So my mom and I get along 95 percent of the time. I've witnessed her drive under the influence multiple times. She doesnt drive black out drunk, but to the point were her words are noticeably slurred to people who know her. I've been really getting on her about it lately, because she was gonna drive her respite kid home when she was buzzed. I lost it on her. I made her get in my car, so I could drive home. I told her that's ridiculous that I'm doing your job because you couldnt stay away from your booze. She said she knows, and that she doesnt know what she was thinking. Shes been doing good ever since. That was a couple months ago. Well, I just got home from work, and she was about ready to leave to get her car that was in the shop. He voiced sounded slightly nasally to me, so I asked if she had been drink. She said no I havnt been drinking. Her voice sounded pretty clear when she said that, so I let her go. She was obviously drunk when she came back an hour later. I told her i know you've been drinking. She just said whatever, and just started walking up stairs. I said "do you even have a conscience? You might kill someone one of these days" she just ignored me. I said "your a real piece of **** human being mom". I've never said anything like that to her. Shes now crying in her room.

I am 13 and i am a boy, unfortunately me and my 9 year old sister have a share a room and a bed because our parents can only afford a 2 bedroom house, but every night at like midnight, she's still awake, but then she'll start kissing me on the mouth and then she tries to put her hand and touches my you know what, but last night i woke up at like 3am and i was naked and then i looked under the cover and saw her sucking on my you know what, i am completely devastated and don't know what to do, i don't wanna tell our parents because they are very mean and strict, do you know what else i can do?

I always hit him back and then he yells "MOMMY!" and then says i hit him and i get grounded, should i just not hit him back? Please answer me i'm serious, if i hit him one more time my mom said she'll ground me :((( please help

I am 22 and want to go back to university. Growing up with my mother, my life wasn't stable, although for the past two years it has been. I tend to be indecisive. Recently I wanted to go back to University like Dad said to, but my mother instilled doubts. I need help with a lot of stuff and need my mother. I'm unsure of the college I want to go to. (I went for 2 years and then panicked at a Uni, which is the one I can go back to.) I wish I had had a nice friendly home growing up. I want to treat myself well, etc. My mom cares more about me than my dad. But am dependent financially on dad. I've decided to listen to my mother and not go to college, but I am worried. Is there a website that I can go on to talk?

This might sound like a dumb question but I am an adult female and I still live with my parents but I really don't care to be with them much and I would rather be with other people instead and so I have been having more of a social life and they're fine with that so does this mean that I am growing up or does it mean that I am acting like a teenager?

I'm 20 and i still live with my mom because of other reasons, but my brother, who is 12 years old, keeps going in my room when i'm at work, and then when i come home it's not there and when i go near his room i smell weed smoke coming out of his room, this is the 7th time he did this and i am tired of it, and our doors don't have locks on them so i can't lock my door, what else can i do to stop him from stealing my weed

He is 22

All summer I hide in my room so he won't beat me when he drinks beer. I don't like getting beaten. If I call the police will they put them in jail with the bad guys. Don't tell him I posted this.

My son is 7 and was with me when the police arrested me a few months ago, He gor very scared and upset when the police came. I was totally compliant and asked them not to handcuff me in front of him but they did anyway and that made him worse and we had to wait a good while for my girlfriend to come back home. When I got released and back home I told him that it was a big mistake and that they were looking for someone else who looked like me, I was i in court and pleaded guilty and got a 3 month sentence but they gave me 2 weeks before I have to report to jail. I don't want him to be scared or thing bad of me so I told him that I have to go away with work for a few months and he won't be able to see me until I get back. He is upset about this and begging me not to go but I told him I have to. I know I am lying to him but I really think this is better than telling him the truth and making him worried or thinking that I am a bad person. Do you think this is the best way to handle the situation or should I do something else over the next week?

He did not start till after Labor Day and I went the Tuesday before. I have hated him ever since and still hate him. If I could punch him in front of his kids I would but I'd be arrested. I liked him before this though he always bragged.

She is evil in every way imaginable. I hate her. She will wreck my birthday. I cannot have fun when with this horrible human being. I cannot believe he would be so inconsiderate when he supports my mother refusing to speak to various family members and even uses me to get retribution on those relatives.

so basically i'm 15 and i was at my grandmas house for a visit and i was at the table eating while i did homework and i accidentally dropped my fork on the floor and some food spilled and my grandma suddenly SCREAMED SO LOUD "HOW DARE YOU!!!" and came up to me and slapped me hard across the face and beat me and i ran away like wtf and she chased me and grabbed a knife and tried to hit me with it and i ran outside and she screamed and screamed

I filed a protective order extensive to 12 months towards the father of my child as a result for a domestic violence - where he punched & choked me. We have a 6 month old baby and through the court we've made an arrangement where his parents can pick up my baby & he can have visitation at their house. Throughout my initial recovery from the domestic violence his parents did not give a crap about my wellbeing, they came to court to support him (as they should) - without relevance to me. For all I may know, they probably condone & support what their son has done to me. Personally, I'm not okay with my child visiting them, I'm also not okay with my child being exposed to the dysfunction and tension that they have towards me. I'm so protective with who my child is around. His parents had never done anything for my child besides wanting to "see her". Should I still allow it after the court case?

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Basically I had to turn down a great career opportunity and lost a month and a half of income because my mom insisted I needed to help my sister pay for her apartment. My sister didn't want to stay in that apartment and wanted to move somewhere cheaper but our mom insisted that she stay because she said I needed a room at the apartment (which wasn't true). Now both me and my sis had to turn down good jobs and lose lots of money because our mom set us up so that we can't leave this jobless town. I don't know why our mom would sabotage us like this.

18/M here. - I live with my parents and two younger sisters. - There is no time, when I m home alone. Five people live in this house, plus my grandma often visits us. - They often ask me to do chores randomly through the day, plus my younger sister loves to rush into my room because she s often bored. - Ever since I masturbate, I do it after showering in the bathroom at night, but my sex drive just grows and grows, I feel like that s just not enough. - If I do it in the bathroom, I have to be really quick, because in a five member house the bathroom is a really often visited place. - I can easily flush the *** down there after my session. I really want to fap in my room, but I can t get rid of the *** package afterward. That s the other big issue, next to the no-alone-time. The bathroom is in the other side of the house. - My bed is really loud, that s an another big drawback. - I think I m the only one in the house, who has a sex life. - I don t have a lock on my door, it would be suspicous to suddenly get one and use it reguralry. Also, I always listen music with headphones on, the loud music would be strange too. What can you recommend? I NEED to fap more often.

It seems to me that the only thing that gets my brother going is money. There's really no heart in anything he does, everything is just for show. He doesn't really focus on personal development and the next milestone for him is always his next promotion or his new job. That's what he talks to me about and he's always so into it when he talks to me about it while I'm not really interested. Also he's not really original whatever people do he does. It's like he has no confidence in himself at all and pretty much he lets society lead the way for him. If the majority of people like something he likes it too. If the majority of people stay away from something and are not really interested he follows the same direction. You know? It gets really boring when people follow the group instead of being solo-thinkers you know what I'm saying? He does it all for the image. He even has a New York Jets poster in his room and he's not even a fan! When we go to trips to places he makes us take like a thousand pictures even we're not in the mood for it because he wants to make it look like "we're having a good time" but in reality we're not. He just wants to give people that image. He has this thing where he wabts to keep up his image. If people think it's cool he'll keep doing it. The sad thing is he actuallybthinks this is good for him and how you're supposed to live...living for the eyes of others. I think a part of him wants me to be like him but I would never go that route.

He's a year younger than her. He has a kid who lives with the mom. They're in their 20's. He's smart and talks proper. But it's the kid thing. The kids at most 4-5. The mom looks like a model from a rap video

Asking moms out there, how do I go about this? I'm 18 and responsible, however I don't like to just tell my mom where I'm going and hope she's okay with it. I also do not want to lie and say I'm going to a friends because I want to uphold our trust. She can be touchy about things, but I figured if it's at his place and his parents are okay with it then my mom may be too. How do I convince her?

So my grandma was in her 70's and she had cancer but that's not what killed her it was her intestines failing for a year and she thought it was back pain I'm a teenager and she raised me because my mother had to work all the time so I only saw my mother for 2-3 days on weekends. And when I'm sad I would go to her and she promised me she wouldn't die and my mother was going into detail of what happened and she died multiple times in the hospital and that breaks me. I didn't talk to her for 1-2 weeks and I feel so bad I didn't talk to her more at least once every week and I didn't even get to say goodbye to her I have so much guilt that I didn't talk to her she didn't tell anyone she was in the hospital for two days and then she called her cousin saying she might go home tomorrow but she died instead while I was at school. I don't know what to do and my mom brought her stuff home and things smell like her and it breaks me I just really miss her.

My mom & my step dad are getting a divorce, and have been fighting between who gets custody of my two baby brothers. Long story short, few friends and family from each my mom & step dad's side of the family wrote affidavits. All affidavits were written during July and turned in early this month. I just found out that my step dad's niece, who apparently wrote an affidavit, moved out of her parents house and lives in another state ( she's best friends with my boyfriend's cousin, that's how I got this information ). She also barely knows anything about the divorce ( she basically cut ties with her family, including her uncle ) so she obviously didn't write the affidavit that was turned in with her signature. This is probably an obvious question, but I was wondering if my mother or her lawyer could press charges on either my step dad or the mother of his niece ( because she's more than likely the one who forged the signature ).

Like say for example when I go to the fair or carnival why would people think I m weird for talking to someone I don t know, When people go to school all of those kids are strangers until you make friends with them so why is it weird to talk to someone you don t know at a fair, carnival or anywhere else?

i live in VA and so my math teacher is absolutely disgusting, while he is teaching he'll just fart loud and laugh and it smells horrible and he'll just laugh really hard like it's funny and he'll come up to our desks and just burp really loud in our face and it smells terrible and he'll laugh, hell intentionally drink soda just to burp at us. he'll go as far as to sit on us while we're working and fart on our lap and then laugh really hard and it smells and it's absolutely disgusting. i can't tell the principal about him because i don't think it's threatening or actually against teacher policy it's just immature. help? this is a serious question also.

Im a 12 almost 13 year old boy. On my birthday next week, me and my friends want to mail condoms to her apartment. We wanna see if it'll embarrass her. My sister is 23 and her boyfriend is 25. Idk if they ever do anything gross, but just in case they do, i'd Like to troll them by mailing condoms. My friend already agreed to buy some condoms from the store (with all our money put in together). I need someone to write the address in a way that an adult would write. She can't tell that its from a kid. Btw the mail person told me that people can tell where a post stamp is from. My sister lives in my city but in a different neighbourhood thats too far for me to go.

I am in high school and could really use a car (to get to/from school, work, and sports). My parents both work full time and utilize our current two cars. My dad used to drive me to school but now his starting time has changed so he told me I would have to bike, which I would be completely fine with except here in MN it would be a bit impossible from november to april due to the cold/snowy conditions. I have a job and could pay for it myself (insurance and everything as well) but my parents deem buying my own car ridiculous and become angry at me whenever I bring it up. They always tell me to cycle or get a ride from someone else to extracurriculars. They could be right (I'm merely a teenager after all) but I just feel like everyone's life would become so much easier if I could transport myself.

I've had this said to me by my mom and her parents and it hurt me. I come from a Portuguese family, I'm wondering if all European families are like this? Now if parents say this to kids, how else can this emotionally hurt them? Has anyone had parents say this? I know I would NEVER say that to a child.

I have a friend (retired and with no family of his) who treats us like his family and is very close to my kids, especially my elder one. He is like their grand father. He feeds her, picks her from school, and plays with her all the time. He is in our house everyday (incl weekends). As nice as he is, things are getting on my nerves. He wants to get involved in everything that is related to kids, has opinion on everything i do for my kids. When i try to discipline my kids, he comments on my methods and complains to my husband about me. I feel like i cant talk or be with my kids without him around. Because he is always around, my kid prefers to spend all time with him and not with me or my husband. I just cannot convince her to spend time with us. I dont know if problem is with me not able to communicate with my kid or his presence is affecting my relation with kids. If its him, how do I politely tell him not to come home every day and let me have some space with my kids.

Ok so whenever it's Christmas or his birthday I buy him things that cost a lot of money like a giant toad plush from the Mario games that costed $177 and yet he still doesn't care that I did, he also hangs out with his friends more than me why does he hang out with them instead OF HIS OWN COUSIN IT MAKES ME MAD AND SAD. Toad is his favorite character.