So I'm a gym rat. I'm in college and somewhat shy. This lady introduced herself to me because we are neighbors. I was fully aware of it because I've seen her walk her dog. The problem is the more she approaches me, the more I start to like her. It doesn't help that she is super nice and super sweet. Anyways, I have insane thoughts about her and they're very perverted. What should I do? I know where she lives and I workout when she is around.

He just got married and relocated to our office a few weeks ago. I had to work closely with him.. We are both young, I can not control the attention between us, what should I do in this situation? How do I keep it professional if I had to work with him everyday??? No I do not want to become "friends with benefits" ... and I like his personality more than his body lol

I remember reading this story online. It was really heart breaking. It was a husband confessing that he was depressed ever since his experience of swapping couples, which was his wife's idea. They met a couple at a bar or some place, brought them home, and had sex with each other's partner. The husband didn't feel right and got up to check up on his wife, and he watched the guy penetrate her, and she was enjoying it. He held her hand or something, I forgot.. but afterwards, he wasn't able to look at his wife the same. I saw it like a year or two ago, and I want to know how that guy is doing

Some people file for divorce so whats the point of marriage vows?

have been having a affair withy married spouse for 6 months now. I m currently going through a divorce him and his wife still lives together and share a car. He claims that he hates her and isn t intimate with her and they are headed for a divorce. But in the midst of these 6 months he hasn t did anything to start the process he is originally from Arkansas so he showed me that he doesn t have a TX ID so he can t file here in TX which is true. But, I told him another way where he is able to file and he still hasn t he ll get mad and tell me I don t trust him and that I don t have patience .and that she is his only transportation to work because he needs to save for a car and all this other stuff. I don t have a car and my apartment was given to me through a shelter program so no one but my children and me can live here . So he tried to live here even though he knew it was too risky so we made a mutual agreement about him still living with her until I move, but now he was saying even when I move he is not going to move unless I have a car. But it s to the point now where he is asking me for money, and he doesn t see me for a whole week if I don t have sex with him he ll get mad and state that I don t know how to treat my man. And that I m causing a sexual void in our relationship so he will yell at me call me childish and that I m acting less of a woman and storms out because he has to pick her up from work. He tells me he loves me wants to marry me .

We have 2 kids together and she just gave birth 7 month ago. In the past 7 month since our 2nd was born and while she was pregnant for 10 months we had sex only 3 times which is really stressing me out and our marriage. She s telling me since she was pregnant with our 2nd one she just does not feel like having sex anymore. Am I being too selfish?

If you just do whatever you want beforehand, it's not special then. There would be no point in it because you've already f*cked up, literally.

I totally make up a name, like County cowboy bandit potoates, and he is like YUM!! But if I just say I invented a potato recipie, he wont eat it??!!

So if I give her full custody, my monthly child support payments will not be affected vs if we both share custody? I thought monthly payments were much higher if she would have 100% custody. (legal and physical) Yeah but does it affect my monthly child support payment? stop moving my question to law and ethics

I have a little boy and would like to file for child support. The dad makes more than me but will my child end up going to his dad since he can support him more? Or it doesn't matter? Please give me some advice and info on child support. Thanks

I need complete honesty on this. Do you feel you've become attracted to others less in the time after getting married? What, if anything, else has changed?

Nobody wil want a 30 yr old woman who is a virgin. I am already 22.

I know I can't control him ...maybe it's time to let go?

My husband and I have been together 7yrs, We met a month after he got back from his tour in Iraq, married a year later. He is ex-marine and been diagnosed with it all; PTSD, TBI, anxiety, and depression most of which he had before the military and fiercely refuses treatment for, When I met him he was very closed off -he doesn't open up easily and doesn't want to be around many people-, He rarely attends social events with me, He prefers it to be the two of us which I normally have no problem with because I absolutely adore him but I'm a very social person with a big group of friends, My H however is a secluded individual & only mixes at the gym when he's fighting, He has an intimidating demeanour to people but he is not what he seems. Right now his focus is on fighting and steroid use, I've only seen him fight once & was shocked that he has so much anger built up inside of him, He told me what drives him is pure unfiltered rage, His fighting scares the **** out of me -for that reason he asked me not to attend his fights so I don't see that side of him- I feel a lot of pressure from him sometimes because he claims I am the only person he feels safe with and trusts, He is never far from my side -wants sex a lot and even when im sleeping he pulls me close into him, Don't get me wrong I'm deeply in love with this man but I feel suffocated, Any advice guys?

Yesterday my husband and I got into a heated argeument in regard to finances. He says that he is low on money helping me pay my share of the bills. (About a year ago we moved into his best friends grandmother apartment. We were moving from a $700 a month two bedroom to a $850 a month three bedroom. Quick note: the landlords are elderly and the apartment is not in the best of shape. The ceiling in the bathroom keeps caving in and there has been a sign of rodents. ) I usually pay cable since he works from home he needs Internet and he likes to watch tv plus home phone service, rent, and my cell phone bill, me and our daughters life insurance/disability policies and I'll get whatever our two daughters need. He pays his half of rent, light and gas bill, his cell phone bill, insurance policy, and he got himself a car so he pays for repairs, insurance, etc. He is salary based making around 45k yearly and I am hourly making around 26k yearly. I ask him for help only when I am really short on paying something like my half of the rent every month. I take CTA bus to work so I don't have a car. I go to work, come home, cook and clean. Start the day over again. He creates a big mess from the time I'm gone until I get home but I still clean up after just him. When he said that I was ready to call it quits and still am. My feelings are hurt. How can I be married to someone that can't meet me halfway when I need it.

So this might be an obvious question but I'm torn... my grandparents are celebrating their 60th anniversary over New Years & all my family is joining them. We can't go because we just don't have the funds to fly up there (FL->WA). My cousin called the other day and offered to fly me up there at no cost at all. When I told my hubby he was pretty upset and told me he doesn't want me to go because he will be alone on NYE. But then he said that if I need to be with my family I can go.. I'm so torn because I don't want him to be upset with me but I really want to be with my family.

my boyfriends' ex wife did not take things well when he left her (they were not getting along and he was miserable). She was threatening suicide, and now the threats are escalating now that he's dating me. her family doesn't seem to take it seriously when he tries to alert them and she says she doesn't want them involved. I am not sure how to advise him on this but I feel like it's affecting our relationship a bit with this looming. I want him finalize the divorce and this is now an issue. Please help!

My husband and I are struggling a little financially. I got a temporary job in my field that pays really well. The job would help us tremendously especially during the holidays. Here's the issue - I went into work my first day last Wednesday. I got very sick vomiting. I ended up in the ER. I have 3 gallstones that are blocking ducts in my GallBladder. They wanted to do surgery but due to my high white blood cell count they were unable. I went to a surgeon last Tuesday (more time off of work.) and was told I needed surgery fairly soon he didn't want to wait long. I've begged him to wait until May when my temporary job ends. Now, I'm getting worse. I ended up vomiting 3 more times at work today and they sent me home. I've been told since I'm a temp that basically they can't keep me if I get this surgery done because they have so much work that needs to be done and they need someone to do it now. I'm not sure what to do. I'm headed to the hospital now it's so bad. My husband is upset with me saying we need the money and how I should just stick it out. Any advice? I'm literally in tears. Thanks

I love him to death and i know he loves me by simple things that he does for me. Our biggest struggle is my lack of house keeping and his high expectations for it. He s a clean person and not that im a nasty person but cleaning is not my first priority. We got in an arguement, Ill be honest for being a smart *** but he got real mad and threw some dirty dishes in the trash. Then he went off about other things that havent been done. I was getting real frustrated so i grabbed my keys to sit im my car and calm down before i said or did something stupid and upset him even more. He ran up to to grab the keys out of my hand which at that point i thought i was about to get beat up. He yelled "your not going anywhere because i pay for that car." We both pay for it and its in my name so this only tells me how afraid he is of me leaving and that fear is triggered by his past relationships. Later on he admitted to that and said "its yours you can leave if you want but your not comming back." Just FYI, he does his part in help but im home more often. This is what upsets him the most but i admit he has gotten better at controlling himself and i understand why he is the way he is. I just want some oppinions out there, im wondering if its normal for partners to have these big fights. I know some people jokingly say "sometimes i just want to slap the crap out of them." but where is the line drawn?

Hey guys me and my wife will be working different schedules soon and I'm scared how this will turn out we both where used to working 8 till 5 and now I recently got my foot into my dream job in the aviation world but it will be from 3 till 10 I'm scared that we will grow apart I have the weekends off and stuff she has a kid from her last marriage but what worry me how will she take and will she adapt because she is a little needy just like me and she says she'll promise to do things but we have had problems here and there so I'm worried she will get bored I'm doing this for our future eventually I' will get out of the night shift what should I do

My wife lost her engagement ring after she put it in her pocket at work and the pants she was wearing got washed at a public laundromat. We looked and looked but could not find it. We put up a flyer a few days later but nothing so far. She feels really terrible about it. I have tried to console but it keeps coming up. Here's my plan: On our next anniversary I plan to give her another ring and call it "will you continue to be married to me ring". Is this a good or bad idea. Please give me your thoughts. Thanks.

I've even said stop talking about urself and concentrate on me for a few minutes. But he doesn't. Any advise please.

Is it necessary that you meet the other bio parent if you marry someone who has a kid even if this person has very little involvement with their child and rarely sees them?

He claims that he didn't but I don't know. I met him 2 years ago. We met in my father's office because after my father passed away, I sold his office, and he bought it. He asked me marry him after two months of that. I think he married me because both of my parents have passed away and I don't have anyone else in the world! He felt sorry for me. I heard him on the phone saying that he can't leave me because I don't have anyone else! He was talking to a friend on the phone. My parents belonged to foreign country, but I was born in the USA, so I have dual citizenship. I want to move to my parents country. I ONLY want a divorce, I DO NOT want his money or his pity! But he is refusing to give me divorce, claiming that he loves me and can't live without me! I don't know what to believe. One thing I am sure of is that he did NOT marry for my money, because he is far richer than I am! He said he did say what I heard but I misinterpreted it! He told me that he can't leave me because he doesn't want to! He said he wants to remain married to me forever. He wants us to have kids and be a family! As a wife I do whatever I can for him. I NEVER refuse to to anything for him. As a husband, he is loving, and caring. He always takes care of me. But how can I ignore what I heard?! I did not want him to marry me out of pity. I wanted a guy to marry me because of love. Am being unreasonable and ungrateful? Am I over reacting?