I like my teacher really bad, i think she's wonderful and i cant stop thinking about her. To make it worse we're both lgbt+, so it makes liking her less easy because it could happen if she wasn't a teacher(we're both girls). I just want to hug her most of the time, but she's got a SO, and i jut hate this a lot. i know this is all inappropriate, but sometimes i even think about her inappropriately, and its so bad, she deserves better than that, but i can't help it when my mind wanders. I need help. Also im a senior if that makes any difference.

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is this abusive could i press charges and request to live with a friend

He also took a peek on my bosoms and tushies After puberty, I have very plump bosoms and tushies. He is older than me by 2 years, and wasn't interested in me 3 years ago and treated me as a kid. Now, i guess i changed..I looked at his phone and theres pictures of my behind.

I met this filipina gal on a dating site. I am 31 she is 41 and filipina and lives in Australia and has 2 teenage kids. I live in Florida and we talk everyday and Skype all the time for a year. Her days are my very early morning and mid days. So by the time she is home she wants to Skype with me but her afternoons are my 2:00ams. So I am falling asleep fighting to stay awake and she is still talking and talking and singing and acting silly. She asks if I want to go to sleep now and if I say yes she feels I don't care about her. So I have to stay up all night and morning until she is done talking and I tell her that I have to get ready for work and she apologizes for keeping me awake saying she is worried that I didn't sleep. But then, she continues to still talk and does this all the time, everynight! I have been getting into work late and falling asleep at my desk. And she sends me hundreds of messages on messenger and she really loves me and I love her so much but this is effecting my health. She says she is worried but then won't let me go, she just starts up a new conversation. I don't know what to do, she sends me 70+ messages a day. I want to run away from her.. but part of me loves her and she loves me alot. But as the days pass, I feel like she is not considerate but then she is and she does worry about me and care. But I am happier when I get away from her when I get the chance, if I do.. but then I miss her. Should I walk away?

It's not like I check her phone or anything, but sometimes when I'm sitting next to her I can see she is flirting with him, they send lots of emoji and even sex messages. He lives in another country so honestly I don't even know why they flirt so much. My mom divorced my dad when I was months old and she raised me and my 4 siblings all by herself. She has been single for 14 years now so I guess she feels lonely sometimes, but still it's not okay to sext when you're not married. This annoys the **** out of me, one day I even saw a message where my mom admitted she had sex with him, I was like omg. I know I can't do anything about this but I want to know how to be cool about it. This really annoys me even though its none of my buisiness. So yea any advice? Thanks I'm 14 btw

Hot girls need to lower there standards snd give us nice guys a chance.

Bueno veran tengo una "amiga" que me gusta, yo no le e dicho que me gusta pero ella tiene una conducta que me ase dudar si yo le gusto a ella primero es en extremo tierna conmigo me dice cosas como mi cacheton, que bonitos ojos, que bellos lunares etc, en segundo siempre esta en contacto conmigo y cada quien sabe mucho del otro el problema es que avese dice ahi que conseguirte una novia o no te gusta esa? Pero al mismo tiempo me dice, no me vallas a estar engañando con esa o ya no me quieres y ojala no tengas una novia escondida por ahi ya saben cosas asi, ademas ella una ves creo una lista y puso sus mejores amigos pero yo no estaba y eso me puso triste ya que somos muy unidos asi que me quiere o no?

I'm on a year-long internship at a company in another city. A few months after me, a girl from the same university program got a position in the same office, so now we're coworkers. We've seen each other before in university but never really talked or anything. But now she's being friendly to me, we talk regularly and eat lunch together outside. I'm very silent and introverted, and initially I was mostly embarrassed by her so I acted very uninterested. But she often asks me personal questions about love and wanting to have a family, eats bits of my food, and even scolds me on my (lack of) personal hygiene, kinda like my mom. She gets annoyed if I don't answer her or ignore her. She also told me about her ex-boyfriend she broke up with, and now some new guy she had a date with. Based on this last bit I guess she doesn't like me in a romantic way, and I'm also not really sure I like her that way either. But I start to really enjoy her presence and I do find her somewhat attractive. We never flirt, but she is unusually personal with me. We openly talked about sex and politics, and she says I'm the only one she's asked questions like that. So that kinda confuses me and I am not sure if this is normal for recent friends, and if I should change my attitude towards her at all... Basically I'm not sure if she's just friendly or if she initially had a crush on me but changed her mind due to me acting uninterested.

Under certain circumstances I need to start caring for my granddaughter I live in a big storage building converted into a 3 bedroom home I'm have a upcoming home inspection which my home is nice but I am concern that me living in a converted home will ruin my chances of keeping my granddaughter I have heard so many horrifying stories of kids taken by cps for ridiculous things so yes I am worried she will have no one but me or a foster home if this is the case. My question is will this ruin my chances on keeping my granddaughter thank you for your responses in advance

I dont understand. I knew what i was getting because for some reason he got excited and took a photo and showed me and said "now i just have to wrap it up and i cant wait to give it to you for christmas." I recently came back from a vacation on Wednesday. I saw my boyfriend testerday for the first time in 11 days. My vacation was 7 days but the other 4 we were busy with work. He handed me a bag and said "this is for you" and it was the gift he said was giving to me on christmas. Why would he give me the gift way early? Yesterday*

So they never get mad at you? (You can't secure that totally because some people get mad on their own accord, but you can lessen the chances that you trigger them) Reasonably speaking, I think it's to never offer (even wehn asked) your opinion on politics, etc.

My friend is 23, and her daughter is 2. Her Ex is 23 also, and he s an alcoholic, cannot keep a job, and has done a lot of drugs in past. He has a past history of abuse, as well, she has a voice message from him screaming at her because she asked for helping saying he doesn t want to hear from her and not to call him unless the little girl was dying. There s proof of the abuse. A few others and I have witnessed it. Everyone who has witnessed it said they d write a statement. Some of the abuse follows him claiming he s possessed by a demon and trying to stab her or their daughter. One night I wasn t there for it, but my fiancé and two of her exs frievds were there. He tried to put a knife through her back while she was pregnant, and my fiancé and her exs friends had to tackle him. They all have said they d write statements. The time I was there for was right after the daughter was born. He tried saying the demon was taking over again, and that my friend or their daughter had to die. My fiancé was there for it, as well, I had to lock her and her daughter in the car away from him. He had hid the keys, and she was scared to call the cops. She s like my sister, and he s threatening to take custody of their daughter, and that s my god daughter. I don t want anything bad to happen to her. He illegally lives with his mother in a welfare apartment staying in his 15 year old sisters room. Would the judge accept our statements, and how can she go about winning?

I just got home from taking my daughter to her friends house. Since it was warn out and I did not get out of my car I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

Maybe it sounds pretentious and stupid, but sometimes I feel like my temperament and emotional and mental states are more suited to a person who is on their death bed or in a retirement home, and just waiting (neutrally) to pass on. For example, I don't have the ambition to carve a career for myself (although that is one of my life goals).

I've been a mistress for 4 years and it has been hell. The wife doesn't know and she will never know but I know the guy loves me because he looks at me with love and he cums in me with no condom on and as crazy as I am he never leaves. But it's just hard because I am in love with him but it's like when I show it he goes on ignore sprees for weeks and months like he's scared of me saying that word and wants to wash my mind fully of it so he can continue to enjoy having me and our sex. But he never leaves. I push him so far away all the time and he can not come see me for months but he never stops communicating with me. Everytime he leaves he always comes back with hopes that I won't push him away. I can explain so much more but it would be such a long story. I just am an love with him but I hate that he basically distance himself when I tell him. Yet he does things like stares into my eyes with love in his eyes or cums in me. That's confusing. And I'm so hurt that I love him and can't leave him but I want so desperately to have more from anyone. I don't want to be a mistress anymore but I can't leave him and he can't leave me. I need advice cause it's driving me insane

Is it sexual abuse if a preteen that doesn't know any better touches a young kid over the diaper like rubs a few times with their hand?

I ve been with my neighbor s cat for over 3 years now and this is what I onserve everyday. Their owner barely takes care of their cat, at night when they re at home they let her sleep outside. They come home pretty late and when they do they don t give her attention nor do they feed her. I have to be the one buying her food and all. My mind is spinning right now what to do with my neighbor s cat, I know this sounds crazy but I want her to be my pet so she can recieve the love and attention she needs. I ve come to a desicion...letting her live the same life until she dies or letting me get her as a pet. Us neighbors aren t that close and tbh my whole family is scared of them (we ve seen quite a but of drama in this family). PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE I WANT HER TO BE HAPPY!

Want to get the truth out. I really can't keep guessing for too long you know. It's hard to drop this one, unanswered questions are torture. So what do you think about this? It's confusing. She may be guilty. But the last paragraph seems to show she's not or was she just saying that to??

It's like sissies but the other way around.

Was a quick rub over my little sisters diaper abuse? I remember rubbing her to see how she would react and I was about maybe 10 or even 12. I stop and it didn't last long at all, I been trying to remember and I feel like there was another time that happen super SUPER quick, when I was like 13 or 14.........or even last year but I am not sure if it's just something messing with my mind because last year was the year I would change for the better and be a better daughter and sister, and I remember feeling so much better that I change, like I WASN'T even watching much porn at all and I remember I really cut back then how I was back then. I use to watch porn when she was around me but she didn't see.... I stop. I hope my sister doesn't remember, she tells me she doesn't but I don't know anyway I'm in my late teens (girl) and feel so bad because I would never want to do something so sick ever I don't want to think I abuse my sister because now I feel sick, I can't even be sure if anything happen again and that's what's really killing me

Was a quick rub over my little sisters diaper abuse? I remember rubbing her to see how she would react and I was about maybe 10 or even 12. I stop and it didn't last long at all, I been trying to remember and I feel like there was another time that happen super SUPER quick, when I was like 13 or 14.........or even last year but I am not sure if it's just something messing with my mind because last year was the year I would change for the better and be a better daughter and sister, and I remember feeling so much better that I change, like I WASN'T even watching much porn at all and I remember I really cut back then how I was back then. I use to watch porn when she was around me but she didn't see.... I stop. I hope my sister doesn't remember, she tells me she doesn't but I don't know anyway I'm in my late teens (girl) and feel so bad because I would never want to do something so sick ever I don't want to think I abuse my sister because it was plan, I don't look at little kids as sexual

Was a quick rub over my little sisters diaper abuse? I remember rubbing her to see how she would react and I was about maybe 10 or even 12. I stop and it didn't last long at all, I been trying to remember and I feel like there was another time that happen super SUPER quick, when I was like 13 or 14.........or even last year but I am not sure if it's just something messing with my mind because last year was the year I would change for the better and be a better daughter and sister, and I remember feeling so much better that I change, like I WASN'T even watching much porn at all and I remember I really cut back then how I was back then. I use to watch porn when she was around me but she didn't see.... I stop. I hope my sister doesn't remember, she tells me she doesn't but I don't know anyway I'm in my late teens (girl) and feel so bad because I would never want to do something so sick ever I don't want to think I abuse my sister because now I feel sick

I thought my crush and I hit it off pretty well, but he had to move back to his hometown so I figured I should just put myself out there and see where things could go so I asked him if we could talk more, get to know one another & he told me he didn't really have any interest in long distance relationships/friendships cause he found them tedious and a lot of work. He said it wasn't anything personal that I seemed nice and he wished me well but it was just how he felt with a sad face and I really thought he cared about my feelings or at least felt bad so i told him I was a kinda sad that, that's how he felt about about them and that he'll never know unless he tries & how I think it'd be nice just to have someone to talk to so I asked him wouldn't you want that, referring to the someone to talk to part & he lashed told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again & I got so mad and hurt that I ended up calling him stubborn & that it was my apologies for wanting to try & know him better & that I wouldn't text him ever again. a few weeks later I decided to let him know I felt bad about crossing his boundaries & wanted to apologized and hoped things went well for him and that I wasn't going to be bothering him anymore & he ignored it  I really thought that we could at have like a decent conversation about our feelings or relationship or whatever and I can't figure out what exactly went wrong..

This isn't about me but someone I've been dealing with. Basically this person I had considered a friend has been stalking me for years and when I approached them and asked about it they didn't respond to most of the things I said but when I pointed out the threats they made at me they said 'but you were doing them too!' Even though the only things I said were remarks about disliking them. And in general they denied everything they did to me. I also told them to change their behavior and they attacked me by mocking something I did. Then later they sent me a message that seemed guilt tripping it was basically: "You wouldn't care too much because you never talk to me (I was avoiding them for a while since I felt bad for being upset at them) anymore but I thought you should know!" Then they verbally attacked someone I know because they wouldn't repost a current event and made them lose some close friends because they accused them and her friends of being 'racist' because they were trying to avoid current events for their own mental health Aside from this they tend to pull a nice act then act mean later, they make up lies related to our college we go to (like joining a modeling club when there's nothing like that here and having to sign up for an animation class *when it has nothing to do with their major and I'm going into animation later*) And just in general constantly say they're a 'pest', a 'burden', and so on. is this manipulative?

my very close friend (she s 50 and I am 18) she s been an adult role model and close personal friend mine. She called to check up @ Of course she asked how I was, if I was okay etc.. then she started skipping around subjects talking about her family, troubles, problems occurring, stories of when she was little, about how she misses her parents etc. her procedure. it was a great long talk, I listened and gave her all my attention. I understand people need to vent or need advice but why come to me? That day I sent her flowers to show my love and support. It s been stressing me seeing her go through so much, I want her to be alright and have great health. She s always so supportive to me. We both always send encouraging texts, she s always liking all of my social media posts, we send inspirational stuff to each other, etc.. We re very close. She s a very blunt lady and will tell you like it is. She s always giving me compliments, telling me how amazing I am, so I take it to heart. But she s never really said if I ve helped her. I do all things with love and expect nothing in return but I wish I knew if I was a help to her or if I am doing something good. Sometimes I feel useless like I ve done nothing good for her. Do you think I ve helped? Ive started to feel embarrassed inside, like I m being TO loving or caring and I feel she isn t liking it. So I ve been quiet lately and haven t talked to her much, save myself more embarrassment. Should I just block/unfriend her?

So I live with my grandmother and don't get me wrong I do love her but I'm the type of person who doesn't like to be touched sometimes. Like I don't like to be hugged or anything sometimes. And when she tries to hug me sometimes I might lean away a bit or hesitate or something like that. She then accuses me of hating her which isn't true. I've told her this already I don't like being touched sometimes. Especially if I haven't had a shower or she hasn't had a shower yet. I'll hug her back sometimes but other times I won't. And there's some days when I don't feel like talking or being bothered. She gets offended and mad when I don't talk to her or anything and again accuses me of hating her. I don't hate her at all. She's in her room right now all sad and everything for God knows what reasons. She says it's because, I won't talk to her or anything. I tried talking to her and giving her a hug a while ago and she says "It doesn't work like that". She got mad earlier because I told her don't get dressed in my room because, as she was walking in she was putting on her shirt. I'm not trying to be rude or anything. I don't know what to do anymore. I have bipolar depression and anxiety and me being stressed out and pissed off over this isn't exactly helping anything. I don't know what to do anymore. I do love my Nan but she keeps doing this crap and it just I don't know.

I'm asking this because my sister makes too many messes in my room, I still have to make sure she picks up her chip bags, pop bottles, she leaves her cigarettes everywhere including the boxes, and leaves the lighters in the middle of the floor, and I stepped on one of her lighters and by the grace of God I did not burn my foot, and if I did, I would have to miss school, go to the hospital, and she will be banned from going inside my room. She sleeps on the floor because I have a twin size bed and she is overweight. She uses a beanbag and a blanket and sleeps on the floor, and in the morning she never puts it back in the closet where she got it from, I bet a 3-year-old can clean up their mess. That is ridiculous that she's about to be f*cking 20 in January and can't do a simple task like clean up a little mess, and it's pissing me the hell off 😤! The mess that I described to you is the same mess that her house will look like, with cigarette boxes everywhere, her house will look like a dump, and if she had kids I would call CPS or DCFS on her. But she is not the only older sibling that make messes and don't clean it up, my brothers and other older sister sleep in the living room, and it's dirty, don't get me started on what the closet looks like, the closet has junk everywhere and ripped plastic bags and clothes everywhere. I don't like cleaning up anybody else mess if they are over-grown and can clean it theirselves. Anyways but do you think I should kick my sister out?

A compatibility reading said that me and a friend of mine had basic body chemistry that smooths out any rough areas in our friendship.

One of my best friends is deployed right now, and I miss him a lot. Ive sent 2 emails about a month apart and he hasnt responded to either one. Should I be worried? He promised me he would keep in touch so Im kind of upset that he hasnt tried to contact me. Could it just be that he is really busy?

I'm friends with this married man at work. He's going in to have surgery on his hand. He told me he was going to give me his number so I could text him to see how he's doing. He never did give it to me though.

so this kid who im not gonna name, we known each other since early this year. he was pretty much well known on the team. and we continued not to say much to each other for a while after we got beat in the playoffs, all of a sudden that changed, like everything between me and him. just to note hes 15 and im 17. so after the game, i sent him a message telling him how he was asshole to me and he was saying he was sorry then we started texting then he said we were bros for life. for me i dont have many friends and so i opened up to him and told him about the breakup and I also i told him about my depression and other problems and felt bad for me. then i texted him saying if he had any advice since i assumed he was popular.and this is where things got pretty emotional like how he had no life and lost all his friends. so really he didnt have many friends. then he said he didnt tell his best friend how he felt and it made him feel better that he told me everything. he said pretty much his gf is all hes got. he texted me saying he loved me but was assuming as a friend. just for the record, we do see each other at school but not much bc changing of class periods. anyways the past week even got weirder. i would normally say hey to him and give him a fist bump. the past two days have been ackward for us two days. yesterday i found him at his locker and i wanted to talk to him, but i got really nervous and shy talking to him. and with him he got shy talking to me. yet we text alot