i genuinely just do not understand how she can be so irritated at me one second then suddenly forget all about it the next while talking to me in a normal/friendly voice. i don't get it. i also don't like how she expects me to be the same and feel completely fine literally two minutes after being yelled at for nothing. i just don't understand. i've been wondering about this for a long time.

So, today my mom gave me $100 to turn into a teacher for a field trip we have to pay monthly for. I turned the money in and we normally receive a receipt. Today, the teacher said that they will call me down to pick up the receipt. They never did. I got home and my Mom asked me if I turned it in I said Yes then she asked Where the receipt is i said i dont have one because i didnt get one. So she ran out of my room screamed and yelled that im stupid and that I never do anything right blah blah blah. Then she races into my room and tell s me to get into the car to go get the receipt from the school which is closed at this time. So she went to get her keys i got angry opened my dresser and slammed it I was angry you would understand if you were in my position. So she comes into my room with a glass nd yells "IF YOU WANT TO BREAK THINGS I CAN TOO" She throws it at the floor and walks out. And she is so nice to my brother and dad and when they said it was no big deal she had a yelling frenzy. And she yells at least 5+ times a day over dumb things I am not even over exaggerating

no i am not a moody teenager who really does love their mother deep down. i am 25 and currently staying at my mother's house for personal reasons. i am leaving in a few months but until then i need a way to avoid her and conflict. it is not that i don't respect her, it's that objectively our personalities, values, beliefs etc clash. i am fine with agreeing to disagree with her but she is not and seems to find things to fight over out of nothing. i wouldn't usually come to the internet to complain but i am so tired of her stressing me out, also because it stops me from studying which is very important to me. sitting down to talk to her isnt an option because she will turn it into a big argument.

He asked his wife if she hear that and she said yes, your deceased mother calling my name. His mother just pass away recently.

I am a nephew and not in a position to lecture an aunt. The aunt is a good person but extremely abusive in her words when upset. She's divorced and has a golden daughter and a daughter who is the black sheep. The son (an adult) is with his Dad more often so just not in the picture as much (son has a different Dad from aunt's 1st marriage). The black sheep daughter is not perfect but not that bad either (she is simply normal with some trust issues). The other daughter is great but I don't think should be "favored". The son is an adult and has autism so is different but through no fault of his own.

There's been mosquitoes in the house lately, in fact one's STILL in my room so before I left to go to school which was only about an hour or two, I turned on this thing that kills them which basically electrocutes them. Closed my door and left, but my step mom was home so I thought it'd be fine. Now when I got home I told my dad about the mosquitoes and then when he found out I left it on he started scolding me, not as in like a ''You shouldn't do that anymore'' but more like ''Are you stupid, you could burn the house down.'' But my step mom was home and my room's not that far away, plus I don't think it's any different from when we turn it on in the night time and leave it on while everyone's asleep. Yet I still as labeled as stupid for doing that when isn't turning it on at night when no one's awake worse especially for like 10 hours?

So my parents are divorced and my mom called CPS on my dad because she's mad that I refuse to go to her house because of her weird boyfriend and just the fact that it makes me uncomfortable to be there. She told CPS that our house is disgustingly messy and that nobody cleans around here and that the house is infested with mold. We've cleaned most of the house, but I literally don't have time to clean my room. CPS is already messing with my life because I have so much homework, but instead of worrying about that I have to worry about being taken away to a terrible foster home. If my room is messy (soda cans, clothes on floor, unorganized, etc) will they take me away? I know I have to get interviewed by them tomorrow but I'm scared. They've been here before, so I know all about their over dramatic workers that will do anything to find something wrong. Will I be taken away? Help? Who the hell did I blame? I said I don't have time to do it. That's a fact. Cut it out with your attitude.

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So my mom is a paramedic and she is always tired. What can I do to become a better daughter? This morning the trashed the living room, she flipped thw couxh over and some other things, I cleaned it up before she went to work. My grandma is blaming the thing on me and I just want to be a better daughter!

My Mom doesn't let us see them because she is mad at her father for being an alcoholic so she punishes us. So they all gather at our grandparents and we are the only group out. I feel so much guilt but am 15 and there is nothing I can do about it. It is the 3rd year my mother has wrecked the holidays like this. She says she is protecting us but she is just hurting us. Telling her this just makes her mad I guess because she knows she is wrong. I could visit with others if my grandfather is drunk. So how do I get over the shame I feel at not being as good as the others?

I'm a girl, and I'm 14. I don't like being at home and when I am I get this sick feeling in my stomach like somethings wrong, and I cry a lot. I cry about almost everything, mostly this I dislike about myself or people who have hurt me in the past. Being at home makes me so so sad but when I'm not at home (or school) I feel happier and free. Idk why, maybe it's cuz I don't like my neighborhood and my family doesn't have money, but idk why I'm sad all the time, help?

my wife and I are getting concerned about our kids. I say " kids" but they're freshman( son) and junior( daughter) in college. I'll just chalk up my son to the inevitable Freshman 15. My daughter spent the summer in Europe and my guess is she indulged there and didn't break the habit once she came back. What do we say to them?

On Thanksgiving, I went to my wife's family's home for the day. It was no different from any other time I was visiting them. No one talks to me much, but they all want to include me in things they do. Like playing pool, they want me to be on a team. Or drinking. They all want me to drink with them. They seem to like me, yet they rarely actually speak to me or have a lengthy conversation with me. It's always a short comment and then they move on to another topic with someone else. I also noticed none of them seem to make eye contact with me. Like I said, I don't think they dislike me, I'm pretty good at picking up vibes from people. But it's just always awkward when I'm around them. I feel like an object in a room and I'm just there. I participate, but I'm just that guy in the background. It's really odd. Does anyone else have similar stories or how is it when youre around your in laws? Is this normal or what

Like when my Dad and brother were moving furniture for her she thanked my brother several times but just bossed my Dad all around.

He was drunk at Thanksgiving so I assume he will be at Christmas.My mother says just stay busy on Christmas but it is supposed to be a relaxing day. I know he is sick but I resent that he does this in front of us and wrecks the holiday. At the same time when I am a grown up I would feel terribly sad not to be able to see the family on Christmas and other days like that. So how do I not let it bug me so much? I feel people are judging me for his bad behavior and I also get nervous.

My oldest child is extremely sick and has been all her life. In her 12 years of life she's dealt with cancer (as an infant/toddler), learning difficulties, 7 major surgeries, 2 transplants, and as of recently, kidney failure. She's currently receiving dialysis and has a manic hospital schedule, I feel like we almost live there. I have 2 younger kids who are perfectly healthy, they are 9 & 8 years old. My younger daughter in particular (9yrs) is finding things particularly hard right now and I feel awful. The other week I accidentally missed her school talent show because I was pre-occupied at the hospital, she still won't accept my apology. She screamed at me and said I don't care about anyone other than her sister and she may as well not exist. This is obviously far from true but it breaks my heart that she thinks that. In my defence, I have attended twice as many performances than I have missed, I do my best to make it to everything she does. My husband is an extremely hands on dad and involved in everything that all the kids do, they really don't miss out that much. I do completely understand why she's hurting though, she thinks she's not as important as her sister. I'm absolutely overwhelmed with all of this, I want to be the best mum I can be to ALL of my kids but it's so hard when the care for 1 consumes 90% of my day. Has anyone got any ideas how I can cheer my younger ones up and show them how much I love them without taking too much time away from my older one?

My daughter is 14 and has a boyfriend, but refuses to tell me anything. She hides it horribly, constantly giggling at her phone and turning beet red if I even bring up jokingly if she has a crush. She says that she's not going to tell me who it is, but I feel that as a single father I have the right to know and to meet this kid. I've explained that I'm not out to interrogate anybody, I just want a quick meet. Why is she being so defensive?

my sister eats everything including my stuff. my mom and dad are on her side and if a do anything to her she will scream. she as broken maybe 50 glass cups and my pc and she is the only one that does it. i am forced to let her in my room and make it dirty and its not fair be cuz after she makes a mess i have to clean it up and she watch's videos on how to ruin your brothers life. its all true! i am sick of her and she acts like she i nice around people but she is not nice. and of i push her once EVERYONE will scream and kick me. but if she does it to be like no one cares! and she also wears underwear where ever she goes

Lately I've been having a hard time, and feel my boyfriend is better off without me. My family is good school. It does not matter how old you are it's wrong to go on vacation, live together, or do over nights if you are Not married. 16-40 does not matter the age. My grandma hates my boyfriend! Last aug (2015) I got pregnant. (miscarage) She hasn't liked him ever since. She gets things in her head and believes them, and will hold it against him. During the pre-election someone rang our door bell. She is convinced it was my boyfriend's brother to mess with her. They were both at work during this time and he doesn't not know where I live. He use to live two miles from me, and I happen to be with my granms. We ran into each other at the gas station (local main one) she thinks it was planned. My car stalled out he was drving pass and saw. Turned around to try to help me. She thinks I planned that. (turns out it was the trans) When my mom was dying of cancer he stop by to bring me ice cream. We are it outside. My grandma got very mad at him over it. Pretty much yelled at him for stopping by. He should know i have a sick mother. She also got mad at him for talking me to a doctor's appointment when I was without a car. That I should of got someone else. And I should cancel the appointment. Last night we went on a double date with my friends. She got upset called someone in the fam and told them I am going out with the jerk and my friend. She does not want my name on nothing now.

So to start off my family is poor ,of course my parents struggle. My parents are divorced . my mom remarried and doesnt stress out as much as my dad who is alone. I live with my dad ,before he barely survived. Right now he is jobless and living off of his unemployment money. I on the another hand was saving up money a while ago for my own christmas gift since my family never tries to get me something i want for once. I was gifted a game console from a friend and I decided to sell and save that money. My brothers and I sold our console we saved up a few years ago. I saved money from that too. But heres the thing when I sold my gifted one my dad immediately started to take my money away and claimed as borrowed. My whole family knows his shittt habit of taking money away from his own kids. My family already assumed and bullying me in a way that it was obvious the moment he sees somebody have money he glues himself to it and depends on it. That gifted console money was 100 dollars and he spent every penny . MY christmas money. Then a bit later I got my money from the console with my brothers and he "borrowed" that money too because he cant even support me with his own. All of the 200 dollars went down the drain as well. He constantly yells at me and has an ugly attitude towards me. Very ignorant.He has been saying the same excuse of getting me what I want for months now. I feel so heartbroken. What do I do or how should I feel about this.

Hello, I am 15 years old and I have been struggling with my mother lately. I understand that it is normal to have fights at this age but I feel that some of the things she says and does crosses a line. Recently at a dinner with family my older sister (21) Stated that she wished that they could just leave me at someones house and never come back. When I told her that I wasnt a dog and she couldnt just leave me at a kennel she said 'well what else are we suppose to do with you? Youre just as much of a burden as one.' when I looked to my mother who was sitting between us she just nodded and didnt say anything even when I looked at her for help. My mother has always been very strict, forcing me on a diet when I was 8 stating that I was 'too fat' and that I was going to get bullied and she was just doing it for me so other kids wouldnt bother me...I had never had anyone call me fat or anything I was 61 pounds? She put me on the HCG diet drops and they made me so sick that it ruined my system and made it so I have to take special injections...she is always saying things that make me cry and that hurt while saying she just wants me to fix it so I dont get bullied when she is the only one bullying me. It has never bothered me before but after her basically saying she agreed that I was a dog in her eyes I cant help but feel that maybe our relationship is a bit...toxic? I know Im probably being dramatic but...what do you think?

My aunt s 10 year old son just lost most of his vision. So she asked if I could help to find some things he can do to make him feel like hes not missing out on stuff in his life. any information would be greatly appreciative.

I'm feeling super bad cause I think im disappointing my parents. How to deal with that?

My oldest daughter is 21-1/2. She has a lot of issues. She has no friends or social life. Never had a job and will not look for one. Though she is very intelligent with a photographic memory, she did very average in HS (including flunking some classes for not submitting assignments) and then basically flunked out of community college, although she did take some classes again this fall. She basically spends all her time on the internet watching videos, on Tumblr, etc. We had conflicts over the years about her performance in school and her responsibilities around the home (e.g. cleaning her room). Generally, my ex, who is very irresponsible herself, would undermine me and take her side. After 22 years of marriage I filed for divorce due to overwhelming issues with the ex. Dealing with this daughter was a fairly minor contributing issue. After filing for divorce, my daughter refuses to talk to me, even though for a year or so before filing for divorce we had no conflicts. (I had decided to stop trying to intervene and let the mother handle things – which she didn't, of course.) For a year or so before the divorce her mother and I had no relationship. We never did things as a family. But my daughters (her and my younger daughter, an 18 yo Sr. in HS, who still has a decent relationship with me) went to movies and went to dinner with me, went with me to visit my family, etc. Then suddenly the oldest daughter refused to talked to me, and when she did she would scream at me, attack me, even damage my things. (For several months after the divorce I still lived in the family home while I closed on a house, worked on it, moved, etc. But I totally stayed out of family stuff and did my own thing and only tried to talk to the girls with the mother was not around.) Now it has been over a year. Last Christmas I gave her a very nice, expensive present. For her birthday in July I gave her another very nice present and wrote her a letter saying I love her and I hope we could work things out and offered to go to counseling together, etc. – with no response. I was thinking about writing her another letter soon about Christmas. Basically saying again that I love her and want to have a relationship with her, etc. I am also going to say that I have bought her a very nice Christmas gift, but if she wants to get it she has to come over for dinner at my house with her sister at Christmas – I am not just dropping it off and being ignored again. Also, that the window of being able to have any kind of relationship is starting to close, so I hope she would reconsider what she is doing in abandoning her father and her paternal extended family – which is potentially her strongest support network. (Her mother's family has mental illness issues, they have all gone bankrupt and had homes foreclosed, etc., while my family is very stable and responsible). Please tell me any thoughts, advice, etc. I am heartbroken and not sure what to do. I want to have a relationship with her, but I am not going to beg or pander to her like she is five years old. She is an adult and I want to come to an adult understanding on this.

my nieces are mean to me they are a bit older than me I am 15 adopted kid they are from FL when they stay they will go 2 my school but one of them already has ruined my reputation when they stayed when I was an 8th grader when the 1st day she started a fight w/ another girl I am a black nerd and she is a obvious thug girl how do I survive this occasion

she keeps reading my texts between me and others and fuss at me every time then she knows my password on my chromebook and my smartphone then she brags about as long as I live w/ her she always go do tht crap then she takes my chromebook takes it to the lady at school reads my messages the lady assumes tht I am stalking my gf im just texting her they didnt understand the messages clearly then I have mental illness & I want personal space I tell her lma she refuses I cry she wants me to talk 2 her I want alone time then the lady gives her the paper about a military academy then the lady deletes my apps on there saying tht I cant have that stuff on there (I mean those games and stuff) and I am a 10th grader how come they dont do tht to other hs students then she is 64 year-old foster mom i am 15 i try doing nothin wrong they always think me having gadgets r a problem yes in the past I act up but Im growing up then we talk she said she lighten up but she never promise true stuff

my lil brother just turned 10 and lately he's been arrogant bossy and dirty I had a amazon kindle tht my mom lemme have bc my other bro left home to college then he gonna yell at me and threaten me saying tht its his just bc 5 mo. ago my other bro said he could have it but he lied 2 him I told him we can share it he said yes then today he yelled at me burped in my face almost broke our charger kept jumping on me making me give it to him I refused he kept violating me I popped him a few times telling him to stop then he snitched on me I couldnt explain anything like always so now I dont have a kindle

My BF and I have been dating 8 mos. but we literally spend every day together and have talked about getting engaged this Xmas eve. He is part of a very large, very close family. He has mom, step dad, two sisters who are both married, and four step siblings. I love his family - I've been on family vacations with them, I've met his grandparents, and I've even met two of the step siblings in the eight month period. Well his family normally splits up the holidays (i.e. they will go to their spouses family on Thxgiving one year and their family on Xmas that year and then switch the next year). So this year his family were all doing Thanksgiving somewhere else so I asked him if he would come to my families Thanksgiving because it is important to me that he meet my extended family before we get engaged. Well his mom changed plans last minute and he ended up going to Thxgiving with just his mom, step dad, and step sibling. I have asked him to come to my families Xmas (it is just breakfast), but he has said that we are not at that point in our relationship where he feels comfortable sacrificing time with his family to be with mine. What he says he means by that is that his family never invites significant others unless they are married, whereas my family invites everyone (the more the merrier). So now we are in this situation where he's not coming to my families Xmas and I'm not invited to his families Xmas because our relationship is not significant enough to them. What do I do?

Me and my sister are seriously in love. We've been dating for almost 3 years. She's 18 I'm 27. We do everything together. We even talked about being married and having kids one day. We kiss we cuddle sleep together we shower together we hold hands we even have sex. Our parents died a few years ago it's just been the two of us. We live with our friends they don't really care that we're dating they think it's cute. She's my soul mate she's the only girl I ever been with. I love her very much. Some people think it's weird knowing that we're related doing this stuff to each other but we don't care we don't listen to them. Our state law says it's ok for brothers and sisters to be together. I don't know if it says anything about marriage or not. Is it ok to be in love with her ? Would it be ok for us to get married and have kids ?

My best friend of mine, our friendship is special we've been through a lot. She has helped me so much through my problems and is always calling to check on me or send messages (vise versa). She called 3 weeks ago saying sorry for not being on social media as much and that she's been overwhelmed and stressed. She vented some of shear stresses and asked how I was doing, that i was on her mind. Although she's gotten very quiet, she always randomly blowing up my notifications with "likes" on my posts. I sent her a Thanksgiving message thanking her for helping me all the time and how thankful I was for her being a friend etc. I wasn't expecting a huge response but all she put was "Happy Thanksgiving to you too" Do you think I've annoyed her? I wanna check on her but I'm afraid I'll annoy her more. I wanted to send a Christmas gift but I don't want to be more of a bother. What do you think is up?

But my mom is making me wait matter how I convince her my dad needs to go to the hospital alot sister has practice and stuff I got work and what if they need both of there vehicles and I have no ride to work, she still will not listen at all I already have enough for a $7,000 down payment she will not even listen to me on a used car tried so many things on that my grandparents tried convincing her for me to get a used car my uncle's everyone she will not listen. So any guesses on why she is making me wait till 10,000 when something could come up and I will have no ride to work?

So I have a little sister who's 13, and she keeps trying to get me to move out on my own. She's packed my stuff up while I was working before, and informed me I should have an easy time moving now. My parents punish her and scold her and take privileges away, but nothing works. She just gets worse every single day. She threatens to leave my stuff outside when it rains so it's ruined so it's not in her room anymore, she cheers and gets excited when she hears I might be leaving for a little while... I don't get why she resents me so much. I haven't done anything to her, as far as I know. She might be doing it because of our older sister, who moved out one night without telling anyone when she was my age to live with her boyfriend no one approved of. But I'm not even seeing anyone... Are all 13 year olds like this? Is there any way I can get her to stop?

My Mom and her family don't get along. She often kept me away from them as a kid though now as an adult I see them. The family doesn't get together as often anymore since the grandparents have died (holidays are no longer held). What I am worried about is that since my mother is not popular then I am not. I am worried my cousins think of me as "okay only" since I wasn't loyal to family as a kid like they were as my mother wouldn't let me go under the mask she was "protecting me from my grandfather's drinking" which was BS as all my cousins went and turned out fine. So how do I get over this?

Okay if I draw my mom, I ll draw two people. One side is sweet, amazing, caring, funny. Then the other is horrible, yells a lot, hits one of my family members, it s horrible basically. When she gets mad at my dad, she makes us call him a bunch of times until he answers. If he doesn t answer the phone, she takes out her anger on me and my siblings. But the thing is that my dad works a lot to give us what she can t. So he s really busy and my mom still makes us call him a million times! Then when my dad comes home, sometimes she just ends up yelling at him and hitting him a lot. One time she made him bleed from the corner of his eye. One time my dad dropped a few coins on the floor and she got pissed and started hitting him!! I m tired of living like this, I want no abuse in my life anymore I m tired of it!! What should I do? I ve always wanted to call the cops too but I feel like that s gonna make it worse.

So I'm 21 used to have two jobs. But I quit the one because I was being harassed, and I really tried to tough it out but I just could not take it anymore. Anyway the job I quit my cousin put in a good word for me because he works for their asset management company. It was a dairy by the way. And I was making a little bit more, but honestly the money was not worth it. I'm so much happier making a little bit less and not having to go there anymore. Another reason I quit is because it conflicted with school and they wouldn't let me work earlier. So anyway I didn't want to tell my aunt or uncle because they always get mad at me. I feel like whatever I do is never good enough for them. Well on Thanksgiving my dad accidentally spilled the beans to my uncle and he got all mad and stormed off. I know though Christmas Eve I'll get a lecture which is what I was trying to avoid. The only reason I don't want to tell him off though, is because he has my car in his name because I had no credit history at all so I needed to co sign and my dad has horrible credit so he couldn't do it in his name. I pay my car, cell phone, and credit card on time always. But he always tries to use the car as a leverage like oh well I guess I'm going to have to take the car back. It annoys me to no end! Help please!

Like back when my siblings and I were kids if we were in some trouble for not doing homework or something she would get angry like we'd brought drugs home or something. It is not that she screamed it is just that she intensified how wrong are behavior was like we'd done something horrific instead of just "no TV for tonight" like are Dad who was cool. Now when she and her sister spat she builds up what her sister has done and vice versus on her sister's end like one raped the other when all it is, is that they have clashing personalities (though both are very similar). Their parents were not like this though their father was overly strict I am told (he died in Vietnam).

My grandfather has died so no one in the family who knew him is alive anymore. It was my maternal grandfather's Dad. So is it okay that we have forgotten? I thought of it because the 75th anniversary is coming.

My son is 17 and looking for a serious bar fight so he can beat the living hell out of people. We just moved here so don't know where to go. Who can help him find some fights?

So I am a 17 year old girl and I want to join the National Guard. I talked to the recruiter and got myself on the list and got an application.then I talked to my parents and my mom thinks it is a great idea but my dad is not okay with me joining. He even asked me to give him the recruiters number and everything. He told me he would file a lawsuit for harassment against the recruiter if he contacts me again. I don't know what to do anymore. My plan was to go into the Guard, become a veteran, and go into law enforcement to be a patrol officer. I feel crushed. I feel like putting the military stuff behind because I am getting nowhere with it. I really want to do this but my parents (mostly my dad) are stopping me. So instead I was thinking about just signing myself off when I turn 18. How can I get away from them and start a life for myself? What do you think I should do? Should I give up my dream of being a Guard soldier because my parents are crazy? Or should I wait until Feb (when I turn 18) to sign myself off? Thanks for the help! I am too afraid of my dad to go and sign. I really want this and I wish he would accept my decision. I told him how much this means to me but he is saying it's not good and the recruiters are brainwashing. My dad barely wanted me to choose law enforcement, but he finally grew to be okay with it. I am afraid he will completely hate me after I join. How can I keep this a secret until february? He will be on my case, since he knows I want to enlist.

Im an 18 yr white female, but have been with my darkskin boyfriend since we were like 15! I just recently got pregant and debating wether or not to have the baby! Although my family wont ever aprove of this, fristly becuase im not maried yet, partly becuase of his skin colour, but maining just that their old fashioned and its out of the best intrest for me! But i feel everything happens for a reason! Im onnly like 5 weeks preggnant! My whole life atm is a "idunoe" im just trying to get through it! And even with the support of my man, becuase my family would kick me out lol! i feel that im not even close to being stabble as a person for myself imagine another little one! BUT i told my boyfriend already! And if i tell him my descion on wanting to follow through with abortion, hell call me a baby killer or something ;(? How can i get around telling him what happened to the baby, or how can someone lie about this! I cant tell him the truth becuase its his desicon too but i still want to have just in what im saying 🙈

why and whats there to withhold or lie about? My 12 year old is getting annoyed with me for no reason.

I have Aspergers. In primary school, I was never treated like a person, just like a syndrome on legs. Because of this, when I went to high school I made my parents promise not to tell the principal. I wanted a clean start and to be treated like everybody else. Years later, I found out my parents broke that promise and told the principal. I'm so mad at them, I can't even look at them. I know I will never trust them again. That's not the only thing they did, so I'm moving away next year and I plan on seldomly, if ever, visit my parents. What do you guys think about that?

Or should I tell our parents so they can scold him. He is 26 with the maturity of a high schooler. However, there is nothing illegal as he and the other girls are all consenting adults.

I have two girls, two different mom's. Relationships failed with each. The child of my youngest signed my daughter up for ballet classes because my 5 year old claimed she wanted to be in ballet school. I thought she should go for softball. My whole family played softball including my daughter. The mom said she wants dance classes so that's what I am going to do as long as I can, and as long as she likes it. I also think she should get ears pierced her sister had her ears pierced as a baby in the mother refuses to do so. Threw a fit when I said I was going to take her. She said she wants it be her choice. I think all little girls need their ears pierced. My oldest loves them. I think sports are good for kids not some crazy dance mom class who bash each other. And her older sister loves softball!!! Why not be a family keep the tradition alive? How do I convice her softball is best?

I found it weird but I couldn't help but to enjoy the gossip. Apparently her medicine makes her less eager for sex. ♠ Merlin ♠---No but she went on to how she thinks my step-Dad masturbates since they can't do it. Also how he was moody because they hadn't done it in a while and how my father (who she blames for everything) was the same way when they stopped having sex all together (divorced).

My mother had sex with my cousin's ex wife!! Is this terrible? May i accept it? My mother is 52 years old and my cousin's ex wife is 32 years old. They are both beautiful women, a week ago me and my mother were in my cousin's ex wife house, for stay, eat and sleep for few days. So, one of these days, i saw in the bedroom my mother and my cousin's ex wife have sex!!! They were naked, with only sheer black stockings, they kiss and lick eatch other!! It's true, I was behind bedroom's door, and I've seen all, I was shocked! Is this terrible? May i accept it?

I'm a 20 year old white college girl. Early this year, I was approached on social media to pose for an "erotic art" website. They promised it would be tastefully done and they would give me a pseudonym so nobody would know my name. I thought it was a bit sketchy but I also felt flattered (I never thought of myself as hot as I'm 5'4, 150 pounds and guys mostly like me because of my 36F boobs) and my curiosity got the best of me. My best friend/roommate went with me to the photographer's home studio and it was weird and a bit creepy. He was in his mid 40s and managed to talk me into going topless and at one point he was straddling me while I was laying on a table topless. We declined his dinner offer and left quickly after getting paid (he also hinted some models do "extra work" for more money, i.e. give him bj). The photoshoot ended up being a success and after seeing a lot of good feedbacks, I opened up a Model Mayhem profile and was approached for more topless work by bigger website. Soon people at college found out and my name was somehow leaked. It became impossible to stay in school due to innuendos and bullying and I decided to drop out in September without telling my parents and moved to an apartment in the city (a bit of distance from campus) and began camming. Throughout this time, the websites & photographers I've work with pressure me to go into hardcore. I relented a bit and did a few solo masterbation scenes but it eventually reaches a point It eventually reached a point where no one would shoot me unless I agree to hardcore work and I eventually said yes out of desperation. I remember after the first test shoot, I went home and cried for hours. And then I kept working and get pushed deeper and deeper into porn. Boy-girl wasn't enough to satisfy the fans so I did a threesome with 2 guys, interracial with 2 black guys, first anal, and people are rough and I also got infected with herpis. My parents found out recently & I told my mom I made a mistake and I just wanna go home. She was sympathetic but my dad wants nothing to do with me and said I brought shame to our family and I'm not her daughter anymore. I've decided to quit porn and I still cam and mom has been secretly sending me some money to help me out, but I don't know what I should do. I've been getting high a lot and wasting time hooking up with random guys off apps like Bumble and overall just being a loser. @William: I never thought people would find out because they gave me a pseudonym on their website and I've never heard of that site so I assumed no one would ever make the connection. @winterbee: Thanks! I just wish everything could go back to normal. I hate the way people who know what I've done treat me these days. It's so dehumanizing. @winterbee: Plus, at the time I was very desperate for money and didn't feel like my major would be useful. I was partying too much too and wasn't getting a lot of studying done. It's all bad. @winterbee: Thx! I've already stopped doing porn and photoshoots. I just need to stop camming. Thanks so much for your kind words :-)

I'm a 24 year-old guy and I raped a 14 year-old girl in her bedroom 6 months ago. She didn't tell anyone out of shame. I've done this to many girls before and I got a sentence for 7 years if my family was poor I would likely rot in jail. But now I realized my mistakes and I know drugs played a role. I am now a good citizen and I stayed away from the teen. I was planning to do a testimony to her parents and I will offer to help their child with school fees

Quick question. I'm writing a story and I'm having a bit of trouble with my family tree. Ok, Annabelle (MC's mom) and another guy named Daisuke sleep together and Annabelle ends up pregnant with his child, her name is Mazarine(MC) Daisuke is already married and remembers nothing from the night cause he was drunk. Daisuke and his wife have a son named Sho. Annabelle ends up marrying another guy named Alden, and they have a son named Max. If Max and Mazarine are half siblings, and Mazarine and Sho are half siblings, does that makes Sho and Max siblings? Silly question, I know but I'm having trouble finding the answer.

I have been abandoned by my parents twice. I really need help. I want to get out of here. My parents won t allow me to practice my religion in their home. Everytime I do anything wrong they threaten to send me out into the cold weather, and get rid of me forever. My dad mocks my religion relentlessly, I decided that it is time to take matters into my own hands. -First, how do I get adopted? -Second, how do I find the right family? -Third, will anyone even want me at age 16?

You see,i was born in dubai and every summer i go to england to study and i literally have no proper vacations until i was 18. After i graduate i wanted to go to uni but my family forced me to join the army (cuz everyone is in the army or police) so thats what they know I signed a 15 years contract and it said i cant marry from a forign country. But i met this amazing girl online shes american citizen(filipina) and she knows everything about me. She loved and cared for me through thick and thin she stayed. So i visited her in the philipines for 3 days and when i came back my dad send me a msg that he dont wanna do anything with me and some of the family too and i already hated the army and i knew that if i went back home i would lose my girl friend. So i decided to go awol and leave the country and stayed with my gf for 4 months. She and her family gave me all the love and support i ever wanted(despite being poor) and my family are (rich as ****) but i found my self with them and i never wanted to be with my family dont get me wrong i love them its just i have a weternized deffefent mentality and they cant seem to get it. And there a one big family but i dont wanna be with them. Now i had to go back to dubai so i did and fast forward 6 months i am out of the army and thats all thanks to my gf.( i went to jail for 3 months and non of my family visited me whilst my gf and her was trying her best to see if am ok). Should i choose my family Or my gf and her family?

My adorable little cousin. I love him so much. He's only like 6 and whenever we meet, he tries to reach my face and kisses directly on the lips. I don't mind it tbh, and I rlly like him doing it. He's just so just cute. His parents also kiss his lips all the time so maybe thats why he does it. But why only me that he likes to kiss that way and not any other cousin?

I m 12 Years old. I have gotten caught with weed a few months ago, And occasionally I ask my Mom if she smokes weed. I was snooping around in there room today, and I found a Pipe (For weed) and It smelled like it too... Should I call them Out? Should I Blackmail them so They let me Vape/Smoke? Should I tell someone? Please help!

My daughter is an adult and she just sits around all day on her computer. Se has no interests, passions, or hobbies. Everything is boring to her or she just says she doesn't care about anything and gets frustrated when I ask to go to college or get a job. I want her to succeed but she mentions that she's uncomfortable with herself and feels like a fake isn't real self. She tells me she has anxiety and doesn't want to live life without discovering who she is? I wondered if she was questioning gender roles or whatever for many years now she just dresses like a boy and never a girl. She came out to me as gay years ago to but I just don't know what to do with her. How should I help her?

I'm asian so if you are a Western person answering this, please be objective. I live in a third world country and a lot of the people in my country is desperate to migrate to other countries, including my parents. I am 26, a bachelor's degree holder, and was already earning a decent salary in the past 5 years. My older sister is already a PR in Australia, and my mom is so crazy for me and my younger sister be PR's of Australia too. All my life I always thought of working abroad as well because that is what my mom has talked about ever since. But now, they want me to become an accountant so I can go to Australia, but I knew I hated that subject ever since highschool. I told them I wanted to become a social worker, which is as in demand as an accountant, but they don't believe me even with articles and government lists that I showed them. I follow them because they're paying my tuition. I have been here in Australia for half a year studying Accounting. I am now suffering anxiety because I don't like what I'm doing. My mom might have noticed so she has been making threats that if I don't finish my accounting course, they will disown me. I already hate them because of what they are doing to me, and I think that being disowned will be fine. I want to stop studying accounting, but I am not sure if I'm ok to stay in my country my whole life, which is most likely to happen because my old job is not in demand in other countries. What should I do?

My parents are divorced and my dad wants to take me on vacation. I live in Florida and he wants to go to Georgia to see family, but I just don t feel comfortable going. Like at all. He s got this crappy car that s about 15 years old, it will be only him and I for about a week and I just don t like the idea. I can t tell him I feel uncomfortable because I have so much anxiety and I know he will be so mad at me if I back out. I think about this vacation so much to the point where I ll be alone and I ll cry over how much anxiety I get from it. What do I do?

Hello, I am a 23 year old male and I am in a homosexual relationship with my partner (24) of three years. This is a really embarrassing issue to be bringing up, but it's really putting a rift in our relationship and I need advice on how to fix it? For the first year of our relationship, we were the kind of couple that switched roles during sex; with him being top one night and then me being top the next time, but a little after a year he suddenly refused to let us do this anymore and for the last two years he has insisted on being the only one to top. Which, I don't mind it and it's just as pleasurable as anything else. What bother's me is that he won't tell me the reasons why he suddenly decided this. It's like his sexual habits just all of a sudden changed and he wanted to be in control of literally everything. Example: if I am not in a specific position or do something that he isn't happy with, he gets furious and he has gotten so harsh with sex that sometimes it's actually really uncomfortable for me and when I tell him this, he just of shrugs it off. Also, after about two years of being in our relationship, he started having fetishes for things that I don't like (impact play, calling him daddy, etc). It's just, he went from being so gentle and not hesitant to switch to wanting to demand everything in our sex life. Even when I ask him to go slow or more gentle, he gets angry at me for it. Is there any advice on why this is happening and what I can do to help it?

I'm 13 and my parents were divorced when I was four. My mom cheated on my dad. She stayed home while my dad took us trick or treating for the first time. He was suspicious because of something I said and he found out. The next day he called her while she was at work and asked her to come home to talk. She refused and said she was going to finish her shift. He said if she finished it he would leave with me and my two sisters. we went back to Klamath falls from van couver to be near my grandparents. Later, I learned that my mom dated someone who had a wife. His wife found out and he committed suicide. She met my current stepdad at his funeral, and it turns out the man was my stepdads brother, so technically he's my uncle who died. I learned all of this recently in the last couple of months. When we moved back to Oregon from Wisconsin several years ago it was worked out that she would take us every other weekend. It stayed that way for a while but her visits started getting farther and farther apart. We moved to Salem two years ago and she lives in Medford. I haven't seen her or my sisters down in Medford or any of my aunts, uncles, grandparents,etc on that side of my family either. I don't know whether to be angry at her or not for not trying to see me and my sisters and for cheating on my dad and everything or not. It's been hard to deal with that lately and I was hoping for some advice. I live with my stepmom and dad and 5 siblings now.