My baby's father literally owes me $700 now. But he isn't paying me child support either. He's basically playing ME. because he would give me $200 then ask for it back which is obviously MY money. I'm so sick of him. My head spins every day. I really hope he JUST stop talking to me all together. Smh

Sometimes I do mean things to my sisters and sometimes I mess about in house and break flowers vase. My dad would maybe hit me with belt or with sole of his slipper to discipline me. Is this ok to 9yr old?

My dad broke my electric guitar and so I pushed him as I was so upset and he fainted later on. I didn't want to hurt him but he always tries to pester me until I boil over and lash out.

I'm a married adult 26/f. My husband travels for work a lot so I practically feel like I live alone bc he's never there. Anyways my previous apt was an hour away from my mom but she was ALWAYS at my place. My husband was there 3x and he was upset at the fact that she was there so much when we hardly see each other and we would obviously want privacy together. I've talked to my mom about being in my space and she thinks it's a joke bc she's the mom and I'm the daughter. I plan on moving again and I don't want to tell my mom where I'm going. My husband is all for this idea but I have younger siblings who I love to death and love having around but I know they'd tell my mom where I live. Is it shady to move without telling my family where I live?

My Dad went sober two years ago and things are so much worse now. When he was drinking we could have friends over and things like meals were optional. No curfew as my mother was busy hiding my Dad's drinking and wanted us out of the house. Now I am 16 and we are required to have family time like I am a toddler or something. Friends are limited and we have curfew which we never had before. Also we are almost always home overnight. Back when out Dad was an alcoholic we were encouraged to go somewhere else on weekends. So believe it or not I miss alcoholic Dad, he was so much better. How do I make him become an alcoholic again?

My dad abuses me verbally and physically because he perceives me a failure with no good traits and only bad traits. My dad keeps cursing me and saying that i am a failure and i wont do anything in life. My relatives also keep passing several comments on me and also agree with my dad. When my dad and relatives discuss about me my relatives say that even they think im a failure and loser and along with my dad make fun of me and put me down. They are aware of the fact that my dad abuses me but they have never told him that he is wrong but have held me responsible for what I'm going through.

Let's say she always yells at him (at the top of her lungs so hard that the neighbors can hear) to the point where he cries, due to drinking binges that stem from stress at her job, as well as single-handedly raising her son alone while having no male companionship. In addition, she yells when he brings home a bad report card or test/quiz. If her son grows up disrespectful to her, thus him being the typical brat who gets away with yelling at his mom and never getting hit for it, is it her fault? Keep in mind that she also spoils him rotten, as he is her only child, and she has a great-paying job that's basically the equivalent of a two-income family. Is he automatically the bad guy, since she gives him everything he wants? Or is she still to blame because she damaged him by drinking all the time which triggered her yelling, thus him not respecting her.

He has no good characteristics and is where he belongs.

My sister is 17 and I'm 22 I've been in the army for the last 4 years, I just got out last week. I got stationed overseas so I only saw her a handful of times in the last 4 years. I am now back in my home town now and I realized how bad everything is with her. She hated her teachers, family, and mostly everyone. She is beautiful and amazing but some how she ended up with this horable guy. She came home with a black eye last night. She didn't want to talk about it, she just went upstairs. She hates me now because 3 days ago I punched her boyfriend in the face and kicked him out of the house. He called her *** slut and said she deserves to be raped but apparently that's just his nickname for her. Worst thing of all, my peice of **** mom is fine with all this. She doesn't care. What else can I do? I don't even live with them so it's hard.

My sister is 17 and I m 22 I ve been in the army for the last 4 years, I just got out last week. I got stationed overseas so I only saw her a handful of times in the last 4 years. I am now back in my home town now and I realized how bad everything is with her. She hated her teachers, family, and mostly everyone. She is beautiful and amazing but some how she ended up with this horable guy. She came home with a black last night.

I'm 13 he's 14 I do everything in the house like cooking, vacuuming, laundry, dishes, etc. but for the First time in a VERY long time he had to help me vacuum I said I would take the large side of the house twice the size of the other side I vacuumed the large side excluding my moms room and bathroom (big mistake) the next day mom came out of her room in a fury she said to vacuum her room and bath (which the day before I couldn't get to cause the floor was too messy) we also had to steam now I said I'd take the large side of the house (again) and I'd vaccinate moms room if he (my brother) could get her bathroom (which is a bit bigger then her room) he went into the deranged state of I don't want to throwing a fit I replied to him hoping to get him to shut up (very seriously) I just vacuumed this side of the house take some freaking responsibility for once and get a little bit more then usual well he didn't like that saying that I'm just trying to dump ALL the work on him I was like no boi I'm still doing twice as much as you you can just suck it up! Mom made us flip a coin to end the arguing (I won) I said very angrily," Gabe your goin to vacuum moms bathroom, and I'm going to get her room!" After she left for work he started screaming at me saying how much he hated me for making him do work that he wasn't used to doing

My Aunt recently passed away and she lived in a duplex with her sister and brother in law but she owned the whole thing herself. She left her entire estate to me and five of my cousins (that includes her house). The will says the house was "gifted" to her sister and brother in law and supposedly they can live there for as long as they want but if they decide to move out then it would be up to my cousins and I to sell it or decide what we want to do with it. Let me just add that my aunt had a bakery business that she ran in house and her sister is now shutting down the business. I d like to take over the business and keep it going but it would be hard for me to move the whole business out of her house. Her sister does not want the bakery to continue since it is in "her house". But since the house is actually partially mine shouldnt I have a say in that?

He lies to me and lets me down on promises ALL THE TIME.

We live in a small town in Germany and we only see bagels once a year. I wanted to have lox and bagels with the children but "someone" ate most of them even though we already had an argument once that I was saving them for the family. "If there's bagels I'm going to eat them! I don't even see why your angry." I had even gone through the trouble of hiding them when they were eaten the first time and hid them even deeper for this time. "Well, they're just going to go bad." So, I got yelled at and somehow I'm the bad one even though the children's and my bagels have been eaten.

Why won't my moms spirit visit me just once so that I can apologise for the things I did to her... And to tell her that im sorry that she didn't live to see me get a driver's license, a CDL, a GED or go to college... And tell her that it's my fault that I just didn't do things in her lifetime. And apologize for it.

Okay. So the title doesn't do any justice. In January of this year I ran away from my dads house to live with my mom. I was tired of the alcohol abuse and being talked down to constantly. He reported me as a BOLO. The police went to my moms house and verified I was there and said since I'm 17 there is nothing they can do. My mother has partial custody of me too. Well my mother gave me the okay to move with my boyfriend whom is 19. We found out we are 10 weeks pregnant and now I worry that they can come and get me and bring me back. They haven't tried to contact me for 8 months. Can they do this? My boyfriend works for a power company and makes about 20 an hour.

Knew him for over 20 years and found him on Facebook just three months ago. He knows who I am by the way. I told him it was nice to meet him again after I posted a photo of us when I was a baby but he didn't respond. My cousin wrote on his Facebook wall saying "how's it going Brian? You were talking to my cousin, Serena (me) the other day" three months ago and tagged me in it. Would it be too late to post a comment and say: "I know this post by cousin Theresa was made three months ago and I'm a little late in commenting lol but, I just want to let you know that I think you were one of the coolest and nicest people I've met in my childhood :D I remember you from when I was a kid, just didn't know what your name was at all lol, but I recognized you in the family album! My mom told me many years ago that you moved away to Mexico when I've asked about you as a child" Does this comment sound flirty, weird, or odd? Many people have told me it was

I have a 14 yr old brother and is always scared and complains about things. One time we were going to McDonald's and he was trying to talk, and wanted to eat inside. We couldn't because it'd cost more, and that's when it happened. He actually cried and jumped up and down like a two year old. And let I remind you he's FOURTEEN. He always has anger outbursts and screams over every little thing. He once said he hated his parents and went up to his room where he started bawling. What's wrong with him?

I'm a month away from turning 18 and my parents refuse to accept this (I understand that in some people's eyes you're not an adult until 21 but LEGALLY at 18 you are by law considered an adult whether people like it or not). They don't like the idea of me staying home alone due to something bad happening to me (we live in a good neighborhood). They don't like leaving me in a car by myself. They don't like the idea of me getting a job until I'm done with school but I want to get a job so I can start supporting myself financially. They don't like the idea of me moving out or going away for college. They don't attempt to teach me how to drive and aren't interested in paying for drivers ed. They have told me if they bought me a car they want me from school back home and go nowhere else. I'm not allowed to wonder a store by myself to browse because they fair somebody will kidnap and rape me. They fair of me going into a friends car when we go out to eat: The list could go on but due to all of this, I feel like I have no independence for myself. Few of my aunts have advised to move out at 18 but I don't want to do that because I don't want to hurt my parents. I live in a house with 6 people. I can't take it anymore. Advice?

I'm a month away from turning 18 and due to my parents, I feel like I have no independence for myself. They refuse to accept the fact that I'll legally be an adult (I know in some people's eyes that's not an adult yet until 21 but your LEGALLY an adult at 18 by law whether somebody likes it or not). I want to get a job and start supporting myself financially but my parents honestly do not like the idea of me getting a job until I'm done with school. They still don't like the idea of leaving me home alone (they still do it though) due to something bad happening to me. They don't like the idea of me going to the store or walking around by myself due to somebody coming to kidnap me and rape me (what they say). I want to get my license at 18 since you don't have to complete drivers ed to do so at 18 but nobody makes an effort into taking me out driving so I can practice more. They said if they were to buy a car for me they would want me back right home from school and go nowhere else. They're not interested in paying for drivers ed for me. They as well don't like the idea of me going into a friends car to go out to eat. They don't even like leaving me in a car by myself. This is the kind of crap that makes me feel like I can't have any independence for myself. They as well as don't like the idea of me moving out. Or going away for college. I live in a house with 6 people in it. Some of my aunts have actually advised me to move out. Advice?

It's hurtful! All I can think of is why the wife just all of a sudden doesn't like me anymore? Did a neighbor tell her not to like me or the previous owner who I had a long standing feud with. I try to text her but she is curt and not as friendly and inviting as before. How do I deal? She does seem a little competitive and comparative also wanting to know how big our house is, what it all looks like, etc...

I won't encourage him to go out looking for fights, but i feel like he should atleast know how to defend himself if he's ever in a situation where it's necessary. Should I help him learn self defense?

I'm a 14 year old girl, and I'm going into high school soon. For the summer, I've been playing online games and platforms where I interact with people with similar interests. I usually don't like technology, but it really has made an impact on me because no one around my area is interested in the stuff I am. I have interests in the Victorian era, wars, chemistry, and medical stuff, that girls my age simply don't have. I go online and play Napoleonic war games, which I find very intriguing. I've even gotten a passion for certain wars in other countries and I've realized that I'd like to become a doctor when I grow up. I plan on spending the rest of the summer playing, but I'm going to work really hard, study, and achieve all my goals. I'm not going to go back to gaming again, and I have a sense of direction with what I want to do with my life. Now, here comes the "big issue". My sister is a 10 year old girl. She's those complete snobby girls. She curses, does her hair, puts on makeup. (She's one of those girly-girls.) The problem is that she's the complete opposite of me. There's nothing we can talk about that we would both be interested in. Nothing we can both play that we would be both interested in. Nothing. I simply cannot bond with my sister. And she keeps annoying me, getting into my account, saying bad stuff to my friends. The age gap is starting to show, and I just need my privacy and want to be left alone. I've tried hitting and talking to her. Help?

He told mom that my end will be bad if I keep my bad habits. I mean I'm successful in college and me and mom fight sometimes. Yet, when I ask dad about why he talks about me he lies that he wasn't talking about me behind my back. I am normal; I socialize normally but sometimes mom loses temper either at me or at dad sometimes, but dad multiple times admit that he didn't want to take care of me. IDK why.