So its Christmas time right? My neighbors got this laser star galaxy display thing and not to be rude but they are using it the wrong way. Its inside their House pointed on their clear backdoor sliding window. These laser lights, go through their window and into my House on my walls my tv its looks like outter space in my living room. I tried to talk to them to get them to point it else where but they wouldnt answer the door, I walked by their backyard window (which is on a road leasing back to my House) and the neighbor saw me, I waved to her and she shut her blinds. The next day the lasers are back. I left a note on her door hoping she would see it but now im not even sure if she speaks english. Any idead toSo its Christmas time right? My neighbors got this laser star galaxy display thing and not to be rude but they are using it the wrong way. Its inside their House pointed on their clear backdoor sliding window. These laser lights, go through their window and into my House on my walls my tv its looks like outter space in my living room. I tried to talk to them to get them to point it else where but they wouldnt answer the door, I walked by their backyard window (which is on a road leasing back to my House) and the neighbor saw me, I waved to her and she shut her blinds. The next day the lasers are back. I left a note on her door hoping she would see it but now im not even sure if she speaks english. Any ideas to communicate to someone who doesnt want to talk ?

Me and my husband are both devout Roman Catholics. We have a lot of things that show our faith like, rosaries, bibles, holy water, prayer cards, statues, etc. We also have two kids, one who is 6 and the other who is 2. We want them to grow up to be a nun and priest. Recently during dinner after grace, my six year old asked where is God? And What does he look like? Where does God come from? And stuff like that. Of course, we answered those questions to the best of our abilities. But we want to make sure our kids fully understand it. We plan on having a discussion about it and what it truest means to be Catholic. How would you explain this to them? Any advice at all?

So there is this girl at my school who is ugly and Shes athletically popular. She's hideous!!! Also shes in my homeroom and sometimes she makes this dirty face at me. I did nothing to her!!! I've talked to her about school related stuff and I was nice to her! I'm a girl btw. Why is she making those faces??? Im innocent!

My stepdad wants to go to Mexico for my Xmas break for TWO weeks. Straight up don't like his fam. He wants to go with us(4)him. me my mom and sibling and his sister and her little shitty kids. You don't know how ******* annoying her kids are and driving in a car for two ******* days I'm not gonna handle it. There's no wifi w/ his family and honestly his fam is savage af full of homophobes and sexists that think women should stay @ home and work(I've had this experience with an uncle we went to visit recently) I don't want to go. How can I convince him that I don't want to go to Mexico? I'm 15 btw. Thanks and pls no hate

I ve been living with grandmother for eight years now, and she s highly stern and protective, leaving me unable to do much. And since were doing the Christmas tree and things tonight, I wanna spend the night, I just don t know how to sweetly and sound serious enough to convince her. Any help?

I have had so many people talk about me, even on this website. I am sick of it. My family, friends, people idk, everybody is so mean to me. I am ready to be gone. Where can I go to get away???

Lo he buscado, le mandé mensajes, le hice llamadas y me bloqueó, fui a su casa, a su trabajo y me dijo que no lo busque, que no me ama más. Él me dijo que se sentía confundido. Quiero que vuelva conmigo, pero no tengo forma de comunicarme con él. Leí un artículo que habla acerca del contacto cero, pero no sé si me sirva aún. Es decir, si él me llega a buscar o me desbloquea de sus redes.

I want to move to a small town in the mountains and I've been trying to brainstorm some cities. New Mexico or Colorado would be preferable! :)

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 4 years. We have been through so many ups and downs together. It's been hard because he is very family oriented, i am too but not as much as him. He is the kind of brother who holds hands with his 22 yr old sister which creeps me out. Anyways, his sister was diagnose with Bipolar disorder beginning of this year, she went to mental clinic and stuff, after week she went home and was normal. Now, she had another episode and has been sick for a month a half, I feel like I've been there for him since day one, but at the same time he doesn't give me time and tells me that i dont understand him and that im not there for him, his problem should be my problem. We are not married and live together for it to be my problem, i have my own problems and a family to attend to. Im always there but now I feel like he can't even dedicate a little bit of time for me, this past weekend we had a family get together and he didnt want to go because of his sister, yet his parents could have taken care of her share the chores with them. I think he is being very unfair with me, and now i am getting tired of him telling me i dont help him out and I dont try to make his problem mine. I wish he could understand how it also makes me feel, sometimes he takes out his frustration out on me, it's not my fault whats going on, but i do wish that he can see how it's also affecting our relationship. Is he being selfish with me?

Please don't tell me it's wrong I know that... just tell me how I can talk to my aunt about wanting to have sex with her

My fiance and I are due to marry this January and I, like all the woman on both sides of our families, decided to take his surname something I was very excited about until I said both names out loud to myself and realised I don't like how they sound together. His surname is Brescia (pronounced Bresh-uh) and my first name is Freya. I think it sounds silly out loud and I hurt my fiances feelings saying that. Am I over reacting? What do you guys think?

So on Monday I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me & smiling. Then today In class i heard her telling one of her friend " i don't know why he (me) looks at me

My boyfriend likes to be called daddy during sex. We also have a little girl on the way. I have been a lil iffy about it, but I kinda like calling him daddy too. It kinda also started when I was around 23 weeks pregnant.

I am a 21 year old guy. I have taken 26 driving lessons and still cannot drive confidently. My gear changing is an issue. Thursday was the first time I drove since 2014 and it was the first lesson I did since 2014. My family will not let me drive their cars. I did my first learners permit which expired at the end of 2014 and I did another which expires next year. I also never get invited to any parties or to go out. Despite efforts to connect with others, nobody really has ever seemed to give the same interest I give. I am 21 and also have no experience in romantic relationships, I have never even had my first kiss.

I grew up with an abusive mother who took all my money until I was 11, and have been poor. But my dad, so I've been told, is rich. Like, the "at least $10 a day for food" kind. So, I haven't asked for anything months from him before, and I started by asking for $30 a month. But I am thinking maybe $60 or above is decent. I wanted to at least make sure that I would be able to handle $30, since I have a hard time buying stuff. (I am 21)

My boyfriend decided to ask one of his childhood friends to come visit. They hadn't seen each other the past couple of years, so it was the first time, I meet him. I didn't recognize him at first, but then I remembered that he was the one that assaulted me 17 months ago (he fingered me while I was crying and begging him to stop, and he tried to force me to give him a *******, but stopped when he heard footsteps). I don't know what to do? Should I tell my boyfriend about it? I'm afraid to meet him again, but he doesn't seem like a person that could assault anybody - he seems nice - and he's in contact with most of my boyfriend's family, so I'm so afraid that my boyfriend won't believe me if I tell him about the friend. I don't want to ruin our relationship because I love my boyfriend so much. But he has only known me for 13 months, and known his friend since childhood, so I'm thinking he would choose to believe his friend. What should I do?

I'm a 15yr old girl and my little brother is 13, he used to and occasionally still does come up behind me and pop/slap/spank me on my bottom. Even though I say not to and that it's inappropriate. It makes me super uncomfortable and gave me kind of a personal bubble issue. Especially with guys. Any advice?...

Bueno mi hermana va a una académica de baile Y ay una chica rubia hermosa que me gusta mucho pero la verdad yo SIEMPRE que me gusta alguien la cago machin o les hablo Y ya me podrían ayudar amigos denme tips de como hablar con ella en redes sociales Y como enamorarla Y hablar con ella en persona por primera vez . Si una chica ve esta preguntando díganme también que les gusta de los hombres o como les gusta Y así

My little brother(I'm a girl...) used to come up behind me and pop/slap me on my bottom and occasionally still does it, even though I say not to and tell him it's not appropriate. What should I do?

I m a teenager working at a fast food restaurant. I like working at the place I am at only because Ive made some really good friends that I know will last for life. But at the same time I HATE it there. It has nothing to do with what I do at that job, I don t mind it at all and I m actually very good at my job. But the problem is that there is a manager that is very mean and cruel. She s always in a bad mood and is always screaming at me for no good reason. She does very EVIL things to me so I could get in trouble. Recently I lost my patience with her when she purposely crumbled up a receipt from an order I placed which was a burger for my grandpa (I know this because a fellow employee noticed what she did). I was patiently waiting for my order. I was there for 30 minutes when orders are supposed to take 5 minutes. I asked for my order and she just ignored me. I stood there waiting for her to answer until she gave me the burger very forcefully. My little brother got hungry so he asked me for a burger last minute. I really didn t want to go back to that place, but my little brother insisted. I went in, ordered my burger, and the rude manager refused to give me my employee discount (which is my right to have two employee discounts a day). What should I do? Should I just quit? Should I just defend myself and set boundaries when she s rude to me? Do you think I would get fired if I defend myself? Thanks for reading :)

I get threatened whenever someone gets mad, I can't speak up whenever I need, I can't speak to my crush, I'm not that strong, I feel inferior to the other guys in my school (I'm a Junior and I feel like the Freshman guys are better than me!) I'm trying to work on my confidence. I feel like I'm like this because I grew/I'm growing up in a broken home with little to no stability.

My boyfriend is 31 (divorced been divorced for 6 years) and I'm 22 anyways we've spent 3-4 days out of the week with each other since august i've meet his whole family at his thanksgiving dinner(even though i meet some of his family before) his family even says they love me but he has never even HINT to saying "he loves me" or he's "falling in love" we had one brief breakup where i poured my heart out and told him i loved him and he took me back and told me he cared for me too and" I'm worthy" BUT DIDNT SAY "I LOVE YOU BACK" its starting to piss me off cause i keep falling for him and i eventually want to move in with him (he has his own house and dogs i love) but he seems like he's ok with living by himself and with his dogs!!! I've only spend 4 nights over his house since august so do ya'll think he'll ever fall in love with me?? he did show me off too his family! and did promise my family he would see them for christmas HE INVITED MY FAMILY TO THANKSGIVING DINNER AS WELL!

Im 23, Gay and I Have A Gay Crush On My Brother In Law For Long Time...Sometimes I'm Shy & I Feel Uncomfortable Around Him For Some Reason, He's Handsome, Sexy, Smart & Confident Man ; But Somehow We're Very Close, We Watch Movies, Play Video-Games, He Treats Me Like His Younger Brother, I Also Sleep Over My His House During The Weekends And He Visit Us At Home. Last Thursday I Slept Over My Sis House, So We Were Watching A Movie And At 11 He Fell Asleep At The Sofa And Went Into Deep Sleep With Snoring. When I Saw Him I Couldn't Handle Myself, Everyone Was Sleeping, So I Decided To Touch His Leg, The I Pushed Harder And Harder So I Realized He's In Deep Sleep. I Was Shaking From Fear When I Slowly Pulled His Pajama Pants Off And I Was Shocked When I Saw His Big Dick, I Touched It And He Didn't Felt It So Far, I Came Closer And I Started Kiss It And Lick It Slightly And He In The Blink Of An Eye I Pulled His Pants Back And I'm Glad He Didn't Felt It, I Was Very Happy Until I Went Back Home And Depression Started, Bad Mood And I Cried Yesterday A Bit When I Saw My Sister And Her Babies When She Came Over As I Felt A Huge Regret. I'm Feeling Anxious And Sad Ever-since That Day. I Can't Even Take It Anymore I Don't Know Even What To Do, I'm Freaking Out Everytime I Imagine The Scene As If He Woke Up And Saw Me Blowing Him He What Would He Do.. What Should I Do Now? Know I Have A Crush On The Wrong Man. I Will Never Do It Again EVER..

I want to know the right way to be twirled. I don't know if I'm doing it right.

So we met a few months back when she borrowed the weights I was using. We talked and just instantly hit it off. I offered to give her a ride on a rainy day but we ended up doing more in her place. This has been ongoing several days a week and I just love everything about her. She's 15 years older than I am. But she's just drop dead gorgeous. I don't know what she feels about me but should I go for it? Her husband works quite a bit and her kids arein school. I'm 24 BTW.

My ex an I (I'm 22, he's 27) are still living together. He says that he still love me and wants to be with me but I have to learn to be more self aware and educate myself socially and intellectually. This kind of thing doesn't just happen over night. So he said that while I'm trying to figure that out, he'll see other people and will decide if he wants to get back with me again. Once he sees improvement in me as a fully grown person, emotionally and intellectually. He's seeing other girls while still claiming to want to be with me. Which makes me so confused! Does he actually want to be with me or not?? Our sex life suck. He no longer come on to me and I no longer feel the attraction to come on to him. His penis doesn't stay hard for more than 5/10 min. So I rarely get satisfied, always having to go to another place in my head. His ego leaves me no room to tell him that thrusting a penis in and out doesn't equal good sex. I am constantly unhappy and depressed because I know in my gut that this isn't the kind of relationship I want. I'm just afraid to let go because I don't want to be lonely. I don't want to victimize myself here, because I know there are a lot of things that I can improve on as a person. Not sure what to do because I've worked so hard for the past 2.5 years to get us where we are now.

He lost his job because his working papers from immigration was revoke..he became homeless. I kept some of his belongings when he went to the shelter (I just met him days before he lost it all). I washed his clothes, cooked for him, bought food for him, bought a pair of jeans, promoted his fitness talents, promoted his home improvement talents to customers. Even was in the process of helping him to sell his stuff so he can have money in his pockets. We were intimately involved as well...the deal breaker was when he dissed my home saying its the dirtiest apt he ever been to and how I wouldn't get a man. Despite him roasting me we tried to make peace. Up until yesterday I was going to help him sell his t.v with a serious buyer. I tell him when you come to help me sell the tv come to the gym with me to spend some time. He says no he have to get the money and bust the pavement (1 day out the week and you can't spend time with me) just take the $ and run! I find out on the day we suppose to sell this tv he is browsing women on a dating website . I bent over backwards for this man and is playing me..I am so glad I didn't sell that t.v. I don't plan to bother with him anymore I even told him to get his things end of the week or they will be tossed! But why do I care that his behind is suffering in this shelter??? It's hurting me that I have to turn the other cheek because I still care but I know turning away is the best thing to do...do u think I'm crazy for caring?

So I decided to ask this girl I've been messaging off of tinder for a while now. I was hesistsnt to ask, considering how slow she replies sometimes (hours to a few days Late ) or doesn't reply at all in mid convo, or I seem to always have to initiate , (figured she wasn't interested ) but she does have in her bio about being "really shy" and "sucking at texting " other times she seemed more interested with her longer And quicker replies , or we'd messaged until 3 in the morning. Anyway so I said, "hey so I know we've been talking on and off for a while now, and while i do not know you too well of course, you seem like an interesting and sweet person to get to know even more in person. I'm just really interested in seeing you, but I totally understand if you're not up for that for whatever reason." She didnt reply that night, but she replied the next morning in several sent texts saying, "hey, sorry for not replying last night. I was just really tired when I got off of work. I would really like to see you too. Honestly you're really cool and sweet. Just let me know when you might want to do it. Idk I'm nervous but excited 😅" I mean she could've just said , "sure. When are you up for it? " or just not reply at all. Instead of saying all that. Even though I didn't straight up ask , "do you want to go on a date with me?" I think I made my interest pretty clear. I still have my doubts because maybe she's just a sweet person to everyone, but is this a good sign??