my very close friend (she s 50 and I am 18) she s been an adult role model and close personal friend mine. She called to check up on me. Of course she asked how I was, if I was okay etc.. then she started skipping around subjects talking about her family, troubles, problems occurring, stories of when she was little, missing her parents etc. her procedure. it was a great talk, I listened gave her all my attention. I understand people need to vent but why come to me? That day I sent her flowers to show my love and support. It s stressing me seeing her go through so much, I want her to be alright. She s always so supportive to me, says I'm wise beyond my years. We both always send encouraging texts, she s always liking all of my social media posts, we send inspirational stuff to each other, etc.. We re very close. She s a very blunt lady and will tell you like it is. She s always giving me compliments, telling me how amazing I am, so I take it to heart. But she s never really said if I ve helped her. I do all things with love and expect nothing in return but I wish I knew if I was a help to her or if I am doing something good. Sometimes I feel useless like I ve done nothing good for her. Do you think I ve helped? Ive started to feel embarrassed inside, like I m being TO loving or caring and I feel she isn t liking it. So I ve been quiet lately and haven t talked to her much, save myself more embarrassment. should I just stop communicating?

A finsta is a fake Instagram, and I want it to be funny. Like there s people in my grade, Lydia Hamburger s is lydiahotdog, and Sarah mills is windmillz, and Maggie helmer is magasaurus and her other one is Maggie helmet. And there s this girl Cat who s is catcasian.. so I m wondering what a good finsta name for Paige Barlow would be??

My older sister and her boyfriend are really getting on my nerves. Every time I post something about me and my boyfriend they have something negative to comment and it's getting on my nerves. Yes, my boyfriend has done some things bad in the past but I'm over it and he's over it and he's been doing good and we're both on a good page you know? Yeah I'm young and I understand that my sister and her boyfriend are looking out for me but it's annoying. They think they know everything about my boyfriend and I and they don't even know the half. Always having negative things to comment like why? Her boyfriend has done some things in they're relationship and I don't comment negative things every time they post something and I don't know what to do. I want to tell her that I don't like it and to stop worrying about me and my boyfriend but I'm afraid. She gets upset when nothing goes her way or people tell her that the things she does isn't cool. How do I tell her I don't like what they are doing? And why is her boyfriend even having a say so in my relationship??? Like it's so annoying!!! My other sister likes my boyfriend and they're pretty close and my mom doesn't have a problem with him just my older sister and her boyfriend. I really have real feelings for my boyfriend we been together a year now and I'm tired of it. What should I do??

Hola. tengo un vecino súper guapo, no se si sea hetero pero quiero pedirle su número y me da pena, estaba pensando en hacer una carta y dejarle mi número y esperar a que el la lea ( salió de viaje ) no sé si sea buena idea, denme más ideas :(

I just got home from taking my younger brother to his friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car was only gone for 20 minutes I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home. I don't wear shoes unless I have too and I did not need shoes for a 20 minute drive since I did not get out of my car.

If you are just dropping your kids off at school and coming right back home have you ever just driven barefoot and not brought shoes with you?

So, my 13-year-old brother is smoking, and my family don't seem to care. My brother has autism, I've tried explaining to him that smoking is bad, and about all the health risks (and he is autistic, so who knows what could happen with him having lighters) is there some way I could convince him to stop? he smokes in the house and steals money from me and my mum. I really want to help him stop, and stop him stealing money from me

I came home from my grandma's house earlier today and I have already washed 4 loads of ckothes, cleaned up everything I have seen and gone through 3 closets.

I am from the midwest and I feel that people I go to school with are mostly from Caifornia or the East coast. It feels like people from CA stick to being friends with people from their own state and not others. I don't know why, maybe commonality?

I just got home from picking up my kids at school. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

When I was 14 I had sex with my uncles boyfriend. He left my uncle when I was 15 and I moved in with him! Well I m 19 now and we have had sex a lot! He says that it s not wrong in what we have been doing. I like it because it feels good but then I think it s kind of weird because he tells everyone I m his daughter! I think he has feelings for me because he doesn t have a boyfriend yet and said he doesn t mind waiting until I get one. He said we will never be together but we can always have sex with each other because we have a bond that no one can take from us! Is this right ? What should I do ?

I was given a nice bonus today from one of my bosses. They are husband and wife. I've been working here for about 6 months. When he gave me the check, he said this is for everything you do for us and that he wished he could have given me more. I was so taken back and grateful. I have never received a bonus check before and i'm sure it's because of the holidays. Should I show my gratitude somehow or was a million thank yous and a hug enough?

Nobody wil want a 30 yr old woman who is a virgin. I am already 22.

She is a single mother. My friend gets mad because the mother of his child says she is a single mother. They are not together but he puts in 50/50. He supported her whule she was pregnant but stayed single Does that means he loves the mother or it means he sensitive about his child?

Ok so I just moved to a new apartment and I think I've developped a big crush on the guy who lives next door: Tall, like 6'5, dark, handsome, always dressed.. WOW! The thing is I'm almost certain I'm not his type; such a guy will only date blondes or women who are 5'9+ I'm really ashamed to even say hello to such a guy. Yesterday I saw him in the elevator but just waived politely and turned my head elsewhere @Sarah: What's the attempt at trolling?

I met her on Tinder and we hooked up several times. She didn't pose any red flags until I got a call from a man who cussed me out (by voicemail). I called him back and told him I wasn't aware. All I got is a threat from him that he's coming to get me. As for the girl, she texted me back and still wanted to get together for fun. I declined her invitation and told her not to contact me again. What to do?

A mi ex novio y siempre se tenían coraje,el q era mi novio un día empezó a bromear conmigo hacerla del otro y yo le seguí el juego,al final todo término mal se enojo y desde ese día era muy diferente conmigo,se portaba sangron y me lastima ycon todo el dolor de mi alma decidí dejarlo ya que el me dijo que q no sabia cuanto tiempo iba a durarle el coraje y no pude soportar su indiferencia conmigo.El dijo q respetaba mi decisión y me dedico Guns'N Roses-November Rain.A los 6mes de terminar le hable para vernos y dijo q no q estaba ocupado.. Ya no lo busque pero lo extrañaba cada día..Después me entere q no dejaba de hablar de mi con sus amigos y se tatuo 1frase q el me decía mucho.. Conocí a un hombre q hacia olvidarme de mi ex ya q tenían similar manera de ser o a lo mejor en el veía a mi ex,no lo se,pero con el llevo 2años también me la llevo bien,pero hace poco le hable a mi ex y me dijo que nos viéramos q no me negaría,q se hizo un tatuaje por una vieja y q su vida a sido mala,q como estoy y q si tenia novio.. A ambos los he amado con el alma,ambos me dijeron q quieren casarse conmigo,ambos me dijeron q he sido el amor de su vida.. Y cada q veo a mi ex d lejos me pongo nerviosa,aveces quisiera platica con el de frente,aveces quiero olvidarlo y pensar solo en mi novio.. No se que hacer????

I'm a 14 years old and this past July I went to this place called Great Wolf Lodge in Kansas City, Kansas. There was this very attractive 18 year old there. I can't get over it. I just want to go back in the past and see them again. I don't like anyone in a hometown except for my friend but she is pissed at me right now. I want to go back on vacation because I might see them again. Help me!

Them and their group of friends all dress the same, talk the same and act the same way, They all even physically look a like, and they don't allow variety in their group of friends. Like one girl would have nothing but athletic male friends, with nasty attitudes.

She is 25 years old and does not want to have her own home, she already has a degree in medicine, she knows how to take care of why she still lives with me, as a father, I see that it's past time for her to have her own home.

I'm 5'6 and nearly all the guys who seen to be interested at me are from 5'11-6'2. Some are even 6'3 or 6'4 :I I don't want to look like a hobbit next to a tall guy :(

Ok so im 17 years old and going through so much i just dont know where to go from here. everything in my life was going so great and then i went out one night and met this 21 year old guy and we eneded up having a one night stand a couple weeks later i found out i was pregnant and let him know. I told him although i was pregnant we did not have to rush into a relationship but he wanted to go ahead and try so we did. our relationship was long distance because he lived in another state at the time but we talked on the phone and visited each other. well he ended up losing his job and i think it took a toll on us both because now he couldn't move to the state im living in which was initially the plan. well after this i started to have problems with the pregnancy and ended up losing my baby girl at 21 weeks because my water broke early. He came to the hospital a couple of days before to be wtith me . the same day our baby died he got a call that his cousin had died from an asthma attack and him and my father had an argument and my father told him not to contact me anymore after that day. so that night his uncle took him back to mississippi and we didnt speak for a month. he finally texted me after that to ask how i had been. honestly im miserable because i wish he was here to comfort me and i try to understand that he is grieving and going through it too but i still needed him and wouldve been there for him too i wanted us to be here for each other but instead of telling him that i just said i was ok and asked how he was and told him to keep in touch and he said he would. Then a couple days later i texted him in anger and hurt because i felt like telling him what i was really thinking would free me of my pain.. so i asked him how could he just dissapear when i needed him the most and a few other things also a few curse words and he never said anything back. was i wrong? and what do i do now? i cant stop thinking about him and our baby and i just feel like he dosent even care please give me some advice and pray for me.

Starting from a young age like 2/3 I would dry hump anything, anyone, anywhere, anytime. I startec to get a hold and watch porn at a young age, I was kinda crazy kid, then when me, my mom and younger sisters were all sharing a bed (long story), I would watch porn and masturbate with my sister sleepin right next to me, my mom found out twice and got upset, another two times I humped my moms leg (I have no idea where my mind was) then what my mom doesn't know is that I touch my little sister over her diaper to see how she would act curiouse more then sexually, plus another time I wonder always when I hold my sister or was playing with her when she were on my side and since her "area" rubs I wonder she gets a good feeling like how I use to when I was little. I was like 10/11 or even 12/13. But I mostly am sure like 11/12 Is this something to tell my mom or do you think she already figures something weird must of happen since there was a few times that she saw me or known I was doing something weird/crazy and stuff? Im in my mid teens now (girl)

my girlfriend said its ok if a woman is single to sleep around, I cant believe this i dont even think men should do it. And shes like well when i was single you tried to sleep with me, yeah because I liked her and wanted to date her and loved her. Shes saying even if you dot love someone and just want to get laid its ok to just sleep around when youre single. and the thing is when we both were single and before we were dating she slept with other guys but declined me so w hat does that say about her, what do i do. Im serious, when we were both single an getting to know each other shed go off and sleep with all these guys and get drunk and she wouldnt sleep with me until we dated. 3 years later and now im starting to wonder who im dating, a decent girl or a whore. Im really hurt by what she thinks

I ran away from home 8 months ago because I was pregnant and met my boyfriend in the woods where we continued going together. All I had was $11,738 in cash and a suitcase of clothing(my parents were rich but they where about to force me into an abortion). We got to the city, got some food and went to an abandoned parking garage where we've lived for a year now. We live in the office area where they take your money to come in on the ground floor. It's pretty nice in here, we have food, my boyfriend works, we have a bed and a grill. But the only thing is Im only 16. And even worse, I had my baby boy a month ago. His name is Tyler and we've kept him here in his crib. He has milk, bottles, diapers and such, and there in electricity in here. Me and my boyfriend have saved a total of $10,000 and we can move to a house now on the outer edge of the city. I Just need to know if we should go or not. Help?

Especially women (btw I am female so don't say I'm stereotyping I'm not). It's like, someone is acting so out of proportion and you just simply say "calm down" in a regular tone of voice and they flip right out! It just happened to me on an app where a user was trying to scam this person as well as others so I commented on their photo that it is a scam and do not listing to "@thescammer'susername" so they don't fall for it. Then they respond what is wrong with me to write something and if I'm "ok". Then they said they will block me if I don't stop and get off their page. Even after I explained, she did not apologize and just said "I didn't see it and don't tell me to calm down". I spoke to a girl a few days ago who was yelling in a store I was in, all kinds of swears, and there were little kids around so I went up and said to her in a low voice "Can you please calm down and stop using bad language? There are little kids and their parents have been looking at you like what is going on." And you can guess what she said... Seriously what is wrong with people?

Brother called cops on me to leave his house. But i don't have anywhere else to to go i'm 18 and my brother is 29

Long story short my boss wife had been sending me nude pictures and asking me to have sex with her... I don't know what I should do risk my job and have sex with his wife or just don't have sex with her when all my friends tell me if I don't have sex with her I be better off quiet that job and work as a priest in a church.

Earlier this year I met and fell in love with a man immediately. I knew from the moment I met him that there was something about him I was drawn to, and once we started spending time together it didn't take me long to know for certain I could spend the rest of my life with him. We spent every morning and evening together for months until he got laid off of work in August and now he's 2 hours away from me. He tells me daily that he loves me so much and there's no doubt in his mind that he could spend the rest of his life with me too but he has commitments that he isn't ready to walk away from right now. I told him I will wait for him because there's no one else I want. But now I'm missing him every single day. My apartment is so empty without him. I'm so lonely and depressed without him here. The hardest part is that I'm not even sure the waiting will pay off because in the end, we may not end up together. I'm willing to wait for him, I am, but I need to know how to stay strong while I do because honestly right now it's hard to get out of bed in the morning without him here. We're in contact via phone and we see each other once every week or so but it went from every day to this....

So I'm confused. I worked with this guy who liked me. Biggest problem is he is married and never told me or talked about his wife. The whole time he worked there he flirted and kept prolonging it. Also when be was there he was never on fb or posted anything about him his wife or kids. A little bit lately he has changed some stuff. When he left he told me he would see me around town. And also used to.make fun if his wife too. So I'm confused. It's like he wabts people to know hes happily married but showed me he wasn't. And also his wife tends be behind his fb page. So I'm guessing he was just trying to get some. And may still be wherever he is now. Please do not call me a slut. Or white or anything like that. I didn't do anything. And neither did he.