Weddings: Question: How often do on again and off again relationships succeed as far as marriage goes? |
- Question: How often do on again and off again relationships succeed as far as marriage goes?
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- Question: Do you think my girlfriend will fall back into her bad habits. I took her back but a small part of me still worries?
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Question: How often do on again and off again relationships succeed as far as marriage goes? Posted: 15 Aug 2019 10:52 PM PDT |
Question: Flowers that represent the Disney females? Posted: 15 Aug 2019 06:44 PM PDT I am planning my wedding which will have subtle hints of Disney ruining through it and want to make corsages for my bridesmaids based off the different female Disney characters. Any ideas of what flowers represent the different female Disney characters? |
Posted: 15 Aug 2019 05:03 PM PDT We are 28. We met on tinder 7 months ago and started dating from there. Our relationship was good for the most part except for some anger issues. she had issues where she would get mad at me over nothing. She accused me of stealing from her ( I would never, it's not in my character.) About two months ago she told me she was fasting and stepping away from me. She said God told her that I was dangerous. That was crushing to me. I already have abandondment issues from a troubled childhood and being in foster care and fear of people leaving but I feel like with her it was justified because she always threatened to leave me. One time she walked out on me while in a public restaurant. she broke up with me there. I'm always the one trying to be calm and rational and make things better. I asked her why are you being so aggressive and antagonizing with me and she was like " This is who I am. this is how I treat people. " And I was like " If you are aware of how you treat people don't you want to change? My friend died several years ago and the anniversary of his death was three months ago and while I was looking towards her for comfort and to help guide me through the pain once again she was an opposing force and she was acting mad at me for something else. The image of his lifeless body is still stuck in my head. She wasn't empathetic at all. I have a lot going on and I don't have a support system and I wanted my future wife and girlfriend to be that for me. I started thinking to myself " OK this doesn't seem like someone that I can count on to be there for me like I'm there for them." I accepted the break up and decided that I deserved better That very day a long term friend of mine contacted me and we vented to each other about our relationship problems. She was going through the exact same situation as me and it felt nice to have someone actually listen and understand me. We both have abandondment issues and come from troubled childhoods I was telling my friend " My ex is a smart girl. I am sure she will be fine but I think I deserve better and I'm willing to wait for whoever better may be if necessary." Update 4: My female friend was like " I'm sorry you're having to go through that. I believe my girlfriend had sensed that I was growing a close bond with my friend because she texted me and said " where are you" about 10 minutes later my gf texted me and said " You have a way of making me feel cared for even when im being difficult. you really are the best man ever. you are a storm calmer and i love you for being so patient. i hope your day is awesome. youre amazing and i would be a fool to lose you She was like " I have a right to change my mind. I haven't always been right in my actions towards you. I can be sweeter, more kinder, more encouraging. I can learn how to love you better. I can change. Of course, a man is weak for a woman and I am weak for her so I took her back. I was surprised to hear that because it was everything she stood against. It's been about a month and we haven't had any issues, but a small part of me worries if that will surface again |
Posted: 15 Aug 2019 11:39 AM PDT We are 28. We met on tinder 7 months ago and started dating from there. Our relationship was good for the most part except for some anger issues. she had issues where she would get mad at me over nothing. She accused me of stealing from her ( I would never, it's not in my character.) About two months ago she told me she was fasting and stepping away from me. She said God told her that I was dangerous. That was crushing to me. I already have abandondment issues from a troubled childhood and being in foster care and fear of people leaving but I feel like with her it was justified because she always threatened to leave me. One time she walked out on me while in a public restaurant. she broke up with me there. I'm always the one trying to be calm and rational and make things better. I asked her why are you being so aggressive and antagonizing with me and she was like " This is who I am. this is how I treat people. " And I was like " If you are aware of how you treat people don't you want to change? My friend died several years ago and the anniversary of his death was three months ago and while I was looking towards her for comfort and to help guide me through the pain once again she was an opposing force and she was acting mad at me for something else. The image of his lifeless body is still stuck in my head. She wasn't empathetic at all. I have a lot going on and I don't have a support system and I wanted my future wife and girlfriend to be that for me. I started thinking to myself " OK this doesn't seem like someone that I can count on to be there for me like I'm there for them." I accepted the break up and decided that I deserved better. That very day a long term friend of mine contacted me and we vented to each other about our relationship problems. She was going through the exact same situation as me and it felt nice to have someone actually listen and understand me. We both have abandondment issues and come from troubled childhoods. I was telling my friend " My ex is a smart girl. I am sure she will be fine but I think I deserve better and I'm willing to wait for whoever better may be if necessary." My female friend was like " I'm sorry you're having to go through that. People are heartless. You really don't deserve all that. I'll always be there for you no matter what." I believe my girlfriend had sensed that I was growing a close bond with my friend because she texted me and said " where are you" about 10 minutes later. my gf texted me and said " You have a way of making me feel cared for even when im being difficult. you really are the best man ever. you are a storm calmer and i love you for being so patient. i hope your day is awesome. youre amazing and i would be a fool to lose you. She was like " I have a right to change my mind. I haven't always been right in my actions towards you. I can be sweeter, more kinder, more encouraging. I can learn how to love you better. I can change." Of course, a man is weak for a woman and I am weak for her so I took her back. I was surprised to hear that because it was everything she stood against. It's been about a month and we haven't had any issues, but a small part of me worries if that will surface again. |
Posted: 15 Aug 2019 09:17 AM PDT |
Question: Can I get married without having a wedding, because I think weddings are a scam? Posted: 15 Aug 2019 07:13 AM PDT Why must I have a ceremony? |
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