We were having a conversation about what food to buy. Her phone rang. She immediately answered it, totally disregarding the conversation we were having. It was not an emergency and she did not end the call to continue our conversation. I just walked out of the room and told her she can't eat any of my food

I saw his search history full of porn and I look at it once in a few days to see if he jerks off a lot like me but part of me wants to catch him jerking off to see what he'd be like and talk about porn or vice virsa if he caught me

My mother alienated me from her family as a child and brainwashed me against them. When I got to be a teenager I saw my mother was wrong and made up. Today is the 25th anniversary of a day that my mother used me as a pawn in her brainwashing which caused me to harm someone emotionally who has now died. Excuse the grammar errors I am talking into my cell phone.

I found an old vhs in my basement. It's from an old family trip we made in 2000 in Lake Powell. My brother was 14 then,I was 7. It's hard to watching him jump from the cliffs,or smile. Little we did know the impact 911 would have on him the following year. Little we knew 5 years after that trip he would return in the US in a flag drapped casket. Gone at 19. Killed while trying to help 2 fellow Marines. We all reacted very differenty to his death: Mom started to go to church. I was angry at the world. I was angry at Bush. I was starting to get angry with my friends and family and I realized that my life was going down a hill. So I chose to reverse that and to see good in people. I took long walks to heal my heart,to heal my soul. For the first years both my mom and I couldn't even mention my brother's name without tearing up.. Now we talk about him frequently to keep his memory alive. Dad however took the loss very differently. For the past 13 years I never heard him mention my brother's name. Not once. He kept working,he's a gp. He kept smiling. He's an avid fb user and he always posts fun things and jokes. Thing is: my dad is a funny guy,he never talks about death unless it's related to his job. Mom thinks I shouldn't tell dad about this thing I noticed.and while I don't want to cause my father sorrow I just wonder why a man that lost his eldest child has never ever talked about him...it's like he never existed. Advice?

So my mom has been in my big sisters room for the last three weeks bc I'm guessing something happened to her. I tried asking her what was wrong and she was like "oh someday this is gonna happen to you too" so I'm like ?? I tried finding out by like listening at least and found out that the girl my sister dated for a bit has been playing around with other people so they broke up. I thought it was something like really big so I'm just like wow really that's it? Like every time my mom comes out of my sisters room she comes out crying. She even started sleeping on a mattress that's on the floor like two weeks ago. My sister looks like she doesn't even care about her bc all she does is go and hang out with friends literally every single day. Just even yesterday my mom came back tired from work and she goes visit my sister to see how she is and only for about 15 min she goes to her room crying and my sister leaves to go to her friends after. Today she's moving the thing that goes under the mattress from my room and my mom is literally struggling to take it out while my sister is just laying there so I help her out. It really hurts me to see my mother like this. She doesn't want to tell me what's going on with my older sister and it just annoys me how she's treating my mom.

My sister has a light case of cerebral palsy and lives at home with my parents. Basically she can do a lot of things except drive. I'm married. The other day we were talking about where she would live in the future. She brought up living with me and my husband. Before our conversation, my husband and I had already talked about moving in the future and maybe building another house. When I told him about my sister, he thought about how we could build her her own private living space that's connected or slightly beside our new house. That way if we do that, my husband and I can have our alone time and also take care of my sister at the same time. What do y'all think? Should we do this?

I can still take some classes at a community college to get my degree. Or I could do online classes. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and that's what we're planning to do when we graduate next spring.

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My uncle got married two years ago. It caused friction with my Mom, because my parents are really racist (They won't admit it but they are) and his new wife is Asian, so is her daughter, my new cousin. I'll call her L. She and I clicked right away, become best friends, which my parents didn't like. My Mom hates her, tries to warn me away from her and gets really insulting. Been growing distant from my parents more and more this year. Bonding with my uncle, aunt, and especially L. They've already told me that I'm welcome to stay with them after I graduate, even if it would probably estrange us from my parents. L and I have had some really tender moments, and her playful nature seems to cross over into flirting sometimes. We're really close and share a lot of trust. It's not much of a secret either. She cuddles me with her parents in the room and they don't seem to think anything of it. The other thing is that there isn't a third bedroom, but L has told me she's fine with sharing her room with me, and apparently her parents don't mind either. Like I said, we're close friends, but sharing a bed...I mean, we're not actually blood-related, so would it be weird for us to sleep together? I get the feeling that things might escalate if we do...but I'm sort of okay with that? Would it be so terrible to let this relationship advance? I know it would alienate my parents, but...they're not the best people.

I'm a senior in high school now and I don't know if I'm depressed or just feel sad all the time. I tried playing football in 7th grade and I quit after 3 days, disappointing my dad. He says it's ok but I can't make myself believe that. Now I'm a senior and there's nothing I regret more than not playing. And the worst part is, I feel like I'm an outcast in my family. My dad, older and younger brother have played or play football, except me. I'm skinnier than all of them. And the hardest part is having to see my little brother, knowing he's super athletic and good at football, and big. I don't know if I should see a therapist or something because it's bad. I can't see myself getting over this, ever. My family is so outdoorsy and I'm kind of, but not as much. I feel like I'm not even related to them. But I love them, but I feel like dead weight in the family. I really do hate myself.

I'm 17 and my gf came to my house for the first time while my dad was home. We couldn't sit in my room so we went to the park. When she left instead of congratulating me my dad was acting like a helicopter parent. Talking about condoms and babies in a condescending way like I was unaware. We go to different schools and I miss her. She might come over again today but I'm uncomfortable about it because of my dad. I really want to see her though.

He is what my mom calls an alcoholic. I'm 15 and I see him like this all the time but it's the first time I've been alone with him while he's like this. He's flipping out and cursing to me about my mother and her family. Feeling scared Usually my siblings and sometimes my mom are here but they are out various places until this evening. My mom usually does not let me tell anyone he gets like this so I'm asking on here anonymously.

I would rather just ignore her and treat her like a snake 🐍. What should I do? She turns 23.

They compare it to pedophilia and will not let me around children. My siblings have even bend me from their weddings with the exception of one. My father says he is humiliated by me and my mother seems to just ignore me. I was not even invited to a family reunion last year.

My mom said if I need to work at night, I'll need to ask my child's father who I'm coparenting with to watch her while I work. My child's father is not always available neither. I need night shifts as that's how I make the majority of my money as a waitress. If I work only Morning shifts, l barely make any money. Also, my mom will never give me a break to go out. My mom absolutely refuses to babysit, yet she wants to see and be there for her granddaughter. I'm not letting my lousy mom see my daughter. She lost that right.

She has a kid with a guy he dated he's two years older. He provides for the kid. But he's got a bunch of baby mommas at this point. Like kids everywhere. They're my nieces siblings. But does it bother her? My family jokes about him but he does provide for the kids. But do you think she feels bad about it like embarrassed

I have half sisters on my dad side. Over the past few years I've been having doubts about their loyalty to me. sister 1 who was 36 at the time lost her dog and my friend saw the dog at someone's house and I told her. She didn't find her dog and blamed me and stopped talking to me for 12 years. We found out my brother an addict sold the dog and my friend had actually saw the dog with the "new owner". My brother is her blood siblings. I live in America They don't and I visit home. My step mother got a stroke and I went to visit her. Another sister sister 2 saw me there and asked me in front of the other visitors why am I here? I thought she meant why was I in the country cause I grew up in that house so I said well this is my home meaning my country. She embarrassed me in front all the visitors and said this is not your home. She wants a green card. In addition to this two people have confronted me on two separate occasions saying that two other sisters sisters 3 and 4 were bad mouthing me in front of strangers that they don't like me. A month ago another person got in contact with me saying the same thing. Problem is I stopped talking to my sisters 10 years ago. My sisters contacted me out of the blue saying the person is crazy and I should ignore them and are eager to know if guy contacted me and telling me not to answer his call. But this is the third time it has happened. And yes they have also asked me for a green card and I was in the process of starting it.

My brother used to be an exotic dancer. My parents fully supported his decision. Now I am one, and they object because I'm a girl. Why is it OK for my brother to be an exotic dancer but they have so many issues with me doing it? Also isn't it hypocritical that my parents have anything against me being an exotic dancer when they both go to strip clubs at times? If they see something wrong with it, why do they go support other strippers?

My uncle has been staying over my home for over 2 or 3 months. He staying in my room with his one year old daughter. I didn't really mind at first until a couple days have passed and I just had realized how much of a walking *** he is. He reeks of feet, he's REALLY messy, and walks around acting like he owns the place. I've told my mom many times that I want him out of my home if not at least out of my room, my moms really trying to get him out my room but is really struggling. I have told her why can't you just simply kick him out but she says that she doesn't even want to hear what he's going to say. She believes he's going to make an excuse of not knowing who's going to care for his daughter and because of money issues. I know damn well he has the money to find a house, and time to care for his own daughter, he's just too lazy, too much of an idiot to live alone and doesn't want to face the fact that he has a responsibility of caring for his own daughter.

My sister stays up late or over-night with her boyfriend my parents allow it. Why else would she be around him at night ? If theres a need to talk they can always do it daytime or through text/call. No doubt they're having s*x. I told my parents and they don't care to stop her. Idk why they're not parenting her - I thought they've always been pretty strict about raising good kids???Btw I also mailed condoms to her house as a joke to indicate that SOMEONE KNOWS what she's doing wrong! I didn't leave behind my name or address

We don't touch each other obviously because that's gay. We touch ourselves while watching porn. We are both in our mid-late teens.

I got a call from his teacher stating that he's been bullying a set of boy/girl twins for being adopted. Their mom complained to the school and thats why the teacher called me. My son learned about their adoption when he overheard the family talking about it. I never imagined my own kid as being the bully! I took away his video games and he'll be apologizing. How do I make sure that he never does this again?

My in-laws don't live nearby, but visit frequently. My MIL is overbearing and runs the show in her marriage. Her and my FIL always have and always will do whatever she wants to do (mainly shop, where he sits on a bench and watched YouTube by himself). The problem is, after 40 years of marriage my FIL has literally lost all sense of self. He has absolutely no interests, hobbies, or expertise... in anything. I have nothing to connect with him on, at all. Instead, he has jokes... horrible horrible jokes. Like no punch-line, yet cracks himself up jokes, that he repeats to no end. And I swear he stares at me until I manage to fake-laugh So every time they visit, we have about 30 minutes of small talk before the jokes come out. It's absolutely exhausting and drives me insane. I truly want to have someone to connect to and learn from, but there's just nothing there. I accept that fact, but still find myself in a losing battle of survival. Does anyone have any suggestions or tips on how to make this more bearable?

Been with bf for 2.5 years both 23. He is going to jail for 3 months and has his own apartment and a kid. He told me the mother of their kid will live their when he's away and have to go food shopping for his disabled dad pay his bills even credit card bills. Also take care of the cats and sell his weed. Rent there is expensive but she has a way better paying job than I do. She said she would and told me he loves me and wouldn't want me to have to take on all of that. I was ok with it until she just backed out. I have my own bills and never lived on my own I also wouldn't feel safe there he also got rid of bed bugs a year ago and his bills are expensive. Now he flipped it and is saying if I love him I'll do this for him. I love him to death and now fear losing him because I'm focusing on my own life at the moment and can't afford this. He offered 1,000 for when he gets out however. I'll also have to watch the kid when off since the mother works constantly except weekends. My entire life would change and only given 1 month notice. I don't know what to do I really don't want to or think I can do all of this.

My sister has a light case of cerebral palsy and lives at home with my parents. Basically she can do a lot of things except drive. I'm married. The other day we were talking about where she would live in the future. She brought up living with me and my husband. She said she doesn't want to live alone. I don't know if her living with us would be a good idea just because I'm afraid we would have any alone time and I don't want it ruining our relationship. I also feel bad because I feel like it's my job to take care of her and I feel like a bad sister if I tell her no. I don't know what to do honestly. Any advice would be appreciated. Would it be a bad thing her living with us?

I'm 17 right now, 18 soon. He tells me I can't leave the house until I finish school, then he's kicking me out. I'm not understanding the logic in that. Why not just kick me out when I turn 18? I'm pretty sure I can legally leave as well and he can't stop me. I don't want to stay in a house with a dad who is controlling and doesn't even want me. He won't let me get a job, so where am I supposed to live exactly? I don't think any homeless shelters are even around here that I've seen.

My mom yells at me for everything I do but when my siblings do something she barely does anything. My sister got mad and broke my mom's phone and my mom apologized to my sister. I grabbed something out the grocery bag and my mom pushed me. After my mom yells at me she sits back and laughs and looks at me funny. I think she hates me. I'm tired of this. I'm really upset right now from her yelling at me earlier. I'm going to commit suicide soon.

TW: (Mild) Incest. My half-sister and I have always been really good friends (We're both 16) we grew up together and always had each other's backs. We're in the same friend group as well, and a few days ago we were both at a party. We were all playing Spin The Bottle but everyone insisted on a "No Excuse" rule, so when two of my guy-friends (who are both straight) rolled each other, they got peer pressured into playing along. Same thing happened with two people who were exes. Same thing happened with me and my sis. She rolled me and we resisted, tried to bargain, but everyone was pushing us so we went into the closet. It was the Seven Minutes in Heaven variety, the rule being anywhere from five to eleven minutes before you come out. I guess we could have just lied and said we'd kissed, but we didn't think of that at the time. Ended up making out. I want to just move on and forget about it but the problem is it kinda got really intense. Like we were frenching and heavy petting and there was some feeling up too. We didn't plan it, things just kind of escalated, and we were in there for the full eleven minutes. People teased us afterward, but they teased everyone. Ever since, things have just felt kind of awkward between us. Like there's still this tension. I don't know how to go back to the way we were before, because it feels like everything is different now. What can I do? How can I fix this? Has this changed us forever?

So my sister and I used to be very close. We had an apartment together everything went well for about 2 years, but little things started coming up missing. Just things of little value I brushed it off and assumed maybe I lost them or something. Skip a little time in I started a little family of my own my sister was still our roommate, she'd got heavily into drugs and hanging out with the wrong people. She began stealing from grocery stores any time I asked if she could buy something for the house she would literally go steal it. Then one day money started coming up missing sometimes $150 sometimes $300, we smoked weed also so it would also come up missing. My boyfriend and I began fighting a lot because I would think he was making it up. Like no way my sister can't be a thief. I eventually made her leave, she got a girlfriend went to stay with her for a while. They asked if they could come stay with me and me being me I allowed them once again things started coming up missing ? Anyways now I live with her and she's stealing again, I have no where else to go I'm trying to make the best of it but I'm sick of living this way. I have to lock everything up. I pay her to watch my son nearly $400 plus I pay my portion of rent and things needed in the house. I have no trust for my sister it makes us fight sometimes. Idk how to make this situation better. I'm fed up and heartbroken that this is who my sister has become. Any advice ?