In my home area restaurants, Apple bees, Hooters, beef o' braidys, McDonald's, tumbleweed, and many others are all like this? First off when you go into one, the entire staff almost talks in Ebonics, and the staff mainly consisting of black women waitresses and Mexican women who cannot speak English and sticks with the Mexican men back in the dishwashing room. There are a whole lot of white women there also, some talks in Ebonics and some don't however they look like they just came out of a prison, they are butched, short hair, guy appearance or boxer appearance, no womanly features whatsoever. The black women looks like they've been serving time also, with gold teeth. The managers at the place is usually a black woman made into a guy and she looks like a little boy. The customers consist of beautiful white women with black boyfriends/husbands and mixed babies. I also see white women with Hispanic boyfriends, islander boyfriends,etc. There tends to be this underlying hatred towards white men. I am a white men and I can feel the hate vibes from them. I see them treat other white men worse than crap. White men are hardly seen there but they seem either to be wiggers and some normal. The Mexican women are the only ones that has a womanly appearance and a womanly figure but they hang around with these thug looking Mexican men, and most of them don't know English and I am unable to talk to them. Why is my home restaurants like this?

The father is not financially helping with the party. Up until a few weeks ago he was still going to be included in the ceremony through the father daughter dance. However, now his daughter is saying that she doesn't want a father, daughter dance because her and her father do not have a good standing relationship. She has asked him to spend time with her (without his new girlfriend around) but he only did so twice and now it has been nearly two months since he has seen her. He has not made any initiative to try to repair their relationship and therefore the daughter feels like he shouldn't be made to appear like he is this "great, loving, really involved father" when really he isn't. He will most likely be attending just as a guest. Invitations are currently being made but I'm stuck on how to word them. His brother and mother have put in a few hundred dollars (not on his behalf) to help with some items that needed payment.

I"m confused with this guy. One day he's awkward and has trouble looking me in the eyes next day nothing. So when he gets shy and awkward obviously I can tell it's because he likes me but why the hot and cold where the next maybe nothing? btw he's a 34 year old doctor and we work together

He says it will confuse our boys. In a way I agree with him, but I don't wanna alienate people I care about. Thoughts?

she has been texting me every night and sending goodnight with a heart emoji,and one time she told me to come to her desk and when i did , she kept telling me to come closer infront of the whole class and i did. we were like 1 step away from each other and she said 'did you wear perfume?' i know i sound like a troll , but i assue you im not. she also told me about her performing oral sex on someone and calls me her 'bestfriend'.

So my brother got married to this crazy ***** almost a year now ago I told him not too marry her because they would fight almost everyday. she's a narcissist and she's always wondering why she has no friends she's tried to ruin me an my brothers relationship because we are close an she doesn't want anyone close to him but her. And she already ruined my sisters an his relationship already she's a life sucking leach. Anyways now you have a little back story the other day his now wife called the police on my brother about 3 days ago and said he was beating her and when she called the cops it was around 3am. WHEN HE WAS ASLEEP!!! I woke up too a phone call from the state prison last Monday a few hours after he got arrested. I bailed him out it was about 1,000 with a bonds men and I'm only 19 so that is a lot of money thrown away because he's going to get back with her!!!! WTF IDK WHAT TOO DO ANY ADVICE? Am I wrong too be mad that he's going back. I love my brother but I don't know if I can continue being in his life when she's in it. I guess she's getting what she wants.....

He gets shy and awkward and has trouble continuing to look me in the eye when we talk (we work together) but other times talks to me as if nothing. I don't understand if it's because he likes me that he acts like this? But if he likes me then why is he indifferent other times?

I feel like I annoy everyone I talk too, including my parents. I talk to them about things I'm excited about or that I'm interested in and I can hear it in their voices when I "over" talk about (it guess) that they're getting annoyed. I just feel so alone, and whenever I talk about anything, if I say one thing slightly wrong they get annoyed and don't want to talk to me. I just feel like I'm a burden and nobody is really interested in what I have to say. I might just be an annoying person or something idk.