I just want your own personal thoughts on it or if you have gotten married while that young, what's it like? I have a friend who got married at 19 while in college and she's doing just fine.

I am a tall dark skinned black lady with long jet black hair. I have very clear glowing skin and a great smile. My face usually has makeup that looks professionally done, but still natural-sexy. They should be stunned at the sight of me...

My husband and I moved to Florida for his job 13 years ago. 2 years ago he got a huge promotion and is now really high up in the company. Around that time he had started drinking heavily, comes home drunk almost daily. He's now had 3 DUI's and me or our oldest daughter have to drive him to work everyday. I recently found out he's been having an affair with 2 different women from his office. (There's been rumors around town about him being with other women as well.) He admitted to having affairs and told me he wants a divorce. At this point, I'm done with him. It's not about me it's about our kids and how much he has hurt them. My family and support system all live in Oregon. I have no family here in Florida and very few friends. The only reason we moved here was for his job. Would it be wrong of me to pack up the kids and go back to Oregon? I feel like it would be selfish of me to take the kids but at this point the environment they are in is so toxic. I have absolutely no support system here. Is it selfish of me to want to move home? We've already put our home on the market and he's already moved out of the house 30 min away to an apartment next to his office.

I work 40 hrs a week, my daughter works 40 to 56 hrs a week and my son works 20 to 30 hrs a week and attends college full time. My husband doesn t work. He will say no one helps do house work but I do all the cooking and dishes. My daughter does all the grocery shopping and sweeping. My son mows the yard and takes out trash. Then he ll ask for help moping the kitchen and bathroom and laundry room. What he really means is he wants someone else to do it right now. While he watches. He will ask for help in his car but watches while my son does the work. He says he ll help with cooking but that means sitting at the table watching and maybe stirring occasionally.

I always see ppl saying you can get married on any corner in Las Vagas... how true is that?? Do you still need a marriage license? Is it really that easy to get married?

So I've been married for a year now and honestly I just don't love him anymore we have a lot of differences and I don't want to end it but I want to Ik he still loves me but I don't and I'm in a place right now I can't afford loosing another person I mean I care for him but he doesn't make me happy anymore. And I really don't wanna leave him but idk what to do. I don't like his way of life or his family/family values. I come from a very strict and high value family and he doesn't my parents don't like him and think I can do better I just kinda feel in a stuck he always smokes weed in the house knowing I'm on probation and I use to have problems with drugs. I changed my life and he doesn't care at all he doesn't care for his health or mine or my feelings

I used to curse at my husband and he hit me a lot and therefore, my parents said I deserved it which means taking responsibility for my actions like a good wife should do. Would you agree with my parents about this?

When a wife confides her marriage problems to her best friend, how often does her best friend use that to have an affair with the wife's husband?

My husband had a fallout with his family. My mom in law (his mom) passed away 2017 to cancer. My dad in law got remarried 2 months later to his mistress. My husband got upset and fought with his dad and cut his dad out of his life. I know my husband loves his mom but she's gone now.. why can't he just be happy and accept it as it is now? It's been 2 almost 3 years that he's been ignoring his dad's call. No matter how much I try getting him to forgive and make peace to his dad/family. He wouldn't do it. So his aunt (his dad's sister) called and wanted to talk to my husband.. my husband wouldn't talk so I had to talk to her. She thinks I'm the one manipulating him to be this way.. now I'm in the middle of all this chaos. I'm having a whole group of army against me now and I'm scared. I'm so depress and stress out. What to do?

My husband and I have decided to separate after 19 years of marriage. I honestly was under the impression that divorces were always messy and full of arguments. Our divorce (thus far) has been quite civil. We still talk daily, he still is with the kids almost daily. We've both decided to remain friends. I'm curious will it stay this civil? Is divorce normally this easy? I'm worried about how I'm going to react when he starts dating other people. We both have never dated anyone else we married when I was 20. I don't want to date until our divorce is finalized (March 2020) I want to take some time to focus on my kids and myself because I've really let myself go the past 2 years with everything going on in our marriage. Are divorces generally this civil? Will it last? How did you feel when you found out your husband was dating another women?

She has not had any luck so far and now she is 44. Is there still a chance if she lives to be 70?

When you are not in a relationship and single and getting older then Family start to give pressure to get arranged marriage. for women, parents-family say after 30 it will be more difficult to conceive baby . How could a woman and man will appear nude in front of each other where both are very little known to each other.especially women were so nervous because of her first time. it's seem like after having sex on wedding night or honeymoon couple will try to love. Arranged Marriage is like Legal certificate for lifetime sex partner.that's why some wife get raped by husband On her first night beacuse of considering only sex partner. But family society won't consider it rape.

I am in a long distance relationship with my military husband. The ship that he is on does a tiger cruise. He invited a high school teacher. He just CC'd me on an email he sent the teacher. Apparently he is paying for his former teachers travel plans to Juneau Alaska from NYC and return flight from Seattle to NYC. He made this decision without talking to me. He feels justified because he has paid for my flights and things for my kids. Am I being selfish that I think first of all he should have talked to me about it first. Second of all I know we cannot afford this. I have not seen my husband in three months, will not see him until at least November. Partly because we cannot afford the flight to Alaska. I am just really frustrated and need some advice. .......

2 years ago my wife and I moved 16 hours from friends and family for my job. The area we are in has very limited job opportunities and we knew that when moving here. Almost everything here is retail, restaurant, or seasonal work. My wife has been struggling for 2 years now to find full time work and is currently working 3 retail jobs to help us get by. She's become a very angry person. She screams at me constantly, tells me she can't do this anymore, cries all the time. We haven't had sex in 8 months. She won't sleep in the same bed as me. She wants me to quit my job and the two of us move without work to a new area. I love living by the beach. I love my job and I'm getting a promotion in the next 2 months which should help us with income. I don't want to leave this area I'm happy here. We have a really nice home that is completely paid off so we have no mortgage to worry about. Before anyone suggests my wife go back to school she has a bachelors and masters degree. Going back to school is not financially an option for us. I'm considering asking for a divorce. She's such an angry person and it's becoming abusive at this point. I've never seen her act like this in the 9 years we've been married. Can anyone offer me some advice on what to do?

if you are a woman, what do you think is the most interesting body part of a woman? not a lesbian related question

Over the past few months I've come to realise how different my life is compared to everyone else around me, including friends. Everyone else is getting engaged and married and starting the rest of their lives, but I feel like I'm on the other side of the spectrum. I feel like I NEVER going to find a husband as every guy I feel is a potential partner gets taken away from me. I'm not afraid of being single but I am at a point in my life when I would rather be in a relationship and start the journey of the rest of my life. Any advice for me?

Every night me and my husband say goodnight and I love you. Well tonight we kissed and I said I love you and he just mumbled it back. Does this mean anything? Wives: Does your husband ever just mumble "love you" too?

my mother and father split when I was a baby. my father had custody of us 3 children because he could support us and was a military veteran. she was unemployed and couldn't support us. my mother married someone and that person adopted us three children, my question is, is the adoption legit? I've had his last name all my life and now I'm not sure if he is technically my step dad anymore because my mom and my stepdad split as well. any help would be awesome

So when we first started dating I had hpv and I got medication to remove the warts and now he has it and I forced him to go to the dr he didn't listen to a word he said he doesn't care that it could cause cancer and refuses treatment like taking vitamins to boost his immune system and doing things to help idk what to do he keeps ignoring me about it and I'm diabetic and this is not a joke what should I do? He thinks nothing is going to happen and says he knows more then the dr