leave he won t help me with my Kids...at all....please give Mr advice

Actually I would be sad if they did, I can at least consider that I'm a better husband than at least one other guy. LOL!

We are legally divorced but common law married in Alabama. My Husband and his Mother files our taxes and would not address me with an answer the several times I questioned where the tax office they chose is located. Ironically, my Drivers I d ended up missing for nearly two weeks; later, I discovered it was for electronic filing purposes. I believe he( my non Husband Husband) only put me on the insurance to use me as a deduction, what should I do? Advocates at the help line say I m being abused financially, verbally, physically,and nyesterday, my own Son..... 21 years old, burned my hair and back with a cigarette. I want out of this life but aren t certain how to go about getting my own insurance or even a job that includes insurance. He has alienated me from my immediate family over 20 years and since also denies any friendship. The last thing he said to me was shut up as he was angry someone used HIS pillow which actually stolen from me, like whatever he wants he takes. A few days ago, I told him he could not have my prescription mess and he threatened to cut off my insurance then referred to me as useless. Please hep, I have no other choice to communicate, any possible Friend according to him I m not worthy of a friendship.Control freak he is. Thank u for your time

My best friend is an 18 year old girl Three days ago she found her mom s chat with a guy who used to be her boss,she found out they are together for many years now and even her brother is son of that man... That is a real nightmare for her,and me She has faced the feeling of a ruined mother which lost all her good things,she s suffering and don t know what to do or what to believe I tried to stay calm and give her better feelings and make her forget thet even for a minute. I m really confused,i don t know what to do to help her and i m suffering... She say:"i wish that women have been in her role as my mother,i can't even look at her,i miss my mom,she was loyal,she was kind..." I don't what to do to help her...

My boyfriend and i have been dating for two years. He's an international student here on an f-1 visa. We are talking about getting married but dont know the right steps to take. Since he is already here do we just go to court to be married?? Can someone tell me what steps to take please?

good person meaning.... polite, educated, have a religion and kind. you like the face, (for men and women alike) and the person is a good person, booom..... 3 months of dating then marry that person.... this is how I think of finding someone to marry...... compability will come eventually if you have the same family background.

I came home from work all tired and grumpy, and she has last nights rice heated up, and I was very hungry. I grabbed the plate, and i threw it at the wall, and I slapped the **** out f her, now shes unconcious. shes gonna hate me how i fighted with her, so when she wakes up, should we divorce?

My ex-husband and I were married from 2001-2004, and in that time we had 3 children. We parted amicably, and he was always in my children's lives. My ex-husband remarried in 2006. He and his wife had twins, and those boys are now 9 years old. About 6 months ago, my ex-husband passed away from a brain aneurysm. Then 2 months ago, his wife was diagnosed with stage 4 renal cancer. We (me, my ex, and his wife) were all on really good terms. Their boys came to stay with me a month this past summer, while their mom sorted through the legal stuff, dealing with my ex-husband's sudden death. It was a lot of fun to have them here. My ex-husband's wife doesn't know where the boys are going to go. She doesn't have any family to take them. I told her that I would take them, and raise them with my children. They would never lack for love, support, or having a parent to love them. They are good kids, and I adore them. I have a huge family, a big house, and they would be welcome here. Would it be possible for me to gain custody of my ex-husband's children? @NWIP, all of her family is deceased.

i give my husband a bj everyday. will he get tired of them? i don't force it on him or anything he usually asks for it, but just wondering lol

I just got back from taking my husband to the airport. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home.

I met my husband he lived over seas. We feel in love. I sponsored him to come here. His work papers have not come through yet due to some delays with immigration. Hes got a good heart but disappoints me on a daily basis.We maid an agreement he was going to stop smoking if i sponsored him and paid most his lawyer fees to come. Of course he never did. Everyday he comes to me and says hes going to stop but wont. He gives me little money for the bills but spends the rest on cigaretts. He begs me to quit smoking pot but i do it a few times a week and he smokes a pack a day. Besides that he should be doing everything he can to look for a job and instead talks in chat rooms all day and watches porn. When I get mad and yell bc I feel like im giving 90 percent he tells me im abusing him WTF? Am i not aloud to express my feelings when i do everything around here and never get appreciated for it?

can u still listen to all kinds of music after married? when it talks about ******* bitches and making money ? or will ur wife look at u like wtf?

I've been with my girlfriend happily for a while now. I love this woman deeply and would like to think I would marry her one day. That being said, this would be my first. What are some of benefits of being married? She also isn't in the best financial stance, /does that effect me? I also have some minor debt, nothing drastic. Is this something to be considered? This is very important to me and would like to be enlightened on everyone's knowledge and experience. Thank you very much!

So about 1 week ago my husband asked who I would vote for if I could vote. I told him since I can't stand either candidates and that I probably would vote for a third party, but that maybe for trump since he is not a politician. He knows how much i dislike both parties. I never said I liked or approved of Trump ever!! So for the past week he's been acting really strange and completely ignoring me. Not even an effort for small talk. I figured he was just being a jerk. So last night when we where watching the election and he stepped out, I texted him when Donald Trump was about to give his speech. That set it all off! He started screaming at me that why would he want to watch his speech and how could I support a rapist expecially since we have a daughter. And that he lost all respect for me and everyone who voted for Trump. And that I have no morals. And thats why he was ignoring me all week. So I was born in Cuba and came to the USA when I was 4 with my mom. We are completely legal and have been since we first came. I have my whole family over there. He said he hopes Trump deports all immigrants and that they should make it hard for cubans to go to Cuba to visit. He hopes Trump screws everything up for the country. Why would you want that for your country? No matter who won we should give them an equal chance to prove themselves. This whole situation is unfair because I never voted for the guy in the first place!!! How do I fix this?? He's so stubborn!!

Does that make me so horrible?! They both are mad at me and not speaking to me.

just need something new

We are a gay couple from Lebanon and we want to legally get married in an Europian country that legalizes same-sex marriage. Is that possible ?

My husband talks to his friend through a gaming server every day for hours (like 8 hrs per day). He does have problems making connections to pple, so it may be that. however, when i asked him if he liked men, he told me he falls in love with a person, but that he has never been in a sexual situation with a man. he has seen gay porn (as he's admitted to it), and he does says he is curious (since it's taboo). He says he would not mind trying it once in order to experience it and then move on. Could he be developing an emotional relationship with this friend (as he needs that for the next step)? last week the dude stopped talking to him, and my husband was concerned he had done something wrong.. our sex life is also complicated. he doesn't get off quick (sometimes not at all) but he is depressed and that is one reason for it. FYI: My husband has a personality disorder (bpd) and his friend is a depressed 2

I have no other option , i have to obey my wife. what ever she told i have to do in office. Even some time she dominates me in om. also she is 2 years old than me. i am ready to be her slave, please help me how to impress my wife

My husband has a friend from childhood who used to come around every so often. Well he went thru a rough time with hus ex or now back together. I don't know, his judgment sucks ***. And he let him stay a fee days to come back around... well during that time he asked my husband if he could move in??? My husband told him absolutely not. Just for a better understanding, we've had 2 grown men move in at 2 seperate times in the past. NEVER HELPED ON BILLS, BOUGHT FOOD, OR GAS, OR HOUSE ESSENTIALS THEY WERE USING. So I REFUSE to let another another couch surfer to move in. Can I also add that we are literally barely making it by as it is. 2bedroom 1 bathroom trailer. And my son isn't giving up his bedroom to a freeloader. Okay so here comes the real dilema. HE COMES IN WITHOUT KNOCKING WHENEVER! He's come over for a few weekends and I guess now he has the thought to come over Every single day for 2 weeks now. And every single time if the door is unlocked, he walks right inside. Does he have the right to do that?? I mean my husband and I were being somewhat intimate and he just walked in. Totally ruined the mood and everything. He also likes to munch

its something ive been noticing allot on youtube lately. i really dont see what the issue is. id love for someone to enlighten me as to why this is a thing. last time i checked love shouldnt be defined by a piece of paper and a crystallized carbon rock.

My soon to be ex wife sees no problem with this.she never has and never will.she has let her relationship w adult kids ruin our marriage by putting their wants ahead of our needs.first she let her 21 year old son move back in after quitting college and a good paying job out of state just because he didn't want to do it.he had 20,000 n mommy seemed to think he was unable to support himself he was allowed to stay with us 2 years n blow every dime never contributing to our house.note:in that 2 years while separated he slept w a 13 and 14 year old while she slept n was still allowed to live there.then her 19 year old daughter was allowed to move back in after only being gone 3 months.while gone she quit college to work more to support a loser bf who wouldn't keep a job.was with us 8 months before I left.during that time never bought a grocery,paid a bill,not crap.blew all of her money week to week on useless crap,not even trying to better her situation.also got a credit card and maxed it out in 3 months.i finally had enough after being ignored for 4 months n went off.well my wanted a divorce playing the victim.now were separated she given her daughter a job,still lives off her etc.i begged for a vacation just us the whole time we were married n never got it cause the grown kids had to go yet only separated 4 months n she runs off on vacation just her and the spoiled daughter.thats what's wrong w this generation.marriage was always last

My partner and I have been together for 6.5 years, due to get married in April. On Friday he got drunk while his niece, my best friend was over, and he treated me really poorly in front of her, including death threats. When she left, he got physically violent. I wasn't actually hurt, but the potential was there (he punched me in the shoulder, grabbed my throat, and threw a drawer at my head). This isn't an isolated incident, last time I can remember was a year ago. He regularly talks to me poorly. The next day I told him it was over, but he asked what he could do to fix it, and I told him he needs to stop drinking. He fought it and said he'd only drink a little, I told him that if he's drinking at all, it's only a matter of time before he loses control again, and that if he doesn't stop drinking I will leave, and he said he'd stop. The day after, I found more alcohol hidden in the shed that he'd been drinking. Then I caught him drinking last night and I told him it was over. He called his Mom (he's 36) and got her involved, and we had this whole intervention over the phone. He kept asking for another chance and I said I've already given him so many. He said that he's going to go to the doctor and get some pill that makes you vomit if you drink and that he didn't realize how serious I was. He begged me to give him a chance to change. I broke down a little and said we'll see how he goes and that I don't know if he can fix things, but we'll see how he goes. See edit for rest. What the hell do I do? I know deep down I should leave, and I feel bad because I know it'll break his heart. He doesn't work either, he's been off work for nearly 3 years due to his depression, so it'll cripple him financially. Do I wait till I catch him again with alcohol? I have no faith that things will change, it's only a matter of time. Does anyone know the statistic for domestic violence, and how much of the time it repeats itself? Sorry this is so long.

My husband and I have been married about 8 months. I'm only 19. He's emotionally abusive and has left bruises on me a few times. I moved hours away from my family to be with him. I miss my hometown and all my family and friends. Or used to be friends. He made me cut all contact with my friends. He hurts me on a daily basis and has been unfaithful in our marriage. I've tried to leave a few times and he won't let me take anything with me. He won't even let me take the car that's in my name because he bought a new battery for it. Oh and I get accused of cheating on a daily basis! When I'm only allowed to go to work and come home! But he makes my parents think all our problems are my fault! I feel so trapped and my depression is growing more everyday. I don't know what to do. I can't save any money for a divorce because he controls it all. Should I just leave with nothing and start all over or stay trapped?

My wife treating me just like another employee. even she use to shout at me at office. i cont even change my company due to my skill sets. she earning more.. even try to dominate me in om, but she is sexy hot gal. i cont leave her. can i adjust and live with her

Actually am directly reporting to my wife in office. she is my boss in office as well. she use to praise me or shout at me in office according to situation. whether it is good to work in same company ?

today after my classes got cancled i deceided to clean the house since this is my off day, our house is 9/10 disorganzied and borderline disgusting. i recently did spot cleaning the ohter day but today i deepded cleaned and after i cooked, bathed our son. at first she went back to sleep after she ate which didnt bother me but she woke up complaing about her hair and how we dont have the money to do it so instead of starting my cleaning i wahsed and straighend her hair for her which took 2 hours she layed back down with our son becuase he takes early afternoon naps so i cleaned the whole time while she laid down whiched botherd me because she when she finally woke up she wathced me scrub floors while talking my ear off about politicts so she grabs her jacket then says shes going to the gym now im fully upset because now all of a sudden she has energy to do something productive but i bit my tongue again but when i walk into our bedroom which i just got done cleaning she had her pants just laying on the ground and didn't make the bed after her nap i finally called her to speak my mind and her reaction was "i didn't know we had cleaning rules" can someone please help me calm down right now,

We were together 22 yrs, married for 15 yrs. During that time, everything I said and did was so confident and she really respected what I had to say. We have been divorced for 5 years. We tried to get back together a few years ago. That dumpster fire lasted about 2 years. In those two years, she could care a less about the things I said or did. Nothing I said was right, could not get her attention with any activity. When we were together, we did everything together including yard work, home repairs, everything. During our time we tried to get back together, nothing. Could not bring that togetherness back. She looked at me with same feeling as she were looking at a stranger. How does that happen? She re entered the work force about year 13 of our marriage and fell in love with a married dude. Our marriage was not perfect by no means, but she claims to have lost her love for me - so just so you know our divorce was not due to me cheating, drinking, abusing or gambling. I just don't know how the love could just vanish.....

I need as much information to put me off getting married as possible. include things such as how long were you married? Did you have kids? Do you regret having kids with this person?

Hello I am Claudia I am 45 years old and my husband also has a son of 24 years.he revealed something that frightened me and revealed that he beat my father and he said "look Claudia I need to reveal something to you" and he Revealed the reason for having beaten my dad and he said '' Remember from 1989? When we were 18 years old his father knew about our first night of love and he did not like it and tried to attack me and defend myself and I ended up beating him too much and I did not understand that year because he came home bleeding and told me to finish The courtship with him and I refused and he gave me several slaps my mother did not like and gave a fight between them. I left home because of this and went to live with my boyfriend a few days, lose my virginity with him, I told my husband that I'm afraid of him because whoever beats his father-in-law is an aggressive person and bad character and he said '' my Claudia, for that, we have been married for 25 years, I never touched you. I never hit you, I never went to the bar while you took care of the child. I was present all the time, never beat you or Our son I hit too, I defended myself '' in fact he never did me any harm, even for the party I went he did not imply, but I'm scared after hearing this.

That's my fault, probably. Because I agreed to an arranged marriage. I was never really the dating type so I decided to just roll with it. But that woman is just the worst. She's one of those spoiled, self entitled daddy girls. She thinks she's better than everybody else and that really makes me mad. Doesn't even know how to cook. Should I go for a divorce? We're only married for 4 months and she might be pregnant.

My husband has a close relation with his sisters ,i never complained about it , for me i thought his sisters are lucky to have such acaring brother we go, we were on a relation for only 3 months then we got married then o start to notice that theire relation are not normal he keeps slapping his sisters butts then by the way we meet only on holidays , he started to touch his sisters butt when he is alone with her once she looked at him when he didt and she smiled, he did it againe 2 times with his other sister and she did nothing also, and he tried to touch his sister big boobs also by trying to take her baby from her . He know that i saw him because i told him stop touching you siters butts respect me he start shouting and said you are sick you need a therapy, i have everything i exercise i was one of the popular girls at school,i give him everything sex everyday , minimum 3 times a day even if i was sick and i have 3 kids. I told a friend of me , her advice was to get divoce. I dont want that for my kids , i forgot to mention that he keeps checking my mobile phone emails whatsapp he reads everything!!!! He keeps saying that i am in a relation with a man!!! I need advice please

So I met my wife of about 2 years ago. I honestly love her and want to bless her with a good life and my full heart but on 3 seperate occasions I caught her in emotional affairs. Multiple men of which 2 she had been sharing intimate and very sexual communications with for multiple years. Each time I caught her I made it very clear that this was very destructive and it had to end or we likely would. She made all the promises and showed me that she sincerely understood and it was over BUT it continued despite the words. So I am facing a 4th time and while she seems much more genuine and regretful I obviously have zero reason to trust her. this last time much more of the secrets and dialogs were revealed and the whole ugly truth was made visible. It is a real chance for change but it is a horrible truth and a heart breaking reality. But I love her and true love forgives. I believe in marriage being a sacred institution. I believe that God wants us to love others in SPITE of there weaknesses and failings. That being said is it even possible? What would you require of her in order to give her one more and likely final chance to save her marriage? She has started to see a therapist and has promised to be fully transparent Letting me know how this sexual addiction/emotional intimacy began and what it meant fo rher over the years. I love her and want her back but I understand that is a very dangerous direction to travel. She doesn't deserve it but maybe someone has to be the example of unconditional love that we want to see in this world

and I'm about to blast they mouth but I mean I'm trying to control my temper but they don't say s*** on your face they like talking s*** on ur back or fb or here why cant they say that **** to my face what a coward what is a way to make them feel like ****

as a rule she must be in the kitchen at this time making my meal I might allow her to stay up late to watch again as a rule she must be in the bedroom preparing for me to honor her with my manilness

Because he has cheated on me In the past but I have so much love for him I don t want to leave him i refuse to but at the same time I feel like I should forget about it but at the same time I don t want him to think it s okay my question is what signs should I look for if he did cheat when he comes home he left Saturday and won t be home till Friday please help me