I couldn't be with someone who didn't make me happy 24/7. life beats you don't enough. your partner should be your 24/7 peace and happiness. I saw a couple on instagram that always looks excited and happy they are always smiling and seem like they have great chemistry all the time.

Me and my husband went through a rough patch in our marriage. He went through a period of being very controlling, manipulative, insensitive, and hot n cold.during that time I confided in one of my closest male friends for advice and support. We hadn't spoken in a while and that sparked back up our bond. He also was going through relationship problems with his girlfriend. We talked for hours and then hours became days and then here we are months now still with a very strong bond. He's always been a great friend and I've known him for about a decade and I don't think we've ever had a single argument. I believe we are both compatible then me and my husband. I defintely have more in common with him. It's like he knows all the right things to say and he's so intune with the female mind. I never noticed that about him before. I've found myself becoming physically attracted to him. We've only talked on the phone and texted so I have not been cheating on my husband. he lives about 3 hours away so don't worry no cheating will come out of this. but i can't stop thinking about him. But my friend does make me feel good and i'm extremely attracted to him and his intectual energy. we are both in our 30's. my friend knows my husband was once emotionally abusive to me and he thinks i should be single and that my husband might not be the right one. I told him i'm trying to give my husband the benefit of the doubt but i secretely cannot stop thinking about my friend. even when i'm around my husband i'm thinking about my male frien find myself constantly checking my phone to see if my friend texts me. I get butterflies every time he text m find myself constantly looking to see if my friend is online on faceboo

How can you tell?

My best friends husband is so selfish and doesn't care about her. Aside from treating her like rubbish and never doing anything for her.. He always spends all his money on himself on materialistic things such as decorating his car and loud speakers and new tattoos, doing his hair, buying expensive clothing. All this instead of help his wife pay the bills which she does all by herself and struggles!!! While he spends all his money on himself, never on her, the bills or their 2 children. Only himself. He really loves attention though.... I'm worried about her. Does that make him a cheater?

Like nobody gives a **** if you're married or not. If I get married I would never wear a ring it's stupid

i make 5 times what she thinks i make

Thank you all, it is more painful then any human has ever felt.

So a few people know already about my struggles with negative thoughts and my coping strategy has been to write them down and try to move on. A lot of the negative thoughts were coming from being sworn at or sometimes hit by my wife. Every time we had an argument, she would yell f you, idiot, loser, dumb etc. So then I would think 2 things; I must be stupid and I'll always be mediocre, and that I should consider divorce and starting my life over. Then I'd calm down and keep trying to cope with balancing study and full time work and looking after the home. Once again, my wife got angry and this time said I never appreciate her. That she can leave at any time because she discovered my negative writings on the phone. I tried to explain to her again that i don't want to separate or divorce and that I'm using writing as a way of coping. But she is convinced that I'm planning to leave. We are supposed to be doing a European tour. She has been hot and cold about inviting me so I've been a bit uncertain. In the she didn't travel anywhere with me overseas. Just go with her girlfriends instead. Anyway, I'm getting a decent tax return thanks to our investment properties. I need to buy a second car to get to work in. But after she read my writings, she claimed she no longer has the money for my portion of the tour. That I should spend the last of the tax return on buying her a $5,000 handbag or pay for my own ticket if I want to come with her family. But because I handle all the day to day expenses, I cannot afford this way. Last year she also took all the money and said she needed to pay back her personal debts. She then disappeared to Tibet and left me struggling to make do with the bills. I owe $2,500 strata, my phone, gas, internet bills are overdue and our private health insurance was cancelled. I also have no home insurance at the moment. I need the tax cheque to pay for everyday expenses. I'm thinking about not going to Europe so I can save money for the bills. I said months ago that something would come up and would be the excuse to stop me going with them. Anyway I made it clear that I don't want to separate and that i would rather see us in a good marriage. She just responded that she can move out and i can see other women... I had a nightmare last night in which we were getting divorced and i woke up crying. Despite whatever i had written, i dont truly want to go through that process. I just want to be happy...

I used to want to get married, but considering that over 50% of all marriages end in divorce, over 80% of divorces are initiated by the woman, and men usually lose their kids I don't see a tangible reason why a man would get married. Sure, he could do it for love and to be in the household with his family, but aren't those things that he can have without marriage? The risk of losing your kids, paying child support, and having to pay alimony is pretty scary when you factor in that you as a man can do everything right by your wife and kids and still lose them.

I have been married to a lovely man for the past 6 months, and I grew up in a conservative christian church,a dn he joined the church when he was older. I have stayed a virgin until marriage, as that is what the church teaches, but he had a sex addiction when he was younger (before he joined the church). I fully believe hat forgiveness is real, and that his sexual past has nothing to do with his worthiness or our marriage. However, even when I say that, I cannot help worry that I am not enough, maybe something like that could happen again if he was stressed out enough, etc. I know these feelings are not healthy, and want to know how to heal. It doesn't help that he isn't as loving as he was before we got married. He still is a wonderful man and tells me he loves me, but it used to be so much more.

I've been married to my husband for over 10 years. We were highschool sweethearts and we have created a happy life for ourselves together. If I made some stupid mistakes when we were first dating in highschool, is there any point in telling him now?

We rarely go out. He says because I haven't earned it. We have 2 kids, almost 9 years together. He never talks about marriage. How would you feel? (I am sure I'll get negative feedback, but it's okay. I am all open ears.) If a couple with kids ever goes out when is it okay to go out.

Why do men always call their woman a wack job?

No hate to any women I mention. But I feel like Brazilian women are so unfaithful. Which nationality in your opinion would make the best wife?

I want a good job, healthy social life, my own apartment, and a boyfriend. If I cant have this, I will get married and have kids. This way I will have something. I meant if I fail in my career I will have kids as a backup. I am in college and thinking about my future. I am just imagining how I want my life since everyone around me is getting married.

My husband is abusive to my daughter who's not he's blood daughter the daughter I had with my ex. But he hates her for no reason he abuse her verbally emotionally sometimes he hits her I defend her. But he never seem to change he's behavior I have 1 years old and I'm pregnant with him and I can't leave him with this situation but I want solutions. My first daughter is turning 7 this month

Me and my husband went through a rough patch in our marriage. He went through a period of being very controlling, manipulative, insensitive, and hot n cold.during that time I confided in one of my closest male friends for advice and support. We hadn't spoken in a while and that sparked back up our bond. He also was going through relationship problems with his girlfriend. We talked for hours and then hours became days and then here we are months now still with a very strong bond. He's always been a great friend and I've known him for about a decade and I don't think we've ever had a single argument. I believe we are both compatible then me and my husband. I defintely have more in common with him. It's like he knows all the right things to say and he's so intune with the female mind. I never noticed that about him before. I've found myself becoming physically attracted to him. We've only talked on the phone and texted so I have not been cheating on my husband. he lives about 3 hours away so don't worry no cheating will come out of this. but i can't stop thinking about him. But my friend does make me feel good and i'm extremely attracted to him and his intectual energy. we are both in our 30's. my friend knows my husband was once emotionally abusive to me and he thinks i should be single and that my husband might not be the right one. I told him i'm trying to give my husband the benefit of the doubt but i secretely cannot stop thinking about my friend. even when i'm around my husband i'm thinking about my male friend i find myself constantly looking to see if my friend is online on facebook i find myself constantly checking my phone to see if my friend texts me. I get butterflies every time he text me now me and my friend dont text everyday like we used to, it's only a couple of weeks now since him and his gf have worked through their issues.