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- Question: Did I misinterpret his comment?
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- Question: How did a mother recognize me, one of her child's former attackers?
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- Question: I thought he likes me. How could he do this to me?
- Question: Should I text my gf this after whats happened?
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Question: Did I misinterpret his comment? Posted: 11 Aug 2019 02:54 PM PDT Last week, he had said, "I will look at it this weekend and set up a time for us next week". I thought this meant the meeting will be this week, but it's now Sunday and I haven't heard from him. Does this mean he actually meant sometime in the future? |
Question: Am I a jerk for not picking up someone a pack of ciggarettes? Posted: 11 Aug 2019 02:00 PM PDT So i was going to get gas and go to another store to get almond milk , so i didnt want to take extra time to get someone else ciggs. One I dont smoke and hate ciggs. |
Question: How did a mother recognize me, one of her child's former attackers? Posted: 11 Aug 2019 01:01 PM PDT My darkest and regretful moment ever: I was one of the girls (and ringleader) that beat up and took turns lifting two different smaller kids by the neck for a couple seconds. One of them was her then 6-7 year-old child, submitted to an unjustified and brutal beating. I was 10 and my friend was 11. Both kids had to be hospitalized and treated for a couple injuries and bruises. I'm 19 now, changed a bit in appearances and dyed my hair. Not so long ago, I was walking in the park with my college friend and the lady immediately called out my full name and recgonized me. She was super upset to see I'm out here and threw a ranting (understandable) in public. She didn't accept any of my apologies. She had to be escorted out by guards though. I didn't want her to be escorted out. She publically exposed me in front of all and called me out every single type of bad in the dictionary. I deserved it out. I couldn't do anything except cry and apologize repeatedly. It wasn't good enough. Base on the information I got, her child still sometimes wakes up screaming in the middle of the night with nightmares about getting ambused and beaten and still has a few, mild (barely noticeable by now) scars. Art, I understand your rage upon reading this. I take full responsibility for my past actions back then and really wished I never had done any of that. You may not believe it and it's ok but I'm deeply remorseful for back then. Nothing excuses what I did back then. I'm asking because I was taken by surprised to be honest. She hasn't seen me for 9-10 years. It doesn't matter in the end how she recognized me. I'm going to assume she has been update with the news about my release for a couple years back and was tracking me down. |
Question: Please answer no one is answering? Posted: 11 Aug 2019 12:01 PM PDT Does he regret breaking up with her? Why is my friend doing this? He dated a girl for 7 months and then broke up, he said we aren't right for each other and we will be happy for other people. Next day, he said to her he was unhappy in relationship but unhappy with break up. He kept on checking if she was online on social media on valentines and sometimes he'd check, why does he do this? |
Question: I thought he likes me. How could he do this to me? Posted: 11 Aug 2019 10:07 AM PDT e work together and until now he always joked/smiled when talking to me, also got awkward at times. He even told me one day that I'm so tough no one can tell me a ything and smiled swaying not even my man and that I had to let me walls down. I asked him how he said he's also working on lower his walls. But lately I had been mean to him I guess and the other day that a patient was going to come got upset because they had to pay $200. This guy thought i was rude to him as the patient said. So i walked into his office and said I would not answer calls anymore if I'm just telling him the policy and the patient is thinking i'm rude. He told me to calm down and I said i won't answer the phones anymore and walked out and pened the door aggressively. Management called me in and had a talk with me and had me sign a written warning about having attitude. Mind you this guy is a new dr and he already had an incident where he was written up. I"m thinking he was avoiding having second warning by reporting me. BUT with all of this would he have done this if he were interested in me? After this i talked to him and told him i'm not trying to drive away his patients and that I want the best for him etc. Update: He was pretty happy and I said it's just my way of talking and told him the other day a patient told receptionist she thought I was the dr's girlfriend just because I was talking to her urgently when I didn't say anything else but give her instructions on how to make hospital appointment. He said and I didn't say anything either and laughed and looked down |
Question: Should I text my gf this after whats happened? Posted: 11 Aug 2019 07:47 AM PDT I am writing 2 parts to this, the second will be in the comments so please read that as well. So last weekend my gf said she needed space and time as her head was messed up, ever since shes been texting me a couple times a day randomly saying how she is etc. I have poured my heart out to her and she said that she loves me and cares but unsure if its as friends or more and feels somethings missing so wants me to give her time to be her. 2 days ago she was randomly messaging me so I ignored, she then texted to say I know youre ignoring me but i dont care, i then said you asked for space so im giving it, you know i think the world of you, she then said i think the world of you too, i then said come back to me when you decide whats happening, and then she said ok i wont message you. its been nearly 2 full days no with no contact and this week will be the first full week without contact. Today she is with her mom at a football match so i know she will be busy, but im wondering if i should text her just to update her on scores with other matches and then send this (in comments) |
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Question: Any husband ever had a fantasy about seeing your wife with a much much older man ? Posted: 11 Aug 2019 06:06 AM PDT ever tried to make it happen ? |
Question: If a guy doesn't want to make love to you does it mean he doesn't love you? Posted: 11 Aug 2019 01:32 AM PDT I'm a 21 years old girl with no previous boyfriends, relationships or guy friends. Nothing. Not even a kiss at the bottle game. I fell so bad for my boyfriend with whom I have been together for two months. He is everything I have ever dreamed of: gorgeous, good hearted, hardworking, polite and brought up the old fashioned way, he looks not so chatty or happy but he is that kind of guy that keeps everything inside, very sensitive though, while I am much more emotional and impulsive than him. Sometimes I want to jump his bones, I am about to cry because I love him so much and I want him so bad but he instead says 'no, it's too son. Lets wait some more' and cuddles me and holds me tight instead of wanting to make me happy. There are days I have started having dreams about him, in them he always looks so passionate, mature, sad, and hot. Things he is but never admits. I want so bad to feel what that is and want him to be mine. He's so perfect and it makes me cry how much I want him.and love him. He always looks do worried and not feeling like doing it. As I said, he's not the typical guy you see these days, he's different, more mature and responsible. Should I ask him why he refuses me? What if he says 'you're not ready/it's too soon?' (Things he already said) to cover that he doesnt want me in that sense? |
Question: Relationship advice, what to do!? Posted: 10 Aug 2019 11:34 PM PDT I am writing 2 parts to this, the second will be in the comments so please read that as well. So last weekend my gf said she needed space and time as her head was messed up, ever since shes been texting me a couple times a day randomly saying how she is etc. I have poured my heart out to her and she said that she loves me and cares but unsure if its as friends or more and feels somethings missing so wants me to give her time to be her. 2 days ago she was randomly messaging me so I ignored, she then texted to say I know youre ignoring me but i dont care, i then said you asked for space so im giving it, come back to me when you decide whats happening, and then she said ok i wont message you. its been 1 full day no with no contact and this week will be the first full week without contact. Its my birthday on the 17th, we were supposed to do something, so if i dont hear from her during the week i would at least expect a happy birthday text on my bday. Shes very stubborn as well so im not expecting to hear from her. She has assured me there is no other guy so all i can do is believe her. She is also starting her first real job in September and is worried about that but im there to help her... If i do get a happy birthday I was going to text her this and want to know if you think its a good idea?? The next part is in the comments, which is what I will write if i get something off her on my birthday.. or during the week if its bad.. |
Question: Does helping the complainer see the other side make me an apologist? Posted: 10 Aug 2019 10:30 PM PDT or someone who speak/writes in defense of someone/something Examples: •Someone complained to me how her aunt intruded on her when she was trying to rest & have privacy. I replied, "She wanted to see how you were." •Someone complained how her enemy in school was telling everyone a bad thing about her which resulted in others shunning her & her friendships being broken up. I told the girl who complained to me that she was bothering the kid. •Whenever someone goes up to me & complains how so-n-so taunted them, I always tell them that he/she was just joking around. •I had someone complain to me how her cousin scratched her face when she was really little & resulted in a permanent scar. Then I stressed to her that he was only a baby & that she should've just given him the pillow despite the fact that she had it first. •I had someone complain to me that the nurse gave him a shot & that it was so painful. So I told him that it was her job to keep him healthy. Does helping one see the other side [of the story] make me someone who speaks in defense of someone or something [typically unpopular]? |
Posted: 10 Aug 2019 07:06 PM PDT Sometimes I feel like I'm a terrible person because, no matter who or what dies, I never really feel sad. Recently someone I knew passed away and I had to force tears out of my eyes because, my mom kept crying and I didn't want it to seem like I wasn't sad. Is this a normal reaction when dealing with death? |
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Question: How is it possible to still forgive your child for trying to kill you? Posted: 10 Aug 2019 04:30 PM PDT This is a disgusting case of forgiving your child: It happened in 2015. Near my friend's area some 15 year-old girl got arrested for trying to poison her own mother. Apparently the girl was going with bad crowds and dating an older guy her mother disapproved. The girl was placed in a mental health institution for an indefinite period. The lady recovered and found out what happened. The shocking thing is she forgave her daughter, continues to visit her and wants her to continue receiving help. How is it even possible to forgive that? At age 15, you clearly know trying to poison your own mother is so ****** up. I don't think I would forgive that. |
Question: How to let other church volunteer know that I'm not romantically interested? Posted: 10 Aug 2019 02:48 PM PDT I'm an unmarried straight guy, and one lady at my church is also unmarried. We're both active volunteers there. She told me that she wanted me to ask her for a drink, so I did. She fusses at me for being quiet, so I figured that it was just 2 church members connecting, as friends. So I invited her for a drink at a private club where I'm a member. When she arrived, she made it clear that she considered the event a date, and after many drinks and hours, she was telling others at the club that I was or was going to be her husband. After four hours, she left and thanked me for the evening and gave me her phone numbers. She offered to drop me off at my place on the way home, but I declined. So I'll be seeing her tomorrow. She's a very fine person and I am glad to know her as a friend and other active church volunteer. But there's nothing romantic at all from my perspective, although clearly I wrongly created the impression that there was. So how do I address this with her? * Apologize for creating the impression that it was a date? * Just tell her that she's a wonderful person and wonderful friend? * Something else? Thanks. |
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