If I spam a friend of mine on Snapchat with a bunch of snaps but they don't reply back, does this still affect my best friend list?

I am a man whose 9th grade classmatewas very belligerent to me, like she hated me for no reason. Sometimes I broke down in tears from her taunting. 10 years later, I accidentally found her on AOL back when that was a big thing. When I saw her pic, I said via I.M. that she's beautiful and I would love to chat. At the time, I had no hostility about her. So even though I suddenly only liked her as friend, she still opened old wounds by saying she remembers me "talking to myself in class" like I'm a weirdo. That really made me feel bad. But I continued to keep in contact with her on AOL. Within the 1st month, she cut me off, which I think was because she thought I was still interested in her after having accidentally found her. Now I feel like a weirdo who she thinks wants to get with her, but I really don't. I just wanted to keep in touch with a classmate as FRIENDS. Now I realize I stroked a woman's ego who didn't deserve it. But it wasn't my fault, since I didn't recognize her. We have mutual friends on FB, & I don't feel comfortable with her seeing my activity. I feel like has some vendetta against me, & I can't stand the sight of her profile pic when she posts to others' pages. All I see is a horrible human being. So I feel safer & comfortable blocking her. Am I wrong here? FYI, she's married with 2 children. I know I sound like I may me overreacting, especially since now she has a family. But there are sadly many people who continue to have a vendetta against others and possibly keep them on their "sh*t list" even if they have a family. Translation: just because someone has a family, doesn't mean they leave things in the past and focus on their loved ones only. Trolls, please stay away, as I could really use some advice. Thank you.

Hi my childhood hasn't been the easiest. I could never have friends come over or spend the night. I'm the only child. Ive shared dreams with a few people I met in middle or high school but they didn't go well. Now at 24, I have little to no friends. I use to party but the scene seems pretty fake now. All the girls I was friends with, left me for guys who were jerks. At age 24, I don't drink alcohol. I go on Instagram and I see people having fun and partying together. But I'm not living that life myself. I'm still living at home. The minimum wage where I live is $7.25. Luckily I'm making more than that and I have a consistent job. But I have a dog which is preventing me from moving out on my own. The city I am in sucks. High crime and poverty. I'm mixed black and Puerto Rican but I don't speak Spanish so I feel like that has put a barrier on making friends with my peers. I never got any love from the black community. I'm in community college part time and working full time. I haven't drank alcohol because my parents are ex alcoholics. I want to have friends my age but I don't know how. What should I do? I'm willing to try new things I'm very outgoing and I would consider drinking alcohol at limited amounts if I can have a good time... I don't sit at home all day. I'm very active going to parks with my dog all the time. I talk to people I'm a very nice person. I smile and laugh all the time. I'm not depressed. But the fact is - I haven't taken any special pictures on my birthday to look back on when I get older and I don't have many friends. And my parents are not together. So you can stop thinking someone lives with a picket white fence as you do.

Suppose you were born somewhere. this country has a lousy government. The people have no manner and professionalism. Like 75% of the business have bad service. Of course, you want to leave but you cant because you have parents..... then what are the options? @glenda: Canada is a lousy country.... have you heard about the US now?

Hello. I am a 37 year old male and can't seem to find friends anymore. Why do so many people claim to be my friend but are two faced back stabbers? Thank you for your time.

Now everywhere I go ,I overhear people talking.But no one has ever come to me an ask directly .I am a 24-year-old man and this has been going on since I was 18 and unknown to me I think people believe I prostitute myself . It bothers me because I find it hard to find friends because everyone always heard something Example: Freshly done tattoo. People in the grocery " doesn t he have ,it, anyway it doesn t matter" I'm almost ready to take a picture of a test stating that I do not have any illness and post it on facebook/instagram

I've had two best friends since high school. But when I went to college I went to NorCal while they stayed in SoCal and go to the same college. So they've been getting closer to each other which is fine by me. Except they've formed a new trio with my kinda ex who goes to the same college with them. Let me explain about him: we had a thing for like two years but he broke my heart and went after another girl. And as my best friends they've known what he did and how much he messed me up but they were also kinda friends with him at the same time as me. I just feel sucky cause they hang out with him together and practically formed a new group, and I would think they would respect me and at least talk to me about it, but they haven't. So I've just been hurt and trying to distance myself from them. It just makes me sad that at the same time I'm losing my best friends. But it kinda feels like I've lost them a little already. What should I do?

I'll apologize in advance for my language, but i really need to talk about this person... We met when we were on a writing platform, and she kept pestering me to make her a book cover because I had taken graphic design classes and could kind of edit a bit? I was by no means an expert though. Then she started stealing from my story, which is petty, but that left a crack in our ruined fallacy of a relationship. She started lying and badmouthing just about everyone who she ever spoke to. She would act one way to me after we "made up," and talk **** about everyone behind their backs. She would badmouth me to one person and then do the same to that person in front of me. She asked me for a cover again and I made her two when I finally had time, because we were "friends," right? She lies, saying she loved it, but undercover she says it's ****. Fortunately, this person she spoke to eventually told me. The other person's user and message is blurred out for privacy reasons. https://ibb.co/hf6Lnr3 . Mainly, she's also a racist, but that surprises no one given how she has no difficulty parting ways with her own dignity. I'm half Japanese and so she tried to insult me for that even though I don't really look that Japanese.... Sis went and insulted every single Japanese person out there. https://ibb.co/x81qrxb https://ibb.co/zVtxMZQ . So, what do I do now? Unfortunately she's quite involved in my internet life. Sorry if I said anything rude, I just really had to get this out though.

I did befriend a few people months ago. I even hung out with them for a while.So we did get to know each other. So they asked me about my family a few months ago and i told them. So that's when we realized I'm actually way richer them and they expressed some jealousy over it. They did see my social media accounts and knew that my lifestyle is way better than theirs. Now whenever i run into them they gang up and bully me and make fun of me and insult me all the time. They have also spat on me once. They keep doing it everytime i run into them.

My bff 19 is talking to someone that is 48 hours away online.He is a grown man and by that I mean he is 33 years old,has a kid,does meth,and has a std,is manipulative.she had been talking to him since nov2018.went on a trip to meet a friend and thought this would be the perfect way for them to meet so she is away from her parents who would not approve of(neither do i).i told her this would be a bad idea to meet him.When they First met he was already very angry drunk and said he had drank a lot before he got on the plane.He was an ahole the whole time w her as the night went on they went back to the friends house to try to stay the night together the friend did not approve of him and told him he could not stay in the house.my bff and the man were kicked to sleep outside because her other friend would not allow them in.Long story short this guy had been sleeping with his ex gf of 10 years the whole time and lived together.Basically she believes this whole fantasy is gonna work out when they live 48 hours away she has no license no job no way of everseeing him bc her parents are strict.The other friend is telling her parentsTheyHadSex and met so tht she can get away from this toxic guy,I totally agree but also there's a part of me tht feels bad that I knew she was going to tell her parents and I should've told her cause she'd do the same for me.I don't want to break her trust I just want the best for her.Do I play the i didn't know card or should I tell her?

I've been best friends with this girl for about three years now but I'm starting to think she doesn't really care about our friendship anymore. We were texting earlier and she takes unnecessarily long to answer me. And she said "we need to hang out soon" and then she went onto say her mom couldn't take us (when I didn't even ask) and whenever we do hang out she makes my mom come pick her up from her house to take her to ours and then we have to drop her off) and her mom never does the same back. But anyways what I was saying was that when she said we needed to hang out she posted about hanging out with some other girl so it was hurtful because I've been trying to hang out w her for awhile now so I feel a little let down but tell me if I'm being dramatic please

The person i love doesn't love me. I only have one friend to hang out with and my mother hates me. We're poor and my parents are getting old, they're in their 60s. I live in a small apartment, filthy and we see bugs constantly. I'm in college but my marks are just decent, I have to try really hard to just get decent marks. The guys I liked were womanizers and I had a boyfriend but he treated me really bad, so did his family and friends. I always feel ugly and I got plastic surgery but I still don't look and feel pretty. I want my old nose back but it's too late and i've already used the money. I am really insecure because no guys seem to be attracted to me. Only like two guys online but I don't know why I just don't feel the same about them. I had many friends that were bad to me and I was bullied a lot and i'm always seen as uncool or don't fit in. I try to be nice to people but I just feel bad.

please rate her facial features for attractiveness from 1-10? if you give a low rating can u please explain how she can improve? please be honest but please no overly harsh remarks. will give a best answer

I offered to do volunteer work with move in at my uni so that allowed me to move into my room earlier. I'm moving into my room from last semester (I'm a 2nd yr, 19) and I want to have the same bed as last time. Problem is my new roommate, a girl from my hall last year kind of pressured me into rooming with her and wants the bed I want. She was very wishy-washy egg we tried discussing room stuff before, going from eating bunk beds and bottom bunk, to wanting top, to deciding she wants neither and trying to get me to loft with her (the lofts aren't worth the money so I said no.) She's never had a roommate but I've had 4 and feel like the best policy is first come first serve, so when discussing room stuff before summer break I told her which bed I want and she said she wanted that bed. That's where the discussion ended and I guess she assumed she'd be getting what she wanted since she asked for the closet that would naturally correspond with it. I tried looking up solutions and one suggestion was give and take (if she chose closet i get to choose bed etc.) I let her have the closet but never agreed to the bed and since she's having her bed lofted makes more since fot her to have the bed that's against the wall and not the one I want. Would it be rude of me to choose the bed I want and just let her have the closet since I never technically agreed to the other bed? She's kind of bossy so I don't want to be a pushover but I also don't want to have a rough start. I'm on my phone, excuse the autocorrect 😥 *we went from choosing bunk beds as an idea

A friend of mine is being abused, he lives in another state, I want to help him but I don t know where to go. Please help me! I want to help him but like I said he's in another state. I can't go on knowing this is happening to him.

I met this shop assistant a few months ago, I was visiting my sister in hospital and telling him and he was so nice making sure I had everything I needed and gave me so free cake. Next time I was in we were chatting again and he was so helpful again. A good while passed and one day I rang the shop not expecting him on the phone asking if I could order a sandwich and even though the deli was closing he put one by for me. So after that I sent an email to his boss saying how what a good guy he is and how lucky they are to have him. I didn't see him for about a month but I did yesterday and he was thanking me for the email and saying how much he needed to hear that. I felt embarrassed about it though because I thought he might think I fancy him.

Overly busy for months yet somehow gets on Facebook, etc. for hours. Do some people really think we're that stupid...

This guy offered me his candys he was holding, it was so random, I kinda feel like it's so childish like he sees me as a kid when In fact I am 22.

I stopped using the site becuase of the SJW crap i got from if