I couldn't be with someone who didn't make me happy 24/7. life beats you don't enough. your partner should be your 24/7 peace and happiness.

I didn't know it was an issue but apparently it is. Can someone please explain why it's wrong to want to keep my last name the same? I wasn't trying to offend my future husband, but I have.

if my husband and i go somehwere fun or on vacation he lies to his mom and tell her we did nothing or vacation wasn't great even though he had fun....I asked him why he pretends with her that we didn't go anywhere or have fun on vacation....he said he doesnt want to upset her..wtf? why do her children worry so much about upsetting her? wouldn't she be happy her kids are enjoying their life wtf? so strange is she possibly jealous of our marriage wghat gives? They also only call my husband to complain how they have an illness etc...like is he their dad? seriously his mom and sister have husbands.....why do they act like my husband is supposed to be their husband?

He goes to the spare room sulks and plays video games to forget about his work.. I told him that he should look for another job if hes so sick of his job....but all he does is complains and doesn't do anything to change his situation. I work and also do 90 percent of the parenting of our 4 year old...because hes too stressed or miserable each time he sulks I just go get dressed or go to the gym and hang out with coworkers because each weekend we just fight.. we also sleep in separate bedrooms because I am not motivated to have sex when hes complaining and fighting over his job, he doesn't make enough money to let me stay home with our child so I work and also drive and pick up my son from school since hes too depressed to do it. but hes ready to play his stupid video games. i literally go out on my own with coworkers because I got tired of being yelled at and hearing that he hates his job when he does nothing.....i tried to help but now i just rather ignore him and live my life....do you think I am being cruel? I just get tired of him being rude and taking it oout on everyone because he hates his job and boss.. ( the company is on their tird boss and they all hate my husband...to the point that they quit (my husband ha spissed off every manager hes had because he can be rude) should i get a divorce? every time i try to leave him he apologizes and but then its the same boring life we live.... The reason i have stayed is because my son, or else i would have left along time ago.

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I've been married 3 decades. For most of that my in-laws have never respected boundaries and have tried causing problems in my marriage. My husband's sister and her daughters have verbally attacked me over situations that were not any of their business, saying my husband should leave me, he is pathetic for being with me.. AND she calls and asks for money, because she spends bill money on shopping sprees. When my mother in law visits she pretends to be sick so my husband will call in for work. She insults me when he's not around. She was due to come for a visit recently, but I myself have been sick and asked my husband to go and visit her. The trip is a bit pricey, but at least he gets to see his family. Well, she is asking my husband to rent a huge family cabin on a lake so his whole family can get together. He told her that he can't do that. She started pouting. Days go by and he gets a call that she's fallen and in the hospital. She has faked illnesses and falls, hurt herself for 3 decades to control my husband. On her last visit, her sugar dropped to 40. It upset my husband. My son went through her phone and found where she googled- how to crash your blood sugar. My son knew she was faking. Anyways, my husband is going for a visit and I know that his sister and mother and brother are going to ask for money? What should I do?

Sometimes in bathroom i found my sister's dirty panties. which part cover the vagina face there i have seen some lubricous dark and red spot. Which usually get me hard. She is single and unmarried Untill she get married i think i couldn't get rid of this stuff.

I want a husband😭 GIVE ME A HUSBAND! I will not wait much longer because I simply can not. 😢 I can't take this intense longing for a passionate deep love anymore. I'm not asking for much am I? I'm not kissing any frogs. I'm looking for hubby not std. Aren't you just so ******* adorable annon guy? I say you are and also pretty pathetic and lame. Being desperate and having a mental illness does not mean one doesn't deserve love. Such a nasty disgusting loser you are. This is exactly why I am very selective and single. There are SO MUCH GARBAGE OUT THERE. And I do not go through GARGABE. Sweet dreams tiny, lame Fuhk. Garbage men far outweigh ones with morals.

In this discussion, I voice my opinion on how I believe people should actually promote what they re doing for the community so the community can actually be aware of the assistance. Especially if the person that has helped goes on mainstream publications and continuously speaks on his efforts of helping the community. Long story short she asked me for examples because she did not agree with my standpoint. Unfortunately I couldn t give any example in detail. So I began to reference places she could find the examples because I couldn t name them. As conversation continues I then actually remember an example in full detail. She responds by saying "oh ok well I have to sit down and watch this press conference". My response to that was a chuckle and I said "whatever it s cool" and went on about my business because I felt as if it literally says that now that I ve given an example, my word cant be taken as truth. Please give me your honest opinions on what you see from this dialogue and the info I have given.

I was invited to go to the racquet club and spa with some Croatian women one of which is married to my husband's business associate. In the sauna we were all undressed and one of the Croatian women both of which didn't shave commented about me being shaved. She asked if I had gotten it from Porn. I was totally offended and made to feel uncomfortable. My husband is Catholic and so are his friends. Is this something where European women view American women who shave their pubic hair as whores or immoral. I thought we were having a great time until this happened and I get the impression they think they are better than me. I don't want to do anything to affect my husbands friendship but I feel awkward around the girls now. What should I do?

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Okay, I'm not even engaged yet, but my boyfriend of two years has been asking probing questions lately that makes it seem like he's feeling me out to find out if id say yes when he asked. He hasn't outright done it yet, just keeps bringing up things about marriage and how hypothetically ours would go. I can see myself with him as he is a very amazing person and has always been there for me, even prior to us dating. He was with me nearly every day for weeks at the hospital when my father was dying. So to get into the meat of things, I don't have any desire to change my last name. I like my last name. It is the name I got my degrees in and it's the name I had from my father who passed away recently. I don't want to have to change it on every document, website, and card in my life. I don't want to go through all of that hassle or have to spell his name to every person since it's really confusing to most people. His family is very traditional so I'm not sure if it would insult him if I said I preferred to keep my last name. I need to really talk to him about it, but don't know how to broach the subject or if I'm in the wrong for wanting to keep my name. Looking for opinions on if I should just change my name as is tradition or of it's okay to want to keep the name ive had my whole life.

First of all he has to be Christian like me He cant be remotely gay or effeminate (if i get a hint of either, I'm running like the house is on fire) He has to be masculine, hard worker, want to work, identifies as a masculine man He has to be a virgin (men are wired differently than women and when they have sex before marriage it makes it way more likely hes not gonna be faithful in marriage) He has to be kind, gentle and wise He has to be the 100 percent breadwinner He has to be chaste Theres probably more but this is what came to mind. If you disagree, have a good reason or leave me alone. :-)