Ok I'm not trying to move in with my boyfriend so soon in the first place we've only been dating since august ( 4 months) but he took it that way anyways I'm 22 and still live at home & hes 31 been divorced for 6 years and lives alone with his dogs in a big house of his own I've met his whole family he spent the whole thanksgiving week with me he invited my family over for thanksgiving dinner at his house and now I know his whole family and they approve of me ! Anyways last night my mom found out about my raunchy YouTube channel and went crazy threatening to kick me out and I told him about it and joked saying if she did I'll sleep in his backyard and he didn't take it as a joke at all and said " if you think your gonna live here if they kick you off your wrong that's absolutely not happening!" I was shocked & speechless since he cleared out a spot in his bathroom for me bought me body wash & lotion so I could shower at his house and he was bragging to his WHOLE FAMILY about me just last week & I asked him if he sees a future with me he was like "hell yea why wouldn't I?!" Anyways I'm completely confused should I just leave ?!? HE KNEW ABOUT MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL ALL ALONG BTW

He has serious emotional issues. We have disagreements just like any other married couple, but they quickly escalate into him physically striking me. Although we are both men, he is a lot stronger than I am. I don't know what to do.

So this has been happening for a long time he chooses his friends over me he'll find any excuse to go to hang out with them . He goes to work comes home watches sports eats and goes to bed even on our wedding day he left afterwards and went to hang out with his friend last I try asking him if he doesn't want to be around me if I did something wrong or why he wont spend time he says he does

I'm only on day 2 and I'm so happy my wife is gone. We are seperated because she needs counseling really bad but I've been cleaning, working, playing xbox, and just enjoying myself and it's wonderful not having tension and being upset at her for her procrastination by not taking care of the house when I'm gone. It's the way I left it when I walked out and I don't have to deal with her cry baby attitude. Im enjoying my freedom. At first I was worried about losing her but I see and feel how my inner self is filled with spirit. God it feels so good. From the sound of it I should just call it quits right?!

We have been talking several months now. Neither of us wants to leave our spouses. Now...or ever. But we both have something missing in our marriages that we have found we fill for each other. We encourage each other to be better spouses. Honestly talking with him has SAVED my marriage. We have both admitted to having feelings for each other. We admit we are having an emotional affair. Yes we know its wrong. But neither one of use wants to meet...or take it physical. We have no notions of this going anywhere further. We want to stay married to our spouses. We love them. But....I love him too. Part of me wanta to tell him...not because I expect him to answer in kind (honestly I have no idea if his feelings are that deep, and I am okay if they are not)...but I feel like he has a right to know just how deep I am in it. So if he is uncomfortable with that level of emotion on my end...he could bow out...but at the same time...yes..I'm in love with him...but I also love him as a friend and am afraid of losing him if I tell him. I don't expect anything to change by telling him I love. I still love my husband and want to stay married. (yes its possible to love more than one man...you don't auddently love a child less because you have another, or a friend less because you've made new friends) I KNOW we are cheating scum to many of you...please feel free to move along. I just want a guy's opinion...anyone been in this situation?

Hello im in a pickkel me and my wife have been married for 3 years but when we got married it was rushed norhing felt right the i do did but it was rushed for no particular reason.. now i have the opportunity to give my wife a real wedding should i tell her and let her help or should i do everything and let her be surprised the day or 2 befor idk help me

So I just learned that if your wife cheats on you and you are married to her (obviously) YOU are responsible for the kid, not the real dad is this right? why don't they make the real dad responsible? what do people think of this?

Im 10 years old, and my mom and dad are no longer together. My dad wants to have more children when him and his girlfriend are married, but I dont want any more siblings and I ve told him that. I need to wait till Im 13 to decide who I live with and if I see him or not, so I need advice on how to avoid them getting married until I m 13, I know I sound like a total jerk right now, but if you ve been what I ve been through, you d understand.

It probably is but I just wanted people's opinions :) :)

I've been married to my husband for 2 years now. Things seem to be changing between us and I don't really look at him like I use to. I know things change and that feeling of a new relationship starts to wear off. But I'm scared i'm falling out of love with him.

Any advice for a couple that are having this issue? Will couples therapy work? Need points of view from both parties. Thanks

On court records it says, "Order granting stipulation: to abate, and then stipulation comments, "for abatement".

Know very long. If even people who have known each other for long time can just leave each other like nothing, then is there such a thing as love?

I'm a gay man in my 30s, and I see that a lot of women in their 30s don't seem to grasp the dating situation. Women in their 30s can get men in their 30s. The problem is that they don't want just any men, they want to marry a tall, good-looking, successful men. The think these women never seem to consider is, that if a man is tall, good-looking and successful, why would that man settle for a woman her 30s when he can marry one in her 20s? Why don't women in their 30sw have realistic standards?

Do any men get custody of kids after divorce? Obviously when a man is thinking about divorce, he must get very depressed at the thought that he won't be living with and seeing his kids everyday. And also, are many kids who are alright with living with their dads??? You know what little ones are like, most of the time they want to live with their mom

Should he feel ashamed that they know every part of his wife's body and emotions but he does'nt know about theirs?

I used to get jealous about her posting stuff online about her male colleagues. Thought it was really inappropriate. They would make colleagues like saying they want to go to movies with her because she posted she was going to the movies etc. Well, tonight she told me that every time that I have gotten jealous about her posts, she has posted about it in her work group online so they can all see how jealous I have been etc. And apparently to tell them not to leave any comments on her posts. Well these are the same people that I was socialising with previously. Now she has gone and alienated me from them. I feel too embarrassed to show my face around them. So I'm wondering what was the purpose of that? Show me in a bad light and compliment them. Cheat on me? Either way it just created a rift. She is behaving like everything is fine and trying to hug up to me and act all loving but I'm annoyed and pushing her off me. Seriously irritated with her stupidity. I don't want our private things out there in the world. I told her aunty about a couple of our fights because I genuinely believed she would help us by talking with my wife and getting her to calm down and stop being verbally abusive. I hardly see that as justification for her airing our dirty laundry to her colleagues and painting me in a bad light. That really betrayed me doing that. I have always tried to portray her in a positive light online. What do you think I should do next? I couldn't believe she would do that. I'm so disappointed that she would make me look bad in front of others. I have been good to her and the end result is she just created a problem. If she keeps going, I am going to leave her. I'm really fed up with her behaviour. I'm her husband she she bad mouths me to others and thinks that is OK. Everyone will laugh at me now.

I'm divorced, wife has custody. My mom helped her get custody. My mom has been seeing the kids for 5 years and lies that she does. She won't even send me a picture. After 3 years I gave up and moved out of state. Just recently I asked my mom if she is seeing the kids at all, has pics etc. No! So I drove 1200 miles in one day, and made a surprise visit. Shocker! There they were. Not only that but they been planning together that my Ex Wife move so I will never know or see them.

me and my wife have been together for 6 years just married in august ... we haven't had sex or made love since before our wedding ... this has thrown me into a depression feeling unwanted although she has expressed she feels fat and not motivated I just cant see past how she wont take care of me... recently we had such a long conversation about everything and she stated its cuz we fight over stupid **** that she isn't attracted to me cuz who wants to do anything with someone who complains all the time ... I have yet again promised her I would change to make things right again... I feel as if I shouldn't be the only one changing to make this work... but then a part of me feels like im the problem its broken... ya she has her issues but im feeding into them.... I have tried to do my own thing and exercise and keep myself motivated but its lonely .. I miss my wife being affectionate and caring .... we are newly weds we shouldn't be having these issues so soon... we are going on vacation this Friday to a cruise for 7 days but 11 other people are coming with us idk how to make time for just us... if I should even bother putting in effort or if I should just go with the flow ... im an Aquarius so im constantly over thinking and being overly emotional I need some str8 forward advice that can help smack me into a direction I need to be in to help myself and my marriage.

I turned 18 this past October and I am about to finish my first semester of college. I am considering leaving my school in Colorado and moving to California and getting married to my boyfriend who is in the marines. I love him very much, I've known him for a few years (we went to high school together but weren't close friends) but reconnected with him this past July. My parents have decided that I am to either move back with them in Texas and live under presumably strict rules, or to receive no more support from them. I absolutely do not want to move back, and it's iffy whether or not I'll be able to totally support myself. There are a few endeavors that I'm looking into that could make me enough money to pay tuition and my other bills, but if they don't work out then there aren't very many other options. He suggested that we get married and live together in California, and I could go to the school near his base. I don't want to marry him just because I need help, I am very in love with him (this is the only person I've ever felt ready to commit to and settle down with, I've always felt wild and never wanted to be tied down) but I also want it to work and for him to not feel used. Do you think that marrying him is the right decision? What advice do you have to make our marriage work if we do elope? I realize this is a crazy thing to do, and yea it could blow up in my face. Being married wouldn't necessarily be easier than moving in with my parents or struggling to support myself here, but I'd at least be with him and be happy. Marriage is hard and I still don't know what I'm going to do, but if I can afford to live in Colorado by myself then that's what I'm gonna do. But if I can't then I'll choose between getting married and going back to live with my parents. My relationship with my parents is so broken, and I admit it's because of a lot of the mistakes I've made, but it would be miserable living with them. Even after reading all these constructive comments I'm still so unsure and afraid.

We have been together over 8 years, and I have always been the kinkier one. But we used to do stuff. Like Anal and he used to let me give him blow jobs, we used to do it in a bunch of different places and just have fun in general. But the past 2 years most of that has dropped off. I try getting him to do some stuff but he down right refuses? Says he just enjoys making love to me. He does give me oral, but never wants to receive it. I am no pillow princess.I have no idea what inspired the change.

What do I say? Thanks in advance. Please stop changing the category. That's so juvenile. I honestly don't understand why people are so upset. Is it wrong to ask your wife for a plastic surgery for example? So what's wrong with asking her for breast implant. You people are so shallow that you make me sick.