When you joke around with them just like you joke around with anybody else just by saying a musician they like is corny or whatever and they get really upset at you for a comment like that? Like they get super angry. Is that normal?

I've been married for a year I think I'm addicted to sex. I've been wanting it every night even when my wife doesn't want it. I just commented on a girls photo I said " youre pretty if I wasn't married I'd invite you over for sex ". Not only that I watch porn maybe once or twice a month. Am I addicted to it ?

She's been drunk 3 nights this week. Usually we only drink every other weekend with friends.

So everyone thinks that I am immature and doesn't want to associate me. I am angry because all of my friends who are conservatives voted for some idiotic orange buffoon who is sitting in office making lives of others harder. I have plans of marrying this fiancee of mine in vietnam and this mother trucker is making my life a living hell by him wanting to cut legal immigration in half. I call him names like son of a gun the orange idiot the racist cracker and my friends told me that I am acting like a 12 year old. I am 26 and I am frustrated at the way this country is going. I can't even find anyone here who would date me and now when I finally have hope in life this stuff happens and this idiot gets elected. I said to my friends and threatened them and him and the authorities that if I cannot bring her here then everyone will feel my wrath and I will cause catastrophic damage and make everyone's life a living hell like everyone is making mine's. My friends told me that they don't want to associate with me and says that I am acting like a 12 year old by calling him names and making threats and having outbursts. A neighbor called the police on me last night because of my outbursts. Someone told me that I am making vietnamese people look bad by doing this. I am just fed up with this country and I hate this country. How come people attack me for my political views ?? Why is everyone defending this orange buffoon ??

we watch each other masturbating most nights, I see him at work next but we act like nothing happened- its not every night, sometimes his wife is nosy or my husband wants to watch tv with me. I never climax so hard as I do when I'm with my co worker. how is it cheating if we aren't kissing or touching?

She is with a gal pal from work. Was dolling herself up, obsessively doing her nails, and checking herself out in the mirror quite a bit with different clothes. Tells me not to worry. What do you think? And how would you feel with your spouse going on a cruise without you? Thanks

Even when i am around they dont incluse me . I dont understand ,i am apart of the family arent i ?

right now im living with my mom most of the time and for reasons i wont go into i want to never see her again. I want to live with my dad full time and i do not want to be at my moms house anymore. im 15 and living in California and i would like to know what age i have to be to choose who i want to stay with

We have two little kids, so I guess when I pick them up after work and I get a text she is going out for a few drinks. I'm kind of like must be nice. She needs her alone time and I get it. I think because I don't go out because of a busy schedule I got jealous. We both agreed we need to both have alone time and to stop getting jealous when we do. Any thoughts?

My baby's father and I were together 10 years, never married. I got pregnant and he told me when our child was about 2 years old he wanted me to be a stay at home mom. I quit my four year job, and two months later he leaves me. Now we are in a custody battle for my child. I am not trying to keep my son from him but he told me he doesn't want to pay child support so he is trying to get 50/50 custody. There is a huge difference in the amount we make bc I just had to find a quick, low paying job when he left to keep food on the table. He makes 30,000 more dollars a year than me. Even if we had 50/50, wouldn't the judge still order child support? I want my son to see us both but I feel his dad is only wanting him for the wrong reasons and is gonna drop him off at the babysitters.

My friend was in an accident recently so the company pays her money stay home to heal for a while because it was their mistake. Me and my friend were over with her the other day then her masseur came this extremely HOT! 24 years old guy (she's 31). So we left. The next day she told us she always request they send him. He does her lower back and legs even the buttocks because it's a muscle too. Later on my friend was joking saying what if he just says that so he can rub her butt to cop a feel (she does have a nice butt lol). Then she said "yeah but he's hot so whatever I'm not gonna complain". BTW she married! Her husband is a jerk (and not a looker) but works in the daytime and the MT comes during the day around 2-3pm the husband get home a 8 pm she told us he doesn't know about it so don't tell him. She thinks he won't be okay with this. I thinks she taking advantage of the situation I'm sure the masseur is professional but still seems wrong. What do you think? Is this Cheating?

My brother got married to this woman and I am not the kind of person who gets involved but she was a terrible person and for some reason no one could see it. We eventually had a fight because of this and we stopped talking. She was encouraging that. 8 years later I receive a call and we met. He told me I was right and now he is going through a divorce and he cannot afford her demands. He is asking me for money and it is a big sum. I don't know what to do. The idea of giving him money to give her just doesn't sit well with me.

I left my husband back in 1999. The reasons was for infidelity and domestic violence on his part. Between August of 1999, and July of 2004, I had spoken to him 3 times. I saw him once in 2010 at a distance at a local Walmart where he ,kept circling around looking at me till another woman came up to him and he then turned away from me to follow her. In all this time, I guess I was holding out hope that the "love of my life" would stop drinking, and be the man I married. I had recently started searching for him, but then after praying about it, I started remembering behaviors that were not associated with the alcohol. Ties he struck me when he was not drunk, a Time when he chased a disabled elderly woman with a bat cause she cut him off in traffic, and other things he did when he was not drunk. These memories reinforces the idea, that I need to divorce and forget him. Our children are now adults, and he never paid child support for them, not had i attempted to get him to pay. now, my question..on what grounds after all this time, can I file for divorce, and it not cost me a lot of money, and I can also avoid seeing him in court. I don't want anything from him except the divorce as I said in response to an answer I was given..I have no property, I have income from my disability. If I were forced to pay him alimony, I would be homeless within 2 months. Last I heard, he was unemployed living with another woman, prob the one that I saw him with. Even if he did own property, I would not want it. The most expensive item I own is a computer and a tv. I don't think he could take either from me.

My husband is verbally abusive. He lashes out when things aren't his way or if you try to point out that his behavior isn't nice. He does this in front of the kids. He doesn't help with chores/housework. We both have full time jobs but since I work in an office I should do all the housework/cooking. He barely has sex with my anymore, he only cares about his needs in the bedroom, not mine. I am accused daily of cheating when all I do is take care of my kids, work and wait on him hand and foot literally. He cant even get up to get his own drink! He has been in and out of prison, so hes socially akward at times, and had a rough childhood, but I don't think that is an excuse for verbally assaulting me daily. I am called stupid, *****, hoe...etc and when I express how this hurts me he doesn't seem to care. I have left him twice, each time he changes but only temporarily before going back to his old ways...I just don't know how much longer I can take this. I love him, but I dot think he wants to change, or knows how....what can I do to help or should I just leave?

Divorce is pending in Jan 2018. Is this normal? When will i start to see a difference? Backstory, married 10 yrs, together 11.5, no kids, abusive marriage, attempted to get marriage counseling things got worse and really tried to work through it but my safety was more important so i left.

My husband has a friend (girl) at work they talk and text all the time even at night after he call me .i think they r messing around I can feel it in my bones something is up but he keeps liking to me he says she has a boyfriend and she is big fat but I know better,how can I find out for sure...

My friend and her husband are both 25 years old. They fight a lot and get back together. Her husband recently turned himself in to serve 3 years for a Domestic violence charge. They were both fighting each other bc he cheated. They hang out daily but she refused to drop the charges bc she wanted to prove a point and she also claims that she didn't think it would get this far. She's been crying today and so has he. She says that she's sad that he's in jail but I'm unable to feel any sympathy for either of them. She had the power to make him a free man but she did not. Now her and the kids are going to suffer bc of this since he was the main breadwinner. Im not a very emotional person so I'm not sure how to react. Should I be more sensitive to my friend?

I have been married to my husband for 4 years.I have 4 girls from a previous relationship,he knew this when he met me.Just recently he started having a relationship with his children, he has 3, they lived out of state with their mother who cut off all contact when she ran off with a new husband out of state. Recently they have moved back, and have been coming on weekends. His kids are not well behaved. They get into fights at school,his 11 year old girl has boyfriends, and his 2 boys already have probation officers. He recently asked if they could come live with us permanently.keep in mind I have a 3bedroom home and 2 daughters to each room. He wants me to kick out 2 of my girls and make them all share a room so his kids have a bedroom. When my husband does not get his way he throws fits, and he has been verbally abusive. There were signs of it in the beginning, but now its to the point where it is every day. He works but refuses to help with anything around the house or do anything for any of our kids as far as cooking, cleaning, laundry etc.I don't think I would object to his kids living with us if he helped more and if he was not verbally abusive especially in front of the kids, and if we had time to put our home for sale and find one with more space for everyone...but he refuses to talk or compromise on anything and its to the point where I am ready to quit....I am totally lost, I love him but I don't want to raise my children thinking its ok for a man to act like that...

Me and my husband had an arranged marriage and I just found out that 2 months before our engagement he was trying marry his gf of 5 years but his parents weren't approving of her, so they got him married to me instead. He hasn't made me feel insecure in any way but i can't help but think that he still loves her. He rarely mentions her, but who knows what in his heart.. it was a 5 year relationship.. The only reason they aren't married is because of his parents, otherwise they would have been together..Do you think he's over her? they were in a full blown relationship just 2 months before our engagement.

I'm a newly wed and didn't live with my husband before we were married. I don't know if he's super clingy or if I'm just really introverted but he's driving me crazy. I love him but I've got to have my alone time. I've tried to explain this to him but he doesn't get it. He follows me everywhere and watches everything I do, All. The. Time. I've told him it's just the way I am but he's like "We need to get you out more". It hurts his feelings and I'm afraid he's going to start second guessing this whole thing but at the same time I don't understand why he can't just do his own thing every now and then. Like it's driving me insane.

I saved her life, after gruesome 3 years, I got her away from her pimp, brought her to Jesus, and that makes me special right? Despite the trauma? Despite the pain? We fought every single day and still together? That makes me special? Like a mutant, like an X-MEN? Like a fakin Hero?

I am a 27 year old girl, and my husband who is also my age (we are childhood friends and have been together since the day we were born) is a very good man, he helps me with everything, cleans the dishes and cleans the house with me all while he goes to work hard for me (he is a doctor), but recently, one thing has changed, that is he doesn't have any sexual interest in me anymore, I don't know why, I try my best to get his interest back but it doesn't work. What should I do? Is it because I am getting old? Is he losing interest in me? I really love him and I want to have kids and die with him.

The question is not only for women. I need any advice you guys can give me. I've divorced my wife 2 years ago. We have been together for 1 year. Alot of troubles have happened because of her materialistic and greedy self. I've divorced her. But tell this day for 2 solid years I couldn't forget her. No day passes without her being in my thoughts. But I passed the broken heart period. I was devestated for one year. The second year I was starting to recover. And I'm good now. What do you guys think ? Do you think that she changed? I haven't spokento her since divorce but I must admit it I entered her instargam private profile in un ethical way and saw all of her picsnsince the divorce. She is still suffering from the divorce and got a broken heart as well. Atleast that what I understood from her posts. Please guys any tips are appreciated. Thanks.

Well she gave birth. He signed the birth certificate. He wants to be there for the baby. So he goes to her house and sees the baby over there. Then he comes home. His family has met the baby and his family also didn't tell me what he did. Why is that? I felt that was cruel. I'm hurt but confused. He served me with separation papers this evening. I don't want a divorce.

Well she gave birth. He signed the birth certificate. He wants to be there for the baby. So he goes to her house and sees the baby over there. Then he comes home. His family has met the baby and his family also didn't tell me what he did. Why is that? I felt that was cruel. I'm hurt but confused. He served me with separation papers this evening. I don't want a divorce.

When my husband of 5 years and I started dating, he took things really slow... I had to initiate everything, so I thought he was super reserved around women, because that's how he acted and he came out and said he's just super shy with women. He told me that he never had a serious relationship before me (which is crazy because he's very handsome and such a kind-hearted person, frankly he's a catch, and I thought so from the first time I met him). He recently told me he had at least 10 random one-night hook ups with complete strangers before me.. which doesn't seem like something a "shy guy" would do.. so now I'm questioning what the whole "going slow" with me was all about. He said it was because he didn't care about those girls and didn't want to push me into anything I didn't want to do, but it resorted to me basically throwing myself at him to get him to do anything with me (including just kissing). Now I wonder if it was because I just wasn't that attractive in his opinion, and he doesn't want to come out and say that... and he wasn't really all that interested in getting me into bed like the other girls... It makes me question if he found me attractive at all, or if it was just desperation to get into a relationship with anybody at that point. He said he didn't think he would ever get married, because dating never really worked out for him. So it really makes me wonder if it was true attraction or just desperation that made him stay with me all these years...