I have a friend that is being sexually abused by his dad. He just started crying at are sleepover when I asked him why he was complaining about his butt hurting when he sits down. How do I respond to him. I don't know what to say to help. I don't know if I should tell my mum or dad. His dads is always super nice to me as well. So I don't know what to do. I need some help.

Since the sixth grade, ive been bullied, sometimes for things like being ugly or being stupid (even though i get all a's and b's and am considered very street smart, im not trying to brag lol) it all started with one kid, and then he turned some of my friends against me, at this point, im just a joke at my school, without saying a word, ill walk into a room, and get a load of insults, and they embarrass me any chance they (basically and kid in my school) gets. I know they're all being stupid, and i know im smarter then them (again not trying to brag, but the things they say are soo stupid) but it is destroying my confidence, and it would be one thing if they just bullied me but they embarrass me in front of the girl i really like,teachers, and even my parents. Any advice?

My friend told me she is a lesbian yesterday, and I find myself struggling to believe her. Just hours before she told me, she was gushing about some celebrity and showing me topless photos of him to show me how "hot he is". This girl is a known liar and has made false rape accusations, and other things like that multiple times. I'm just confused and I don't know what to believe. Does it seem like she is lying?

I recently transferred to a different high school for my parent's convenience and punishment for disobeying them. I am a junior now so it's been hard changing high schools. Throughout earlier years of my school I've always had friends because I practically always went to school with them. So I have about 4 close friends while the others are normal friends. After I switched school I no longer can hang out with them, and since it's a new school I have zero friends. I have a couple aquaintences but none are close to friends yet. During break and lunch time I just hang out by myself and look at my phone. Sometimes me and my friends back at the old school call each other on phone because we have same lunch times. But when they are not available I sit near this group to seem like I blend in. I don't talk or interact with the group and I usually just use my phone. I'm not used to making new friends because I have never once in my life had to move schools. I basically have no friends at this school, other than school I'm fine, me and my buddies usually hang out at each others house or we go to trips together during short vacations or weekends. But during school what should I do instead of using my phone? Any tips?

I sit at a table at lunch with people idk (I'm pretty shy too tho) cuz I don't have friend in that lunch period so I just sit on my phone or do my hw during the time and next to me there's a few people who are really really loud and obnoxious but they never bother anyone or anything so I just mind my own business pretending they don't exist lmao.. today the kid next to me told his friend from the table behind us to sit with him.. There were no open seats so he just pulled up his chair behind me (I just sat on my phone pretending not to hear a thing).. So I felt s tap on my side (not my shoulder, my side so my rib which kinda made me shiver but I didn't bother to turn and look at him cuz I knew what he'd obviously do.. Pretend it wasn't him who tapped me and laugh..then about 10 mins later I felt him tap twice(kinda stroke my side or something idk) I still didn't look and they both laughed and one of them was like " she's probably like boi I know it was you" mimicking me obviously .. I also kept hearing the word fat *** literally as in a fat butt tho😛😁😬.. So what does it mean?? and what should I do to keep myself occupied without being bothered And no I'm not gonna talk to them or anyone

I moved to my new school about a year and a half ago and everything was up until last month. Since last month, my friends, guys and girls, have started calling me a hoe and a slut. I usually wouldn't care about what people think of me, but these guys were really like my best friends, we were like brother and sister, but then they started calling me names. I want to know why they're calling me a slut and a hoe, but they wouldn't tell me when I ask them. However, we still have common friends. I asked one of common friend to go and ask them and they did. My friends who called me a slut had said that they're calling me a slut because I hang out with too many guys and that I flirt with everyone I see. I feel like that's not true because is it wrong have guy friends? And I know that I'm not flirting with any of the guys because i have no intentions to. I'm only a 9th grader and I value my future and my career first. My other friends are arguing with my friends who are calling me a slut. My friends have been saying that "I'm the farthest girl from a slut and that I'm innocent" I hope that my friends mean what they're saying when they say that I'm not. But with people calling me slut.. i don't know am I slut? I have self doubt now and I wish it wasn't like this because I was really close with my other friends who called me slut. Can someone help me? Thank You!

Hey everyone! So someone told on me for cutting at my school recently. None of the people i told are admitting and i told them i would not be mad at anyone who told because i know they were worried. well lemme tell you about every person Person #1 : She told her mom about me and i talked to her mom i have known her for many years and always tries to help me (worries) Person #2: worries about me/ knows many other secrets/ very good best friends/ caught talking behind back when i first told him/ he called me and explained it wasnt him/very nice person #3: my best friend/ cuts too/before she started cutting she said she would tell and now she said she understands and she didn't person #4: was in florida/ had access to phone/ always asks to see them person #5: i know all her secrets/ her sister cuts/ she said if i ever did it again she would slap me/ she found out i did it again who do you think told :) thank you for reading i have been trying to figure this out for weeks!

This girl got her period in school and she cried. I asked what was wrong she told me. I walked away and giggled a little and I feel bad. It wasn't cause she got it was because she reminded me of a Miranda sings video when Miranda spoke of periods. My old friend asked what happened. I told her I'm not telling her. It's bc she runs her mouth to her ghetto friends. She Keeps texting me trying to make me tell her. Like no I'm not gonna give away info like that! Especially since when I was her friend she ran her mouth about me. What do I say to her to make her stfu and myob!?

Basically I want to be her friend because we have lots of inside jokes, and we tell each other everything. But I don't because she did some really mean things to me two years ago and she gossips a lot and says rude thing about people who have done nothing to get. She just gossips too much and I'm afraid that she is secretly gossiping about ME behind my back. She is really annoying too. Because she bosses me around and gets mad at me for making her wait with me even when I don't ask her to.

I have been going to this school for a very long time now, and am a moderately successful student. But now that tenth grade has come around, I feel as though the entire system has developed a relentless desire to **** me. Adding to my troubles, there is this group of kids who annoy me constantly, making me turn my work in late further worsening my grade. The most obnoxious of the group is definitely Sam, the biggest white privilege asshat that I have ever met. He has been ruffling my friend Jamys Jammie's a lot, and he killed jimself last night. I want revenge, and want to kill him and his group of 20. How many can I kill without going to real prison? I hear prison is a corrupt system made to exploit people, and would rather not get caught up in it. Please and thank you.

These are the one's I'm thinking about getting. They are gray and very baggy. I might get the hoodie too.

She says I wear makeup and calls me a potato. She always makes up lies about me. She says all my stories are fake. I don't want to be her friend but she knows all my secrets! Thanks everyone for your answers Everyone please report and block this question I want it to go away thank you so much

There is a drama at my school and there only two people trying out for solo/lead. My friend is a senior and she's had that role since freshman year. I'm a junior. Should I compete against my friend and possibly get the role or drop out and let her have it? We only became really close this year and I don't want to ruin our friendship. What should I do?

I have a gay friend who recently came out. He s always tried to hug me and rub my back and stuff but it s always made me uncomfortable. He claims that it s just his way of showing how he appreciates me as a friend, but no one else in my life does this. One day in the car he put his hand on my knee and tried to rub it and then I told him that all of his touching makes me uncomfortable; he began calling my a homophobe and saying it s not like he s trying to suck my dick and I felt like he was making me out to be an asshole. He s a good friend but recently I ve started to notice he is getting a little too friendly and has a lot more invested in our friendship than I do. What should I do? TLDR: I have a gay friend who is getting etoo friendly but gets mad when I tell him I don t like it. What to do?

There are a lot of fake people in my school who talk behind their friends backs. Its so stupid and I don't get it if you are friends with them why do you talk behind their backs?!! ITS SO STUPID!!!! I cannot wrap my mind around it.

Me and a group of friends want to do something nice for a friend we're but we're stumped because I want it to me more meaningful than simply buying something or giving them money.

I still want to be friends with them but I don't know if I should keep talking to them.

So in summer 2017 after my senior year of HS which I am currently... I planned about hanging out with my friends that are all Juniors pretty much in the summer as much as I can and there's 1 person that says idk about seeing me one last time cuz she was on board then idk if she hates me for no reason anyways I told her something about being my last time seeing her and my friends because is this true that I won't be getting time to see my friends anymore even though I'm going to a community college I personally think I won't get to with the amount of work I'm going to be getting and the tests. Can anybody help me so that I'm not gonna keep asking this chick if she wants to see me or not.

I just feel like I am 1 year closer to my death. Not to mention this year has been pretty boring...

I'm a girl and I'm in 7th grade. There is a girl on my team and is in the same core group as me. I'm not sure if she is lesbian or if its just her personality. Last month or so I was sitting with my friend on the floor in a team meeting. She sat behind us and was like "How are my two cuties?" (Its the beginning of the school year so last month was the first month of school and I only met her this year. My friend and her were on the same team last year so they were farmiliar with each other) A few weeks ago I was outside during lunch and I was sitting on the bench with my other friend who was on my team last year. While my friend was talking to one of her friends the girl came over with one of her friends randomly and said "Do you want to make out with my dog? My friend did" (Im a shy girl so Im not like that) Then last week I was walking in line and she walked up next to me and was like "Whats up babe?" Today at school while I was outside she walked up to me and was like "Hey cutie" I have only heard her say something like that once and it was to a really good friend of hers.

For an excuse they feel sorry for them. Let them smoke your weed, talk about sex etc?

and how long did you guys not talk to each other?

Friends, family, co-workers, doctors, even my counselor calls (call?) me by names other than my own. This happens a lot, almost every day. Any ideas on why this might be? It's starting to make me feel kind of bad about myself, like I'm not interesting enough for people I've known for years to remember who they're talking to. Idk lol

My best always ignores my calls and never texts back until the next day and she always has an excuse but if she was to call or text me I always reply back.

I'm in the yearbook team and I'm kinda of a lonely there. Ever since the first day of school I have tried to be friends with all the people who been on yearbook before or the newbies that was there too, but it always seems to fail. I can never have a normal conversation like friends do everyday. It was always something about deadline or team coaches and stuff. The Chief in Editor is comfortable with mostly everybody and makes jokes here and there but when it comes to me it's like she's bored out of her mind and just want to talk about my spread which I don't mind. There was never a day where she makes a jokes about me or with me, it hurts my feeling a little bit.

I m going on a trip with my good friend and her family. The trip is at great wold lodge for 3 days 2 nights. I normally get homesick even at My best friends house. How can I help to not get homesick ?

So today on my bus this little ignorant black kid who's in 6th grade started harassing my friends and I (8th grade). First he made fun of my pimples (I don't even have a lot and they are from genetics), then he made fun of my friend and told her that she looks like a guy and that her cheeks sag down her face. I could see her eyes tear up a bit. Then he told me "yeah and you shut up big head." Keep in mind that he got held back. He's also really disgusting and he has a big birthmark on his face that looks like Australia upside down.

Yesterday my Friend tragically lost her Dad out of nowhere to a work accident. My family was very close with her family a few years ago. She's only 16 and he was only 45 and everyone is still in complete shock. I can't even imagine how she's feeling right now but I just don't have the right words to tell her how devastated I am. I've never had to comfort a friend like this before and I'm at a total loss for words. What do I even say to her to atleast let her know how much this sucks?

So my friend sent me screenshots of my other friend saying some mean stuff about me. I'm not letting her get away with it so I'm going to confront her. I want to confront her in person, not through texts. How do I confront her?

I'm very high functioning autistic. Stimming, not making eye contact, and not really getting sarcasm or mistaking anger for a neutral expression is my normal life. I'm really emotionally shallow. I know my faults. But at the same time I don't, if you understand what I mean. I also don't talk at all unless I'm around friends, then I just don't stop talking and I'm very random and passionate about things I like. The other day at lunch when I was talking about Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them, I was saying how I loved how Newt Scamander was portrayed, as he was a pretty realistic representation of someone on the spectrum. Whether that was what they were trying to do or not, it was very refreshing and relatable for someone like me - you don't see many high-functioning autistics out there in the cinematic world who are actually portrayed rather well. Anyway, I was talking about him, and one of my friends said "yeah he's kind of like you: cringe worthy and kind of annoying". I didn't think I was annoying. But then she said, "you both talk too much and make no sense and are too blunt and are pretty rude" and then said, "but hey, you are allowed to do that because you're autistic, right?" I wasn't really sure what to say. So I just ignored her and kept talking to my other friends. But am I the annoying friend? I didn't know I was being annoying... Okay. I know I might offend people. But I don't mean to. And I know I don't really get sarcasm or jokes. I'll work on my behavior.

I'm trying to find a friend, but I don't know how to spell their last name. The name sounds like "Rush Hour". How might that be spelled? I've tried Rushour, but that's not it. I get the feeling it might be French, and thus hard for me to spell.

I m not quiet or shy or something like that, I like talking and laughing with people and btw I don t get super marks. I usually get an B or an C. So I m not a nerd or something like that. Also I always try to help them or I try make them laugh when they look sad. But they re mean to me. They never stick up for me. Why are they like this?

My friend and I weren t getting along after my boyfriend and I broke up because I was in a bad place. I sent her a message to apologize, and she said she appreciated it and wanted to bring that up too. She said she was "uncomfortable in the friendship the last few months". That she knew it was on her too and she could have handled it better, and that she just wanted to help but didn t know how to. What does uncomfortable in the friendship mean?

So I want to do a "road trip" for my 21st birthday with some friends, but most of my friends will still be 20. I live in Indiana and I do not want to drive for more than 13 hours, where's a fun place and what could we do there?

and I am quite annoyed by his/her loud mouth, very liberal moral standards (like egging on someone to actually have an extra marital affair), but goes on saying about protecting the trees and the poor (then sneering at the poor for being smelly). Then he/she made a statement that he/she will unfriend any FB friends that will post/share websites that according to him/her were false and stupid (although I found out that he/she did post/share false websites too). Then one day, he/she unfriended me because probably I made a mistake of sharing a website he/she hates. Now I don't mind, coz I don't like him/her anyway. But the thing is, he's/she's so into about tolerance and hates bigotry. Ain't he/she acting like one?

I'm a teen guy (16 yrs old). So. My weight is 120lbs (54 kgs) my height is 186 cm (6 foot 1 ) and I have light brown eyes and brown hair. (I'm from Germany, and I'm white). So the question is. Am I going to tower on my classmates?

i went to uni and today was the last class, however when people were signing the register, this girl allowed them to use her pen, but when i tried to get it she pulled it away and told me "this is my pen" lol why would she not allow me to use her pen and she let others use it? i know its petty, but what do you think cold be he reason behind it?

My childhood friend that now I am not friends with her because I am sick and tire of her copying me. I hate her for this. She copies what I wear, what career I take and apply to places I work in. First of all, I am single and she is a wife with 2 kids, what joy does she get copying me? Can't she leave me alone? If I wear a dress, she wants to know where I bought it and she wears it next time. If I wear flowers on my head, she'll wear next day. I got nose ring, she got it now. She ask what class I am taking and which university I am applying, I told her and now she's doing same major as me. She got hired same place I work in. I am so angry about this. She asks where I buy my make up and if can use my jewelry and lipstick. I let her borrow my head jewelry once since she loved it so much but I never wore that head jewelry again because she touched it

Not only did I find a bunch of computer programmers living below a hatch in my basement last week, but now my roommate has gone missing, and strange people in black cars keep driving by and leaving garden gnomes on my front lawn. Is there a message they're trying to send? What the f*ck is going on here?

My best friend have been treating me really bad lately, first of all he exposed me before 2 months about something very bad i did, and secondly...today he told all my mates that my dad is an alcholic which is something very bad in our culture, him being an alcoholic was a secret even i dont know that he is an alcoholic but i saw him in a bar 2 years ago and my friend saw him before 2 days drinking beer, and he told all my mates, and talked to him in private and told him what the **** is wrong with you exposing my dad? He is not replying, he is just saying "Ok" in a away as go away or i dont care, what should i do to him please help

Ok so this morning I was sitting in my school cafeteria and I guess my shorts were riding a little low. And my shirt and sweater were so short that they moved up with any movement I did. So the people behind me saw my butt crack and underwear too because they came up a bit. I noticed because I heard girls laughing a lot behind me so I felt behind me and yup, everything was exposed. Would you be embarrassed by this?

En el patio de un centro de enseñanza 80 estudiantes están alineados en 8 líneas y 10 columnas. Cada estudiante les da la mano a los amigos que hay cerca de él. ¿Si tenemos en cuenta que el apretón de manos entre las dos personas es el único adiós, Cuántos adioses hubo a todo?

This annoying person just spams you and her voice is so ugly. She pretends everyone is her toilet to have diarrhea on. And you can't even "try" to fight her, because the innocent little kid in the family will say that you're the one who's annoying. That's right, in order to fight the annoying one, your voice gets ugly and annoying. What to say, what to do, how to deal with this annoying person in the right way?

This girl and I have been best friends for over 2 years. However, she seems to like all the guys I like. So far,she's liked 3 of the guys I liked (one that I dated). The second guy I liked, she also ways used to follow us around and barely gave us some alone time. My other friends started to notice that and felt that she liked him too. Recently,she even liked the third guy I liked two years ago (he liked me too) ,but he doesn't like her like that. Now, she likes the second guy(a guy I liked for a year) and she wants more with him but he isnt sure it he wants a relationship. Also,she would sometimes tell me things she does with the guys (almost like she's trying to make me jealous). For example,she said "Sam wanted me to lay on his lap" or "L asked me this while he was walking me to class." Is she doing this purposefully? I know she means well but still I can't help but wonder what her true intentions are.

even shyest people i know have friends why do do people claim I HAVE NO FRIENDS it doesn't make any since to me i can't comprehend a person with no friends, ya maybe for a short time you have no friends like when going to a new school but can't you develop new ones?

The three of us have been best friends since we were children, around 5 years old. We slowly grew apart over the years, but still remained best friends. We were like sisters. Nothing could ever tare us apart, we would be friends in the nursing home. At least that's what we all told each other. Now we are all young adults (all of us are only months apart in age, we are all 21) they are both "too busy" to really hang out anymore. Distance isn't an issue, time is. Actually, I think it's more of a priority thing. If they really wanted to hang out, they would make the time. I will use the names Jane, and Jill to keep their identities anonymous. Jill has a new boyfriend, they've only been together about 4 months now. She spends every single weekend with him. We were planning on ladies day out together, but that never happened because she's always with her precious boyfriend. Jane on the other hand, is still single. However, she didn't even try to keep the conversation going when I messaged her. It was small talk, at best. She likes my posts on Facebook, but never starts a conversation. Jill, however, said she said she would talk to me later, but never did. It's been almost two weeks now. She still hasn't messaged me. What happened?! We were like sisters at one point! Inseparable! It's like they don't even try to keep me in their lives now, and it's really making me wonder if they even consider me a friend anymore. They sure aren't acting like it. It hurts. I feel so alone. Advice? I don't let too many people in my life, at least not that close. I'm very selective with who I choose as friends. They were legit my only friends. I have a few acquaintances, but no one I would want to be my friend. That's why I feel so alone.

So, I have this friend who is a girl (I'm a girl too) who is gay. She's also friends with my best friend. So this girl, (let's call her Sara), told my best friend, (let's call her Alana), that she likes me and was wondering if I was gay too (she did this over text). Alana said she would try to casually ask me but not say anything about Sara liking me. Alana told me everything though because she thought I should know. Then Alana wrote back to Sara and told her I'm straight. Sara said she'd get over me soon so it was okay. I usually smile a lot to anyone I know (if I don't hate them lol). With my friends, I smile and laugh a lot more. Sara took this the wrong way and probably thought I liked her, so the next day at school, I tried to be a little less giggly. But it didn't really work out how I wanted it to. I wanted to slowly be a little less "flirty" (I guess you could call it but I wasn't trying to be flirty at all, just nice) everyday. But instead, I ended up seeming rude and not really nice...so I have to work on that. After thanksgiving break, I was back at school and I was trying to be nice again (because I have to pretend I don't know she likes me) but I guess I unintentionally was way too nice and giggly again. Sara was showing me a video at the end of class when Alana walked in to talk to me. Sara was looking at me with this look in her eyes and she was slowly moving a bit closer to me. I had to go to my next class so I told her I'd look the video up and finish it later. I told my mom and older sister about this situation but they didn't really seem to help very much. It feels like now all Alana and I talk about is Sara and everything. We've also been getting into fights lately because of this. Alana feels like a third wheel and thinks I might even like Sara but I've told her multiple times I don't. I only like her as a friend and nothing more. Alana and I plan to talk to Sara about it soon because this can't go on much longer since it's breaking our friendship and making us miserable. I know it's going to be super awkward when we talk to Sara about this (especially since i'm not supposed to know) but I can't think of anything else to do. Any suggestions on what I should do? Has anyone else been in this situation? I don't know what else to do. btw we're all freshman in high school... Also, sorry for all the updates but I couldn't fit it all in the one detail box thingy

Appointments for cancer and even though I tell them that they still make fun of me and make me feel crappy. But I still want to be in it I just don't know what to do or how to deal with it.

My best friend is 16 she's a huge crybaby she cries at almost everything or nothing. She mostly cries over her boyfriend or work or her kids or something stupid like that. I try to ignore it but she's always begging me for a hug I get really annoyed when she cries but I still hug her. She's been this way since her fiancé died they have twins who are only a month old. I feel bad for her but it's really annoying when she acts this way. Why is she such a crybaby ? How can I make her stop ?

I unfriended my crush because not only was it toxic for me, but they didn t even talk to me outside of work. Thinking my crush wouldn t notice I deleted them, well I found out I ve been blocked by my crush. Why would they block me when we aren t even close?

My friend is upset about the fires that are happening in Tennessee. We were there last month it was fun down there. She hopes her favorite place Cooters didn't get destroyed by the fire. She would feel really bad. That's all she wants to do every time we go down there whether it's Nashville or Gatlinburg she has to go to and hang out at Cooters she loves that show. She's also worried about fires happening here in Ohio. I don't think Ohio has every had any not in our life time anyway. She's been crying about it all morning she's a big crybaby she'll cry about anything or nothing. She feels bad for the people and animals there. I tried rubbing her back and singing to her that usually helps but it didn't. It's still early she's still in bed. She's also been scared of fires since she was little. She doesn't know what she'd do if our house burned down. She said she has nightmares about it sometimes. How can I help her feel better ? Shes 15