I made my bf and a couple of his friends ambush this jerk and trapped him on a large garbage bin. We're all in our last year of HS.

My neighbor asked me to clean and organize her small storage on Wednesday last week and she's going to pay me. She said it needs to be done by Friday. She was out of town. She instructed me what to do and it's all done by Thursday the next day. So she came by Friday and she said I didn't do what she asked me to do so she made me rearrange some things. Now it needs to be done by Wednesday this week which is tomorrow and it's all done by Saturday. Today she texted me that she's coming by to drop off the payment. She gave me $40. She asked if that was enough. I said yes but in the back of my mind it's not but I can't tell her that because it's too awkward. I'm a really shy type of person. Do you guys think I should get paid more? Is $40 enough? Even though at first I didn't do what I was supposed to do but I spent my time. $60 would be fine to me but $40. What do you guys think?

So my gf and I have had problems where she wanted time to be her as her head was messed. She said she didnt know if she saw us a friends or more, felt something was missing but did love and care for me and hated the routine we got into. I gave her the space but she would text me small talk a couple times a day, I told her i didnt want to small talk until she decides and then she said ok i wont message you and that lasted 2 days and i had to send her a heartfelt message of how understanding and supportive i will be and how i respect she wants to be her and find herself. I had to send it to get it off my mind. She then started with where do i start with that text and said she liked the part where i said we could take things slow step by step. She assured me there is no other guy she is speaking to but just wants time to be her and find herself. She is still very distant with me over text/calls, i dont get hardly any. She suggested going for food and catch up on my birthday this saturday as she didnt want me to be alone, I asked if she wanted a night out but she seemed unsure as she wants to go slow and doesnt want me all over her, which i wont be if we did go out. What do i do to get this back on track? do I just not act too interested? or should i say look, lets cut off communication for real this time, until you decide what you want to do and if youre willing to actually take it slow with me and progress, get back to me and we can kick on. Goodbye x should i say that?

Example 1 Me : Yeah I need to eat clean for a couple of weeks and do a lot of ab workouts like crunches and other things . Him : Oh you don't want to do too many crunches . Crunches are really bad for your neck , blah blah blah . Example 2 Him : So how was your night ? Me: it was okay . I couldn't really sleep because I drank so much coffee late in the day Him: Yeah I notice when I drink too much coffee I have a hard time sleeping . Especially late in the evening . It depends on the time ..... blah blah blah He brings every conversation back to his own experiences or beliefs . I can't pin point why this is so annoying . What makes someone have a tendency to respond in this way? How can I bring this up and let them know it's annoying ? It's so annoying !!

My cousin (Male 15) and I (Female 14) shared a bed while on vacation last week. The whole week, he was picking me up, throwing me on the bed, grabbing me so I d be laying on top of him, and asking for hugs. I didn t think much of it, as I viewed him as a best friend, and best friends do things like that, right? He started touching my thighs, he d lay on my stomach and my butt and it started getting weird. I would just move whenever I felt uncomfortable or ask him what he was doing. On the last night of the vacation, I got up around 1 am to go to the bathroom, and he followed me. He said it looked like I needed a hug, and I denied, but let him hug me. I got back in bed, and tried falling asleep. About 45 minutes passed when I heard him move, and he put his hand on my head and kissed me. There was no tounge, it was light, and lasted for a few seconds. My family never kisses each other on the lips. I was so freaked out that I just continued pretending to be asleep. I m really scared by his behavior. He s stolen my bras too. I don t know what to do? Any advice??

Anytime I cry or have a concern I ask to discuss with him or if I'm sad he gets really angry and threatens to leave me. He is the one always making me sad and depressed by constantly yelling at me bullying me getting physical with me he kicked me the other day in my leg he has tackled me slamming bmy head into the ground once he always snatches stuff out of my hands or drives reckless if I question him or feel upset. He says he can't deal with me showing any emotion even if he caused it. He swears he is faithful to me but acts strange and distant and even though he causes the fights he blames fighting for not wanting to have sex with me. He left the other day because I started crying he came back 20 minutes later claiming he doesn't want to leave and loves me that same day he did the same thing when I tried venting about the pain he caused me. He says if I just listen and don't upset him he wouldn't abuse me. I was pregnant once and he didn't care at all never acknowledged it. I have no support system and feel very attached to him he really changed me over the last 3 years we've been together in the beginning he acted like prince charming I tried to leave at least 100 times but he would threaten suicide, or take my keys or show up places.. but more recently he acts like he hates me and doesn't want to be with me but still keeps coming back??? Why is he doing this to me?

My girlfriend likes low-waisted shirts. She has small breasts and tries to enlarge her breasts by wearing too big bras. I don't mind if she feels better. A few days ago, when we were queuing in the store behind us stood two men. I heard one to another said "look at her ****, her nipples are visible". My girlfriend was unaware because she had a phone call. When the other guy looked in her chest he laughed and said "this bra is too big. Nice chick but her nipples are weird so soft and puffy. Ugly" after this situation I felt very bad. I didn't tell my girlfriend about this situation. Are her nipples really awful?

This guy I dated for a bit and kept in touch with over a few years called me out of the blue after a year of not talking to tell me about how him & this girl he was dating broke up, how she ended things with him and all this nonsense. Why would he do this? It upset me and he apologized but why would he call me and tell me about this, when he knows how I felt about him? I texted him last night and asked him why he contacted me about this and he said "it was dumb, i don't know why i did it, i thought you would be happy someone treated me shi**y."

Here's the deal, My boyfriends father was deported back in 2001, my boyfriend was only 7 when it happened and according to him he doesn't remember much about him. His father barely got in touch with him this year after 18 years of being gone. I was on meganslaw website browsing through my neighborhood checking out who around me is a sexual offender, which anyone would do if they have small children. Anyways, I don't know why I decided to look up his fathers name and there he was, first one on the list. he was charged in 2001 and released and deported 2005, now for a fact his mom and sisters have not told him why his father left nor do they let him talk to him, but now I understand why. He gets mad when they tell him to stop talking to him, and his mother always ignores the conversation, but now I know this heavy secret that I have no data on other then his charge, and I know there's two sides of every story. I'm scared that he'll take it hard since when I talk to him about his dad I know he thinks the world of him. What should I do? Should I tell him? Should I just leave it alone? We've been together for almost 5 years and keeping this from him just hurts.

I've met a girl and have some ideas about our first date. This isn't so much about the money, (although I am broke)....this is more about holding hands and enjoying free samples from Costco

I'm trying to be a good man. Me and my girlfriend met on tinder almost a year ago and we were having some issues with communication and her really just being insensitive to a lot of things. She also used to get really angry over nothing. It was like she had a short fuse and I had to constantly walk on egg shells to not upset her. Well, She called me and told me she wants to be a better girlfriend and be a better person to me so i relasped and ended up getting back together. She told me I was an amazing person and She was a fool to let me go. While me and my girlfriend were broken up my female friend started calling me because she was suffering in an abusive relationship. We were talking on the phone a lot and she confided in me about the things that were happening in her relationship and how she felt lower than she had ever felt. she said she felt trapped. we actually discovered that her boyfiend had some of the same characteristics as my girlfriend. The only difference is that he was physically abusive to her. My gf never hit me. ANYWAYS. Recently, She broke up with her bf a couple of days ago and told me " Thank you for giving me the strength to leave. I probably couldn't have done it without you. I owe you the world. I love you friend." And then the next day after that she actually confessed she was falling in love with me. She said she never felt this type of connection before and that i was an amazing person. She also said " I know i'll probably never get a chance with you. I just needed to say that. I would regret it for the rest of my life if i never told you how i felt." I haven't responded to the message yet because I wanted to get some advice on here before i responded to make sure I say the right thing. I have never cheated and I won't start now. But I know she's going through the hardest time of her life and she needs me as a friend. She was with him for 9 years. we are both 30 now. I have been friends with her for 7 years. Aside from being in an abusive relationship for years my female friend told me she struggles with anxiety and depression. But even if she never told me, I could honestly tell. My female friend told me regarding to the relationship with my girlfriend. She did tell me. " You're a good person and I just want to say that when people show you who they are believe them. She took your kindness for granted and she honestly doesn't deserve it. but at the end of the day, I just want you to be happy."

IDK why, but I don't like it when people call me shy. If people call you shy, is it a bad thing?

She thinks she's my supervisor and talks to me like I'm dumb, claims I sit on my *** all day when I spend 6 straight hours on my feet filling carts and sticking shelves. And tries to get me in trouble with the manager and talks **** when thinking I don't hear. It really put me in a sad mood.

I was reached out to by a professor at my college on social media. She said oh I see you are studying XXX, I have a cold program for that would like to meet. So we met up. Very nice lady, fast forward a little bit found out she's a lesbian on social media and so am I. So I saw her at my cafeteria once and she gave me her cell number. She put it on my phone and than invited me to an event that had a cost. I went to the event and met a couple of her lesbian friends which were kinda slutty. So I ended up reaching out to her and when I would want to close the door in her office she would say " why do you want to close it" she also touched my hand a couple times while talking. There were a couple sexual remarks. Am doing after there were intense stares when I would walk to my car. Should I report her? What does this lady want?