So, my friend has been living with his parents for the past 2 years because of financial issues. He wanted to get a cat, and adopted one about 7 months ago. Well, hes finally starting to make more money, and is looking at getting an apartment. I know the cat annoys him, because we play online games, and hes always scolding it because it jumps on his lap and scratches things. He was talking about moving out, and he said he doesnt know what hed do with his cat. I said to him it shouldn't be that hard to find an apartment that accepts cats. Then he said nah, I'll probably just leave it with my parents. I mean, if his parents dont mind taking it then cool, but I think it's kind of not cool to get a cat, build a bond, then just leave it with someone else. I'm sure he doesnt like spending money on it iether. Just wish he would have thought about what it would be like owning a cat before going off and getting one. I told him that Too. I said well what did you expect when you got a cat? For it not to do normal cat things? He just complained about everything that comes with owning a cat like changing the litter box.

I am a 30 year old woman from India, who is lawyer, and I have been in the country for 5 years. Over the years I adapted to American culture and made many great friends, but dating is still very hard. I am very tall and full figured at 6'7 300 pounds, and I still have an accent. I would ask out men and get rejected. I met this guy who lives in the neighboring apartment, whose 23 and works as a bartender and fitness instructor. He moved here from Italy and we developed a friendship being international and adapting to American culture. I give him life advice and am his older mentor he goes to about his problems. He is a VERY handsome man 6'2 220 pounds all muscle. After 6 months knowing him I admitted that I was attracted to him and asked if wanted to have sex. He said that I was not his type and he wasn't into women taller than him. I told him that I respected his boundaries and his preferences. I told him about my struggles dating, and he offered to help me with dating and Introduce me to other men. We still hangout as normal friends, and know each-others friends now. He respects the fact I have sexual feelings for him, and is ok with me touching myself when looking at his photos. I respect the fact he isnt sexually attracted to me. He constantly has women throwing themselves at him and sleeps with 2-3 new ones a week. I still struggle with men, but he is actively helping me. Even though there is one sided attraction, we still support each-other and have mutual friends.

She blanks my Instagram messages in a role. So I come to no choice but to come on Yahoo answers and ask questions. Isn't it sad she doesn't respond but reads Instagram and Facebook messages?

Is this (below) something you would say to a friend/someone you cared about? Someone said this to me - do you think that they are my friend? No one deserves to be bullied. You do have friends, as I'm your friend and don't forget that. I'm always here if you need to talk. Don't let what people did in the past hurt you now. You just keep working hard and show all them pompous people what you are really made off. I'm sure you will go far, you just need to believe in yourself :) I'm sure people don't hate you. I don't and I will always be here to talk to. You will be successful, you just need to believe in yourself.

Suddenly things changed and im living in a new environment where being nice and cordial doesnt work. In fact, it only attracts scumbags that want to harm me. I was told that if i wanted to survive, i got the bring out the inner son of a B in me and ditch Mr.Nice Guy. What if i dont have an inner son of a B in me ? How can i find out and bring him out ?

Okay, so I have like 1 friend in real life, and that friend I don't even hang out with ever. Even my autistic brother has more friends than me. So I can't help but think it is because I've always been quiet about my nerdy hobbies and so I appear distant or unrelatable to people. So for a little background about myself, I deal with social anxiety every day, though I try not to make it effect my life. Nonetheless, it does and I can't help but feel incredibly self conscious about what others think about me. Even my career path I feel self conscious about when it comes to bringing it up with my family. It causes me trouble sleeping every night as I obsess over the future (such as my future career) and the past (something embarrassing I said/did). So what are my hobbies? Well, since I barely even have 1 friend, it is just playing video games and watching anime. It is incredibly nerdy I know, but I enjoy it as something to do when I'm alone as it can take up plenty of time. This 1 friend of mine I've known for around 8 years and he doesn't even know that I play World of Warcraft because I've always been self conscious about telling him. He also has never even been to my house before. If he asks me "what kind of video games do you play?" I usually just bring up a game that isn't stereotypically nerdy such as Witcher 3 or League of Legends. So to make new friends, what do I do? I feel really alone and depressed, and am unsure if I should be honest or not about myself.

I let my friend stay with me for a few days while she was dealing with some issues concerning her relationship with her boyfriend. some days from work, she would tell me how the bf came by to have lunch and have chats. After about a week, from work i found her bags packed and she explained to me that she was going back to her bf's house. Later on, she claimed that i had thrown her out because i had gone out with a friend over the weekend. she then blocked me off social media. then she calls my workmate to ask how i am doing. please advise, what would you make of this?

I have been seeing this guy on and off since 2015. He lives in California and I like going to see him. He has come to see me once. I don't want to stop seeing him because I like the sex.

There is a coworker who left and we said we would keep in touch. Whenever I try to organize a get together (usually with other coworkers), he says "Yeah I'm down for that!" Then the day that we do go out, he cancels at the last minute due to being "Tired" from work. He then keeps saying "We will get together, I promise!" Just yesterday we were meeting up at a bar in his neighborhood, so naturally I texted and asked if he wanted to come since we were going to be in his neighborhood. He said he accidentally left his phone in his car so couldn't check it all day but "wishes" he would had known we were meeting up. People were telling me "Likely story..." but I still like to assume the best intentions and give him the benefit of the doubt. Should I just stop inviting him to different things? It could be a sign he's genuinely not interested, but maybe he's also genuinely tired. What would you do?

How do they party?

I like to have good co worker friends. Not hang out outside of work and get close. I have seen gossip and drama happen. I don't know many people where I live but I Do go to a couple bars and make bar friends. Or I play basketball sometimes.

He is a guy in y school ( a year ahead of me) and we met previously at a party and we chatted for a bit. Now when're he sees me at school he always says hi and he tried to talk to me once about school. Yesterday, I was at the library reading and when I looked up I noticed he was looking at me, so he waved and smiled. Is he trying to be friend or is he interested?

I am a 27 year old female and me and my best friend were talking yesterday on the phone and she had invited me for today to go shopping with her, her daughter and her granddaughter and I told her no thanks that I was just used to it being me and her and she understood and she said that she would never force herself on me. What does she mean by that? I didn't ask her what it meant though and I know that probably sounds like a dumb question but it's just I feel so uneducated on a lot of things

My friend has been very addicted to this "splatoon". Is this a drug? My friend has lost a lot of weight and have bags under their eyes. Whenever we speak to them they are very unresponsive. Please help! They don't believe in the ways of the lord and we need help!

I had a friend who helped me LOTS, Then he kind of drifted apart . When I heard he was in difficulties I got in touch with him and provided assistance. He is going after big projects that require a lot of funding and is not giving up. I helped him a few times. I have chalked up something nice he can do in his own . He says he will but doesn't. I told him only If he does something on his own, I will help him. What else can I do to convince him. Really worried he will end his life.

I completely understand that you aren't interested in being sexually involved with me. I would never try to force you to be with me. I apologize if I make you feel uncomfortable. I know that I can be aggressive sometimes. I really hope we can still be friends. I don't want our friendship to be ruined. I genuinely like you as a person I feel that you are a beautiful soul. And I really mean that from the heart. You are so talented and have so much to offer. I hope you have a wonderful Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Yes I know it's a while until Christmas and New Year but I'm asking now so I can have it together when I send it.

I have known my best friend for 13 years now and I thought we were so close, but I am not sure now. The problem is, while I was looking at my messages on Twitter, I opened an old message I had received from her "old account" which I thought she had stopped using because she would only text me there from her new account and I had realised that she had blocked me from her old account. I thought it was weird so I made a new account on Twitter and searched her old username and found out that she has been using it all the time posting all the things we both like and talk about 24/7. It made me feel sick to my stomach. Why does she not want me to see that? I mean if she was posting other stuff that we both don't have in common, I would totally understand that she does not want me to see it. She has always told me that she couldn't ask for a better friend. I feel very devastated. Also while messaging me from her new account, she kept mentioning someone and I told her she could be friends with her and she was like "Haha no I don't need her" but she talks to that girl in public on her old account all the time? Why do you think she is hiding all that from me? Do you think it's best to ignore it and move on or should I ask her? I don't want to make our friendship awkward so the last thing I would do is asking her about it...

I don't like to go out and do thinks such as clubs or bars I mainly like to sit at home and read books or watch movies alone I have no friends to hang out with and I lost trust in most people as all they do is drink and do drugs and do stupid things which I don't care for drama is it so wrong to be your own company I never had dated or asked a girl out

So I started working in a new company about 9 months When I met this guy. He was super sweet at first, showed me around and really made me feel welcomed which should of been a red flag then but I saw it as someone being a nice friend. Soon we started becoming really good friends and the possibility of taking it a step further came up and we both agreed that we would give it a try (about 5 months later). We both agreed that we would keep things STRICTLY between us (so no one at work would know) and that we would keep things off social media, etc (at our job dating between coworkers is frowned upon). It ended because I found out he lied to me about things and I ended up not being able to trust him. When we first started the relationship we both agreed that if things didn't work out it we would still be friends (which is a lot harder than I ever thought). He got upset after he breakup and told one of our coworkers about his "ex" (he said he never said my name but I can't really believe that he didn't). He's basically doing everything that we agreed we wouldn't do, and it's very hard for me to keep a calm composure when he's around. At this point I just need advice on how to keep things mutual between us at work after everything that has happened. Have any of you ever dated a coworker? If so what was the outcome? Because this is a line that I will NEVER cross again.

I mean I miss her too. We just hung out two weeks ago. We used to see each other every day at school (elementary school/middle school). She moved after high school. Anyways she says, "I miss you sis. You're the only person I trust and you're the only family I have besides my mom. I don't know what I would I do when my mom dies." Her relatives live on the east side of the us. She has other people that are family to her. She is family to me too and I think she is too clingy to me. She said one time she wants to live with me. She is excited for us to live together. She said I'm part of her family.

I completely understand that you aren't interested in being sexually involved with me. I would never try to force you to be with me. I apologize if I make you feel uncomfortable. I know that I can be aggressive sometimes. I really hope we can still be friends. I don't want our friendship to be ruined. I genuinely like you as a person I feel that you are a beautiful soul. And I really mean that from the heart. You are so talented and have so much to offer. I hope you have a wonderful Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

I used to be really close to one of my cousins, like we told each other our deepest secrets. but what happened is she shared that secret. and then later I learned that my cousins talk behind my back, and she never once defends me. the reason it specifically bothers me is because I told her about my anxiety off people talking behind my back. I tried confronting my cousins about the things they say and they accuse me of starting a figh and that I need to get my life together (I truly consider my life together, I know what I m doing.). so I back down and feel guilty but then they always say I owe them something. "Remember that one time i payed for you?" but what I remember is that I practically payed that back in small favors such as just spontaneously bringing them food. Why are my cousins talking behind my back and being really fake to me? Sorry I'm ranting but this issue really frustrates me and i just cant understand what I'm doing wrong.

I don't have friends neither a gf obviously because im super introverted. Play video games 24/7 past 10 years average about 10-12 hours a day of screen time. Everyone doesn't really like me. I just don't know what to do. Life is getting worse for me and I still act like im 12 years old and still have mentality.