So my gf asked for space to sort her head out as it as messed up due to various things. She then messages me random things about her day and asking how my day went, at first i replied in a civil way but it was small talk, not much but a bit. When i expressed my feelings and poured evrything out she avoided the topic, and just said to give her time. Today she has texted and i ignored it, then she asked how was my day and i ignored again. Is this the right way to get her to miss me and consider everything and decide?? or will it make things worse and i shuld carry on with small talk??

If you say anything to this person this person would likely pick out something you said and retort it or get critical with you. If you attempt to reason with them or disagree with them they will give you fighting words and start getting loud smart aleck and angry and roll their head and get in your personal space. If you just stop and be like 'calm down I'm not meaning anything 'the person would be like ' well you need to reconsider your actions and use of words' and begin to justify that them 'telling you off' or 'putting you in your Place' or them trying to get stuff started with you was rightful to them to do so and point out your minor offense and say 'you shouldn't of did so and so or say so and so and I wouldn't have done it' How do you handle these people ? My mom and sister tends to hang with a slew of these people and I run into them in church it is riddled with folks like this. Any suggestions? I cannot talk to these people or I'll end up getting balled out.

I Fount a maxi pad wrapper under his bathroom sink. He says it was his 9 year old daughter's.. what do you think ? I was over at my boyfriend's house taking a shower and his daughter was there also. I looked under the sink and saw a maxi pad wrapper he said it was his daughters. I feel like someone deliberately put it there. Why would she not discard of it in the trashcan? He has a history of being unfaithful, and the same night I notice two strands of hair in his restroom. One black which could be the daughters and one curly brown. I don't know what to think He told me to wake his daughter up and ask her but he knows I'm not the type to do that. I didn't ask her. . He did invite me over that night and I think if it was someone else's he would've clean the restroom. What do you think ? He's 28 and I am 23.

Me and my girlfriend went on vacation. I'm 30, she's 32. It was a last minute decision. We told her parents we were going to Florida. So we get back from our trip and she posts pics on Facebook because that's what girls do. Her little sister didn't care we went on a trip, didn't care about the pictures, had no interest in whether or not we had a good time. All she had to say was "you need to tell someone before you leave like that." First off, we did. And it wasn't her business even if we didn't. It doesn't sound like a huge deal, but it's always something. There's always somebody in our ******* business. We're adults. We don't need people telling us what we should be doing. Especially when we're better off than any of them. It just annoys me that people always want to give out unsolicited advice or tell you what you SHOULD be doing or what you NEED to do. Why can't people just mind their own business? Why is everyone so worried about other people? Why do people think it's necessary that we allow them to keeps tabs on us? It annoys me that people think they should be included in everything we do. Why would we feel the need to tell her little sister what we're doing? The only time she talks to us is when she needs a babysitter. She's basically nothing in our lives until we get that phone call for babysitting. Am I wrong to be annoyed by it or what?