I stayed with my mom we had an argument she ended up kicking me out and I cant stay with sister #1 bc we simply cant get along so I ended up staying with sister #2 for about 5 months until one night my mom was generous enough to give me a ride to the apartment (6 miles from my job was 1 mile) I just had a extremely stressful shift bc of lazy co-workers so the first thing my mom does is shame me for not getting her a tea and kept calling me selfish I wasnt in the mood but I kept my mouth shut bc I have a big mouth and wasnt trying to get kicked out again she kept talking trash about me about how I'm a bad example for my lil bro what part of i had a stressful shift do u not understand didnt even ask me how was work so when we arrived I stormed out of the car trying so hard to hold in my anger she called me back "so you aren't gonna say thank you" I said thanks then my sister said that I can pack my things cause disrespecting will not be tolerated me and my sis never had any problems until last night I never raised my voice at them until she kicked me out then I unloaded on her I had to figure out where to put my 3 bags and 2 suitcases of clothes and stuff I'm trying to get a 2nd job my current part time job cut my hours cause they thought that I was going to college I just graduated from HS I was trying to go to college to avoid this situation but my stubborn 66 yr old mom wasnt cooperating so I couldnt get any financial aid so I decided to take a gap year to save money and dont start blaming me cause I never said anything I have disrespected my mom numerous times in the past (the reason I'm not staying with her) but she can press my buttons on purpose she almost killed me one time cause I tried to get my phone back and she shot at the garage door to scare me off almost shot my head also one time I was just explaining something to her and she pointed a knife at me and told me to leave she claims that I hit her on several occasions thats not the truth she would try to hit me with a stick she would miss and trip over and claim I knocked her down the stairs when I get angry at something I always go in my room to calm down every single time she would follow me in my room and keep bothering me until I get mad at her then she shames me for being disrespectful she acts like no one can get mad ppl have emotions u know I was helping pay rent until my job cut my hours but they just now brought it back up so I was paying the light bill and the wifi bill (from 250/biweekly down to 125/biweekly) I would say some extremely nasty stuff by accident when im upset which is why I would go in my room so yesterday my sis kept rushing me to pack my things and leave while shaming me and I said screw her screw mom screw the entire family I love them but they need to stop Now its bad to where I cant go back but I'd rather be homeless than dealing with them I've done wrong but they keep shoving it down my throat I understand I messed up big time but they just picked on my brain last night its like telling your football rivals who were 0-16 they suck and they're nothing while bothering the crap outta them My current job is a 5-10 but im trying to get a overnight job at walmart I just finished my 1st interview 2 days ago I'm waiting for them to call my mom's # (I dont have a phone rn I'm borrowing my sis niece phone she left) so I'm crapping my pants cause ik how nasty she is she is not gonna tell me so thats a problem

My long-time-live-together boyfriend has a mom who is in nursing home and a single-mom sister. He has a brother who has a family seems always do things with his own family. Anyhow, I lately feel increasingly uncomfortable about him going to visit his mom every weekend, with his sister. I'm not asked to join. To be fair, his sister is the one asks him to go together. Always, they go and eat lunch or hangout/shopping for more than half a day. Technically it is alright for brother and sister to be close. Emotionally I feel left out and unhappy. There is always things she asks for help or doing things together that I'm not part of. A few nights back, I asked my boyfriend for a date night, but he said No because he had to go help his sister. That night, my understanding was he would be gone for 1 to 2 hours, but he came home after dinner with her. I was speechless and hurt. He didn't apologize or whatever and felt rightfully so. It feel very uncomfortable. Am I wrong in my thinking?

even though i know how to talk my parents dont want me to talk. they want me to be their baby forever. so for example, if i ned help with homework i have to cry, and my parents will help me. if i just go ask for help, they'll yell at me and make me crawl around naked in the streets. and if im hungry or i need to use the restroom, i have to cry, and then my mom will give me food, or my parents unlock the restroom door. im 13 btw i meant "won't let me"

My mom calls all my three siblings names. But calls me names most of all. She is always calling me selfish and an idiot. As well as a b**ch too. This morning i get out of my room quietly to get something to eat. Then, my mom says " I call everyone a bit** but who cares cause Rheem matters most. So Its bad that I call youuu a bitc* Rheem but not when i say this to everyone else!! YOU bit**!" About two or three weeks ago a social worker was called by the neighbors and asking us questions. I told my mom that I lied to the social worker by saying that she doesn't call me names like a bi*** when she does. And she flipped these words around and uses this against me saying that Im the only one in the house that gets called that. She does this all the time with other things I say too. She also does this mildy to other ppl in my house too. I believe that Im everything she calls me. She even told me this morning that Im selfish and that the only reason i supposedly dont like being called a bitc* is cause i am one. Yesterday and today was the worst shes ever been with me. And i rlly did feel as if she was mostly acting against me and no one else. To clear things up I was doing what I always do. I was in my room minding my own business when she rlly started attacking me w/words. I feel selfish writing this down cause I feel like maybe Im not the only one dealing w/this and that she does this with evryone else but i rlly did feel targeted for these two days. How do I deal w/this. Im 14

He is not violent but one who has made mistakes like tried recreational drug use and had a two week suspension back in high school. His mother feels he is the worst child she has ever known. His two sisters are her perfect little angels so she showers them with praise and him with insults.

They hate furrys. Whenever they hear the word furry they say "FURRY FREAKS" so.. Should I tell my parents or not? (I'm 13 nearly 14)

He's autistic, has ptsd and lives with me and my fiance. Basically he has these bouts where he threatens my fiance and himself so a month ago we sought out a facility to put him into voluntarily. He went for three weeks but it's been extremely difficult for me to care for him. I moved out of my guirdians home to get a place with him since he was being kicked out of his home. We were both 18 now we're 20 but I have my own issues to deal with and it's becoming way too much. I'm not sure what to do

I brought a home two months ago after working and saving. I'm so excited but... 1st my friend who I brought over a month ago with her two kids. She came over and then a week later called me and texted me saying she needed me right away and crying. She says she has two weeks to be out. She drives Uber and has two kids. We recently got back in touch about a year ago. She can live with her mom but says she wants her kids with their own room. Now she ok as an friend but she dates different guys and I don't want strange guys in my home or baby sitting while she drives Uber. I told her no and now she's acting different towards me saying things like I have a degree and brought a home so I can help and haven't offered. Then my sister, her 5 kids and husband want to relocate to where i am and asked could she live with me for two months until they get on their feet. I have two extra rooms, but I just want me space and want to enjoy my home alone. Everyone says I'm being nasty and selfish. How can I avoid coming off this way?

Assuming that they graduate high school and have full time jobs.

I don't know what month to be exact, still today, to understand exactly how old I am but I know that I don't have any remembrances. See people who come here at a young age such as being a baby or toddler because of having no remembrances it'll feel like as if you were never lived or there. That is common feeling but when people ask me or look at me as if I lived or be there or that I know something. This is where I feel So sad because In what part they don't understand that she wouldn't have remembrances and treating me as if I lived. I didn't.

I feel like he has become lazy after we moved in together. His mom always made him do chores even when he still lived with her and i agree nobody should be lazy. But I feel like because he has more freedom he doesnt help out around our apartment, only when i ask. Last week i decided to spend the night at my parents only because we all had to go somewhere the next day and i washed the dishes before I left. I had to leave so I asked him to dry them and put them away (no dishwasher) and he left it for me to do but ended up doing half of our laundry onmy because they have chairs for you to sit in the laundry room... I just feel like because his mom isnt telling him what to do he wont listen or help out due to his new found "freedom". He left cups and bowls of food he ate in the bedroom and ants got in them abd i had to yell at him saying the people who rented out this apartment to us speciffocally told us not to get bugs in the apartment. He applogized but never listens. He even stains the sink after brushing his teeth (apparently he discovered his teeth bleed after brushing it just started) and he never cleans the sink leaves everything for me. Promises to help but doesnt. How can I get him to help out???

I wrote yesterday thinking my Mom would make me but I guess my mother even knows how bad she is so told me only to if I want to. My sister is the only bad person anywhere in the family tree.

Me and my gf are 17. She is coming to my house today for the 2nd time. The first time my dad was home and my mom told me he went on a huge rant about it but she didn't really care. She said he was acting like a helicopter parent. We go to different schools and I want to see her but my dad just makes everything uncomfortable and doesn't even realize it.

im 45 i live with my parents is this normal? my mom still bathes me

If you ask a young person living in the ghetto about what he wants to be when he grows up, he most likely won't say doctor, lawyer or engineer. He's going to say, "Alive". Sad!

It's just over a week from marking six yeas since my mum died, and I'm guessing that because of that I keep imaging my dad and/or brother dying and me having to deal with the aftermath. Like I imagine getting a call saying they died in a car accident, and me having to organise funerals, sort out bank accounts, go to solicitors, etc. I know it's really ****** up to imagine such a thing, and that I should cherish what I have at the moment but it keeps coming across my mind. Any idea what I should do about it, or why I'd imagine such a thing?

Just for the record they aren't and were never abusive, negligent or forgetful.

I started working as a provider for my grandma as a part time job. My aunt is the provider for my uncle and he lives with my grandma. My aunts husband would always go with her and he started making comments about me getting there late and my aunt doing all the work. I told my aunt to leave me the dishes and everything else like mopping, cleaning restrooms, etc and to just make the food so my grandma won't be hungry. I talked to the agency and my grandma about me coming in at 2:15 and everything was fine. My aunts husband reported that I would abuse my grandma physically and would scream at her. They questioned my grandma and she said it was not true. I went to him and told him in his face I was going to call ICE on him cause he is undocumented and the first time he got deported was cause he had a gun. So I went ahead and called ICE. My mom and grandma see me as the bad person cause I got him deported and I'm kinda mad about it cause they didnt see it bad when he said I abused my grandma physically. They still talk to him and try to help him but what about me? I didnt lose the job with my grandma but he lost a lot he got deported and lost his family. I let it go and I talk to them like it doesnt hurt but it hurts that they supported him when he is not blood and I am. Should I be mad? How can I handle this?

I've been learning to sing for over a year and I just started learning how to dance etc. My mom rarely ever praises me for my talents or says I'm doing good. Which is fine, it doesn't matter. But what does matter to me is when she listens to other kids sing or watches them dance, and then rants and raves about them to me. Saying how great THEY are. I admit, I do have jealousy problems, and my mom knows that. She knows I'm sensitive when she raves about other kids, because it makes me feel less. I can admit when other kids are talented, and I can be proud of other kids. It's just when I never get praise from my mom like that, but she's so willing to give kids she barely knows praise and support. It just kinda sucks I guess. And it almost feels like she's trying to rub it in or something. I know I'm good at what I do. But it can be really discouraging when my mom acts like this towards other kids and not me also. I don't know how to deal with this. I would just like some advice I guess

I am a 24 year old college student who is also a mother i don t bring my kids on campus and if they do i walk as fast as possible for no one to see them i really don t tell other students i am a parent how could i as a mother be embarrassed one 😭😭 i don t understand and its depressing me i thonl alot about all the things i could have beem doing i take care of 3 kids no help no break nothing and i even want to date but be diffcult but i love my kids with all ny heart and i been on bed said because i can t be the perfect parent and now sucking as one i can t stop crying met a follow collgue that just invited me to a party on the campus and when i said i couldn t and they asked why i told them i have kids and their response was whooaaaa i didn t know that and for some reason i started crying i am terrible

I would babysit him from 8am-4pm. Then at 6pm I go to work until 1am and then I would have to be up before 8am to get ready and get to her house by 8. I have two jobs. My other job I work after the job that I leave at 1am. My second job is only 3 hours but by the time I get home from that one and shower and get to bed it's going to be like 5-6am. I will get no sleep. Worst of all, she isn't even paying. I just don't know how to tell her because I "did" say yes already and she went to her job meeting and put her paperwork in and all that. But she guilted me in saying yes because she pulls the "this is my first real job and if I have no one to babysit I'm going to have to stay home and that wouldn't be good for bills" and blah blah. BUT WHAT ABOUT MY LIFE?!?! I am going to be throughly exhausted. She says she doesn't have money but she can go take her kids camping at this one place and go to freakin places. My mom doesn't get it. No one gets it. But I don't want to babysit. How do I freakin tell her? I am a pu$$y about it and I have gotten myself into this AGAIN. Last year I babysat and it was HELL. I told her right off the bat I'm not doing it again and she said okay but as the days passed and it got closer to her job starting again, she went and asked me and pulls the guilt tricks. I'm too nice for this bull. I can't take it.

There have been many times throughout my life that I have felt spoiled. I have always been well-fed, had a roof over my head, and had a loving family. My family is well-off and my parents have gifted me with many possessions as well as experiences. I am often treated to many things other children aren't. I work hard in school and extracurricular says well as volunteer occasionally, but I can also have meltdowns when I can't solve a math problem or things don't go my way. In addition, sometimes I fail to see the big picture and expect things to revolve around me, forgetting about how lucky I am, and I can be impatient. I've been called spoiled before, but usually in a joking way. I have also led a quite sheltered life, and while I have some chores, I don't complete them all the time. I really wish to change to become a better person for myself and for the world. How can I change? Thanks.

He is a bad man.

My mom won t let me shave my head again! (It s already a buzz cut but I want to cut it again) I m a female and 13 she says that I don t have the mentality to make decisions tell I m sixteen she said the same thing about me wanting to be a vegitarian. I want to have a nice calm rational talk about cutting my hair but she just says "No You Cannot. Nope. Uh uh. Listen, you don t have the mentality to make these decisions at thirteen. I said at 16 you can do whatever you want!" I need help.

I have a 4 year old son who has had visitation with his father for the last 3 years. His father used to be addicted to pain pills and in the beginning he used suboxone to get off pain pills but told me he ended the program. I found out a few weeks ago that he was now on methadone and I'm not sure how long he has been on it. I'm not sure if judges rule that it is safe for children to visit their parents while their in the program. He is allowed to bring the medication home and claims he keeps it in a safe. His father also lives with his parents who have been pill poppers their whole lives but have prescriptions and just refill them when they run out by buying them off the streets. I always felt like I couldn't prove that. I am now financially stable enough to afford a lawyer if I need to but curious if I'm wasting my time if judge will just rule he can see him. Looking for some insight or personal experience.

Hi everyone so my name is Abigail and I am 53. I recently was let go from a job for undisclosed personal reasons. Every since I have been really depressed and all I have wanted to do was lay in bed and eat all day. I spoke with my dad about my situation and he told me "If you don't have a job and are not employed then you can't live in my house. I am not going to bust my *** putting food on the table while you are a lump on a log all day." He even told me that losing my job was my fault to begin with. All I wanted was a place to stay until my mental condition improves, but he can't even do that for me. I really want my old job back but they probably won't rehire me and if I get a new job then it won't be the same as my other job which will make me more depressed than I already am. Any advice? Thanks!

He got a girl pregnant and he's happy about that but the kids mom has big butt like it looks fake but I don't know. A lot of the people in our family talk about it like she looks like she's got plastic surgery and some say he should've done it with a nice looking girl. She's hot but she's not to me someone I'd have a kid with. I feel bad for him cause it's hard to be like this is my kids mom but he's attracted to her. Like my girl is skinny has glasses without sounding rude this girl is like Kim k or nicki Minaj

An extreme emergency, like a fire escape or a burglar breaking in -

After constant rejection from me, they've finally stopped sending me letters, presents and gifts. No more phone calls, no more contacts, nothing. And I'm glad. Personally, I don't see why they kept bothering me in the first place. If I don't want nobody in my life--literally nobody else but me, then that is my choice. My plans are now to become an international working model. I just got signed by Elite Model management and am going to Japan to do a photo shoot.