My husband cheated, years ago. Fast forward now in counseling I confronted him two months ago. He denied and decided to go for separation because of my immigration status instead of divorce right away. He later moved to another room. Took his ring off, took some of his clothes out. changed his relationship status to seeking women on Fb. as of now it was agreed that we were coparenting while living together until it is appropriate to file. I grieved the relationship and I'm starting to move on. he was very nasty especially around the kids trying to turn them against me. Last week he brought his mom to make fun of me. I didn't show any emotion I guess she felt defeated. Then he came across my match trial subscription and lost it and said that he would separate our accounts. then he moved the rest of his stuff out of the room to the next room except his shoes. Then tonight while perusing on his own match account he came across my profile and lost it. Says he now wants a divorce trying to get a rise out of me. I kept quiet he then went to sleep. why does he act this way? Cheating and then trying to act as if I'm the one in the wrong? Has he not moved on yet? Why do this

Ok so I've been begging my husband to get me these chocolates that I've wanted and since I've been dieting I told him he can hold on to them until my cheat day. Well today is my cheat day and I asked him for my candy and he said he ate them all but he has ordered me some more and they will be here tomorrow I'm so pissed I cussed him out. It's not about the candy it's about how selfish he is and how he couldn't even save me one wtf.

I'm trying to get my wife that works over 40 hours a week to be ok with hiring a nanny for 3 nights a week. I work night shift 4 days a week for 3 weeks and then get time off. But she seems uncomfortable with it! We are a very laid back family when it comes to covering up. I don't know if that's what she's concerned about. We have four kids two girls and two boys. There ages range from 1 to 6 years. Any advice would help

Their first child is 2 years old. His wife discovered the affair when their second child was 4 months old. Notes to paint the picture: The mistress emailed his wife on facebook to "stay away from her man." His wife has attempted to try to save the marriage, but he refuses to attend therapy. He blamed the affair on the fact that she spends too much time with her family, and her dad isn't nice. Right before their divorce trial (a couple of days ago), he said that he wanted to work things out, therefore she didn t press to get the house/more custody etc . That night, he told her to leave him alone because he was in love with this other woman. You get the idea... total scumbag. But my husbands family is acting like this isn't happening. It's like everyone is too afraid to tell him what a completely horrible person he's being. The question: My husband goes golfing with him every week, and although I don't think I have any right to tell my husband who and who not to hang out with, it really bothers me that he's keeping company with such a HORRIBLE person. When is it time to stay out of it - not my family, not my brother, not my business- vs when is it OK to stand up and demand that woman should not be treated like this, and that his behavior is not welcome within 1000 feet of my, brother-in-law or not?

Today I had a person from adult services come to my house and ask me if I lock my mom in her room. My mother lives with me and my husband. She is disabled and a senior citizen. My husband and I are used to a quiet home, we don't have children. He has been having a difficult time with work and life in general lately. I asked my mom to stay in her room for a couple weeks when he gets home at night. He gets home around 6-7 and goes to bed at 9. We have 2-3 hours together a night which is precious to us. She talked to her counselor and told me in passing she mentioned that she needed to be in her room. But the lady with adult services asked me a very specific question about her and my husband. Which leads me to believe she isn't admitting to everything she said to her counselor. Now it makes me think my mom is going to need to get her own place because there could be larger problems in the future. She has a history of mental instability and I'm worried for me and my husband. I'm scared she will get is into some kind if situation where someone goes to jail. Am I overreacting??

Im 26 years old and have been married for 5 years (together for 6) My husband and I have a close friend who is moving in with us. The three of us get along great, we have become extremely close over the last year and spend lots of time together. I'm excited to have a new roommate but lately my husband has been depressed. He has lost interest in things that don't involve this other person, and lately has expressed a concern for when they will get into there own relationship and leave us. He is so distraught that he has thought about leaving to start over somewhere new. I'm fully against him leaving (with or without me) What should I do? And what should my husband do?

On one hand I want to be a good friend and attend the wedding and be supportive. But one an emotional aspect, I don't know if i'll be ever to hold it together. When he first told me the news he was engaged I broke down in tears and couldn't stop crying for days. He told me through text he was engaged so he did NOT see me crying thankfully. I told him congrulations while I was falling apart on the inside. I have known him for 11 years and he is by far the best I've ever met. The entire 11 years I've known him he's always been a stand up person. I think we've only ever had one arguement the entire time we've been friends because we mesh so well together. We have a lot in common so we don't really have anything to argue about. We both are on the same level financially, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. He's always been the one person that I can relate to above anyone else. When I''m around him I feel a sense of comfort, I peace, I feel true joy. I've never been as happy as I am when I've been with him. He's everything I want in a boyfriend and I don't even have to try to mold him into what I want him to be. He already has it all. I realized that I've overlooked him all these years for toxic men. I realized that I'm in love with him. I was going to call him and tell him about how I felt or write him a letter and tell my feelings but before I got the chance he told me he was engaged. I've always been in a relationship and since he has morals he has never tried to make a move. this is the first time i've been single in years and years. But my relationships with those other men were toxic, draining, and full of compelete misery I regret wasting all those years on horrible men when he was always there for me..

You always hear about not so attractive men being married to beautiful women. Does it ever happen the other way around?

-The shear anger that I wasted all those years of my life putting up with him and his BS.

Since half of marriages end in divorce

What if they're still good looking and successful?

My husband and I are going on five years of marriage. For three of those, we've lived with my widowed mom. My husband lost his job and ever since then it's been taking longer for us to get back on our feet. We have three kids together, and within the years we've lived with my mom. This morning he wanted my mom to wake up the baby at 8 AM. I'm normally home, but had an interview at the time. He left to the gym before going to work. I told him my mom had a very bad night and said she hadn't gone to sleep until 2 AM. I told him she could wake the baby up at 9 so she could catch a little more rest. I would be home by 10 anyway. He kept arguing about it, eventually hung up on me then called her and told her he wanted the baby up at 8. He followed the call with a thread of texts with specific requests on how to take care of our baby. He completely disregarded what I told him about my mom not feeling well. He then gives me the cold shoulder later on and says that I'm always taking my mother's side and that I'm "mommy's little girl." I'm moving us out of here ASAP. I always told my husband I would stand up for him, but if he was ever unnecessarily rude to my mom, I wouldn't. A person can communicate their concerns without resorting to yelling or profanity (which he did a year ago). I used to cave into his demands when we were first married, but I'm slowly learning not to allow his temper to weaken me. Am I wrong for this?

My husband is interested in touching me but whenever i ask do u want intimacy he has excuses like i have to sleep , child will get up... even when he is excited he doesnt want intimacy.. what can be the reasons?

I ve known these people for 9 years... thats 9 years of birthdays, Christmases, conversations, ups and downs. He argues that he doesn t know my family, he said I must be awful and have done horrible things for them to not want anything to do with me. He is aware, I was in care from 8 - I didn t have a connection with them. He introduced me to all of his family, now he says I forced my way in? Is it not normal for a partner to have relationships with your family? Why would he suddenly want me kept away.. Thank you for all of your answers - just to add, he is happy for the kids to see them, and if I see his family at events that's fine - but I am not allowed to have their numbers, or have them on social media or socialise outside of pre-planned family events. We did try to discuss it, but I was shut down and advised that it was his family and he is not backing down..

I also am hoping to get a breast reduction surgery. I am 25 and nearly everyone my age in my town is settled down but me.

My husband recently changed his about me settings on Facebook to where his relationship status doesn't show on his profile, but if you click, "see his about info" you can see it. It use to show on his profile but not anymore. Do you think this means anything? I'm afraid if I say anything to him he will think I'm crazy

Newly wed. He's been sick 4 days. It's a cold