Hi everyone. My parents are in the process of getting a divorce that came on very suddenly (for me). My fiancé and I originally planned to get married in June of 2020 but decided to move it up to October of this year. At this point I keep getting hurt by my mom and dad because they are in the middle of this divorce and it is killing me. They are both acting like teenagers and going out of their way to hurt each other (and me in the process). My dad keeps telling me he doesn't want my moms new boyfriend at the wedding and that if he comes he won't be civil with them. I feel like I don't want to deal with the drama from this anymore and that I would like to just cancel my wedding and elope with my fiancé. Do you all think this would be a huge mistake or should I just go and be with my fiancé and have a ceremony together where there is no drama.

Tell me if I'm overreacting: I'm in my best friends wedding (we've been friends for 15 years) we've been through everything together. She's even the godmother to my daughter. Her bridal shower is today and she is at the center table with all of her fiancés best friends girlfriends and I am at a table with her coworkers and then on the other side is a table with her cousin and other really good friend. When the person doing the tables (who is sitting at the center table) sent out a group text I messaged the maid of honor (her cousin) and told her I'm a little hurt by the table arrangements and she said "amandas closer to Greg (her fiance) friends now". This was news to me. Not gonna lie this hurt super bad. I know it's not a big deal overall I'm not at her table but I'm kinda hurt. And then when she posted pics of her shower on social media she didn't even include me in any pics. The other girls are single and don't have kids and give her a lot of attention which she loves but me, married with 3 kids I truly give her as much time as I can and have spent a ton already on this wedding. I guess I'm just feeling hurt by a bunch of things overall? Do you think I'm being too sensitive?

I was thinking man of honor but I don't love that. He'll be a little older by the time we get married but I want to make sure it won't embarrass him.