I saw a girl on youtube ( a beauty blogger) that constantly buys expensive makeup at sephora, constantly shops at nordstrom for expensive clothes, buys designer shoes, and gets her hair professionally done all of the time but she complains about an expensive grocery bill. She went to the grocery store and said that food is way too expensive and that she wish she had food stamps. she said food is ridiculously expensive. she spent about $400 on her groceries. The whole time I'm thinking that it wouldnt be an issue if she just cut back on the unecessary expensive makeup and clothes right? I mean food is necessary for survival but sephora makeup and nordstroms clothes are not. you can get good quality clothes from target or walmart. insanity at his finest.

furnace is in but he took money that was supposed to be used on the H20 heater. Can someone help her? I do not live in town and feel helpless. he won't leave either. No hot showers. Is there anything she can do about him taking all her money? Bank froze her account bc they showed irregular activity like someone stole their identity. She didn't know it was her husband doing it. Please advise on next steps for her.

About 2 months ago my friend "Rachel's" fiancé asked me to review his paper for graduate school. I did the same graduate program as him a few years ago so I told him I'd be happy to help and had him email it to me. My friend "Rachel" made a remark that I should not be helping him as that is her job to help him not mine. Yesterday, "Rachel's" fiancé again messaged me asking for help. I told him he needed to ask his fiancé "Rachel" not me and he insisted she didn't know how to do it. (SHOCKER) I explained to him how the paper needed to be formatted and that's all. I never read his paper nothing. "Rachel" called me up yelling at me today telling me to back off her fiancé and to not call or message him for any reason and that if I need to speak to him it needs to go through her first. I explained he messaged me and she said I still need to message her first to speak to him. To me this is absolutely INSANE and something a 10 year old would do. I'm honestly considering ending the friendship and telling her I have no interest in being in her wedding. I have absolutely NO interest in her fiancé I am happily married. I have only spoken to him those 2 times via Facebook, I don't have his number Should I tell her I'm not interested in this friendship We are both in our 30's and to me this is unbelievably childish for someone 32 years old.

I like saying I ran into people who we knew long ago and finding out what they're up to. I only met this lady twice and I was like seven at the time. But my aunt would remember her and probably my mom and my grandmother. All I know about her is she had a son and daughter from a previous marriage and that she was greedy after my aunts ex-husband's father died and did not share the estate with any of his children but took it for her and her children. She had a son with my aunts ex-husband's father. I have no clue what she looks like or anything. She would not know me at all as I was only seven and so I doubt we spoke at the wedding or the engagement party. I never saw her after that during my aunt's seven year marriage.

A high school classmate always used to come to my garage sale when I had one, but she stopped after her husband died 4 years ago. I contacted her through FB and told her I was having a sale. She said she wasn't interested and, in fact, had thrown out everything else she bought from me because it reminded her of when her husband was alive. This seems extreme behavior to me. How long can a person go on like that?

Ok so me and my friend sunny (her names Samantha but we have all called her sunny for years) have been pretty close friends since late middle school. We're both 21 now, so just a little background on how long we've been friends. Me and my husband had a little barbecue last weekend at our house and obviously everyone was drinking & having fun whatever haha. But my husband told me something alarming that had happened, apparently Sunny "accidentally" lost her bikini bottoms and went up to him and asked him to tie them back on, while she was literally naked.. I asked other people about the incident who confirmed it, but my problem is when I asked sunny she said she had been too drunk to remember anything, which makes it really hard for me to tell if it was in fact innocent fun or something premeditated. Thoughts?

My husband only smiles his real smile in photos with his girl best friend. If it's a photo with me and him or me and him and our friends his smile is faked or forced. In some photos of us his not even smiling at all. None of this happens when he is with his girl best friend or if they are both with our friends. Only with photos of me does he fake, force or do a polite smile.

I've been married to the mother of my children for 5 years now and recently have gotten a little bored.Havent cheated on my wife but it just dawned on me that this is the longest period in my life where I have only been sleeping with one woman for so long and speaking as a former 'playboy'..is it normal to have to fight temptation harder the longer you are married?..I love women of all races and sizes and it's becoming increasingly difficult not to seek an online hook up or one night stand in a bar.help!..(please keep your sarcasm to your self..it's not wanted).

After 4 years i think I ve tried my all and can t seem to be happy with my relationship. I ve read a lot of articles and i feel like there spot on about ending it. But what holds me back is my baby girl. She s about to turn 2 and j can t see myself leaving cause I m unhappy and ruin a part of her life. I come from a family were my dad left and it affected me. I m only 24 and don t have many people in my life to ask for advise about something like this. Lately we barley talk about anything. She s on her phone or I m on mine. It doesn t feel like she s my best friend. I ve become unjealous of her. Like i could careless if she cheats and before i was a pretty jealous person. Sex is random or nonexistant. I need someone in my life rhat pushes me to be a better person and that wants to keep moving forward and she doesn t give me any of that. I wanna try and fix things for our baby girl but she seems to think everything is okay. I m just afraid of what life my daughter would live without me in it everyday and every night instead of just somedays or the weekends. Its hard to even type this but i need some form of advice.

I recently moved in with my fiancé. Our place is beautiful and I love it. And living with him is rather easy. He is not messy, he's quiet, and good at entertaining himself. My only issue is, I have lived alone for nearly 4 years and before that, with a man who worked nights for 4 years. I have been used to having a place to myself for almost a decade. I am finding myself being "homesick" for the feeling of being completely alone. I miss coming home to my own place. I miss my routine. I miss the ease of life lived alone. I never felt lonely. I actually rather enjoyed it. I don't regret moving in with him, and he knows very well the amount of "me" time I need. It's just having another body under the same roof as me that feels very odd and almost invasive. Are there certain things I can do? Any advice you have will be great. I do love him very much. And I know this will pass in time. But missing being alone this much concerns me a little. Thank you for any help! I also realize the sentence structure of my question is a little off. Supposed to read "how to get adjusted.." When I say "invasive" I don't mean that it's anything he's doing. He gives me plenty of space. It's more just the lack of privacy in living with someone else. I am used to things like...going to the bathroom with the door open. Literally running around my apartment being silly, talking to myself, singing to myself, whatever just to make myself laugh. I feel like I've lost some of that footloose-ness. And I have to be super quiet at night when I am up because he goes to bed super early. I'm not used to making sure I don't make too much noise during my most active times.

I have a friend who often comes to me for advice or to vent. I'm at a loss to help her with her current situation. Her husband of a couple years, both in their thirties has been lying to her extensively over the last couple of years. He told her he was in school and working full time- he was gone every day for almost two years. They had separate bank accounts and were living with his uncle rent free so she never knew that he wasn't working. He spent all their savings, opened up credit cards and is in a lot of debt now. For 1.5-2 years he was pretending to go to school every day and to go to work even though he was doing neither of those things. He would put his phone in a bush near his former employment office in case she tracked it for half the day while he slept in his car and killed time. He lied about going to church as she worked on sundays. Everyday he came home with stories about work, school and church all made up lies. How she never saw through his lies is very troubling to me. He finally got caught and of course is very sorry now wanting to do everything to make it right. would you personally be able to move on past a situation like this and forgive your spouse? He claims he was ashamed that he was unemployed trying to hide it.

We all agree infidelity is bad so I wonder if I should hold this against the bad man she left her husband for? On one hand it is universally agreed having an affair is wrong and this guy was especially wrong to be following around a married woman. On the other hand it was 20 years ago and it did not involve me as I was not in the marriage and was just twelve. At the time of the divorce it was a shocker and a big deal in the family that this evil man would do such a thing. The two are now married and I have always thought less of the man but forgiven the relative. I am polite when I see him but think less of him as a person because of it. He is otherwise perfectly nice. The man the relative left (the ex-husband) has had his life ruined by it and is now a lonely and bitter old man I hear.

Being a married girl I get too many offers from other males and my husband always gets furious. Society and the media encourage men to go after married women until their husbands beat them up because women are still passive objects who should be desirable by being hyperfeminine and not having any desires, including the opposite gender, whereas men are to be ugly and unattractive so that way it's easier for other men to steal her away that the husband wants to get into a fight with them. Do you think married women are even more attractive? In the Bible, men are mentioned pursuing married women as if they are prizes, in terms Herodias? wanting his brother's wife, for example. Single men pursue married women because they are not slutty and are willing to commit by being submissive.

If the relationship with your soon to be husband s family and his family don t get along with yours. and he wants to get married? is it alright to get married in the civil first with just your two witnesses and your family , and later on get married with a the officiant. and invite everyone but not say we got married in the civil first?

So me and my wife are pretty young and I get it, it's alright to party and drink some times. We are both very social people and like to hold get togethers at our house. However a certain few of my wife's friends in my opinion are just straight up trash. Very slutty and all around just not good influences on my wife. I'm a pretty laid back guy and I don't want to seem controlling but it does bother me to an extent. I would prefer if she didn't hangout with girls like that specially considering her friends that act that way are not married, nor do they even have boyfriends. Again I'm fine with most of my wife's friends, it's just a select few.

My husband and I have been married for many years and own our own home (we have no children) but share all the same friends and are close with each other's family. He has recently told me he doesn't love me romantically anymore and has felt this way for a year. He is totally unwilling to try and date again and re-establishment our spark but said he doesn't want a divorce. He wants us to stay friends with me and even still have sex and just pretend everything's fine in front of family and friends. What should I do?

im 27 and Just started talking to this man I met through a mutual friend. i'm very interested in him. He's a buisness type of man. he has his own everything. great personality, funny, laid back, his own car, a very nice house, multiple buisnesses, and he is attractive and dresses nice. I work at target. Live at home with my parents and don't have my license. I've always been afraid to drive. I'm afraid to tell him The truth because I don't want him to look down on me. My entire life people have looked down on me for not driving. and I noticed it was hard to obtain a quality man by just being myself. I figured I can attract a better quality man by acting like i had it altogether. I've seen it beforeThose super attractive buisness minded men wouldn't want someone who cant drive. they would see me as pathetic. my ex had 4 kids and two baby mamas and lived with his grandmother/ but that wasnt the worst part. the worst part was that he was CONTROLLING and EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE so i'm trying a new approach to see if this helps with getting quality men. what do yall think??

I only work 7 hours and I still end up going to sleep at 2 am because its impossible to get everything done in one day. I have to go to work, cook an extvagant dinner, work on my hobbies/passions, try to work out, have time to watch netflix, shower, spend time with family/friends, text and call friends constistently and its 2-3 am by the time im done with everything. i'm pulled in so many different directions and want to be there for everyone in my life but its hard balancing act

I want a husband who treat me like a little girl

Me.and my husband been together for 14 years now.we both got married I was 18 and he was 22 now im 32 and he 36.i love.him alot.he is always at work.but as of late,we been arguing alot.We argue about bills, finance anything.Some nites we argue so bad we don't have sex.btw we have no kids together.i have no kids.anyways he is always gone at work and I feel so alone.and unloved so.i been cheating on him alot while he away.it is with this.big.muscular black guy at my gym.he made me feel loved and special and gave me so much attention.he has a nice body and good personality.he is also a bad boy (gang member).anyways he came over to my house and we had sex in my husband bed.i felt so bad,but it felt so good.i continued to do this on and off for about 3 months now almost every other day with the guy from my gym,but I'm starting to feel bad for my husband what should I do? Do I tell him? Im afriad he will be so hurt and want a divorce.i don't want lose.him shoulf I not tell him?? I'm also I'm afraid I may be pregnant but idk who may the father be my husband or the guy I cheated on him with :( I'm so sad,worried and scared idk what to do

The thought of my wife seeing a naked man is exciting to me. Especially if she is fully clothed. I don't know if it's that I want to see how excited she gets or what.